Death is not the enemy. Death guarantees life. They are opposite sides of the same coin. Yes, you fight the disease until you are told the battle is over and then you let go. Hospice is a great transition where you can meet some caring people who are there for you no matter what. True loving atmosphere . And love never dies as the wife’s story unfolds and reveals and the video and the memories are forever. The wife radiates such love. And I’m certain they both are very spiritual and there is a connection between them that can never be severed by the dropping of the finite body-form. They will meet when she crosses over and pick up where they left off. Love never dies. All love to all, Al
James was the perfect patient and Sarah raised 20,000 pounds for the hospice. A truly remarkable couple. The baths really do look like a whole lot of heaven-sent relief, so I hope that's where the money goes.
Aloha! May your husband Rest In Peace. I think hospice is a great thing! I’m glad it served you both so well. ❤️ My husband’s name is James also. Your James and I shared the same birthday, December 6th, except I was born in 1964. All the best to you!💚🌈😊
I find these videos quite hard to watch if I’m honest, I suppose it’s the fear someone I love will have to be in hospice and my fear is I won’t be able to be so strong when in the same shoes
Cat, I am going through this myself now. I have an incurable blood cancer and have relapsed soon after a bone marrow transplant, and I've been on chemo for 2 years but now I am running out of options. And one thing I would tell you, just in case you ever ARE in a similar situation (as you mention above), is please don't feel that you HAVE to be 'strong'. Please don't. You don't have to be strong. No one should be made to feel they have to be strong, or that those who remain 'positive' and 'strong' are in any way superior to those who cannot. You WOULD find your way, I promise you. Everyone does. But if I were to campaign on anything to do with language around cancer, before I die, it would be about NOT making people feel they need to be strong. Sending you and everyone much love.
