“The sidewalk was made for two, not three” I practically live out this quote. I go on walks with my two “friends” and I always let them go ahead of me. Half the time I just end up turning around and going back home. I never even get a text asking when I left or where I went.
Same. I'll be walking with 2 of my friends and they'll just walk ahead of me and talk about so much stuff that I don't know about and they don't include me
That"s so sad. Y'all better walk away from these toxic "friends" and get real ones or y'all could talk to them and explain how their behavior is hurting you. No one should feel ignored or left behind; that's not how real friendship works or feels like!
When u left ?? and where u went ?? Trust me bestie one day you'll be able to have someone asking this questions , the one and only thing I wanna tell u is that the problem is not on u 💜 sending u love and support
tiktok did ruin most songs, with the fact that if you listen to a song that's on tiktok making you like a 'Tiktok wannabe' like I've loved the song if you could be anywhere by tom felton, but noa cuz it's a trend on tiktok apparently I only know it because of tiktok lol
@@heyangel3397 so? What's your point? Because people will think that if you listen to TikTok song you're from TikTok? Ridiculous. That's not what you called "ruined song". In every TikTok song comment section are people who said "like if you're not from TikTok" etc. Plus, i got beautiful song from TikTok soo?
I don't know how she does it but every song makes me feel something. She can describe everything so perfectly. Its crazy how she expresses so much emotion through the songs.
They would actually wait for me to start a conversation even though i barely know how to start one. It makes me scoff so many times because of disgust.
To all those who have commented: thank you for reminding me that I was not the only one who felt like this growing up. We need to start a secret club: the un-chosen ones” Sara Keys: thank you for bringing us outcasts, loners, and weirdos together!
I have always been chosen last but things changed and I'm the main group, I do my best to make the people who feel left out that they matter to me. For example, when we are taking group pictures, I put them in the middle instead of me
Actually I disliked because the song has more of a sad tone and the background music is happy it doesn’t match but I love the song because it relates to me :)
@@No-mi7rv oh lmao you lived in a stone I guess, have you heard Lauv? He made ✨ sad songs with happy theme ✨ just like Jeremy Zucker and those underatted artists ❤ When you say that, It's like you love guitars but you hate the strings LMAO only if you understand 😂 it's 🐾 no use 🐾 why you like the song but hate the "background music" LMAO just simplified you like the lyrics actually 😂
Since everyone is venting on here, I thought I would too because I never told anyone this. I dance and I've been friends with five other girls ever since I was 3 and I never felt left out. And then as we got older, new people sort of came into the group and I wasn't close with them because I'm the only one that doesn't go to their school. That made me stop talking when we would hangout. And now it feels like I'm not even close to the original five friends but they are close to each other if that makes any sense. Anyways, I still get invited to parties and stuff but I just listen and when I do say something, no one hears it or they just ignore me. But I don't think they know I feel this way. It just sucks because I will never be as close to them as they are with each other. I don't remember getting quiet, but now it feels like I can't escape it. I'm crying ahh. Thanks if you read this I love you if you did ❤
Well i do feel like that sometimes, there are two ways i would use, it's best to tell them or leave them. If you still want the friendship to continue then tell them. But if they don't want to listen, go and find yourself some new friends that actually respect you. Have a great day! 💕
I decided to show this song to my 11 year old sister because she is having troubles with her friends. She literally told me, "I am always chosen last." When it got to, "Pack up before I'm ready to go." She started crying. I felt so bad 😭😭
I’m almost finished school and everyone will be celebrating with each other of all the school memories but for me there’s nothing for me to celebrate, the only memories are traumatic experiences
Probably because she gets a lot of her inspiration from fans. And it is actually really awesome in my opinion because I personally can't even u derstand how are there so many things that I relate to that seem so away from what I am "supposed" to feel
Karola Vels FACTS LIKE on TikTok and on social media in general she has probably gotten a lot of relatable comments from her fans that a lot of people can relate to which makes it relatable to a lot of people.
I'm the friend that waits for you. The friend that talks to you in class when you're sitting away from your friends. The friend who'll lend you anything when you need it. The friend that gets talked over. The friend that never gets told anything. The friend that's not really a friend. The friend that you picked up because you felt sorry for them. And the friend that you're the quickest to forget.
Sara, if you ever read this, I just want you to know that you have a beautiful voice, and your music is just amazing. I love this song because I relate to every word. Thank you for making good music that purifies my melancholy soul. ;)
If you understand this, this means it has happened to you or is still happening to you. If you don't understand this song maybe read the lyrics and you will understand how all of us feel. Well if you are still reading this I want you to know even though you were chosen last too, you're not by yourself there are a lot more people who have been chosen last like me. SO all I want to say is that your life is amazing in the future because God told me to tell you cause he saw you at your lowest.❤️
I’m normally left out, along with this other girl in my class that has recently become friends with me. We now do everything together because it’s easier to have one friend that does EVERYTHING with you than it is to be in a friend group that doesn’t pay attention to you or your one friend
this describes literally me. ask my classmates if they had seen me, i'm sure they'll answer "we have a classmate named..?" i'm an introvert, ya'll know. it's hard being the type of person who only has 2 friends, i'm too shy to even make new ones, because i'm afraid that they'll judge me. idk where i got this mindset but yeah
i used too! but luckily i figured my way to either work it out, or find new friends! nevertheless, dont dump the old friends! eventually yall will still be friends but not as close. i still feel left out sometimes :)
yup except I don't wanna be home either high school got a little better still bad but not as bad in kindergarten to about grade 9 I didn't know my home life was also terrible all I knew was I was in pain
To all those who have gone through this before. Help that lonely kid in the school, or the silent colleague of yours, or that shy neighbour of yours, so he/she doesnt go through what you did. I know it hurts, but try to avenge those tears you shed alone through kindness
I relate in my friend groups for sure. BUT one time my brother and I went on a Youth retreat, and it was a special day, they were doing a mandatory mini road trip via bus. I went to the bathroom for a minute and when I came out and everyone was gone. They completely left me behind. My brother didn't even notice I was gone. That was so painful... I know I’m quiet, but geez.
I’ve been writing songs about my childhood experiences with toxic friendships, insecurities and my struggles with being an introvert. It’s really freeing to write about something I never got to share at the moment.Thanks for inspiring me.
o u c h The fact they won’t explain it, they just shrug you off and expect it not to hurt….like you join in and they say “Oh, you wouldn’t understand, you weren’t there that day”
"Inside jokes that I never know but I still laugh until I cry" this hits different when you can totally relate :) I wish they could actually understand how we feel when they treat us like that.
To all the people who live this song, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that we have to live in a society where people are like that. Every child is a special gift from heaven, and people choose to treat others like they don’t matter and it hurts. I know your pain, you will find yourself. Work on yourself, other people won’t effect you in the future. (Edit: thank you all for the likes, wow!)
ty💞 and this is basically my life... i literally commented on this post on tiktok of her saying it was coming soon and i said like ty its like special to me and my friends made fun of me...
when things like this happen like when my friends ignore, I kinda blame myself because it's my fault that i can't talk like them and im an introvert who doesn't like a group setting
I actually planned something with my 'friends' recently and they all told me they were busy. My parents finally allowed me to go out, so I went on a walk and I saw my friends on that day. Doing what I planned, but without me :) it's okay, ig i'm used to it
I would walk up to them and say "what if that was my 13th reason" walk away, then wait for the "Oh im so sorry forgive me" calls and texts. Say nothing and ghost them.
Can I just vent for a second? I first heard this song a couple weeks ago, randomly on my Amazon Alexa, and I really liked it. The first time I listen to it, I immediately thought of Lilo from Lilo and stitch, as I think this song perfectly describes her always being left out because people think she’s ‘Weird’ and some other of my favourite comfort characters. But then I really thought about it, and when the realisation hit me like a truck I broke down. I relate to this song so much it only took me like three weeks to realise it lol. But, I’ve been chosen last since I can remember. I always had to ask the teacher if there was a job for me to do, because unlike most of my friends, my disability that I have causes my hands to not work as well as theirs, as well as my legs I can’t walk like them. So, while my friends got to do all the fun jobs, I just got to be ‘supervisor’ which means I would sit around and just watch while all my friends had the fun…. From then on, I rarely asked to be a part of any projects. Because I knew I would always get chosen last… I missed out on so much in my 12 years of school because of my disability and the lack of inclusion (not on the school’s part though) my school did an excellent job of including me as much as they could, and I’m very grateful for that. But now, I’m in my first year of college and it’s just the same again… Nearly forgotten, like I don’t exist, like I’ve faded into the back of the class, like I don’t even matter anymore. But they don’t understand. They just think I’m being dramatic or over exaggerating. There were some days that I didn’t want to go to school because I would just be ignored. Even though I am a really sociable person, I would wheel up in my wheelchair and ask people if they wanted to play, but they never did. And the people that did, probably did it out of pity because they saw how lonely I was. Even in college now, I still feel lonely… Despite how many friends I’ve made…. I just wish I wasn’t lonely… Thank you for letting me vent. I’ll go now.
To all the people who relate to this song, just sharing an itty bitty life story. I used to be this person, never talked my mind, was always ignored and felt alone even though I was very much present in the group. There were and still are till this day inside group jokes I ain't part of, there's memories I do remember with them and everyone just looks at each other wondering was she even there? Even tho I was 🥲 but once I grew out of my teenage, went to college and met new people I literally found my voice. I forced people to shut up and listen to me when I talked in class,(defending opinion in a literature/politics lesson) if my voice was too low or unclear I made it a point to work on my diction and volume a bit atleast for larger group settings. When walking in a group sure sometimes I still walk alone but other times I go pull someone behind to walk with me, in the process getting to know them. I just realized all my life when I kept blaming people for never approaching me and asking me (cause I'm too shy to share stuff about myself samne se) it was never their fault, they're not superhuman to know whats going on inside my head, I just needed to take that 2 steps towards them and they'd walk the remaining 2 towards me, that's all. I now openly speak my mind when I have something to share, other times I'm still silent but I feel like I am very much a part of the discussion. Anyone who relates to this and is a bit apprehensive about taking that first step, I'd say don't think about it just go for it. I'm not saying you won't fail a few times, I distinctly remember a few people who have made fun of umm my random manner of talking about stuff out of the blue, I took a lesson from it ofcourse but that person still thinks I'm a weirdo. That's the thing, not everyone's gonna like you, find about 10 people who sorta like you and then 3 who love you, you'll be sorted for life!
This may work for some, but it didn't work for me. Whenever I would try this someone would interrupt me or walk away. It's good advice, but may not work for everyone.
this happens to me I'm the top 10 most popular at school but at home it's different and I just wish someone would notice and would see how I feel and I have no real friends
Ive never related to a song so much.. listening to it just makes me realise how much my "friends" arent even my friends, its like a game that i dont want to play.. changing groups everyday just to find people who actually care abt me. Yet i never seem to find them, everyone leaves me eventually, its always me being left out of groupchats or parties or any sort of gathering, the only time people come to me to play out or anything of the sort, is when none of the other people wanna hang out.. im just a second thought to people, so.. thats my life. I havent told anyone about this really because.. well... no one cares, i mean i have told someone in the past, i told her how i felt left out and she laughed at me and said "Get over it, its not our problem." So i guess i dont like being shut down when im trying to fix things. I cant remember the last time i was genuinelh happy with a group of friends.. i guess i never had friends.. 😕👌🏻
Dang, I'm sorry. I'm always walking to the side in the grass or snow, and nobody tells me anything. I remember this one time where I was the only one who didn't know my friend and her boyfriend broke up. All my friends were like "Wait nobody told you? They broke up like a few months ago." There's also a bunch of other things they just forget to tell me.
I honestly don't think I've ever related to a song this much. Growing up, I always thought I was the only one dealing with this/ feeling like this. I'm so glad I found this song, but I wish had this song to listen to when I was younger
My birthday was about a week ago, three people sent me birthday wishes. Those three care about me. The people who call themselves my friends then say nothing to me about my birthday and my life are not friends. I know that now. Just cause you have known someone for 5 or 6 years that doesn't mean anything, if they don't care ❤
ive got 5 notifications on my birthday. One from a girl ive known for 13 years, but we are only mutuals now. One from a girl, who doesnt know that doesnt care at all, but we've been classmates for 8 years. And one from and another classmate of 8 years. The other two were from the Google Assistant and Team Snapchat
Kids and teens are mean. Once they become adults, believe me they mature and become more caring. Teens and kids just have a hard time showing love and affection and Gen Z is the most narcissistic generation so we’d expect that to happen
the words "ride my bike like all of us used to do" speaks to me soo much. I used to ride my bike with my neighbors all the time when I was little. I moved to a really hilly neighborhood when I was 10, and no one here rides bikes because of that. I still do, but I have a large enough driveway that's pretty level. Anyways, especially now that I'm homeschooled this year because of corona, none of my old friends hang out with me anymore cuz they're all in normal school. I was riding my bike earlier tonight just thinking about that. This song really helped, thanks.
@@kkbl7896 thank you! it's hard to meet new people and make new friends when you can't go anywhere. I'm looking into going to my grandma's neighborhood more often which is flatter and I can ride with my aunt and cousin, so that's a plus.
“Fast walk to the lunch table, and pack up before im ready to go” couldn’t relate more. This happened to me today. I always have to eat my food fast and get READY bc they randomly walk away from the lunch table. If im too slow, like today unfortunately, I get left and they don’t even know. I rush to get all my stuff in my backpack and take my lunch pale so I don’t get left behind.
The part where it says "I've been chosen last, since kindergarten". That one hits me in my heart. It actually happened to me ever since kindergarten, I know I'm different and I know that people tend to choose to not get involve with me but it hurts knowing that everyone have someone to be chosen but me. Now I'm in college the situation remains the same no matter what or how I try to change in myself. I like this song because I can relate to the feeling of always being left out by everyone on most of everything that surrounds me. I hope whoever saw this comment will feel much better. Don't forget that you aren't alone and that everyone who listens to this song relates to what you are feeling, we are all brothers and sisters no matter the blood, status and issues we have. We are on this world together. I hope that someday you can find someone who wholly loves and understands you to be able to walk beside them and not feeling left out.
I'd always listen to the tiktok version of this song before this was released... it's so relatable and I may or may not have cried listening. .....so relatable and it makes me sad. This song does let me feel I'm better myself as it makes me know that I'm not the only one... thank you...{Edit: I'm so happy now I can finally listen to this song on my spotify at school} Edit: So I've been playing this song with my earphones for 2 weeks straight at home, at school and it's been amazing to be able to hear the full version and btw I didnt expect the likes, thanks tho.. Edit: Woke up everyday to this song as my alarm. My day gets started fresh and it's been amazing with this song around me all the time.
@@tsukkehi5131 So, I live in a country where we proceed to the next grade on December. Not May or June. During quarantine, we did not have any tests because they are afraid we would cheat :(. But, they have allowed students to go back to school physically now and I'm in the second week, (I supposed?) And yea, I go back to school like the normal days, five times a week. I absolutely hate it because I lost my social skills over quarantine and ever since then I'd just text to talk to anyone other than my teachers, I do miss online class though. But if you're in the same situation as me, I dont think you would want to go back but I'm not sure about you-
@@weepwoop5280 I'm doing 2 days a week in school 3 days a week home school. Half the school goes Monday and Tuesday the other half Thursday and Friday. Wednesday is the cleaning day.
this comment is probably going to get lost in the sea of comments but that what I like about it. this song makes me realise just how lonely I am but at the same time it comforts me and I don’t feel so alone.
I remember first finding this song around 3 years ago(probably a few months after this video came out) and instantly loving it. I must have listened to it every day for a couple of months, and everytime i just found another thing i could relate to. But for some reason i eventually forgot about it and moved on to other music. I couldnt remember the name for the life of me, but i just finally found it again today and i could not be more grateful, because i think i relate to it more than ever now. Not to vent, but i just always feel like no one would really care if I disappeared one day. Im the one who comforts people when theyre at their worst, but as soon as they get up to their best, they abandon me. I constantly feel alone around my irl friends, and the only people i can really confide in are multiple hours away from me. I think this song perfectly encapsulates my feelings most of the time. So Sara if you ever see this your voice is beautiful and thank you for this song, it means a lot to me. And for everyone going through something similar, i wish you all the best. May you eventually find someone who cares about you just as much as you care about them :)
When your in the group but not *in* the group and take group photos and just laugh at their jokes but you put up with it because would rather be in a group that doesn’t care about and you just don’t want to be alone if that makes sense
Once, at our school social, me and my ‘friend group’ were going to take group photos, they asked me to take it and I said sure, thinking that I would be in one later- so I took the photo and then they took back the phone and ran away from me
Omg you literally discribed me. I dance and at our studio I met this girl and we became best friends super quick. Finally after like 4 or 5 years I realized that she only wanted to be my friend when she had no one else to hang out with. And yet I still hang on because I don't want to be alone
This just hits home so hard … Not even my teachers notice when I’m missing in class. Some people who’d been in my class still wouldn’t know my name after a year. I wonder actually what it is about me that it’s like that everywhere I go. Even if no one knows me there, I’ll still get to be chosen last or ignored even. There’s gotta be something wrong with me, not them.
Yea find someone who's worth it. Someone who's chosen last exactly like you. The silent one. I found the person to talk to, you can too! Find the people who are worth it and remember ur the best
I know exactly what you mean. I've always been chosen last because I never spoke at school. But even today when I'm actually verbal, just quiet at the beginning, I'm still the one who gets left out and no one recognizes.. even when everyone is new at someplace and there are other quiet/shy people as well, they'd choose them over me
hello there anyone who reads this 👋 I just wanna tell u I know how proud I am of u for being who you are, you're really great, I promise. I hope u know that God chose u first even if no one else does. Hang in there beautiful peoples, it's gonna get better ❤️
This hit... deep. For most of my childhood I was abused and one of my ‘friends’ would drag their long fingernails up and down my skin until I bled, as well as bullies and just... let’s just say lots of PTSD. I was a huge pushover, and a loner, with depression and y’know, that whole thing. I was hurt, but with the help of family and wonderful new friends I picked myself up and began to try and heal. I’ve been doing better... but every now and then I still see her beautiful face and I feel my scars... Thank you for this amazing song, it’s truly inspirational and I cannot express enough how much I relate to it. Thanks, And I hope that everyone who is out their struggling will eventually be able to heal. Love you all.
This is the reason I always wait when someone's tying their shoes while everyone moves ahead. I know what it feels like to have one leg sort of limping because the grass is lower than the sidewalk. I'm always forgotten, and that's why I know when people feel left out. I make them feel welcome because I care(although they don't care about me). (edit) Wow I totally forgot about this comment. Looking back on it, this was a really low point in my life. I'm so much better now. For anyone who sees this, you'll meet someone who values you and loves you. Someone who supports you and pushes you to be the best version of yourself. Someone you can be your authentic self around. I met that person. And then I met myself. I got to know myself and eventually I changed. I grew. I started seeing in color again. Keep going, dont give up, and don't give your heart or your time to someone who hurts you. Even if they "don't mean it." Don't settle for them. You deserve the best for yourself. Learn to love yourself. Even if it sounds corny, its the root of all confidence and healthy love. So wear what you want, do what you want, and keep your head up high. You can do it.
I know this is pretty late. But anyway There will always be a person like you forgotten. So get that person , they will talk to you when everyone gets away. They will be there for you. Cause you will be there for them
I know that this is a year late but thank you for just existing we need more people like you in this world I have always been the one left behind the one who walks on the grass instead of the path and I know that whoever you’ve done this to that it has made their freaking day it really means more than you will ever know ❤️
Felt this. I'm always there when they need me, I always make time to address their concerns but when I'm the one who needs them they're not there for me :( I found this song because I'm feeling sentimental tonight and I searched "A song for neglected" and here I am. High school has been hard for me.I find it hard to socialize and try things, I find it hard to cope with my extroverted and very talented classmates. These past years have been overwhelming and exhausting for me. I hope my hobbies can still keep me sane.
This hits one time my "friends" took a picture I wasn't even trying to be in it and then one of them said "hey can u move out of the way it's gonna be my wallpaper I don't want u in it" :(
Wishing for everyone here to one day be someone's first choice You know what we don't even have to wait let's be our own first choice You'll always have yourself
yeah you got a point but it really hurt when you think you got someone by your side but ended up you are left alone ignored.heyy let me give you a virtual hug :3
Welp something similar happened to me on Friday. My best friend left me for my crush and i felt like the bridge they stepped on just to get together :/ Im just tired of fake friends, they just use me for something else stupid
This song has had a deep place in my heart for so long. Something I related to so heavily. But upon listening to it again recently, I don’t feel such a way anymore. The pain I’ve been through and the feeling I know all to well are there in memory only. I’ve let more people into my heart but they have since decided to make a home there, making the best friendships I’ve ever had. They accept all of me and they all love me. I get told that I’m the life of the friend group and things are so different without me there. I still can’t believe it at times. It feels surreal and how fast the time goes by when I’m with all of them. I guess I just wanted to comment this because I am healing.
"I'd rather stay at home than show up and be ignored and alone". Every time I listen to this song, memories flash through my head of when these things have happened to me. I don't think I've ever related to a song this hard before.
I relate to this song so much like all of those lyrics are things that I used to think of and I could have written this song because it’s exactly how I felt all primary and high school... but I finally found a group of friends with who I feel included and they’re just the best friends ever and I could never thank them enought for being in my life ✨ It took me 16 years of life to found them, so don’t lose hope it will be your turn soon 🧚🏻♀️
Honestly though, that it so true. I actually have started calling myself everyone's second friend. Like when their best friends aren't around they will talk to me and act like we are best buds. But when their other friends come it's like I don't even exist.
@@wolfthewaffle I'm so so sorry to hear that, one day you are going to find some proper friends who love you for you because I'm sure your awesome and others are gonna see that 2. Things will get better I promise, keep your head up.
this song feels so wholesome and just warm and comforting, like sunlight on ur skin. but the lyrics are also just a bit sad yet comfortingly relatable in a way..
"inside jokes that i never know but i still laugh and cry group photos but Im standing off to the side Im just camera shy always at the birthday parties..... but never close to anybody.." Hits me so much this song brings so much emotion and like i can almost relate this song.. i get bullied im not close to anyone really im only close to family and some friends but i still feel left out sometimes
Just incase you forgot today, You matter . You are loved. You are worthy. You are magical. You are amazing. You are needed. You are talented. You are beautiful. You are brave. You are strong. You are smart. You are kind. You are perfect. You are a lifesaver. You are a hero. You are caring. You are sweet. You are a warrior. You are an inspiration.
Thank you. Quarantine hit me hard, and all I found comfort from was video games. The thought of what will come next terrifies me. I didn’t know it, but I needed to hear this badly. Thank you very much.
I remember when I saw your tiktok for this song, I was completely captivated by your voice, I forgot about this song until recently, I stayed up all night trying to find it, I’m happy now
Thanks, right now I'm ''the weird one''.Most of the time l just follow all my other friends around. I don't really mind, but it would be nice to have a group of friends that have all the same interest as me. l'm the only person that likes to draw, loves to read, Loves all things fantasy and still watch cartoons even though l'm technically a teenager. I have one best friend that shares all these interests, but she moved away recently (we still keep in touch and l cant wait to see her again). I have two other best friends and we have tons of fun together ,but we have become kind of distant, but l still love them.
I love this song. It describes my life and recently the one person who chose me first chose someone else and it’s been really hard for me. Thank you for making such beautiful and relatable music. ❤️
I only speak my mind when I’m angry or done with people, and I’d rather stay home all the time. I’m invited to parties but no one even talk to me lmao. The song I’ve been waiting for, so happy for the release, hope it blows up
All this song makes me think about is it would literally be perfect to have a Disney movie arranged around it. Like Disney is always about like princess movies or whatever I’ve never seen a realistic movie. This song gives me realistic vibes. A lot of peoples lives are like this I feel. And I feel that if Disney made a movie about being left out this song would fit perfectly in it.
I relate not only to the lyrics, but to the video too. I remember how I always walked outside on my own and just visited the usually empty playground and sat on the swing isolating myself from the world around by listening to music and just observing the nature, feeling the fresh air. I'm glad that now I have changed the way I look at the world and I've helped myself to crawl out of the shy kind of area and now I don't think I need friends to be happy. I started enjoying the time I get to be with myself, it's so healing to just rest in silence with yourself. I get exhausted pretty fast when I'm around people who call themselves my friends but they're just strangers to me who I go to because they call me to hang out with them. I never really feel like being in their company cuz I'm used to being alone now, and it's triggering to always receive the question 'why are you so sad? Or quiet' and it feels weird to repeat to them that I'm not sad, I literally tell them all the time that I'm just a thoughtful and quiet person rather than funny and loud. It feels like they hear me without genuinely listening. That's so frustrating sometimes lol...
This is so relatable, everyone takes me for granted and only talks to me or pays attention to me when it suits them, I’m always second choice and it’s usually only coz they don’t know who else to ask, I’ve gone from group to group trying to find my place and I feel like such a loser asking someone to go to lunch with them, no one seems to care about me no matter what they say and I don’t know what to do anymore. People don’t understand and all they say is “it’s not even that bad” so I just don’t tell anyone, not that they care anyways
I know what you mean... everybody says “it gets better” but I can’t wait forever. At what point do I take initiative rather than just hoping everything works out? I think the best friends are the people who don’t fit in and aren’t afraid to be themselves, or even the people left out because they don’t have a bunch of people constantly bugging them so they can always be there for you, and you can be there for them. I hope you find a good friend, everybody deserves some real friends, and I’m sorry if I’m bothering you with an unnecessarily long reply
Fairy Foal yeh, everyone says it gets better whilst they’re stood there with all their friends and they just don’t understand. You’re not bothering me with this reply, thank you
kassyneko I’m sorry about your friend and your seat mate. I get what you mean about the beauty of being alone, sometimes I prefer being alone, there’s no one to hide your feelings from, no stress on having to be someone you’re not and you can clear your head
