My wife and I has cried so many tears in the airports. She is Kenyan I am American, we are so happy we are finally coming together permanently in few weeks.
This made me so emotional. I know how you're feeling, even though you have them, that flight home is so hard. I'm currently in year 2 of long distance. He is moving to be with me this summer. Finally! Keep the positive vibes and know you will be reunited soon. Praying for you both ❤
Vuyo, how much time, do you need to go without him? It took me 5 years traveling every holiday I had in school to go see him to Tunisia; after 4 years of being friends, got married and I only saw him on vacations. It wasn’t up to me or him, it was up to the American government to issue his visa. Finally, the day arrived February 1, 2022, he came home to New Orleans, Louisiana. What did I do, to keep myself mentally sane? BUSY! I am a teacher, I have a big house (with big gardens)… I kept my house inside and out TIDY, made renovations, created a herbal garden, painted, kept my closets updated, served my community, prayed…I didn’t have the time to get bored or missing him! Of course,I missed him but we knew, we will be together! And remember the American Embassy in Tunis, made the impossible, for him not to come (his own people)hahahaha…. I just explained you my routine established in those kinds of relationships. Vuyo, you are young and can come up with something creative to fulfill that emptiness. How about creating an online business of any kind? Start with something, and you will see. Good luck to you in this endeavor❤️
Thank you for sharing your story, Vickie. Long distance relationships are difficult, and it is always helpful to hear the account of someone who has walked the trail and completed the journey. I also try to keep myself active; weekdays I spent working and studying because I am juggling university and work. Weekends are the most difficult for me since I want to go out but do not have many friends in Cape Town. I'm glad you were able to finally be with your husband; the government does not make it simple for two people who are in love and come from separate countries. If it were up to me, I would leave everything and go be with my hubby. You literally made my day, and stories like these give me hope. ❤️❤️❤️
A relationship is NEVER too long if you really love and committed yourself to another. My husband and I were 22 hours apart. Ours was an interracial relationship too. He was Scottish. We talked almost every night, even if was just to touch base. We finally married and I moved where he lived. We had 27 wonderful years together and a daughter. I lost him in 6 months to a brain tumor. All these years later he is always on my mind and in heart. He was the love of ny life. You don’t stop loving because one no longer is alive. I miss him, I still love him.
I am so sad for your loss. You have great memories that you have made together. Your tale is lovely and moved me. Sending you virtual hugs and lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
Just watched your video. I felt emotional😢. Have not been with my husband since we got married and he went back to America . Its been 2years now😢😢😢. Just here in Cameroon
😢so sorry about your fiancé's accident. We wish him a quick recovery! Please stay strong the both of you and stay loving each other till you're united for good. Wishing you well❤❤❤❤❤
You should reach out to Liz & Atti channel. They also were in a LDR for years and met up every 6months or so. U.K to Africa relationship. They are now together in the U.K. They will give you the strength and outlook you need.
I understand you well, am even crying coz am experiencing the same, am staying in South Africa and my hubby in Lesotho coz he haven't find a job (accountent) in South Africa...and its been 10yrs now even though He comes to me every 2nd week .... it's not easy i can tell 😢
Thank you for the vlog we know it’s hard dealing with your emotions and still film. You will be fine dear, praying that the distance is closed soon ❤🇿🇦
Hello my sweet friend yes I really enjoyed your video of you and your hubby so sweet of you both God bless you both 🙏❤❤ Am crying for you here in the USA Florida my friend 😊
I have just come across your channel and I've already subscribed, such an amazing God faring couple.grace will carry you through. Keep believing in God..❤
It's hard to leave the one you loved 😍 it's so heart broken 💔 and to say good bye so sad. Your love us all that will carry you both I'm happy for the two of you true ❤️ 😍
What are the both of you waiting for, you're both engaged just get married and save yourselves the emotional stress. Make up your mind and save yourselves the heartache. Peace and love ❤ to you both
🙋🏽♀️Hello Beautiful woman of GOD🙌🏽 this is my first time here and my heart hurts for you both 💔to have to be apart so much has to be very hard 😢. You both stay strong and faithful to GOD and each other and NOTHING can stop or pull apart what GOD himself has joined 💯✌🏽
Long distance relationships are the hardest and goodbyes are just so sad moments. I pray you all close this distance asap ❤. That’s a long layover wow 10hrs and sorry about his wrist hopefully he is much better and recovered
LDR is not for the faint hearted. Yeah I was exhausted, I slept throughout the flight when we took off to SA. He is recovering well thank you so much my love. ❤️
I know how that feels. I was to fly and be with mine over Christmas but it never happened. LDR can be tough but habg in there. Each time you feel low, try and think of thr sweet memories you shared. Soon you shall be together forever 🥰
Aaaawww 🥺❤️ im sorry that you couldn’t travel to be with your partner my love. I pray that you be able to see each other soon. ❤️ LDR is really not for the weak, thank you for your kind words. We cherish thr memories we’ve created. ❤️
You are so down to earth and i love you so much for that ❤❤. Congratulations on your special day. Even though you haven't mentioned it but I have seen it. This was your dream come true and the best trip 🎉❤❤❤👏 .
I know how you feel. Me and my now husband dated long distance for 3 years and that third year for me was so hard and distressing to my heart. But it was so worth it. The last visit he made to me we decided that I would move where he lived and find work there. I did and ended up working with him and we married 4 months later after my arrival. Now it has been 25 years and we have always work together. And there have been hardships but we had been through the hardest before with the distance that when they come we weather and are very happy.
You guys have been in long distance relationship for 4 years already engaged and u guys are still doing back and forth. Isnt it time to get married so u can settle with him permanently
Sorry about your hubby’s accident wishing him a speedy recovery. I went through that last week when I had to say goodbye to my daughter and grandson, I feel you sana. Emotionally you’re not okay but trust the Lord time will fly and be with him for good. Sending love 🥰 🤗
Thank you so much sis Ntutu ❤️ he’s recovering well. I’m sorry that you also experienced the same thing 🥺 goodbyes are not easy. We trust in the Lord that he will walk with us every step of the way. Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Vuyo for the wonderful vlog and slso for showing us how beautiful your trip was as eell as Germany snd Denmark everything of the best. It wa as if we were there in Germany your vlog is the best kerp up the good job and we ste waiting for our mkhenyana to marry you by April and you will be fine you have your family and friends just concentrate on your studies you eill see that will go fast❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am glad to hear that, Anne, and that you felt as if you were with me. We'll definitely be together soon nomkhwenyana🙂 once I finish my studies and complete what I still want to accomplish on this side. ❤️
Hi Vuyo I feel your pain because I've experienced this in the past and saying goodbye is never easy but when you guys get back into the calling and texting you feel better until next time. I am looking forward to seeing you guys together soon again. Take care.
You are absolutely right babe, we are already getting used to just seeing each other on the screen now again. Thank you so much my love ❤️ I’m also excited for the time we’re going to reunite again and never separate again 🙂.
Amen 🙏🏾 Thank you, Wendy; we trust that God will guide us through this journey. Sending you lots of love. Thank you for always leaving such lovely comments. ❤
Sistren,Many Blessings,here for you Always dear heart,and just try to remember that you'll see one another again. And the Beautiful moments that you two share when you are united. You have a Special and Annointed Union that cannot be broken and GOD will Truly strengthen you through the process. Love you dearly and You're forever in my heart and prayers Sistren. Blessings Dear 🙏🏾🌻
Amen 🙏🏾 we cherish those moments, and we truly do have a special bond. We trust in the Lord that he’s going to walk with us through this journey. Thank you so much for the powerful words. ❤️
Thank God for cellular phone to video and to chat compare to back in the days when you have to communicate by mail. Girl, let go and go with the flow that this is how it is for now so you can protect your health and enjoy meeting each other. Later when you look back at all you have to go through, you will say"It wasn't bad afterall.
Im the office crying watching this😢😭😭😭😢 and also can relate This is true love ❤ Its time to settle this once and for all.Let God lead so your move would easy.Sending you guys hugs ❤❤
I love you guys together and I’m wishing you a successful relationship, au it grow and mature into a successful marriage and you have a blessed family.
you need to use VPN for internet call, i hope it helps.....i feel you with the LDR challenges ,the feeling is so heavy to handle then again the relief when go back in to memories😍
