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Is there a simple mindset shift that can radically improve our sex lives? One which can apply whatever our circumstances, experience or preferences? Yes! Sex coach Ruth Ramsay shares this shift, and how its ramifications go way beyond increasing our pleasure. Ruth Ramsay is an adult sex educator and coach. She helps people understand who they are sexually, how their bodies and minds work, what they need and desire, and how to communicate that. Her style is upbeat, shame-free and pleasure-led.
Ruth holds a coaching diploma backed with vast life experience. She won an Erotic Award for campaigning for the sexual rights of people with disabilities; was a striptease artist for 14 years; teaches exotic dance; and has been a sex journalist, activist and more. Her mission is for sexual energy to be recognised as a force for good. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@baldeagle5835
@baldeagle5835 9 месяцев назад
Variety with a partner you love and respect can bring you to a level of trust and excitement unimaginable.
@PriscilaHancock
@PriscilaHancock 10 месяцев назад
I took Ruth's course a few months ago then had a 1:1 session recently and it has simply been life changing. I feel so connected with my husband of 18 years but also much happier and fulfilled in other areas of life - family, work, friendships. Thank you Ruth xxx
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 месяцев назад
Thank you @PriscilaHancock - it's been my honour to help.
@markcavandish1295
@markcavandish1295 9 месяцев назад
I am absolutely looking up her course material. Thanks!
@RiverDogRun
@RiverDogRun 9 месяцев назад
How appropriate- I hit the 69th like.
@ToggleSwitch808
@ToggleSwitch808 9 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@tnix80
@tnix80 9 месяцев назад
She literally said nothing
@lewashcliffe
@lewashcliffe 9 месяцев назад
God, I wish I'd heard this talk when my wife was still alive and healthy. I would have shared this with her and could have helped us avoid so much emotional pain.
@TerryTibbs57
@TerryTibbs57 8 месяцев назад
God bless you brother
@raymondotoole2600
@raymondotoole2600 Месяц назад
You’ll see her when your time is right and you can have a conversation with her. Keep your chin up ! use this energy and see if there’s something else with someone.
@ermonnezzasoio
@ermonnezzasoio 3 месяца назад
The best and more natural advices on this topic I´ve ever heard in my life!!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 месяца назад
Thank you! I'm pleased you enjoyed it.
@billpetersen298
@billpetersen298 10 месяцев назад
For the hobby method to work. Both partners have to have, a reasonable level of interest already. I’m many relationships, one partner will try anything, the other won’t even talk about it.
@donnieearlharrisjr5941
@donnieearlharrisjr5941 9 месяцев назад
Amen!!
@grote__julia
@grote__julia 9 месяцев назад
Sounds like incompatibility to me!
@hanspersson9451
@hanspersson9451 9 месяцев назад
​@@grote__juliasounds like 3 kids and 20 years together to me...
@grote__julia
@grote__julia 9 месяцев назад
@@hanspersson9451 seems like that long together would lead to better communication skills!
@hanspersson9451
@hanspersson9451 9 месяцев назад
@@grote__julia That too is something that requires a mutual interest. Life sometimes gets complicated along the way.
@simaroyaich-kf2vu
@simaroyaich-kf2vu 9 месяцев назад
Completely agree with you...even Without changing our partner we may play better if we slightly change our priority👍
@wisewomansexuality
@wisewomansexuality 9 месяцев назад
I love how the idea of asking our partner what they feel interested in doing the day in their hobby takes all the expectations away I might have on my partner and keeping it simple! Well said.
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 месяцев назад
Nice pic I bet you keep your partner happy
@amandahurrell7399
@amandahurrell7399 10 месяцев назад
Brilliant Ruth- a really important message. Thank you x
@ebonyblack4563
@ebonyblack4563 6 месяцев назад
I know someone who's treated it like this for a long time, he and his polycule are some of the most open people about their needs I've ever known, and that goes far beyond their 'play'. Their levels of communication and respect for boundaries is phenomenal, if someone isn't in the mindset to handle something in the moment they understand how to handle that and return to the topic when they're better grounded for it. Nothing is completely off limits as long as it's approached respectfully and calmly. It's amazing being around people who truly are comfortable with sharing everything about themselves with their partners, it's a thing worth working toward for anyone in a relationship where that level of intimacy is avaliable.
@RustyKnorr
@RustyKnorr 6 месяцев назад
Polycule? Really? Did you just get that on Wordle and had to look it up, and now you have to use it every chance you get? FFS 🤦‍♂️
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 6 месяцев назад
Great to hear. Poly people and kink people tend to be super-hot on communication, openness and enthusiastic consent. The mainstream world could learn so much from them!
@ebonyblack4563
@ebonyblack4563 6 месяцев назад
@@ruthramsay_ Absolutely Agree! That's been my experience being on the fringes of both communities too. The level of interest they expect before engaging in something is a big part of it. If they can't be sure you're really there for whatever they're patient and understanding in a way that was really healing to me after having been in an abusive relationship as a teen; it helped reframe many things into a much healthier place.
@kyf3557
@kyf3557 9 месяцев назад
Thanks Ruth, well worded. It’s how I think about it, but didn’t have the words. This will help many❤
@HerminiePA
@HerminiePA Месяц назад
Mae West said, "if I got married, I'd have to give up my hobby." I expected this talk to be more like that.
@technov1king
@technov1king 4 месяца назад
she just loves it, it shines all the way through her
@user-zf3ed4oo6g
@user-zf3ed4oo6g 10 месяцев назад
Great stuff Ruth!!❤❤❤
@louiseday3660
@louiseday3660 9 месяцев назад
Ruth this is so amazing!!! You spoke so well x
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Louise 🙂
@AschPintura
@AschPintura 10 месяцев назад
YES RUTH. THATS MY FRIEND 😭😭 being the intelligent legend that she is 💜💜💜 follow her, BOOK HER COURSE. You will never find a safer space discussing these topics than you will with Ruth
@emmatownsend9259
@emmatownsend9259 10 месяцев назад
Totally inspirational talk from an very inspirational woman. Amazing stuff Ruth ❤
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 месяцев назад
Nice pic I bet you keep your men happy
@healingwomanhood
@healingwomanhood 6 месяцев назад
Brilliant talk! So beneficial to be able to communicate openly and overcome the shame.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 6 месяцев назад
thank you! So glad to hear you enjoyed it.
@joshuapinter
@joshuapinter 9 месяцев назад
Couldn't agree more and such a perfect analogy to remove the stigma from thinking and talking about it. Great job!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
thank you, I'm so glad you liked it!
@cathyhoughton5016
@cathyhoughton5016 10 месяцев назад
Amazingly well done Ruth, so proud of you!!!!
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 месяцев назад
Nice pic
@BloobUbloobok
@BloobUbloobok 7 месяцев назад
I have realized that is exactly what I was doing last several years , but I did not have words to explain, nice approach, thanks. 🙂
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, I'm glad it gave you the words to describe your approach.
@mughalische
@mughalische 9 месяцев назад
Totally makes sense, thanks for revamping.
@larrymendoza2570
@larrymendoza2570 4 месяца назад
Bravo! Positive, exceptional advice - I like that view! Thank you
@1964JEDAGI
@1964JEDAGI 3 месяца назад
The planning part is easy. Every morning before breakfast. Every evening before sleep, and random times during the day.
@gregglockhart9551
@gregglockhart9551 10 месяцев назад
Thanks! I appreciate you!
@djdavidphillips
@djdavidphillips 10 месяцев назад
Awesome Ruth I'm so happy this is out there. Well done xx
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 месяцев назад
@djdavidphillips thank you so much. A TEDx talk from you next??
@ananascarpenter
@ananascarpenter 9 месяцев назад
Interesting and inspiring approach❣
@kennethreynolds8
@kennethreynolds8 5 месяцев назад
Good analogy Ruth, even experienced couples can get better with a little good coaching.
@manueljiza
@manueljiza 9 месяцев назад
"We just hope we'll spontaneously want it at the same time"
@shynickel8239
@shynickel8239 9 месяцев назад
Have been a practioneer of this idea for 50 years, she is correct.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your life experience, that's great to hear!
@mayankoza352
@mayankoza352 10 месяцев назад
Great talk with relatable examples.. 🙌🏻
@huub245
@huub245 10 месяцев назад
Nothing short of genius. Thanks for the knowledge.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 месяцев назад
@huub245 so happy it landed so well for you. Enjoy putting it into practice!
@AA-qg2hu
@AA-qg2hu 9 месяцев назад
Looking at Ruth’s collar 👀🧐
@aaronunroe5267
@aaronunroe5267 9 месяцев назад
What an amazing presentation
@Relicarious
@Relicarious 10 месяцев назад
Such an excellent reframing! Thank you. I was nearly there, as are many of the people I know, but mostly by happenstance - and you just delivered the recipe. I think a bit of scheduling and calling for some training sessions for the upcoming season would be cause for laughs - important! - and simply quite a lot of joy in these parts. I don't think it was mentioned in your talk but there is something powerful in converting expectation (with all the fraughts and perils) into anticipation and excitement (let's see what happens Tuesday).
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
@Relicarious yes! I love that - converting expectation into anticipation. There were hundreds... thousands... more things I'd have loved to say in the talk, but I only had six minutes. Next time! So glad you enjoyed it, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
@Relicarious
@Relicarious 9 месяцев назад
​@@ruthramsay_ I bet there was! And that conversion speaks to a lot of things also from the wisdom of Emily Nagoski - I assume you are familiar, if not, you will find something there with which I bet you will align very well - and for me is about moving out of the critical mindset and make space for creaticity and exploration. "Next time", you say - Yes! I will look forward to more of what you wish to share.
@fredziarz
@fredziarz 9 месяцев назад
My Love and I do the exact thing and have the exact attitude as she says. I feel so good that we follow unconsciously those best practices.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
That's great to hear!
@JeuanS
@JeuanS 2 месяца назад
Want to live the dreams, Mr Pool
@slipperybeastaviationfishingsh
@slipperybeastaviationfishingsh 9 месяцев назад
Very well explained and informative accurate video. Thank you for sharing
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
I am glad you found it useful, thank you for your feedback 🙂
@IzziedeD
@IzziedeD 9 месяцев назад
probably the best tedx i've ever seen
@SeaThatPilot
@SeaThatPilot 10 месяцев назад
Amazing Ruth. ❤❤
@LastNightADJSavedMyLife
@LastNightADJSavedMyLife 10 месяцев назад
Super well done Ruth , may it get seen by many x
@drusmith6463
@drusmith6463 10 месяцев назад
concur!,,, already waiting at the pub!!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much! I'm amazed and delighted with viewing figures so far!
@kevinmichael4829
@kevinmichael4829 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for your advice. I’ve since started a tennis league. I have matches all week long now.
@pritamsri
@pritamsri 9 месяцев назад
All I can say is - she found a platform to speak her fav hobby and also do business. 😄😃
@charliexu5139
@charliexu5139 9 месяцев назад
Business for sure.
@alihendrycoaching350
@alihendrycoaching350 9 месяцев назад
Absolutely love this reframe! Thank you for the valuable and inclusive work you do.
@robbarrell
@robbarrell 9 месяцев назад
Unless they’re an Olympic pro
@nobsblend
@nobsblend 9 месяцев назад
Ruth is fantastic, and we love this talk 👏
@HeyYouSA
@HeyYouSA 9 месяцев назад
Amazing Ruth!
@Vladimir_osteo
@Vladimir_osteo 9 месяцев назад
Thank you! Wonderful comparing🎉
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
I'm glad you found it a useful watch 🙂
@patrickpoland9223
@patrickpoland9223 3 месяца назад
Awesome analogy and talk thank you Ruth 😀
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 месяца назад
Happy you enjoyed it. Hope you have fun putting it into practice!
@infantnelson9356
@infantnelson9356 Месяц назад
Amazingly conveyed❤❤,
@alastairnaughton1288
@alastairnaughton1288 2 месяца назад
Great presentation!
@erikschaepers
@erikschaepers 9 месяцев назад
Brilliant comparison ..! Thank you
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
I'm glad you liked it - thank you for commenting 🙂
@adventurecoalition3690
@adventurecoalition3690 9 месяцев назад
Great analogy
@NeilHarper1
@NeilHarper1 9 месяцев назад
Fantastic talk. Thank you.❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
I hope you enjoy putting it into practice!
@sandeepcyno
@sandeepcyno 3 месяца назад
Communication , Creativity, Empathy
@user-gz2kj1me3x
@user-gz2kj1me3x 9 месяцев назад
So simple and obvious - I can't wait to re-frame :)
@NightXof
@NightXof 9 месяцев назад
If people evolve constantly trying to do new things.... You dont need a new person, you renew yourself...
@kidkava
@kidkava 6 месяцев назад
Flawless presentation.
@12bluering
@12bluering 5 месяцев назад
brilliant talk
@simonsitinjak
@simonsitinjak 6 месяцев назад
3:20 Most of what we are told when we are young is what can go wrong. 4:15 Let's start thinking about it like a hobby. This is a positive affirmative. 6:05 Skill remember: Communication, creativity, empathy.
@user-gg5ov9hq6g
@user-gg5ov9hq6g 10 месяцев назад
Great article 👏
@paulmeszesan8970
@paulmeszesan8970 9 месяцев назад
@richardpauly1635
@richardpauly1635 9 месяцев назад
Nice pic and 😃
@henrikohm
@henrikohm 9 месяцев назад
For many people it is not about the choice. Its about being with a person that does not turn you on but a person with who you have children and leaving is a high cost. I agree with the hobby statement.
@melmier3500
@melmier3500 9 месяцев назад
But you've chosen to have children and to be a Family?!
@schroederluck7984
@schroederluck7984 9 месяцев назад
@@melmier3500consider the possibilities. Maybe their partner ballooned up to 300 pounds and are not physically attractive anymore.
@melmier3500
@melmier3500 9 месяцев назад
@@schroederluck7984 we don't know what Future hold. I guess I'm a little bit tired of people acting like they don't have a choice. Humans Change and our bodies are changing as Well. Gainig weight can have a Lot of different reasons. Would be great if a Partner can help and motivate to Change a Lifestyle amd behavouir and sometimes accept a Situation If the reason are health issues for example. I guess I'm a little bit tired of people blaming others and acting like they don't have a choice. We tend to be lazy and are often not willing to change something even if we are not happy. Love and grattitude are powerful 🌤️💕 Wish you all the best
@mabriff
@mabriff 7 месяцев назад
@@schroederluck7984 Exactly. The love is still there, but physical attraction is a real struggle.
@ShrinkiesWife
@ShrinkiesWife 6 дней назад
@@schroederluck7984 MFT for couples therapy is an option.
@gipvision6937
@gipvision6937 6 месяцев назад
Step 1: find a partner
@tingting6889
@tingting6889 Месяц назад
Thats asking alot these days haha
@kevinfocht6982
@kevinfocht6982 29 дней назад
😂
@claravanser7989
@claravanser7989 8 месяцев назад
Great talk! I 100% agree
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed the talk.
@isabelmartin40
@isabelmartin40 5 месяцев назад
Thank U!! That is very very good!👏👏👏👏
@piranhaparran3007
@piranhaparran3007 9 месяцев назад
I LOVE IT!!!
@thibod07
@thibod07 9 месяцев назад
Interesting approach! We decided to take a hobby and never came back to sexe! Both our quality of lifes actually greatly improved in doing it. Yes indeed hobbies are great things to do.
@docwatson1134
@docwatson1134 9 месяцев назад
Please tell...what hobbies?
@anthonyb5630
@anthonyb5630 9 месяцев назад
What hobby?
@kimi651
@kimi651 9 месяцев назад
Hobby: side chick, 😂😂
@wendellrider1212
@wendellrider1212 8 месяцев назад
Excellent lecture!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
@nun-chan9433
@nun-chan9433 10 месяцев назад
Thank you Ramsay for your epic bliss story. I'm an intermediate English learner. I've first heard most comprehensible talk in TED talk. I would like to make this video my textbook. But when I'd encounter that 3 letters, my solo violent activity would come not to be stopped even if I'd grit my teeth. I hope these three letter would be changed into 'it' or 'debate' or better stuff.
@fellipemarques1247
@fellipemarques1247 3 месяца назад
Foi com esse vídeo que eu comecei a praticar tênis, mudou minha vida
@barrysmith8920
@barrysmith8920 10 месяцев назад
Great talk, I totally agree
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 месяцев назад
@barrysmith8920 thank you!
@GriffWild
@GriffWild 9 месяцев назад
Grateful for this reframe.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
Glad you found it useful, thank you for commenting 🙂
@TheCucabarra
@TheCucabarra 8 месяцев назад
Wow hahaha this is exactly what my mom thought me when I was a teenager in the 2000’s. She thought me to see it as a hobby, like tennis! It was such a good lesson for me! ❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
That's amazing that your Mom described it this way!
@RustyKnorr
@RustyKnorr 6 месяцев назад
It’s TAUGHT, not thought. Maybe she should have also taught you how to spell. 🤦‍♂️
@adunknowng
@adunknowng 5 месяцев назад
​@@RustyKnorrI tawt I taw a puddy tat
@emmasfather999
@emmasfather999 9 месяцев назад
Well done Ruth. Proud of you!
@ximenafuentes3522
@ximenafuentes3522 3 месяца назад
What a wonderful talk! ❤
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 3 месяца назад
thank you, I'm delighted you enjoyed it so much :)
@darmazzy1
@darmazzy1 8 месяцев назад
Always has and is STILL my favorite hobby😉🔥💓
@christianmarquez3143
@christianmarquez3143 2 месяца назад
This was great. Good stuff. I need to listen again so I can get better at tennis.
@user-cq6uj9xs8q
@user-cq6uj9xs8q Месяц назад
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@user-cq6uj9xs8q
@user-cq6uj9xs8q Месяц назад
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@giacomofrattini4456
@giacomofrattini4456 6 месяцев назад
Wise words :) liked so much!
@kathleendixon4125
@kathleendixon4125 8 месяцев назад
Thank you.
@hsk2978
@hsk2978 10 месяцев назад
if you want to get better in tennis, you can't play with the same person every time 😅
@_paper_chase_
@_paper_chase_ 10 месяцев назад
Facts! 😂😂
@quazzydiscman
@quazzydiscman 10 месяцев назад
That's absolutely not true... Clearly you don't know much about "tennis" 😂
@Qeybdiid25
@Qeybdiid25 10 месяцев назад
Haraam
@gabi_cnd
@gabi_cnd 10 месяцев назад
You can. But the other person has to put time and interest in the tennis journey too. You can find a new way of seeing a tennis match if your partner is willing to do some changes too, and try new things. We don't need different people, we need different mindsets. Tho, it's good to try playing with people that are open minded, so you can learn how to play and find joy in the journey
@gijsleffelaar908
@gijsleffelaar908 10 месяцев назад
Mixed double is the best game.😅
@fad23
@fad23 2 месяца назад
I'm glad she mentioned "including solo."
@cindyborcherding8927
@cindyborcherding8927 10 месяцев назад
Absolutely communication is important with your partner. If you cant talk about what you want then you are with the wrong partner. 😉😊
@desertsunset8025
@desertsunset8025 9 месяцев назад
I don't think she is promoting divorce or breaking up from a meaningful relationship .
@heatherstocker4171
@heatherstocker4171 9 месяцев назад
Or you've been raised in a very conservative household.
@MindyTunnell
@MindyTunnell 6 месяцев назад
Absolutely not true.
@jenyadyo6
@jenyadyo6 9 месяцев назад
Brilliant!
@herientijuana
@herientijuana 7 месяцев назад
As with any sport, to be your best, you need to practice often and with as many opponents as possible.
@powerfuleric7398
@powerfuleric7398 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this! Great job!
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 7 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you for commenting.
@thatoneguy1821
@thatoneguy1821 9 месяцев назад
The Hobby analogy assumes that both partners have an interest in that Hobby. I married someone that later came out as asexual and can attest that this definitely is not always the case
@davidjennings2179
@davidjennings2179 9 месяцев назад
Not everyone likes tennis either.
@thatoneguy1821
@thatoneguy1821 9 месяцев назад
@@davidjennings2179 And?
@davidjennings2179
@davidjennings2179 9 месяцев назад
@@thatoneguy1821 It doesn't assume both partners have an interest in the hobby, the video is just addressing the situation where they are both interested. The analogy still works if they aren't, it just assumes the connection is clear. If someone doesn't like tennis no one is making them play (hopefully).
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
@thatoneguy1821 mismatched interest in 'the hobby' is the most common issue people are describing in the comments under my talk... I will be preparing a workshop or resource around this soon. Thank you for sharing your situation.
@teinspringz
@teinspringz 7 месяцев назад
​@@ruthramsay_ Interested to know if this workshop is called divorce and legal uncoupling
@mabi9731
@mabi9731 2 месяца назад
must watch for everyone
@Indomitablespirit108
@Indomitablespirit108 7 месяцев назад
A hobby and a Sport to be enjoyed! No guilt, no shame!
@111Benzie
@111Benzie 6 месяцев назад
STD's are free.
@eliasblum753
@eliasblum753 9 месяцев назад
I have always approached it this way. It is a hobby.
@pitonstrut
@pitonstrut 10 месяцев назад
Кира, спасибо за то, что смогли додавить Александра Александровича на интервью))
@Ewinter3707
@Ewinter3707 3 месяца назад
I love this!
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 месяцев назад
Never had it, and now I'm too old, I guess you don't miss what you never had. Not upset about it,I've always just accepted it
@minni1094
@minni1094 9 месяцев назад
How old are you?
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 месяцев назад
@@minni1094 63 in a few months
@victoriajones8974
@victoriajones8974 9 месяцев назад
@@Pault3788 It's never too late!
@Pault3788
@Pault3788 9 месяцев назад
@victoriajones8974 prostate issues,and pelvic floor disfunction prevent it
@bgouthrogrunwald1665
@bgouthrogrunwald1665 27 дней назад
Try prostate massage?
@wiksson
@wiksson 10 месяцев назад
Well done Ruth! 👏🏼
@Curious68
@Curious68 9 месяцев назад
Thank you
@EricB256
@EricB256 9 месяцев назад
It's a hobby indeed. But when you are looking for a partner who is a good fit, finding out that you shre other hobbies is a lot more important than this one if you are looking for compatibility in those areas as well. But let's not forget that compatibility in this hobby is important as well for a relationship to last. Thanks for the inspring moment. Oh, and: cool necklace of sorts, too. Somebody can be really proud of you.
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 9 месяцев назад
@EricB256 thank you for sharing your thoughts and feedback. Yes compatibility across the board is so important!
@CodyAdams-pf9un
@CodyAdams-pf9un 9 месяцев назад
I think similar goals and values are the only important part in marriage psychology studies. Don't really need to both to enjoy tennis and true crime shows.
@maujo1961
@maujo1961 9 месяцев назад
When you play tennis with different partners, you also seemed to play the game better and enjoy it more
@passingby4547
@passingby4547 8 дней назад
This... seriously helped me. I wanna be more active with my wife
@chelsiaa7
@chelsiaa7 4 дня назад
I would like to see him after 15 years in the channel if that's so it would be greattt ❤
@mrawesomeDK
@mrawesomeDK 6 месяцев назад
As someone who paints abstract paintings by just splattering paint everywhere, as a hobby, I see this as an absolute win :-D
@ctwarmuth
@ctwarmuth 23 дня назад
God bless you woman.
@earncryptoz
@earncryptoz 10 месяцев назад
I would have to watch this over and over again 😍😍😍 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ruthramsay_
@ruthramsay_ 10 месяцев назад
@earncryptoz so glad you like it! Thank you for commenting.
@toothnail605
@toothnail605 9 месяцев назад
I've always have done what she said and even treated it like a creative art form. I guess as a musician taking any subject, activity, sport whatever it's just seams so simple to just try and get creative in whatever you do and the most important part is have fun with it. I've don't that with many things I won't go into. But lol the hard part is finding a partner or people on the same page. Because with women one day they are on the same page and then down the rd, whoa, a totally different person and not into it with the same passion. Yeah I know we all get old and change but as the saying goes it take *two* to tango, and because of that reason what I have created solo wise is just well super epic! I always look forward to tomorrow - solo wise, so if a partner or my partner is not into it who cares! Solo will `always come first, the rest will just be a bonus, because I can always count on me lol being there... Peace
@apeschell
@apeschell 9 месяцев назад
We have a master debater here.
@mobilemcsmarty1466
@mobilemcsmarty1466 9 месяцев назад
with you on that my friend. this message is really to women. men already get it. sadly and generally it falls on deaf ears. good thing that we can entertain ourselves no matter what 😎
@toothnail605
@toothnail605 9 месяцев назад
@@mobilemcsmarty1466 Agreed!
@gbengaogun
@gbengaogun 9 месяцев назад
What a talk! I just found my new hobby!
@CurriedBat
@CurriedBat 9 месяцев назад
Ah, not a bad idea. Put it on the shelf with all the others that I'll never get around to doing. Hehe
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