yea , my mother and dad divorce , and a lot of problems i have , this is so bad . im never happy in this problem . im 15 years old and ı dont know what to do... im so sad
i can’t be the only one that has a nice family, decent friends, and a nice house but yet you still feel so empty in the inside. it hurts i don’t know what is missing.
I used to feel this kind of emptiness before, but somehow I could have get out of this by learning how to DJ... I sucked really hard when I started but I kept on learning because it is what I loved to do and, a few years later, I’ve played in a gig where a thousand of people came and it was the first time in my life that I ever felt alive. What i’ve learned from this is that, when you have something that you love to do, you fill that emptiness with a will to do your best everytime you practise, and nothing is better that having a result of years of dedication
reminds me of my old friend who just changed.. she was so happy and nice once and then... just took all my happiness. Luckily I have found d a better friend who is loyal and trustworthy
I feel like alone is when you are physically alone as in you have no one around you. but lonely is when even when you are surrounded with many people, you still feel "alone"
I think alone is when you're at a peaceful time in life; it's quiet, no disturbance, just you and your free time. Lonely is when you have been alone for too long; it's too quiet, you want to be disturbed, you have too much free time. You want to hear somebody, you want to be bothered by somebody, you want to spend your free time with somebody. The thing is, you don't have anybody. You look around, so many people, yet there is nobody there, not even yourself.
@@carmela3107 that's true that scared alot people in 2012. I didn't care if the world ended I was waiting for it to end i was happy when i heard the world was ending i cheered. It pissed me off
being lonely is one of the worst feelings.. you know that feeling when you’re with a group of people, and suddenly you realize, that all of them would choose someone else there over you, and you’re never the 1st option, always being just a backup plan..
Does anyone else really want to cry sometimes, but tears just won’t come out? It feels like you ran out of tears :,( when do I get a re-load? Edit: 1k people who feel this way? I don’t wanna say it’ll get better cause most of the time it dosent... but I pray for you.
I feel that a lot..I thought I was alone I’m so sorry for u it’s so terrible ... sometimes I feel like I’m really sad that I wanna cry maybe even sob but it’s not coming out
I know this ! But remamber abbie lonely is a personal feeling that comes from us . So the best way I think is to learn how to be happy alone first then you will never get that feeling with people .. you will enjoy . Have a Great day ! Wish you are okay
@people are gross hey i’m so sorry i just saw your reply if u need to vent i’m here u can always talk to me! my insta is @marysawaya, feel free to dm me to talk about whatever you want💕 please stay strong!!!
Jeez that's my situation now, just trying to cry but I can't make it, I'm sad but, I can't cry. I have done a ton of tests to see if I'm depressed and they're all positive, I would like to talk about my feelings with my mom but I can't, I would love to go to a psychologist but I don't what the fuck I could do. Even if I talk to one what could he solve.
Anyone else have lots of "friends" around them but feel so lonely? Edit:- Thank you for all the likes💙 the comments are a place for lonely people to find other lonely people we are all in this together guys and eventually things will get better for us 💙💙💙💙
Poppy Smith I don’t have lots of friends but I know a lot of people and I feel pretty lonely. Always thinking why am I here. What am I supposed to do in this world. Edit- 7 months things only get worse apparently
Kinda like when you get depressed and tell nobody because you don't think they'll understand but here we're all in the same box and feel confortable knowing we can reciprocate in eachother's despair
I always used to think why are people sad and crying alone when I was younger. Now I really got my answer. Nothing hurts more than loneliness even with a room full of people.
“I like drinking coffee alone, and reading alone. I like riding the bus alone, and walking home alone. It gives me time to think, and set my mind free. I like eating alone, and listening to music alone. But when I see a mother with her child; Or a girl with her lover; Or a friend laughing with their best friend; I realize that even though I like being alone... I don’t fancy being lonely.” ~ A tumblr post I saw once. EDIT: HOLY COW OVER 1,000 LIKES!!! It’s nice to know that there are people who can relate. I hope all of you are doing well. I personally know how rough it can be, so if you ever wanna talk to somebody, I’m here fam.
Completely agree cause those stuff happened to me almost everyday, but I often don't let my feeling of loneliness get in me instead of act like there is no loneliness while feel empty inside
You have friends. you’re still lonely. You’re happy for a while. Then you end up back to the roots of being sad. You’re inspired by things. But lose all motivation. Life feels kinda fast. But to fast for comfort. At the same time it’s felt as if it’s not been fast at all. Everything feels at a stand still. Your memory’s are categorized under different chapters of your life because those chapters are made of terrible times. You honestly don’t know if your happy or if you are in the shallow parts of depression. You feel like it’s ridiculous to feel these things because of people that use these things for attention. So you bury it, honestly you forget about it for a while. But like clockwork it comes back. Every other week you find yourself back into that part of yourself that just wants alone time but thirsts for a relationship also. So you question why are you here. You contemplate killing yourself but the the people around you keep you alive just enough to be alive. But your friends and family will never know this will they. Sometimes laying in your bed, listening to music like this is the only thing you feel like doing. But you know this will only make you more sad. But you realize theres a part of you thats attached to the sadness.
I didn't even have a best friend, what hurt me the most is when i found out my friend that i think care about me and like me, actually hate me. And yeah that just happen today, i really want to dissapear
Honestly I’ve been trough that, and even thought so much time has passed the memories I had with my old best friend still haunt me to this day, and I just cannot fully get over it. I think it’s a pain that I will always feel
there are nights like this.. not knowing why am I crying, just pain.. I actually can get happiness from my phone now, but it's just like.. I can't do that, my mind refuses to be happy
i just want to feel LOVED. i just want to feel appreciated. i want someone to hug me tightly and tell me everything is going to be okay, that no matter what, it will turn for the best. that no matter what happens, i will stand up again. i want someone to hold me for hours and let me cry till my head hurts into their shoulder. i want *her* to tell me she loves me again. and MEAN it. i just want to feel loved again.. but nobody truly cares until your dead. nobody noticed what you are going through until your dead. nobody takes you seriously, until you are gone. when your soul is taken from your body. i sound selfish. but i just want to feel LOVED AGAIN, and like i am SOMETHING to people. im tired of making people feel better, making people smile. im tired of helping everyone with their problems, telling them everything will get better. promising them that no matter what happens, life will turn for the better, even at their darkest times. im tired of lending out my hand and pulling them back up, then watching them walk away. i just want someone to tell me those words.. i want HER to tell me those words.. but there’s nobody there to grab my hand. and im too scared to call for help. im scared of what would happen, of what they will think of me. im scared they won’t take me seriously. im scared.. im scared. i just want help.. but im so, so scared.. i almost jumped off a roof the other day until the police found me and took me home. my father screamed and screamed at me. and nobody knows what i was thinking of doing at that moment as my friends stood some feet behind me and kissed under the sun. i don’t want to die. i don’t want to be gone. i want to live. but this feeling is getting out of hand.. it’s getting hard to support myself anymore.. i can’t take it anymore.. i need somebody. i just need somebody there before this feeling takes over.. maybe it will get better? maybe. but its hard to believe it when your the only person saying that to yourself. i just want to feel strong again. i don’t want to feel weak. im tired of being weak. im tired of feeling like there’s something wrong with me. im..tired. to anybody reading this; PLEASE, listen to me. no matter what happens; it will get better. i don’t know what your going through right now but i know it’s probably hard. i know how alone you must feel. but remember; it always gets better. it will always turn for the better. it may take some time; but that’s okay. it’s okay to be sad for a while, to be alone, to feel worthless or scared or whatever your feeling. but trust me. it GETS BETTER. feel that way for a while. but when your done, stand back up on your feet. punch the feeling away, and be strong. be the strong person you need to be. because you ARE strong. and you can do it. you can get through this. i believe in you. and for anyone reading this, im sorry for crying about my feelings over a comment section. i just needed to barf up my emotions somewhere because it is getting unbearable. take care, have an amazing day, i love you. ❤️ edit, from 2 months later: damn.. i’m so glad i’m still alive to see this thing blow up. i thought this comment wouldn’t be noticed at all, that it would drown in the sea of comments, but here i am looking at all the people living the same life as me. i’m crying so much over it.. life has gotten harder. people are proving they aren’t real. i have nobody real to me. i don’t want to be alive anymore. though, there’s always that small hope, you know? that everything will get better. even though it’s so hard right now.. my mother might die. i’m losing all my friends. i’ve been diagnosed with severe anxiety and adhd. i just want to disappear. but, that feeling just stays there. i hope it gets better. maybe if i stay here, it’ll get better. i hope so.. at least i get to see h e r soon. you guys are all SO strong. you are still here, living, breathing. and you are amazing for that. you are loved; i love you. always stay strong. it will get better, i promise. i’m always open to talk if you need anything. my discord: name: june tag: #3679 stay beautiful. 💕
june juice i finally found the one person who explained my entire life. i’ve never been loved before though and i just want to feel like i actually belong to someone. someone that will be there to listen and comfort me. and someone that just loves me so much they can’t get their mind off of me.
i know exactly how you feel, if you ever wanna talk to someone then you can add me @floricss (on insta) i know it's hard to ask for help but i won't ever get mad :)
I always feel alone like i have friends and all but sometimes i feel like i consider them as my friends but they dont and im always with the same people at school and i try to talk to girls and other people but i cant its like i wont allow myself but i really want to but my body just doesnt connect with my mind and i have terrible social skills and i have social anxiety and suffer from anxiety sometimes i just cant breathe and i watch youtube videos about how to deal with anxiety and being shy and how to talk with people and girls but i just cant no matter how hard i try and i just feel like an extra while everyone is the main charactwr in the story
I can relate to this so much I’ve been really lonely it feels comfortable even talking to my self and when I do my family asks who am I talking to and I say no one cause I feel like they will think I’m exaggerating over being lonely 😞but I try to be happy sometimes...
that feeling happens all the time to people who are trying to find someone but they don't understand the feelings you have with them and so you still care for them and want to care for them even though they don't care for you
"Are you okay?" -"No, im not. Im slowy breaking inside and im a terrible person. I dont deserve the life ive been given. I dont even know what to do with myself anymore."- "Im fine"
I pushed away all my friends growing up and have never experienced true love, yet I get depressingly jealous at the fact that love is all around, even in sad songs that are supposed to help you relate. Seems like the one thing I won't ever escape.
No what's the hardest thing to accept is no matter how you confess to your crush, and get rejected you keep falling in love Cause he's neither always txtin or callin you on phone and you never seem to stop texting him even tho you promise yourself this week you will ignore him all through the week What brings the physical pain (which happens to be the brain saying your hurt or whatever) is to hear him laugh (or whatever you like about him ) and because your the one who make him laugh or smile, you CAN'T be HIS, which breaks you even more then ever before And the thing is i have felt like this before and it hurts 10 times worse then my first love fo sho. I just want to let go of him
Oh god. why this is absolutely about myself like my brain probably don't understand that sad ppl like all around me, i know it, but I can't really feel it. maybe it's because i am not in this place to feel confident. n maybe ppl who read this shit rn think like bitch, what r u talking about.
I don't really have any problems.... My parents are still together I have ok grades I have some friends... But I just feel empty and lonely Also if you need someone to talk to you can comment on this comment and I'm responding to all of them, your not alone I'm here.
I've came across this video because I wanted to calm down and listen to some music. My girlfriend committed suicide yesterday, because of her abusive parents. I was at different place at that time, I just couldn't help her.. I will always blame my self for it. (Sorry for my grammar, I've only learned English for like 2 months.)
@@gorehhh first of all your English is great. Secondly, my condolences go out to you and your girlfriend. That must be extremely hard to deal with but whatever you do, DO NOT blame yourself. I’m pretty sure you being her boyfriend was probably the best thing she had when she was alive. There was no way you could have seen that coming. There was no way you could have been next to her 24/7 to prevent it. There was no way anyone could have done that. Do not blame yourself. You can cry. You can feel super sad. You can miss her for 1000 years but NEVER blame yourself for something that wasn’t your fault. Once again, I am extremely sorry for your loss and please please please do not blame yourself because it is not your fault.
Eventually you'll realize... that silence is loud. The most deafening noise you've heard. But it wouldn't bleed your ears. Rather your heart. I wrote that on my phone last night, at a club, with my friends. Because suddenly I felt very lonely.
damn how time flies i used to listen to this in 2019 when i was 17 and at my lowest but now at 22 this mix sounds actually very peaceful and not like feeling lonely and hurt times change and so do we
I n f a m o u s I wish I could meet my soulmate..I mean i don’t even think I have one,but still. Just someone you really could talk to,show your true feelings..or whatever
@@imd3ad273 this isn't a lie, it's a reminder. in this case I am the one who cares about you because I posted this in hopes to lighten your mood. I'm sorry for whatever you go through, really I am, cause it sucks, but I was never lying, so kindly don't comment such a negative thing and accuse me of hurting people more.
I’m the newest in my friend group of 5 and I’m always the last option for them and if I don’t talk they will forger I existed. Sometimes i feel like if i die, no one will even notice I’m not there.
Bro stfu. You have friends, you're always surrounded by friends, so gtfo man. No one cares about me other than my family. You have friends and people to help you, so stop being so fucking greedy
It wasn't the songs that made me feel strong emotions and sadness. It was the comments of people who are feeling the same way I do, the same loneliness I have and the longing for someone's hug. To the one who's reading this, I may not be by your side and we may not know each other personally, but I wish giving you a warm hug. Whatever happens, never forget your smile and who you are. Smile, dear reader. I love you, and who knows? Someone out there might love you too but couldn't express their feelings ^^ Good luck and I wish the best for you! Take care dear stranger!
This made me cry. Thank you, thank you for your comment. (also ik u posted this like a yr ago)
4 года назад
Met a girl at a concert, I was 22 and she was a dream come true, held her in my arms during the slow songs, we kissed and hug...I never saw her again, one of the best nights of my life
I don’t want to die, but I wouldn’t really care if I did Edit:Hate to see so many people feeling the same way I do. I hope y’all are doing better than I am thought.
I have people who care for me, but for some odd reason their 'love' isnt effecting me. I feel empty, alone, and always tired. I just feel as if my life isnt real sometimes..
I just want a girl... one that will listen to my problems One that I can be open with One that will just sit with me even if it’s in silence One that I can be myself around One that I can hug One that I can call at anytime and she would be willing to talk One that I don’t have to hide my true feelings with I just want a girl to hug and tell me it’s going to be alright...
Do you ever feel empty. Like your only emotion is pain. It's really annoying isn't it. Nobody understands you. Everyone else is just so full of emotion and happiness. But we. Are just empty. Edit: Thanks for the likes nice to know I'm not alone in how I feel
seriously just about to say fuck it and end everything. nobody cares about me, and if they say they do they don’t mean it. the pain im feeling is to much. my family doesn’t even understand me and i don’t even know who i am anymore. i go everyday pretending im someone that i know im not. hanging on to life by a thread that’s so close to breaking. i give up
empty just existing drifting desperately grasping for someone to hang onto no one's there all i have is my goddamn cat she helps but i need someone to hug someone to exist for instead of just drifting passing by getting through everyone says to _just keep going_ im already doing that i need someone to be the reason to _just keep going_ i know my family would be devastated if i went but that doesnt feel like enough for some reason for fucks sake why cant i just be myself i have a total of 3 friends even my best friend feels superficial i know hes not but hes not someone i can hug i guess ill just stick to my cat i need someone. please.
ive been listening to this playlist since my first year of university. currently doing my final year. thank you for carrying me through. the sadness comes and goes, its always the same emptiness but this playlist brought so much comfort.
The funny thing is that every thing in my life is good. I have a roof above my head, food in my belly, warmth and good health. I have a mom that loves me so much. But, I've always been one of those who care so much about other people. I can make friends very easily but for some reason those friends don't care about me as much as I do. No one gives me the same effort or energy as I do, which makes me extremely sad. I try my best, I really do, but I always feel so alone. I just wish that I wasn't this nice. That I didn't care so much. That people just cared as much as I do. That's my goal for 2019, to not care anymore, to be just happy by myself...
Huda Omar Hi, no u dont need to stop and never blame urself for being nice to everyone. When you're being nice to them, you felt happy and satisfied right? Because that's natural as a human. If people didnt give good feedbacks, please dont regret. You can still continue being nice not to make people happy but to make urself happy bcs you can be usefull to everyone. Just never let anyone dim ur kindness:)
@@HelloThere-lq5pw thanks for the kind reply, I'll try to be more conscious about my decision and who I'm being nice to. I don't want to be taken advantage of.
I was just like ur description for such a long time. I eventually did learn to just simply not gaf, but now it feels weird. Like nobody cares about anybody enough. Like the light I tried to create is just gone and no one else really cares enough to give off that light. Idk. Maybe I'm just being dramatic. But it's just.. weirdly dim. Sorry for the little rantlike bit. I do feel better in the way that I'm focusing more on myself than the people who took that care for granted. I hope you get to feel better ~❤️
Huda Omar same. I'm gonna end my friendship with everyone. They made me sad so many times and i even thought about killing myself. I have enough of fake people.
Huda Omar I feel you and I’ve been the same for like the first eighteen years if my life… don’t become an asshole like those people and start chase your dreams on your own the rest will come to you by itself… just do what you truly love
Arvin Depaudhon yea but we all can’t fix but we can heal, time can be on your side when you’re doing self care, all of us can relate but others take longer to heal, we all have time.
I'm scrolling through the comments and I'm noticing a lot of people who are feeling sad, alone, lonely, hopeless, numb and other negative feelings. And I just want to say that whoever you are, you should always remember that you are not alone in this. Even if we're all not physically with you , even if we don't know each other, you should know that we are overcoming these feelings all together and we will be seeing the light that we have all been longing for what seems to be like forever, no matter how long or how hard it may be, we will get there.
@Tyra please don't do that. It will get better if not sooner then later. Maybe you're good at something else. Everyone have a reason to be here including you even if you don't know it yet. You just have to work hard to find it. Don't worry even if you fail. All your struggles will be worth it. But just don't be too hard on yourself. You deserve a break :)
Tyra don’t put yourself in that situation wether or not you believe me I can tell you now that there is something waiting for you on the other side of your depression and stress I promise you
the sad thing is that statistically someone in this comment section would be extremely close friends with you, but, you’ll never find them... and that’s so sad.
ICY QUEEN I still remember back when I was being born. My heart stopped and I wanted to go back up there but then they cut up my mothers stomach to take me out and I wasn’t breathing on purpose
So many of us here are "alone", i wonder how it is that we all feel it, granted it's subjective from person to person, so many of us are going through it but we still feel so lonely.. When you go weeks to months, hell even a year plus without talking to people, it really does mess with your mind, specially if you're dealing with other things like depression. When you finally find that one person you connect with, whether it's a deep level to simply just connecting and you up parting ways, how do you not feel miserable? An understatement at best. This becomes so unbearable as the silence is deafening.. .
That feeling when Someone finally questions your timidness and quietness, when they perceive that you might be going through something But you laugh it off and say that it’s nothing. When people think you’re hard to approach because you’re not outgoing enough. But little do they know that you’re afraid to step into the outside world. When you’re openly accepted into a group a friends, but still get that strike of loneliness in your heart because you know deep down you don’t truly belong there. When you finally gain a small string of hope, but lose it once you feel your chest tighten and become heavy. When you’re unsure how far you’ll reach in life, only striving for the best in your thoughts, but doing nothing to make it happen, because you simply don’t have the motivation or strength to do so. When you feel you’ve deceived people to the point where you’re deceiving yourself and thinking how much of a horrible person you are. When you’re afraid to open up to people because you clearly know you’re making wrong actions but hiding it because you know that there’s judgement and consequences and that you’re afraid to accept it. To anyone who has read this far, Hi. I’m scared and sad as much as you are. Im doubtful of my future. Im weary of the reactions of people I know when they find out about me. I’ve had heavy feelings in my heart, but no one seems to acknowledge it. This is long but I don’t want to say cliche stuff like “you’re not alone.” I just hope that you and I will be able to find light in our dim worlds and we will be able to carry on much stronger. :)
Dude It felt like you were saying that right out of my mouth. that's exactly how I feel man. it just puts so much stress on yourself because your afraid to say anything. getting lost in your deep thoughts is scary after awhile. I love you dude ❤
who are you and how did you get access to my thoughts? haha I’m only joking. it’s like you read my mind. but, hey... I acknowledge you. I acknowledge that you’re struggling too and I’m here for you ❤️
Now this is a true and honnest sharing i felt like you said things just ...the right way. Thank you honesly. I understand most of the things you said ..im in a point where i don't know if i should say something about how i feel ...but evertime i do ..i get pressured by everything and everyone (each and every single person that i know ) ..its weird but it stops from "opening" *i hate this word ...but just talk to someone..
no need to be scared, emotions are basically connected with so called life anytime, you´re just hindering yourself, because you´re scared of things which are included in life, trust me, keep doing ur passion and love ur surrounding, if not change it, there´s not need to fear anything, worst thing that could happen is death and that will happen anyway. So give life a better chance to light your death, until the infinity will bless you.
I haven't been myself for a long time. Honestly I don't even know myself anymore. Life's so complicated. I'd love to make friends, but I don't even know how anymore. Most people at my school, well yall know how dat is. Honestly I'm hopeless, but I still like to encourage other people. Keep ya head up loves and just know your never as lonely as you think you are. All of us watching dis videos share dat one thing in common. Lonely squad where u at?💞
I'm relating to you stranger. Life is unbearably complicated. You have the real question so many of us out there strive to answer; How do you make friends? Hard question, yet luckily out there are those hidden gems that come over and talk to you, pull to out of the loneliness if just for one conversation. Small friendships and encounters like those make life brighter :) It's funny how we all encourage others, yet fail to encourage ourselves... 'Sup lonely ppl?
@@Lizzz682 yup always helping others before ourselves.. I actually have friends so for me it's okay on that point but it's hard keeping a friendship ahah
Do you know that feeling? The feeling of being lonely even when you are surrounded by people? Even with your supposed “friends”. That moment when they are talking carelessly between them, and you just space out thinking how irrelevant you really are. To never have anyone to go to. I just feel like I don’t fit in. I’ve tried to cut out toxic friendships and start new ones with others, thinking that maybe they were the problem. I just wish I never realised that I was the problem all along. Is someone feeling like that in here?
