Honestly lack of words to praise her. The more you listen, the more you want to listen to her. She is undoubtedly blessed with beautiful thoughts n words, from which she is helping humanity. The woman like her is a gem to her family. May Allah bless her here n hereafter!
Assalam u alaikum! Dealing with toxic family members is toughestttt thing in the world bcz v can't leave them 😭😭 u've changed my perception towards them & resolved my biggesttt problem Jazak Allah for this informative podcast.🙏🤍
ماشااللہ علی بھائی آپ جب بھی ان محترم خاتون کے ساتھ بات کرتے ہیں تو سمجھ آتی ہے کہ اگر اللہ تعالی عورت کو اچھا ذہن دے دے تو دنیا بھی جنت اور آخرت میں بھی جنت۔ اللہ کرے ہمارے بچے، بچیاں ان محترم خاتون کی باتوں کو سمجھ کر اس کے مطابق عمل کر پائیں، آمین
Ali bhai and Dr. Asiya Madni always doing a great job in regards to family counseling and issues. It's helping out the society in many ways. May ALLAH PAK bless you both with lots of happiness.
Assalam u alaikum. Maam I must say that we as muslimahs need strong and dynamic women like u as our mentor's. And sir I salute ur way of balancing things, accepting many wrong things in men which is really a symbol of courage being a man ur self.
This podcast is a gem . Simply love it. Already listened to it 4 times. Jazakallah khair. When ma'am comes , it just goes to another level. May Allah bless you both with long life and health .
behtreen baten kahi aap logon ne.. likin ik baat kahoongi yahan per kch logon ki zindagiyan poori poori isi tug of war mai guzar jaati hai literally poori life..
Aslam o Alaikum Ali bhai am from Paris. last 1 year sy apko follow kia hai Alhmdulillah bht faida hoa hai abi bhi bht si galti gunah ho jata hai Allah pak mjhy Rah e haddaytt py chlny ki tofiq attaa frmaye Ameen ♥️
I agree with Ma'ams point on individuality, diverting your mind by keeping yourself busy and knowing that you are not the problem in case of narcissists but I don't agree that you must not distance yourself from narcissists.. If physically its not possible as in most cases then emotionally you have to do it else you will also acquire narcissists behaviour and become toxic.. and no amount of care or love from you will change them unless they themselves want to change it (ofcousre nothing is impossible for ALLAH. But where is the test then if every narcissists get better one day.) It's sort of wired in their brain and they don't see anything wrong in it. You can sympathise with them but you can't be emotionally attached to them else you will be abused emotionally and mentally. Your energy will be sucked up. Their favourite weapon is projecting their shortcomings on you and gaslighting you. Detaching emotionally will not let it happen to you and they will be happy thinking that they have achieved their goal. And always pretending to be agreeing with them also won't work as they are very smart and will see through it and ask you to do more difficult things increasing levels everytime. So, once in a while openly disagree as well to give them the satisfaction that they reached your nerves. It's all a game for them and you have to play that game. But play the game setting your own rules. This will help you protect yourself and your children. Do your best as much as you can but never keep on sacrificing yourself because in the end you will end up empty shell. Knowing when to put the break in their list of demands and knowing that you are human too will help in long run. Note:- please don't come after me for this thing. It's your choice whether you want to follow this or not. Also if anyone claims that the other person is narcissists without inspecting ownself for those trait then most likely you are narcissist yourself. If you think it's impossible for you to be a narcissist then that is a red flag.
Agree with this post 100% I lived with a narcissist for 20 years. I have given everything to keep the family together. Now in court for a divorce that is imposed on me. Empty shell is best description of what i am right now. I wanted to leave this toxic relationship for years but was forced by parents to stay. Don't know what could i have done differently to not be in this situation. Everyone from both sides of the family stands by me. But no amount of support means anything to what i have lost... 25 years of my life!! If you see nothing is working pack and leave is what i would tell a narcissist's wife or husband.
@@saimamaqsood3922 May ALLAH heal you. It's very sad how other people don't see the signs and you are left in this mess all alone. May ALLAH ease your life now. And Yes leaving a narcissist is the best advise.👍 Only awareness among mass population will help victims leave without losing so many years of life.
@@saimamaqsood3922 i too agree 100 % and can feel your pain ..... May Allah heal you, have gone through the same and wasted may whole life, pray for me too dear sisters 🌷
Sir I have learnt a big lesson from this podcast that how to deal with toxic People. Mam Asia explained it very well.😊Sir plz do a podcast with mam about Sahabias so that we know more about their life ❤😊
Maa Sha Allah such a beneficial session…and really the book of Aid al Qarni named Don’t be Sad is not only the best medicine for people who are suffering from depression but also for everyone who wants a stable and crisp mindset.
*ماشاء الله تبارك الله* Such an amazing and excellent podcast. Great Analysis with tremendous wisdom. Excellent communication skills. May *ALLAH SWT* grant you all tremendous rewards in both worlds. *آمين يارب العالمين*
Is guftgu ko sun kar mujhe ehsas hua yeh meri apni soch aur uspar amal paira hona tha chand sal mein hi sare hi log mujhse ziyadah kisi ko aql mand aur izzat wali khatoon nahin.... 70+ eyer mein apki guftgu ne samjha diya . Jjazakul lahu khairan kaseera.
Assalam u alaikum its helping me alot whenever ma'am comes with sir muhammad ali please its a request do more on this topic marriage related and tarbiah of kids for newly weds bride please i need this jazakallah 👍
But I feel more than 50% of people nowadays are narcissists. Very difficult to deal with. May Allah heal everyone and make ease for every difficulty. Aameen
Narcissists maazrat ke sath kabhi kabhi Walden khud banate hai. Apne bachon ko especially larkon ko ese raise karte hai Bachpan se jawani tak woh boys parents pe dependant hote hai. Beta khana khaa kar ammi ko bulata hai ki ammi le kar jao dastarkhan. I mean, khud to uthaa sakte ho na. Aur phir maa baap ki khidmat karne ki baat karte rehte hai. Khidmat to abhi karni hai na aur kab karni hai phir? Bacha zid kar raha hai to Har zid puri karte hai bacha ghussa dikhata hai to parents us ko chup karane ke liye us ki baat mante hai. Hote hote bacha jawaan ho jata hai tab to Esa lagta hai ki parents jawan bete ke ghussa na dekhne ke liye woh tab bhi baat mante hai. Beta namaz nahi parta to parents kuch nahi batate is dar se ki ghussa na ho jaen. Allah maaf karden aur hidaayat pe rakhen hum sab ko
narcissist are no easy to deal with. One can become sick while living with such toxic mentality ppl. No matter how nice you try behave with them, they only care about themselves, not even their own kids. such evil they are! may Allah Protect us from their evilness.ameen
AOA congratulations for touching such a burning issue of our society۔۔۔hats off to Mr Muhammad Ali and really nice to listen to Dr Asia ۔۔her way of speech and elaborating issues is amazing❤۔۔۔Very nice opinion of Mr Muhammad Ali about discussing family rights in Jumma prayer sermons۔۔۔I really appreciate this point of him👍its need of the time actually۔۔۔JazakAllah khair 🌹
Aslamualaikum please also have a talk with this gorgeous lady on "Beatiyun (daughters) se dosti kase kari parents" or "Beatoun (sons) se dosti kari" in 2 separate sessions plzzz
اسلام عليكم Ma'am please can u also recommend a book (easy to understand) for the unmarried girls? Wanna prepare for not facing those hectic marriage issues. Just wanna live and let live others happy In Shaa Allah. جذاك الله خيرا
Pyari or behad intellectual aunty or brother Allah bless you 🙏♥️ Aap k liye mere pas words nahin Masha Allah behtreen andaze bayan or on points ko itne pyare tareeqe se samjhana jiski hum sub ko behad zaroorat hy Allah pak se hr dum aap tamam behtreen personalities k liye duaen hn hamesha rahengi Inshallah Aameen Suma Aamin ya Rabul 🙏
Asalam o Alaikum wa rehmatullah!! Alhumdulillahi rub il alamin... Bahtreen topic.. Its seems u r talking to me... Stay blesed.. Allah berket day ameen 💕
