All girls are beautiful and precious and so you are ❤ first of all I pity on him who rejected you. You are not only intelligent but very beautiful too and fit all the criteria of “perfect wife” that boy might be regretting today and must be feeling sorry for calling you “hawa mein udh rhi hai” actually he didn’t know that “Coming events cast their shadows before” And you proved it. Akhir thodha hawa mein udhna toh banta hi hai😀aur fir kyon na udhein jb pankh mile hain toh. I have seen your Sri Lanka visit vlog with your handsome hubby 💐 God bless you both always ❤ Today’s vlog is really nice and food for thought for everyone actually 👍👌💐
@@AleenaRaisLive You are always welcome dear 💕Thanks for pinning my reply ❤️🙏 I noticed last time too🫶 You are doing really good. Keep posting your and others’ experiences. Now you are a “NAME” and millions listen you.
Marriage and motherhood are every woman's personal choices, not obligations, no matter what. Society seriously needs to stop pressurizing women for marriage and kid/kids. Her life, her choice, no one else's business.
I am 27 and all that I hear around me are conversations of marriage... my parents are looking for a suitable match for me..... my friends are getting married.... Sometimes it feels so unfair... First u worry about your education then your career then who u r gonna get married to... Like the list always goes on and pressure keeps getting built.... I wonder when we get time for ourselves really to just enjoy where we are without having the pressure to check another box of achievement. I do want get married someday and I am willing to go ahead but sometimes it just feels too much to deal with the worries in your head
Well you could do it now, this moment, enjoy your life. You know one of my best phases of life, it was my architecture exam time. We use to get 8-11 exams in 6 days straight, 2 per day. Bcz we finally just, it was way to easy, study in evening for one and at night for another. All architect students around the world enjoy this like me, which ofcourse any normal human will hate. We even planned going out with friends in free time slots bcz exam was 2-3 hrs, no other attendence, homwrk, classwrk, or any mental exaust!
I just found this video and really grateful for that!, these days I'm experiencing kind of pressure from my family. Top of that, I'm debating with myself whether I'm on my right path or not.
In india no one blames parents even if they are wrong and that's the one of the worst thing I have noticed !! If kids do mistakes they are enlightened but reverse are totally prohibited in india !!
thank you much aleena, this was much needed and the same thing is happening with me but how to talk and convince them is a very difficult task and it takes a lot of courage and i find myself alone in doing this, i wish god helps us
💯 agree on all words and phrases and yes i want tell u few days ago I drop my rebel mood and said my family ok find for me then I decide 😂then they consider it...all things are possible falling on place hopefully 🙏🧿
Whenever l pay visit to your channel, l always end up getting extremely motivated by you. I do like the topic which you always select to do the video, all those videos of your channel are so relatable.❤❤ Thanks a lot for doing this video.😊
Hi mam.. i got arrange marriage. Its been 6 years since i got married. Before marriage i dont have any goal or something. I don't know anything. Although i finished engineering i dont know to take any decision everything my parents only did for me. But i am very blessed to have my husband. He is supporting me to do all thing. After i started to watching your videos the thought came to me that i have to achieve something. Now i am learning english and i am doing what are the things i wished to do before. Now i am learning all the things.
Thanks alot mam for making this video.....u are literally a best motivator in this world on every topic.... keep growing one day u will cross 1 billion subscribers 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
The best things, Don't do things because of others opinion. you know yourself better than anyone else. Take a deep breath untill you find the right person. And get married happily when you feel it's the right time for you. 🥰🥰🥰
I love you sister. u just spoke everything what I have been going through and wanting to say to my family. but I've got no one to listen from my own family. par koi nehi chalo. I also prefer getting married in a delayed way rather than marrying someone wrong by the pressure from the surroundings. sending hug from Bangladesh 💙
I literally have no words to say.. You're a gem.. I'm amazed with the thoughts of yours and I'm speechless.. Everything you discussed was fact which goes on an Indian family. They're still thinking of all those old days but very few know that the world has changed and we have to not be stubborn and we should go with the flow and also have a growth mind set rather than a fixed one... And finding a right person to get married to is a big task.. And once we get to know someone really well then another problem arises that's the caste...And yes...many Indian family is still against it.. So what I believe that this should end. Why caste system still prevails in India? It's like finding a right person is difficult task and with the mentality of caste, religion ..it has become much more difficult finding a right person. Anyways a huge love to you 😘😘
wish I saw this video before I got married. Now it's too late. 4 months into a marriage and I'm struggling. I married out of pressure and I cannot agree more with whatever she said. Every single thing that she said is true. Aleena, could you make a video on life after a failed marriage if you can? A lot of us would benefit from that as well.
@@Swaalinaso???i don't even understand why you said that just because baad m sab adjust ho jata hai toh kya seh len sab kuch I mean compromise karden fir?
Whenever you get married, to whosoever you get married, I pray to the God that you marry with right person your life after marriage will be better than today...... All the best.,,, Even I also single and I know which kind of pressure you feel.... May God bless you🙏🙏🙏
I haven't heard something from anyone so openly with tremendous sincerity . Or must be i relate to this. Back in 2017 i get through a lot of things for someone. Even saying goodbye to medical and choosing career in the army . I got recommended in 141 pma long but just because i had written the first letter of her name on my lower arm i was declared medically unfit by the medical penal said that it falls in the category of (DSH) deliberately self harm . One army doctor recommended surgery to me to remove that part completely and i went through a 23 Stitch surgery and was bedridden for about a year . Unfortunately,when i reappeared in issb but same result was thrown upon my face and so 3 year went by during this process. After then , i wanted to pursue my career in English literature and got into a prestigious university and got 4/4 CGPA in couple of semester and received scholarship and had genuine desire to become an author someday .. despite this , when she said in the end i don't like nor i want to marry you; I felt like the sky crumbled above and fell upon me like missile or something more harrowing and I wish the earth open and swallow me and on that day i left : my education, my life and attempted suicide by taking poisonous pill. Nevertheless, miraculously survived but still i am not over it. . After ages I felt someone's words.Your words somehow touched my heart and the pain in your mellow voice. what u are trying to convey is harsh truth. . Thank you so much for disseminating lifesaving message and protecting countless lives. Thank a million. you make me told something that I had kept in my heart and by saying this my heart feel a little light as if a heavy burden is lifted up from me and the true & abject purpose for sharing the whole story is to not gain affected sympathy or empathy of you guys but for everyone out there to learn a lesson from me and don't ruin your life for someone .
It was quite surprising 😮to know that our Pretty English teacher😍 is married 😂. But whatever things you have said about marriage is totally correct 👍 by my means 👏.
According to my thoughts di u should fly as up as u reached the sky bcoz u r very talented nd perfect nd I just love your English .So , hawa mein udhna toh banta hai ❤❤❤💜💜💜
All my friends are divorced and have lost half their apartments to divorces. I am single in my early 40’s, own my own house outright, no debt, own my own business and am happy yet every female relative around me is acting like my life is a total disaster because I am not married. It all very sad.
You are right mam marriage is imp but not for career is most imp and your career is srong everyone respect you and kve you In my opinion I m also home maker I have done polytechnic right now I am not doing the job but i m searching job with my future may be job are not possible so i have a se second plain with with my career now I am home maker and i am big fan for us and hearty thnkuu.
Aap me maine khudko dekhaa ...her baat pe itni suljhi hui .........love u mam . sirf english nhi baki bohot sari chise sikhne ko mili . thank you so much mam 💚
Planning is something that I would not do. Since I lay my trust on God and do the work in my present and not touble myself thinking of the future. Because the religion that I follow doesn't burdon me with anything extraa to achieve or anything huge to conquer. It just says to live, pray, love, eat and die. I am actually happy with this. And this is my first goal rest is secondary. If I get that secondary goal ok, if I don't get that which I obviously won't looking at the stats and probability of the politics and competition going on there no worries. Since I don't want to pressurise myself thinking about something so invaluable when I already have my God giving me reason enough why to live and what to make as my goal. Halleyluyah
I said my friend thousand times and get married without a settlement , we had a fight for some other reason blocked each other suddenly got in contact after 1 year , it was cool but she got married msc 1st year , still studying .., now she struggles a lot .. I mean a lot , after 1 year of her marraige she started sharing everything to me !
I’m 27, and I’ve just completed my studies in London. Ever since then, I’ve been getting a lot of pressure about the marriage from my family. The fact that they are more concerned about me finding the right guy than bagging a good enough job is what gets me. And I just can’t figure out how to tackle this situation.
Am really impress your thoughts and have become your big fan plz ma'am give me some about that How can i build confidence in myself???I have a stage phobia and i cannot talk to anyone and always live alone.
This is for all youths who think marriage is like a HELL. Note that this video Aleena maam is explaining is regarding taking your own decision about marriage. By no means she is saying marriage is not good or like a HELL. Watch the full video and try to understand properly what she is saying . Great video 🙏 .
Well, I am the one who is looking for getting married, but to a good person but unfortunately, I have been getting a lot of proposals since I was young Now I am in my early twenties. Proposals are many but there is no one to make me accept it. Though I am not allowed for a love marriage but for an arranged marriage I can say yes or no to it. Let's see what happens.
I'm 22, and my parents have been pressuring me to marry since I was 19. I clearly tell them that I'll but not now i wanna work on my career. (While my graduation) they were like they'll tc for your edu. And career. But tell if my own parents doesn't career about my edu. My career why anybody gonna care?? So last year i just moved out and living my own working as a freelance video editor. I actually missed them but every time they call just to talk about sadi and all and dn i remember why i have to stay away from them.
