Russell Brand On Getting Over His Ex-Girlfriends 

@@K-Sober thanks dude, appreciate the support

4 months later hope u r a little better..

How are you doing now?

Went through the same thing brother. She cheated on me with a "friend" of mine. Had this feeling like I wanted to throw up all the time. I started working out regularly, reconnected with old friends that you lose track of when you're in a relationship, went skydiving by myself, got my bike license, just started crossing off things on my bucket list. Gradually over time you'll think about her a lot less and be back to yourself. Hope you're doing well now my friend.

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@@Ben-pd2bx it is true to an extent. who else but you is responsible for the company you keep? that's a rhetorical question

Ben, My post wasn’t meant to be taken as literally as “be alone for the rest of your life”, or that we shouldn’t have good relationships with other people. Good relationships can enrich life. I have good family and friends, but I don’t expect that anything will last forever or that anyone else can be responsible for my happiness. I have to be content with myself and not rely on external people for that, because they can go away at any time really. You really only do have yourself and your own experiences for the rest of your life. You can only guess what others are experiencing but with you, you know. So have a good relationship with yourself first, that’s a great basis for everything else.

@@Ben-pd2bx once any given person has entered adulthood, at that point more than any other, they are the ultimate curators of who is in their life, and your comment doesn't say otherwise (it'd be foolish to say otherwise). If you're in a job with colleagues you hate, then it's your responsibility to yourself to spend all your recreational time looking for another job

@@Ben-pd2bx Changing jobs is not a privilege, it's the present day condition. No such thing as a job for life any more; we're not in the 50's. You seem very defeatist or fatalistic

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It's still hard trying hard right now to move on with mine

@@thesanders5822 you can and u will

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Deep, life’s always better with a bit for hindsight that’s for sure

She wants revenge- red flags lyric?

This comment will give you some self confidence. but that's not true. I know that because I was looking my high school honey's Facebook other social media platforms after 25 years now .she du the same I don't know

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That couldn’t have been hard because, apparently, he walked out on that relationship.

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Just remember nobody posts their bad pics or their bad days.... Sometimes people post more after a break up just to spite the ex.

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Easier said than done!

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Wish u luck mate

Hey Mark, I have just been through the same thing at the start of the year and when I was describing the way I felt to my family/friends I used the exact same terminology that you have as grieving the death of my relationship and looking back I can also pin point the stages I was at during different times (shock, denial, anger etc etc). Its fair to say that what happened nearly 'ended' me and has taken me a while to get to 'acceptance'. I will say that if you are going through it still the journey isnt always a straight line (as im sure you know). Right now I have just come out of another very short 'relationship' which ended badly and while it sucks I am at least finding myself thinking about this person rather than my (ex) wife. Everyone deals with this stuff differently you just gotta keep moving. Find something new to focus on and try to surround yourself with good people. Just remember you are not alone.

@@unwisemonkey2945 thanks I hope things work out good for you to.

Wow, I'm sorry mate, that sounds rough. Sounds like you've got your mind to the future, wishing you the best buddy!

And its opposite, the discomfort of the unknown . . . I'm not sure it's ALWAYS comfort, but it probably is a lot of the time.

Very much so. It's more difficult if it was a relationship where you both shared good times through most of the relationship, so when that all ends and even it's been a long time since you've communicated with eachother, you still have that desire to make contact. Unfortunately it's more than likely to make yourself feel better, and even if you have a good response at the beginning, soon enough it will be the same issues that ended the relationship in the first place that will resurface

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Amen brother

BlimBlam Kaboom, I think it's fear that prevents some people from letting go. Fear of being without that person. Fear of starting over, alone. Fear of the unknown. Fear of having to let someone new into our lives somewhere down the line. Fear of what will everyone else think. Fear that they might never meet anyone better. Fear they might never again meet ANYONE. etc, etc.

You shouldn't have dumped her then idiot, don't get people like you, communicate and work things out rather than walking away, you didn't care about the pain you caused her

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Your mother created you and gave you the means to experience the long road of life. You’re x was a side street you took at some stage that was a dead end. They are not the same at all.

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so true, and they become more of an illusion the more often you think of them and go over things in your own mind. Eventually what you remember is a complete fabrication from what really was.

I'm going through a really painful divorce right now and it was immensely beneficial to realize that I wasn't mourning my soon-to-be ex-wife. Instead, I was mourning a fantasy of what she was, and the reality is that she was never that person and was constantly miserable and unhappy. In essence, I was mourning a fantasy. I find myself benefiting from the divorcing of her as an idea, and that mindset can be so, so great. I hope others can benefit from this as well! The sooner we do, the sooner we can heal.

Not when he comes back.

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@@roisglassco8986 I think you're misinterpreting him a little. This video is focused more on those who can't move on from their ex when it's not working out for a reason, and they're not allowing themselves to move on and find inner peace. Learning how to love yourself and not make your life's sole purpose about getting married and having babies, but instead on something that society hasn't dictated us to do, (i.e fighting for a cause you believe in that could help others) ISN'T self indulgent. The moment we realise we don't have to abide by the norm is the moment we realise our potential and power as individuals as well as collectively. Parents who have a child together are INDIVIDUALS THEMSELVES and have a every right to move on from one another, whilst still loving their child and being civil/respectful to one another. If you start tip toeing around and lying to your child about the situation, some weird vibes occur and THIS is what affects them mentally, because children are clever and can sense these things.

God bless you Mr Schoenenberger. May he allow you to cherish the memories and to move on with gratitude for the gift you were given, and to be open to any further gifts which the Giver would give you.

I am sorry for your loss. She must've been really special and meaningful in your life. You sir are blessed.

I am sorry for your loss. She must've been really special and meaningful in your life. You sir are blessed.

Romain Schoenenberger My condolences on the loss of your wife. It is both challenging and daunting. I myself am a widow of eleven years after being married for thirty eight wonderful years. I honour the memory of my wonderful husband and value the life I was fortunate to have had. Special memories are to hold close to are hearts. Gratitude for having had a very special person in our lives. I wish you the very best.Greetings from England!!!Take care and my very good wishes to you.

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Baaahahahah exactly exactly EXACTLY. There is no such thing as the one except you. I think I see the one every 15 mins in LA and finally get it. Now, I appreciate the visual beauty but can let them go in a flash. And sure enough, another “the one” pops up on the next block. Understand this and you will be free.

@Sam Ochin you must live in Vancouver

No offense, but finding a 'good match' is not so easy. Let's say you're a Christian. Cut down the 3.5 billion to way less. Then if you're fit, cut that number way down if you want a fit significant other. Then let's say you like tall men, or women with long dark hair. Cut that down again. When people say there is 7 billion people its fools gold. That being said. If someone wants to be in your life they will be. Move on.

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@@idrather.goblind Exactly.. I can't do it.. Yet.. It's been 3 years :(

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Easy to let go of Chorpra.

Loneliness and desperation.

to reconcile and start a new chapter. your old relationship is dead. a break up is always in one or two ways: 1) to let go and move on and redefine yourself. or 2) reconcile and start anew.

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@@brandenlucerovlogs - Sometimes two people miss each other and get back together and it's better. That doesn't usually happen but a lot of doom and gloom people go with this "never talk to your ex" and I disagree. They were probably one of the best matches you ever met, hence you were with them the longest. Only if both people miss the other can it work again. However, when it ends AGAIN, then you know it's really over.

@@bigneiltoo Until you start learning about narcissism. Then holy shit, your entire view on relationships, the no contact rule, everything else these coaches tell you? it turns you into a psychiatrist. Makes those red flags shine up even more.

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@Jamie Morgan You would think. She got pregnant with someone else in that time. Fuck.

It taken me nearly three years still think about her now and then . I don't know why. But watching this video understand more now it just because I unhappy with who I am. I am my mind I thinking if I was back with my ex my life would be perfect and my issues would been gone. That just a fansty. You need to be happy with who you are inside that when you can move on. Like he says no one wants to be with a person who dose not like themselves. People want to be around positive people

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@@Un1234l my ex moved in with a guy one month after married him a year later apparently to her she did not cheat lol

they identify w/ the pain, it becomes them and they dont know who they would be w/out it if it disappeared

You are exactly correct!! So many of us become addicted to that feeling of want, of loss. You nailed it.

So, wouldnt that be the feeling of self loathing?

Mike Tyson said something like that People are content in their own misery

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Do you mind me asking how old you are? And how you are going now? I am going through the pain so badly now.

I completely agree. I think it’s the same for a lot of people, they just aren’t aware of it mostly because they’re not bothered to introspect. Good luck!

You have to work on being the best you...You wont find true happiness in other people/women. Remember this... women dont care about our struggles.. they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners. once you realize that, you can work on being the best winner you can possibly be.

But getting lost on the way (or during) is what makes being madly in love so delicious, exhilarating.

vambo13257 literally dead would mean they actually passed away

@@crystalbethseizetheday8669 I said literally dead to YOU, do you understand?

@Crom You will learn

vambo13257 Yes. That doesn’t change the meaning of the word literally. That person is not literally dead to them, as it would involve them actually being dead. Not sure why you’re mad at me, take it up with the dictionary I guess!

Crom Aren’t we so lucky to learn from this superior being 😂 so much for healthy discussion eh!

So you can't let them go, because they hurt you? That doesn't seem quite logical, i would find it easier.

Søren women are emotional beings. Men are logical.

@@StoleBearer nah it depends on the person.

So much of this.

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Crom I just finished a dragged out two month long breakup process with my girlfriend of 4 years, and it was a relationship that really took a toll on my self esteem and sense of self worth. When I read “It’s ok to love yourself and to treat yourself like you treat a best friend” I burst into tears as I’m so far from that, but know it’s exactly what I need to do. Your words made me hurt but they also helped hit home what I need to be focusing on.

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yes. it wasn't actually what he offered me in the real world that i craved. it was what i thought, what i hoped, what i pictured he could offer me if he let himself be vulnerable to me. and who knows. maybe that's true. but maybe he wasn't vulnerable to me because i wasn't the right person for him to be vulnerable to. maybe if he was vulnerable to me then we would have had a whole new batch of issues crop up. i know the traits i saw in the "dream version" of the relationship.. those are what i want in a true partnership. those are what excited me. the real person just offered me pain. i'm not sure how to find those things "within myself" because they're ultimately a reflection of a true and exciting connection to another person- finding someone outside of myself who shares these interests. i can already share them with me. it's that additional connection i want. perhaps i need to find people who share those interests and befriend them, instead of hoping to find them within a partnership. maybe that's how to do it. stay strong friend, those opiates don't hold anything you need. honestly, i've been smoking weed again the last few nights to handle some pain and it's already starting to make me a bit automatic like it always does.. i think it's time to put it away and handle the pain the right way. the weed is just going to keep numbing me and set me back in all the other areas i've been growing stronger in. and like a bad ex, i don't need that in my life. i hope saying this doesn't trigger anyone who is in a recovery situation that might come across my comment.

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Ow you are so wright opiate's are a good treatment if your suicidal but just got a realize thay are human and are never as perfect as you thought thay were

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You hit it on the nail and that's exactly how I feel.

I need more of that kinda talk. You're my boy, Blue!

how do i take it back exactly?

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St Franck it’s called grief. In my opinion, it takes just as long to get over an ex you truly loved and is still living as a loved one who has died. Heartbreak is a sickness like any other. I wish you happiness. Be kind to yourself.

The hardest things we work on end up being the moments in our life when we can choose to learn more about ourselves and how we respond and why we respond in the way we do. Where did we learn to love someone else more than ourselves? I should know I always stayed way to long and then would collapse into grief when it was over. I've since realised that a certain amount of grief is of course healthy we have hopes and dreams, expectations but then I've learnt to value life, value each day and every day I get an opportunity to be a better version of me whether I'm with someone or not, best wishes you can do this because your life IS worth it🙏

... 15 years... sometimes you don't "get over it"... and I haven't been on social media at all for 3 years, so it's not that...they still haunt many of my dreams...

I'm 3.5 years feel like I'm Getting there annoyed at myself sometimes for taking so long to get over someone who was not respectful to me towards the end, but it's true now its a mirage and a comfort I've held on to to stop myself from meeting someone new and being hurt the same way. Needing to face my insecurities I see it brought up alot of where I had 'holes' in my old way of dealing with things, I guess he helped to point them out it's up to be to take care of them now. As the other person said.. But yeah it's mad how you grieve over someone that's still alive that shit is hard.

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Sounds like you're her backburner or she is yours. One thing a cheater desires more than the instant gratification of attention is security, you give her that security. Ask yourself if you have a fruitful relationship with someone else or yourself without her. If she is interfering with this then there is something there deep seated and you need to let go, it is just my opinion after I became friends with my ex who cheated and it I happen to be her back up plan, moved on and now I see everything clear

BETA ASF

How the hell can you be friends with a person who didn't respect you?

computerbiscuit That’s rare. Usually one partner still wants the other. I wouldn’t-want a friend that would be a cheater as well. Glad it works for you.

I am good friends with almost all my exes, because we didn't let it go sour before we broke up. But it isn't the same just being great friends than dwelling in the past and what could have been.

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That’s even sadder lol. Like I was leasing a prostitute.

Sneakily quoting skepta

I don't know what you think screaming at me from the top of your voice like a baby is going to do for you, young chap. I certainly never took it from skepta... pip pip cheerio good day to you.

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Im sorry. I am so sorry for one man to another. It will be hard but you will find love bro

"Girlfriend of 5 years broke up" You lived with her for over 5 yrs, have one child and you still call her your "girlfriend"! That's modern society; everything is temporary and then you complain when it becomes temporary!

Couber I feel your pain. I'm going through something similar. Stay strong your not alone and thanks for writing what you did.

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You guys can break no contact when all the emotions have settled and you guys have truly moved on.

No I would never break no contact my friend. Especially if she was the one to end the relationship. It’s on her to reach out, but don’t hope for it and if she does I would expect it to end again unless there has been a lot of time between you two (like a year+ at least) and a lot of work on yourselves. You’ll be alright man. I went thru a 7 year relationship ending a couple years ago. Tried it again after two months and ended again with even more pain. It’s been quite a journey, and I’ve only in the last few months realized it was one of the most profound positives to ever happen to me, it forced me to learn a lot about myself and grow up as a mid 30s man, like living alone, growing self confident / not co dependent, developing new hobbies, getting rid of bad habits / lifestyles, etc. I had another relationship since and it lasted about 14 months, just ended a few weeks ago. It’s been rough and it sucks, but not near as bad as that other one as I know everything will be ok with time and that I will emerge and even better version of myself if I work on myself, learn from mistakes, etc. also this recent relationship wasn’t toxic and was so much healthier than the last, so it feels a little better coming out of it. Focus on you, develop passions, and when ready go out and date to re gain confidence. Hopefully 4 months in your a little better. It’ll take time, especially a long one like yours. Accept that and just tell yourself I WILL GET THRU THIS! ❤️

How u doing now brother?

Thank you

​@@johnnyflow9731 sorry I missed this - a couple months after the breakup I completely got over it, I didn't feel the need to contact her at all. After those couple months I found out she was dating my ex best friend at the time, which happened pretty much immediately after our breakup so that made it a lot easier to completely move on. Lost some life long friends during that time due to them knowing about it but hiding it from me but it's honestly for the best. My circle of friends has gotten smaller but they're friends that actually care about me and would never do something like that to hurt me. I think in retrospective anyone would be surprised as to how much someone will hurt you even though you thought they never would. Since then I've been so much happier removing my ex completely out of my life and some of those toxic friends. I've seen her a few times since we broke up but she's said nothing to me. Her boyfriend actually tried to fight me when he got really drunk one night at a bar I go to because I literally told him "I don't really have anything to say to you" after he wanted to talk. He got in my face and tried to punch me outside the bar but I literally just left and luckily I had friends there that pushed him and some of my old friends away. I know the guy personally and he's a huge overly-masculine type of guy that resorts to physical confrontation whenever someone threatens his ego or makes him feel insecure. I really just wanted them to leave me alone and stop trying to bring it up and after that night they all have completely. I dated a girl for a month or so shortly after the whole debacle but it didn't work out. The past two months I've been dating this girl and last month we recently became official and I couldn't be happier. Life has been great, I love the girl I'm with and the friends I have in my life have been amazing. I haven't felt the urge to check on her/any of those old friends at all and I don't really plan to. Life moves on and so did I and it was all for the best.

So do you Callie..sooo dooo you! 😍👌👍

I used to not like him, hes a different guy.

It is called an awakening.

@@miket.6293 me too.. Happy for him and his new life..family.. Makes alot of sense Mike...

20 years only? What about 49? But, bottled it down, married, have children and grand children. Now is memory time again, like lemerence….

@@carmenkamberos1156 I hear you. It's powerful stuff. Never understood how people can move on so easy. Like it never happened.

Just got my heart broken, then I walked away. I still think about her, and my stomach churns when she talks to other guys and they seem to really click. I yearned for that connection. I try to stay away from her life, hoping I'd forget bout her. I'm sorry you are experiencing this. I truly hope i wont have this.

@@Underhills it’s just some people like us love deeply. But also if your relationship broke down suddenly in the midst of the “in love” period which usually is the 1st year then the probability of you longing for it is high. Because it was ended so abruptly you were not able to live through it and it’s development, there is sense of idealisation and what ifs. And that made you stuck in that in love stage of that memory and you somehow closed yourself off to anything else. Who knows it might have fizzled out in 2-3 years… you just don’t know.

This may sound so simplistic but.. The relationship you had with this person may have impacted both of you deeply. Maybe they still think of you too. Maybe they remember you. But they chose this- Every time you feel longing and sick because you miss this person so much, remember that they didn’t pass away, they chose to leave you. They chose a reality where they have no idea what’s going on with you, no idea if you’re okay. They chose to stop caring for you and to never look after you. I know this sounds harsh but I was once like you. The passion I felt for this person was unexplainable in words. It was extremely powerful and deep sadness followed me for years. I had to realise that this was all a choice on their part. It was their decision to leave me for someone else. How can we let ourselves feel so devastated over someone who chose this for us, and for them? It’s important to not linger on the why. There could be so many reasons why they chose this but unfortunately unless you ask them, you’ll never know. Either way it doesn’t matter because they made that choice and have stuck to it for 20 years. Perhaps if you’d stayed together you’d have realised you’re not compatible. The illusion could’ve faded and it have fizzled out. Don’t waste your life being sad over this person- we need to trust that it happened for a reason, and live in the present. Who knows, maybe there’s someone waiting for you.

shav12 same here

focus on that bread first. better relationships will eventually come

same here bro

S S it gets so much better fortunately

shav12 i hope so man.. funny thing is i know i wasnt gonna marry her & we werent gonna last but stayed anyways cause she was there and she did make me happy on some days.. and maybe a part of me wanted to see where it went until she left me twice, her reason? Because she felt she was more invested in the relationship than me ..its been 10 days now with NO contact..i dont get why i miss her terribly though..

How are you now? I'm just curious.

Why would you want to be happy for him? Screw that being the bigger person crap! I live for my happiness for me!

@@jeanlemcke6458 because she broke up with him

@@SnowWhite-kr9js I have always been the one getting dumped, so it's hard for me to even imagine a girl breaking up with a guy.

I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

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What sApp him

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What sapp him

Yeah, I keep letting that one soak in. Gonna sleep on that one.💜😊

can you please explain to me what does it mean?

Mem AR It means that you need to find what they gave you that made you feel so complete and worthwhile, and start giving it to yourself.

I.e a handjob

S. Liew Totally agree with you ...one of the most profound statements I’ve ever heard on relationships . We are told we are already complete and yet spend our entire time trying to find the One that makes us feel that . Guess we get in touch with the Love we somehow deny ourselves and think it only possible via a significant other ...as Russell himself sort of acknowledges x

don't worry, it will happen again

that feeling I mean, not love

Why does every girl pretend their ex bf is a narcissist

There are plenty of female narcs too

Youre welcome. It's really easy to hate yourself when life is feeling stagnant and you're not accomplishing your goals. But hating yourself will just make everything worse.

@atemgweyedavidabunimye Erm. How so?

@user-ts2si8yi9i who are you talking about ? What method did he use? Some hocus pocus?

@user-ts2si8yi9i I have heard he can turn on you too if you dont pay him enough!