Screen Free Family Evening Routine // Winter 2023 //Family of Six

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One of the most common questions we get asked when we say that we became a screen-free family is, “What do you do in the evenings?” The evenings were the last part of our family life to go screen-free because it was really easy at the end of the day to cuddle up and watch a movie. We started to realize that this was 1-1 1/2 hours of every single night that we could leverage this time with doing things that we want to do. As a result, our evenings have become a lot more restful and enjoyable, consisting of things we want our children to have memories of growing up.
For all the things that are a part of our evening routine - dinner, clean up, Bible, singing and reading time - we are looking at it more than the activity itself. We, of course, love reading the Bible; however, the child training that takes place during that time, the heart strings that are tied with our children and the relational growth that takes place are all perks to each part of our routine. Think of the big picture! We are growing in patience and the children in discipline!
Our whole family really looks forward to this special time we have together each night. We would encourage you to put in the effort and get the momentum on your side of starting a family evening routine. It’s going to be hard in the beginning to get everyone on the same page, but once they know what to expect, they keep you accountable and look forward to it.
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00:00-2:40 - Intro
2:40-5:45 - Dinner & Cleanup
5:45-15:45 - Bible, Singing & Reading Time
15:45-17:40 - Purpose of Our Routine
17:40-20:32 - Bedtime
20:32-22:23 - Closing

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@seasonalliving2881 Год назад

I wish more men were enthusiastically involved like this man. The Lord has blessed this family.

@pennyandlionel Год назад

You both clearly had amazing parents, and now you get to be amazing parents to your kids. What a blessing 🙌

@annproduction Год назад

Believe me. Can be very different. I had no love at home and now I am breaking generational traumas and curses with very loving and caring home. It could be, but not every time ❤️

@oursweetiebirdshome Год назад

It is SO wonderful to see other young families go against the flow of what is “normal.” You are both such wonderful parents! ❤️

@bethany3885 Год назад

I love when the Lord gives you a desire in your heart and then provides wonderful resources like your channel to bless, encourage and give some resources and direction how to execute that desire. Thank you both for your work and effort to strengthen the body of Christ in how we make the most of the time the Lord gives us with our family in the home. 💕🙏

@jessicacarlson347 Год назад

You said what I was feeling much better than I did! 😂 thank you!

@kaylinworthington Год назад

So refreshing seeing parents who actually know how to parent and who have a growth mindset! I hope to find a man with whom I can do a similar thing for our kids 🥰

@suestephan3255 Год назад

You know what you want in a spouse and so does the Lord. When they both align trust they Lord for it.

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

We don’t have any TVs. We read the Bible and do family worship at supper. Everyone is at the table until we are all done. Afterwards we all help clean. One clears dishes, one sweeps, one washes the chairs….etc. We play worship music while we do it. Sometimes I will play music on the guitar or ukulele while we clean.

@breannawilliams389 3 месяца назад

Your podcast and RU-vid videos have been the #1 contributor to my journey into screen-free parenting! Now in also trying to transition into my own screen-free lifestyle as a mother. BUT, I use RU-vid pretty frequently at night for cooking inspiration and meal recipes. I also post stories about the kiddos. Do you ever regret losing those moments? Or not sharing those moments? I have been praying for God to shift my priorities if it is not His will for them to be posted.

@elizabethbrink476 Год назад

Thank you for clarifying the expectations when starting a routine and how often the routine is! Small details but so helpful to not feel like we’ve failed! 😂

@cozetteoconnor1289 Год назад

Yes exactly! When watching something like this on social media that is SO appreciated!

@laurenelizabeth8095 Год назад

I just adore every video y’all share ☺️ our family is first generation homeschoolers (neither my husband or I have been homeschooled) and I’ve been so encouraged by the joy and love, so present in y’all’s home. Thanks for sharing your family routines, training, and teamwork!

@Brigitte695 2 месяца назад

I started my screen free journey about a week ago and I don't regret it one bit. My house is way more peaceful and I know that with God's help this will bring us more close. Screens devid families they bring so much chaos and confusion.

@jijabenjamin7637 Год назад

I recently came across your channel. The first one I was about your Sabbath prep! And I knew this would be a Christian channel... And the rest is history (I mean like love at first sight kinda thing) I went through the precious Q and A videos and screen free family video and many other. I could also introduce to my hubby. Needless to say, Katie and Elisha you're such an inspiration to lead a beautiful Christian family! Love from Vellore, TN, India.

@vidhyakoshy9700 Год назад

Jija Benjamin, How thrilling to find someone from Vellore interested in Sabbath prep! Please, are you SDA or Messianic?

@beccal4718 Год назад

First generation homeschoolers and Christians too! So we are trying our best to forge the way of new family habits & heritage with our littles. Thanks for your content I love your channel

@samzman9 Год назад

I love this. We have kids all the way up to 14 and activities feel like they have taken over our evenings. I wanted to watch this for ideas on reclaiming our evenings.

@eline1983BR Год назад

Eline from the Netherlands here, I’m so very blessed by your channel. Thank you so much, it gave me the right inspiration to take on the right proactive attitude as a mom again.

@nyssaramirez3715 Год назад

I love this evening routine idea!! As a family we are studying the new testament this year and hope to study in the evenings together. This has given an idea of what we can do to make it more regular and also, more family centered. I also love the idea of child training! My kids have a very hard time at church.

@slee7991 Год назад

Could you do a video on how to get newborns/infants to nap during the day similar to your baby sleep videos I find so encouraging!

@SaraKiene949 Год назад

Love this!!❤

@KathyHutto Год назад

I love your evening routine with the kids! Meaningful! 😊

@jijabenjamin7637 Год назад

Wow thank you for this video!!

@nika... Год назад

That was beyond valuable, thank you!

@jessicacarlson347 Год назад

This video is a blessing! So many great pointers and heads on with my goals. Thanks so much!

@carlamera1509 Год назад

Praise God for you guys! Thank you for the toddler training part 😁😁😁 needed it!

@nitapalacios4968 Год назад

Beautiful, Amazing Family!!❤❤❤

@wifesmommyslife3315 Год назад

This is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing! At first it seemed like what can be screen free and relaxing at the same time? But this did look really engaging and restful! Thank you for showing it’s possible! I look up to you guys! Currently my 4 boys mostly just play rough and run around and we have prayer time before bed, but I want to incorporate more regular bible time and enjoy evening together not separately after dinner. Thanks again! Blessings!

@wifesmommyslife3315 Год назад

I also wanted to add I love that this is an intentional family training time to sit or to show what they learned. We need more training to sit as well without being silly or interrupting with good manners. This prolonged reading time is a good excercise! Now to just get past the training and not give up😅

@maddiebarry5546 Год назад

Amazing insight to your evening routine! Thank you so much for sharing 😌

@deangelahunt330 Год назад

Thank you for dropping all these gems 💎

@CreamyObsession Год назад

Thank you for sharing this! Will look forward to integrating some of these tips into our family routine. Evenings are often the loudest and most stressful here and creating a restful environment like this really is key. God bless you guys!

@amyd4797 Год назад

I loved this so much! Best evening routine I’ve ever heard. Thanks for sharing!

@imaginator2635 Год назад

Aww, it’s so nice to see other families practicing family worship as well♥️

@sarajohnson9030 Год назад

Thanks for taking the time to explain the training/relational aspect behind why you implement these routines. I learned so much. Thanks for sharing!

@MrRachele123 Год назад

Thank you! God bless you ❤️ you are beautiful family

@annym.8880 Год назад

Thanks for this. I love when you share together! Hug from Europe

@MrNickilynn121 Год назад

Thanks for sharing. You’re family is such an example for people!

@NikkiSchumacherOfficial Год назад

Thank you for sharing. We’ve been living in a camper for like a year since hubby was fired for not getting the glitter but he switched to claims adjusting so we travel full time in airbnbs and can get back to our screen free life again.

@darunile836 Год назад

So great advise God bless you

@capricebachor7632 Год назад

This is so encouraging and a great template to pray over and see what parts would work for our family to add into our Bible time. Thank you!

@play4alley Год назад

Wow, beautiful family, thank you so much for sharing. God bless 🙏

@5674Kc Год назад

absolutely love this... I also was excited to hear you mention Mary Cecily Barker; I grew up listening to a lullaby album that put her flower fairy poems to music. I couldn't wait to share that with my kids .

@meganrichter9748 Год назад

I love learning how you work together to get everything done and build such great relationships with each other and the kids! I've been fearful about being good enough as a mother, but seeing how you do it is so empowering and I am so excited for the day when I get to start a family of my own 🥰

@faithiseverything777 Год назад

Love the way she looks at him. 💜 so in love and beautiful family. Such inspiring I know God gave me the opportunity to find your channel. I'm so blessed by it. Thank you both.

@krissysedlak7490 Год назад

this conversation is such blessing for me as someone who does have perfectionist mindset.

@Gracieinspired Год назад

Wow I loved this ❤! The recitations are such a great idea and I love that it also teaches them the word but also confidence, speech, and public speaking skills. I’m definitely taking notes and implementing a lot of these amazing tips. Thank you for this blessing ❤

@pattihawks353 Год назад

Screen Free evening, nice! Good for everyone!

@AdventureSMBW Год назад

This was beneficial. Thank you!

@RuvarasheManyange Год назад

This is ministry and thank you for inspiring us all , I can't wait to implement this with my future husband and kids . May God bless your family

@marie-louiseweerheim4224 Год назад

Inspiring! I like the snack. "Your Word is sweeter than honey...".

@ourwholesomehome4967 Год назад

Love this! Also, total random side note: Digging the new streamlined style you guys created for the video content. Looks polished and has a very inviting feel. The instructive content surrounding the Christian fam is also great and super practical- can totally see this being a lifelong ministry for you two!

@jasminpou-reed9238 Год назад

Awesome video. This how I visualize a family. More and more videos please. Great example

@ourblissfulhaven Год назад

Such a beautiful family! Thank you for sharing! I really enjoyed watching! We do have tv’s but typically watch 30-60 mins as a family. I have a list of a ton of clean movies. As a full-time working mommy who homeschools, this helps me to just relax. However as a believer, I just love how peaceful and loving your family time is together during Bible reading and worship! Praise God! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Beautiful! ❤️

@travelguidenc Год назад

Please share that list!

@nicolacassano3248 Год назад

E molto bello quello che fate,un giorno i vostri figli vi ringrazieranno.Dio vi Benedica, vi scrivo dall'Italia.🙏

@LaRosaDelMusgo Год назад

This Looks so peacefull and wholesome. Great advice: I really start implementing parts of your advice in our faimilylife of 5 here in Germany. Thank you so much!

@florencejoy5209 Год назад

Hii i am from germany too. Moved to Canada. Nice to see germans with the same priorities.

@93pianissimo Год назад

Ich bin auch ohne Fernseher und Handy aufgewachsen. Und es tat uns allen gut. Heute wird man mit allen Müll im Fernsehen und Internet beworfen dass man seinen eigenen Weg kaum ebnen kann. Ich danke euch dafür dass ihr das mit uns teilt. Ich freue mich dass es solche tollen liebevollen Eltern gibt deren Erziehung wirklich am Herzen liegt und danach strebt was Gott gefällt. Alles Liebe und viele Grüße aus Deutschland.

@faithbenedict7823 Год назад

This was reminding me of the little house books and then sure enough, you're reading the little house books! Hahaha

@Bodypiercingsavedmylife Год назад

G’day guys, I’m here cause my wife told me about your channel. Enjoyed watching about your night routine. Thanks for sharing.

@myahgormley9788 Год назад

Nice that you and your wife both watched. God bless you two and your family!

@alward599 Год назад

Very refreshing to see such a wholesome family which I believe is rare. Can you touch on the no pajama concept?

@wellhavenco Год назад

I was curious about what "they don't sleep in pajamas" meant, too? do they just wear the clothing they've been wearing all day?

@heatherann8085 Год назад

First generation homeschoolers over here as well and even though Ive been homeschooling my 9 year old since preschool your channel is still such an inspiration! Could you share where you got your dress from?! I love it! Noticed someone else from the comment section also asked

@dinalu9516 Год назад

Katie and family great videos. Thank you. Just wanted to check and see how your parents are? Haven’t seen them post videos on their channel for a long time…

@brittanyjude647 8 месяцев назад

I need alllll the toddler training help 😅 more videos on that would be so helpful.

@chelseapercy4144 Год назад

I grew up in Bonners Ferry! Even farther north. Haha! You are living in the area I call home. I hope you love it there! I’m all the way across the country raising my family in Vermont now. My brother lives in CDA though!

@cozetteoconnor1289 Год назад

I love this channel :) and my son's birthday is February 6th, too, and he will be 2 years old! I was surprised how well he sits still! My son would be grabbing the guitar and joining in on the speaking- I need him to learn how to sit still and wait.

@janinekienbacher5329 Год назад

That's probably only because he is learning from his older siblings. He sees that they sit and listen so he wants to copy them. My 3 year old can sit still for 10 minutes maximum :D

@nancybutler2024 Год назад

This is like a dream. I have 2 young kids and would love to do this. However my husband is very far from God at the moment (and has been for about 5 years). It is so difficult to try things like this with him. I get a lot of push back. He loves his TV and every night wants the kids to just sit with him and watch it till bedtime. Please pray for us.

@mkly9968 Год назад

Maybe Fascinating Womanhood can help!

@stephaniel678 10 месяцев назад

Prayed for you.

@susanagiesbrecht1320 Год назад

Wow I didn't know this still Existed, haven't family time like this.

@mariami2670 Год назад

❤❤❤❤❤

@snowymountainmama Год назад

Thank you both so much for sharing this with us and for your time! It is incredibly encouraging and I have been so blessed by your channel. I’ve thanked God several times for placing your content in my path as it came at a very needed time.

@bethany3914 Год назад

Do you have a list of good hymns for kids to learn? Thanks so much for this!

@HappyHikers Год назад

I love your dress!!! Where is it from? It looks to be linen!

@rachelscott909 5 месяцев назад

Love these ideas! Do you have a list of all the books you love as a family?

@ninochkaru Год назад

Very encouraging! Thank you! Could you please share the names of books you read to your kids?

@PrettySunShines Год назад

I would love to know about recitations where to find them and how do you do them? We were a screen free family until the pandemic hit...and it went from us being outdoors and having fun to indoors and on the screen...the pandemic ended but the screen time didn't. So I found your channel and even though my kids are older, the youngest is 8 and my oldest is 14 I am learning a lot from you guys and also I am remembering how we were prior pandemic...it gets harder when the kids get older and they want to do their own thing...I miss sooooo much when my kids were your kids age...Please enjoy it, love it, keep your eyes open because in a blink of an eye it is over...teens are a totally different beast! haha...I love you guys already.

@zararoberts5278 Год назад

Have you or can you do routine videos for the other parts of the day. Love this and gave me so many ideas and tips to implement.

@hannahl1092 Год назад

Second this idea!

@BrOoKiEcOoKiEcUtIe Год назад

Agreed!

@AK-bg8vd Год назад

Could you make a video about meal related stuff? picky eaters and the like

@Dana-mb1hd Год назад

This video is so inspiring and encouraging to me as a mama thank you both🙏💖🙏

@zhivem.druzhno Год назад

Wow

@jenniferwalizer724 Год назад

We just our first screen free day. It was eye opening and not as hard as I thought it would be.

@nowthatimamother Год назад

Woohoo!!!

@jackfeng3351 Год назад

We are in the same boat

@shautelpacker5918 Год назад

I love this! But what do you both do once the kids go to bed? Do you spend time together? Have me time? And what do you do together? I feel like once my kids go to bed I don’t know how to spend quality time with my husband so we both spend time on our phones.

@taylorferrell8308 Год назад

Thank you for this video! This is what my hubby and I do with our 4 littles as well it has been such a blessing. Wanted to ask what you do on sick days? That is when I pull out the movies but kind of wonder if there is something better to do

@annarocha3254 Год назад

I view movies as a strategic tool. They are not the enemy, nor should they replace real, quality time with your kids. But on sick days they are the BEST item in my toolbelt. Haha

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

@@annarocha3254 I agree. It is a tool, not a nanny. If we use it sometimes, that is fine. If it is watching your kids for significant amounts of time, issues may be there. But sick days…have at it.

@robinwiafe4438 Год назад

Can you talk more about how you train the youngest to sit ? Do you just require him to sit in your lap when the story is being red and if he runs away do you just pick him right back up and have them sit on your lap I’d like to know a little bit more about that so I can help my son thank you

@brittanyjude647 8 месяцев назад

I’d like to know more about this too! It sometimes gets to be a not so good association when I’m having to discipline them for jumping on the couch or being loud etc while daddy is trying to read. How to train them to be respectful & to sit & listen. How long did you read from the Bible in the beginning to keep it fun & a positive association for 4yo, 3yo, 18month old. I’ve watched all the obedience training videos you’ve put out and still need more help understanding some things 😅

@yellowyosh470 Год назад

What do you recommend when you & your husband are not on the same page with this? How do you figure out a way to build a family together if you both come from different family environments that breed different philosophies? Me & My husband have the same core values - and we got married and realized (despite extensive discussions - I guess some things just don't come out until later xD) that we have different opinions on how to implement those core values into our life and our family. Any advice commenters?

@Emebirhan34 Год назад

Thanks for sharing!! Can you guys explain how you deal with life without a smart phone? Particularly gps?

@cozetteoconnor1289 Год назад

Remember that before phones had GPS- people used specific mounted GPS devices in their cars that do that one thing. Or... A physical Map 🤣 it won't have the updated software all of the time but pilots with small planes still use it

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

They have screens. How do you think they edit the videos? They just don’t use screens for their family.

@HomemakerOnAnAcre Год назад

Hi! Mama of 9 almost 10. We read every morning a portion of old new and psalms etc. It's hard to keep the focus of the littles so I like the snack idea. How long are you actually reading!? I feel like I may be trying to read too much ( with Bible in a year) I have ages 18 months to 12 years. Thanks I'm for the inspiration to quit screens at night🤗

@HomemakerOnAnAcre Год назад

Ok I should have just kept watching haha. You just answered my question♥️

@dianamarcelab1087 4 месяца назад

Can you share the book that you read with your daughter before bedtime ? Thanks

@jmljasmine Год назад

I'd love to do this but my husband is so use to screens and it's his default. He really isn't on board

@laurens8623 Год назад

How do both cope out of routines. Like if HS said one week just be out of structure

@kaitlync15 Год назад

Random question - bath time ? I feel like that takes up a big portion of our night

@Katy_living_simply Год назад

For us since it's colder now we do bath time every other night. And we don't have any toys or fill up the tub. On the Sabbath after a muddy day outdoors is when we let them have a long soak and play in there for our boys 3 and 4 years old. But during the week that's too much time plus trying to drag them out of there Also having everything you need where you are going to put the Pajamas on (like qtips, lotion, and brush) really makes everything go smoother than having tonfind everything while they wait impatiently. We also brush their teeth in the tub so it's easier than chasing them around. Just some of our tips.

@laurens8623 Год назад

Where so you live so north? I live in Norway and it's about dark here Oslo 330pm

@HKrisher11 Год назад

What church do you guys attend?

@kelseahoff1908 Год назад

Did you say your kids don’t sleep in pajamas?

@ashleyhatch3906 Год назад

You guys are such wonderful examples! Please look at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We have a program for this at our church called Come Follow Me.

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

It is for freedom Christ set us free. LDS is offering a works salvation. Christ’s death on the cross and his resurrection are sufficient!

@biancaswinkels4346 Год назад

Where do you live so far North? ✨

@jmljasmine Год назад

What are your or anyone's thoughts on the reading time with ADHD.

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

Can you look in to gut reparation and help it?

@BitBard302 8 месяцев назад

This content is top-notch. I read a similar book that was truly outstanding. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze

@bedar6961 Год назад

Pls watch Sensus Fidelium, Dr Taylor Marshall, the One True Faith @Church Militant

@paulacopier9455 Год назад

I wanted to listen to you but due to the music i could not. Why use annoying music? The words are important.

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

Watch longer, it’s not there the entire time.

@bedar6961 Год назад

Please find a Traditional Catholic Tridentine Mass. Get baptized there, the only Church founded by Jesus Himself on the Cross in AD 33. I will be praying for you. You are 2 special people, become Saints

@jennprescott2757 Год назад

Nah, the reformation got it right. Catholicism denies the sufficiency of Christ’s atonement.