self improvement is failing women 

This is a very important message to spread. Excited to see your growth ahead

Protect this woman at all costs. She seems understands what most ppl don't.

I'm so glad someone is speaking up about this. I have been in desperate need of a womens self improvement space online, its good to see someone take the initiaitve. As much as I enjoyed Hamza's conent and mental health advice, the manosphere just isn't built for us haha. I wish you great success with your channel 🥰🥰

A woman shouldn't give up their dreams or what G-d intended for them because some people think it's masculine. We all have feminine and masculine sides. I think I am emotional, nurturing, artistic yet have creative and intellectual aspirations that doesn't make me a man lol.

we need someone to teach women how to be feminine - and not confuse it with masculinity

Yes. One of the key is to understand our nature. Going against our nature is almost impossible or should I say detrimental and will create a dissonance in our soul at some point. I'm a man and love your content, and will recommend it to my sister!. Glad to see poeple like you with such a speech appear. The worlds need it.

Shout out to all the ladies on feminine self improvement, you lot are a rare kind in this day and age

I’m a young man on self improvement and I’ve recently thought a lot about how there’s not a lot of self improvement type content for women out there. I have a hope masculine men are making a comeback but we also desperately need truly feminine women. Keep up the message and keep on inspiring 💪

I found this video out of curiosity as to what female improvment community looks like, and this was the first video that popped up. My gf needs a good source of support to help her improve where she needs and i feel i cant speak to her, as our issues are viewed through very different lenses. Ita good to hear this short message, it gives me hope. Best wishes ladies.

Going down a rabbit hole of your content. I love the way you speak!!

We're all a blend of masculine and feminine. Getting too caught up in wanting to be more of one or the other is not authentic and is leading people in the wrong direction. Let's live and let live, and perhaps leave labels about others at the door.

As a woman who is very much in touch with her femininity, I resonate with your message completely. So refreshing to see content like this. Sending much love your way x

i got curious if theres any women version of self improvment, turns out there is, not alot but still there is. hope you teach many young women and guide them, may god protect this woman and women like her.

We need so much more female self improvement like yours and especially those being put in the high lights.

You make female self improvement sound so boring

Appreciate you drawing the attention to how valuable feminine energy can be. There's a lot to gain from us actually exploring those elements of ourselves rather than trying to irradicate them in fear of looking weak or unsuccessful to others. I think there's room for masculine qualities in a woman, but it's important to keep some of your femininity too. There's a lot of power in doing that.

Just found your channel and I can't stop watching! Very refreshing to find a channel on self improvement for predominantly feminine women. So happy to see women on youtube stepping up and spreading such an important message! Your energy is so addictive and utterly wholesome. Keep it up!!

I'm the only guy here I'm just curios how self improvement for women in women perspective I just here to understand women to help me improve also as a man.

You are correct. I used to follow those popular youtube videos on self improvement. They made me masculine and it didn't feel good. I felt like there was something wrong within me. I used to believe that by being though and masculine will make me powerful and happy. I felt like it was not me. So, I stopped following them and tried to be me. When I started to embrace my feminine nature, the soft hearted and kind women within me came out. Now I admit that as a woman, I have feelings and I express them in a very respectful manner. When I changed into a feminine women, I received the love I deserve and people started to respect me more. Keep going girl! We need someone like you to teach what a beautiful and peaceful thing femininity is.😊❤

You are really wise, love to hear your point of View, i hadnt really thought much about that before

I've never heard a woman who's into self improvement talk like you. Respect

Hey i was watching to Hamza that there is almost no woman self FEMINIME improvement chanels and i think i found one and even hamza comented on it

Great video again! Women who are over/hyper masculine are just so big turn offs and I know 99% of the guys agree with me. As you said that masculinity and feminity are compleatly differend but still connected. Masculinity just has the benefit that it’s easier to see the piwer/ strong traits because we men are simple and direct creatures when compared to women who tend to be less direct have strong feminity traits but they are harder to see. Women who are caring, positive, true to themselfs and have knowledge what they can do the best and what they can’t do so well. Women who can take care of their men are the strongest ones because men cannot do shit without women. In nutshell women couldn’t be running the hard infrastructure and all the very physically hard work areas as good as men and thats OK. But if there weren’t women men couldn’t do it either because the same way when women need a man to do something physically hard work (strong trait) the same way men need someone to take care of them when they get physically or mentally hurt (strong feminity trait). It’s so sad to see that some women see ”caretaker role” an area were women are multiple times better than men is for some reason weakness.

I'm So Happy Someone Is Finally Talking About Feminine Self Improvement. Wish You All Of Luck.

I think there are many feminine self improvement channels on RU-vid. They don’t necessarily title their videos ‘self improvement’ but they are absolutely there. They more likely title their videos with feminine topics like talking about cycling syncing, polarity between the masculine and the feminine in relationships, homemaking/cleaning/cooking/fashion topics etc.

one video 🥹🥹 with a woman 🥹 thank u i am so grateful for you i- all of the self improvement videos or content in general its all by men targeted for men and im grateful for them ofc but it kind of overwhelms me because im not a guy 🥹 even though i can still apply the same teachings to my life its kinda disheartening because self improvement is very much associated with masculinity thank you so much🙏😭

I see this on the men’s side but not the woman’s

Just seen your comment on another channel. So checked out your video. You are on point. Subscribed.

Self improvement is very much a mating strategy. For men it can be a useful tool to increase chances at mating success. For women it's almost completely useless in that regard as they can successfully mate at any level of self development, no matter how low.

Refreshing video Jamie. About 90% of the girls/woman I come across in my daily life are more masculine than feminine. Coming from someone who is more aligned with his male drive, I find this extraordinarily unattractive and frustrating, to say the least. And don't even get me started on with the men these days. We definitely live in a gynocentric society nowadays. If you made a more masculine type of video, like the RU-vidrs you mentioned, you would probably get more views, but that's certainly not needed. Great video by the way.

How did you manage to do a complete 180 from blue haired liberal to sensible and traditional woman by the age of 19? The "down with the patriarchy" attitude doesn't normally wear off for women until they realise they are 35, childless and depressed.

this gave me a different perspective about self improvement 💖

i agree! i'm a woman seeking to improve herself, and i've only ever seen men's self improvement content. so naturally, i turn to that as it is my only option. there's a huge need for a female-centric self improvement community. i'd love to see more of that going forward. with modern feminism, many women are pushed to be overly masculine, for fear of showing weakness. i understand the intent, but i find it saddening. femininity is beautiful, and i embrace it wholeheartedly. for a healthy state, there must be a balance of masculine and feminine, the latter being what we should focus on most in this day and age.

I like your videos you do great 🌹🌹that's the problem female try to be male or male try to be female, but for me I believe that women and men can work together can complete each other, can each one of them do their role in this life ,not to simulate each other 🙁.

I can completely agree with what was said about AR self, she did recommend me a few self improvement channels that I have used and liked since then but other than that I stopped watching her because her videos came across as masculine and even in her Discord server majority of people there are guys. No hate towards her though ofc, she did guide me towards channels like Jill who have really helped me since.

What benefit will you provide to a man in a relationship after you've experienced some "improvement"? Does it involve getting a "better man"?

I’m so glad I found you

I was watching some of your other videos and I think that you're really smart and I don't know for certain if you think it's a bad thing that the girl you posted in the video wants to be masculine but I personally think that it's awesome that the girl wants to lift weights and be the rich girl in the relationship, more power to females in my opinion. If what you are saying is that by this girl lifting weights she isn't really working on her feminine spirit then I agree with you completely, but she is working on her masculine spirit and I think that can be a great thing and I wish more women would go out there and dominate over men more because I think it would make them more powerful and it would make me happy to see women receive more equal treatment in various ways that men get it, but also truly for the reason that they earned it, fought for it, and rightfully have earned it by going out there and taking it. To be honest you kind of aroused a strong energy within me because I take it kind of personal and here is thebreason why. I consider myself to be a femboy and when I embraced my feminine side I have become so much more powerful, happy and stronger in general because when you truly know yourself it makes you strong, and it make you undefeatable and like a rock. And there are lots of ignorant men out there that would like to say I am weak because of my feminine side but I have experienced that to be very untrue.... and that is just speaking from my own personal experience.

This is so true!

What a disappointing message. Women should be whatever they dream of being, and we should not avoid “emulating the success of our male counterparts” in order to avoid “burnout and deep dissatisfaction in life”. Why does every self improvement video seem to be so obsessed with femininity and masculinity? Instead of actually looking deep into ourselves? No matter where I look on RU-vid for self improvement, there is only male content for attracting women and female content for emulating feminine traits / criticizing masculine traits. There is such an overwhelming obsession with gender and matchmaking that the actual discussion of self improvement seems to never happen. At what point in any of these videos does any ACTUAL advice get mentioned? Rather than putting ourselves in a historically defined box in hopes to attract a mate. How sad.

What a fantastic video. I subscribed.

Well. It's hard to find women like you, who understand their role in this social world. You have my respect.

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thank you so much for this video Jamie! do you have any book recommendations for nurturing our feminine energies, or just self improvement in general? :) x

Im a 14 year old girl on self improvement. Your channel is a diamond among pyrite. PS: yk your content was legit when hamza commented lol

Mashallah love your video. Are you on any social media at all?

She’s beautiful

This is an amazing video!

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First video of yours I have watched and I am completely in love

good video!!

Respect jamie

I think what u got wrong is that womens self improvement is not branded as “self improvement”. Naming ur videos self improvement is something that guys seek whereas girls look for more specific search terms. Why do I know this? Because I’ve been watching more videos on skincare, hair care which is all predominantly made by woman RU-vidrs. I’ve been getting recommended a lot of great woman RU-vidrs who talk about self improvement concepts, except the titles are more girly in the sense that they’re more thought provoking and cute

I want to develop my lil sister and a female student. Following you. Hope you will share the necessary tips

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Keep it up! I will ask my future gf (wife) to watch your videos