Removing A Child From Their Home | PART 3 | Origin 

It is heartbreaking to see kids ripped away and moved around multiple times. Bonds broken, bonds formed and then broken again and people expecting little bitty hearts and minds to cope well. This made me cry both sad and happy tears. Bless the hearts and lives of people who adopt and love unconditionally. Prayers for all the children in foster care.

Yall are weird. The idea that the needs of the parent should come before the child is CRAZY. Yall thinking the child should languish in foster care while their parent gets it together is even CRAZIER.

It's so sad how there is NO family member to help the parents. No way would I allow one of my grandchildren to end up in the system

Just because a child won’t remember doesn’t mean they are not affected. The decision to place a baby for adoption alters the child’s life forever. It effectively changes who their family is forever. I’m not saying it is never the best choice … I’m only saying it most certainly impacts the child even if they are not aware of it at the time.

My heart goes out to that young mom. Her heart must be breaking.

Adoption is trauma for 2/3rds of those involved. We adopted siblings 18 years ago and theyve definitely had many big feelings about it growing up. Adoption is actually a loss to the child.

I hope all of these beautiful families are happy, healthy, and living their best lives ❤

When i was 7 or 8 (im 44 now lol) our apartment got raided by the police-omg it was horrible!! I had come home w/a good report card and i was enjoying my new colored pencils🥺🥺 Seeing them rip our apt apart & seeing my oarents made to lay belly down in handcuffs (actually, just my mom. My dad developed a drug prob. and i knew because i found things that ik what they were from learning stuff in school. He got really scary a lot when he was h&gh cuz he did cr&ck. So i wanted him to go away forever at that time) sorry, my adhd makes it really hard for me to not add all of these details🤦‍♀️) Well, i wound up going to a foster home, and parting w/my mom was thecworst thing ever-she didnt use, everytime she tried to leave my dad would pull the same lines out of his butt that all abusers do. (A few years later, she did finally leave🤗🤗🤗) I was extremely fortunate that the foster family i stayed w/were so wonderful. They did everything to make sure i was comfortable. Thankfully my mom got bail because she had nothing to do w/my fathers extracurricular activities. Buuuut...she had to clean the apt top to bottom before they would let me go home. Thankfully family helped!! That happened on a Friday, i went home on that Sunday. (I found out 20yrs later that my dad got in trouble for the manufacturing & distribution of n×rcotics. It really sucked, because i KNEW that my father lived me. He didnt use all of the time-more sporadically so when he was sober he was the best. Thats the dad that i would see for the next 10 yrs. But he was just sucked in to the disease of addiction. I had to stop talking to him when i was 26. I myself bacame addicted to p×in p×lls & was trying soo hard to get clean but he had no boundaries, and kept asking me to do some cr×ck w/him. I thought he was prossibly trying to get me to use bcuz i had a job & he didnt. I asked him to keep his habit away from me. After 2times, i couldnt. I love him, but it was time to love myself & get my life together. I told him that i would always love him. I moved 90mins away. He bever got sober, he passed away alone, in a crappy no-tell Motel 1.75Lt bottles of wh×skey all over the room. He passed away from heart complications due to the use of m×th & alcohol 😢😢 I was SOO SAD from this. I stopped being angry after he passed, because years prior i hit bottom-HARD. So, i was finally able to understand how strong the grips of addiction truly are. The difference was i WANTED more than anything to get sober-and he wanted to use forever. I finally got sober, & i celebrated 10yrs of absolute sobriety. I even quit smoking&vaping. The moral to my novel of a post (the last part) is, you cannot just quit using because u have a child/children to take care of, or for anyone or anything else. If u try, it wont last long. The ONLY WAY to get & stay sober is if u WANT IT for yourself. If u try to do it fir anything else, usually means you truly do not want to quit, and that can cause resentment, and mist likely relapse. I was able to get sober because i wanted better for myself, i no longer wanted to use. I think because of this, i was anle to quit cold-turkey. Of course the detox was brutal, but that part will end-what comes after is the true challenge!! I utilized every AODA & mental health program i could. I learned coping skills, and the tools i needed to get through everyday. I struggled w/getting my life together for 7yrs-i finally found the lught at the end of the tunnel. Meaning, i can finally wake up happy to be alive-no longer starting my day praying that i would "expire" by the end of the day. I am able to enjoy relaxing, being quiet, reading, taking a shower, etc. I really dont get cravings because i truly, whole-heartedly NEVER EVER want to use ever again.

Little Liam and lauren💔 beautiful little babies

Ptsd is very well documented in children removed from their families

Oh, bless, wee Lauren and, liam may they cherish and enjoy rest of their childhood with love and excitement ❤

Can’t believe she said people don’t want children for all kinds of reasons including they don’t want a ginger! Some of the most beautiful people in the world are red heads. If I saw that on an application, I wouldn’t give them any child. They need to grow up first.

Ya know it’s an interesting person who would agree to having the process of their child being removed from them documented for public viewing.

That’s so rough for the kids parents if I can’t have kids I’m eventually adopt and that’s blessing for parents who can’t have kids those parents who had to give up there kids are hero’s

Three years? That’s just awful I know got make sure kids don’t go to awful parents again but that’s just insane

this is just sad I have four brothers from the love of foster care and adoption and 3 of them still were able to see there parents even after they were adoptef

Beautiful ❤❤❤

I'm wondering what year these where made I wish thay would say...😮🇦🇺

The system is geared towards removing children rather than helping parents who need a hand up.😢

So so sad !😢

This is a horrible system..Here we mostly have foster care. The parents and children never loose each other completely. If they can have supervised visitation, weekends together or just information and a say in what's happening depends on what's possible. There is short term emergency foster parents, the others are long term and children know they stay there if they can't live with their parents. To jank babies just away this quickly and erase history and family bonds is evil.

We adopted my brother he was age 10 when we got him

These kids and these parents are gonna see these videos years later and think saying something meeting somebody didn’t matter and how weird and silly it was now it’s all normal

Mom has done great thing by giving life to 3 babies and 2 families the joy of child don't come down on her for that

I wonder what the birth parents story is.

I love how people here are hating on the system and not the parents who choose to bring a child into this world while being hooked on drugs...the parents of Destiny are so obviously high it's not even funny. Sure adoption can be a traumatic event but growing up with shitty parents isn't? Would it be better for the baby to be with addicts? Are you nuts?

Quit making it impossible for people to adopt them when they're babies. The success rate of adoption would be 100%

I am lost ?? This parents gave then away?

Why can’t the foster parents adopt them ?

I don’t think they should tell the children anything until the adoptive parents are there to meet them and pick them up. To much worry for the children.

I don't like that couple who adopted the 2 boys and are going to get the baby sister (Destiny?). The way they talked about getting her like they were getting some kind of toy and then disparaging the birth mom. You don't need to look down on that poor girl who's had her babies ripped away from her like that. She's probably having more kids because she has a hole in her soul that she can't fill because you took her babies. She looked like she close to suic¡de.

MY GOD. How many more times are they going to just re-upload and run the same old tired ass doc episodes 🙄🙄🙄

Disgusting!! The state instead of paying the foster people should invest to help the parents so that the children will grow in their families. You have money ... billions to pay the illegal immigrants but you have no money to support the parents of your future .. of those kids??? Than not the parents but YOU AS A STATE ARE FAILED. YOU ARE A FAILURE. SHAME IN YOU.

I HATE THEM. CHILDREN BELONG WITH THEIR OWN.