Sex Container :: Relationship Goals (Part 6) 

TheMakeupMind you’re not alone, babe! I’m 29 and I’m yet to have sex. I will do so when it only glorifies His name inside the confines of matrimony.

TheMakeupMind You are not alone. I often feel like I am alone, but it is nice to know I am not. I am 27 and have not either. That is a topic that I feel makes some guys run for the hills, but the one God has for us will respect our decision whole heartedly. I have learned to truly believe this.

TheMakeupMind That is a blessing! Don't listen to your friends or the enemy trying to make you feel like you are missing something. Coming from someone who is not a virgin. I understand why God says in the word "do not awaken love until it time."

TheMakeupMind I applaud you for your decision. It’s honorable! It shows that IT IS POSSIBLE to wait (despite what pop culture says).

Same her girl. I can relate.

Yes you will in the name of jesus.

Amen sis! Me too! In the Mighty name of Jesus!

Amen me too

Amen

Beautifulsoul I will too

Beyond Podcast 😂😂😂

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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Best person(God) to chill with.

Lol LET EM KNOW ! Straight up 🤣

Yessss! Lol

sabrina drakes Yea, this is really inspiring.

its like God was like listen here Lorraine, we are going to address it today! This man says it as is and is so current and Now... God's standard does not change but society and the world has so we need to teach the truth and practically address it.

sabrina drakes hahahaha that's me every time I listen to Ps Mike lmao

Guuurrrrllllll.......... yes!!!!!!

GIIIIRRRLLLL!!!! 🤚🏾

I sooo agree

Amen!

Niyonzima Ephrasie Amen!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

This would of saved so many ppl man because no one talked about!!

Niyonzima Ephrasie in

Embrace your singleness and spend quality time w yourself. Be kind to yourself and do good things for you. Do things to make yourself proud. If you do, you will be so blessed and get the most out of your season of singleness.

Summer Rain thank you sooooo much. 😫❤️

Same here girl! It is super neat how God even provides a series like this in our lives at the perfect time when we need it !

Rydiah Rho WOW this was literally me at 19. If a nice guy comes along don’t comprise your relationship with God for him. I wish I could go back and tell my 19 year old self that. I hope and pray you’ll have strength in Christ throughout your new journey 😊

I got broken up with by my first love and first everything 3 months ago. Before meeting him, I was sure that I wanted to wait to have sex until marriage, but I quickly gave in after meeting him. Throughout the 2 years of our relationship, we were acting like we were married. I slept at his place every night and had sex. I ignored that I knew that I was doing wrong. Now, I regret being so foolish. I regret not putting my foot down and letting myself do what I did. I regret having sex and losing my virginity outside of marriage. Now i’m left with a very strong soul tie to this person, and breaking it has been so hard. Like I said it’s been 3 months but I still feel so immensely sad. Today I cried about 10 times. This series definitely does help. I have now decided I will not sleep with any man again until I get married.

God bless you, and don't let nobody make you feel bad

❤❤❤❤❤

So proud of you!!!

@@Zacdahwac thank you 😊

Turning 21 and still am. You're 35 now that's amazing!

Amber Jackson you shouldn’t feel this way if you’re truly sorry and ask for forgiveness,god will see you as pure as you were born. Don’t let the spirit of guilt take over you! All the ❤️!,praying for !💕

Amber Jackson there's no need to be disgusted with yourself. I made the same mistake and for so long I was afraid to ask for Gods forgiveness but that's exactly what the devil wanted me to do: he wanted to isolate me in my shame and speak evil things to me so I could end up doing it again; which I did. Until I finally broke out of my shame and I DECLARE A BREAKTHROUGH for you too! You have a story to tell. But don't let it be a worthless story with no message meaning you need to ask for forgiveness and forgive YOURSELF! Then you have a great story to tell. I'm praying for you; I love you ❤️

Amber Jackson baby love our God can make you a virgin again all you gotta do is asking him to take over your life. Make him priority in everything you do. God loves you honey it’s not too late.

Amber, Since God has forgiven you, you have to forgive yourself. I have made some mistakes that I wish I could erase, but I cant. Give it to God and wrapped yourself in his love. He loves you and He has put all of our sines in the sea of forgetfulness and he remembers them no more. The Devil is the one who wants to remind us so that we can love in regret. God has good thoughts about you and he sees you as a redeemed daughter of his. He is your king and you are his princess. Read Philippians 3:13. Forgetting those things which are behind and press towards the mark of the prize of the higher calling in Jesus. He can use your mistakes to help someone else when the time is right. I don't know you, but i love you. Chin up princess!

I made the same mistake also but i am a new creation now and practicing celibacy. Dont be disgusted by your choices. God has forgiven you

MissWSJ Yes girl! Every video has minister to me in my life and my season of singleness , and I just started watching yesterday to lol.. God has a time for everything! 🙌🏿

Amen. And happy new year.

very true

amen

So true! LITERALLY came across it last week!

yana212 😩 God bless you! I have no regrets but if I could go back and become my virgin self again, I would keep it that way!

I know this is an old comment but I just found this series this week lol

I’m 22 and still waiting🙌🏾🙌🏾

I regret not waiting 😔 now i’m left with a very strong soul tie and a broken heart

@@fabi7296 God will restore your virginity. Repent of your sexual sin so that you don't live in regret once you ask for God's forgiveness. Once he has forgiven you, you will be set free from your past and the guilt and shame will be gone in Jesus name.

amennn

How do we break them :(

Andreaz blog yesssssss!!!!

Andreaz blog Keep sharing your testimony💛 God’s work in your life is powerful

Queenchar86 I know an Adventist pastor in London (or in the surrounding area) who’s amazing

Amen. I hope you find a great church!!

Queenchar86 Audacious church in manchester is amazing, if ever you have the opportunity to visit it, you must

Aurora D. Who is this adventist preacher? I'm interested

Freedom Worship Centre, Southall. @FreedomWorshipCentre on Insta. You are welcome any time. 😊

Joe Rutherford amen brother

Michael you are a blessing

AMEN!!!

Praise GOD!♥️

Jus found these! I’m in awe right now lol

you not alone love,,,,,SA is saved

@@salomyru7310 Keep strong and have God in the mind and heart.

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Khadijah M I also wish I knew this sooner. Before my years of 19 to 26. I did a lot of damage in those years. I'm still paying the price for today. My dad would even allow me to bring guys over and never tried to restrict my life or my choices. I didn't know better. I thought he was giving me freedom but all those nights I wasted clubbing and all the guys I had sex with, all of it I regret.

I second that motion ma'am...Im just now viewing this series but its never too late right?

bbop 😂😂😂

Dat Boy Ben Key word is "was". I'm happy for you man. Continue in the beautiful new life you've been gifted. Be patient and steadfast.

Keesha Brown thanks for the kind words!! And I will you stay blessed my friend

Amen!

😂😂😂 this made laugh so hard but I’m happy you said was be blessed 😂

Just Got married feb 5 th❤️

Wow congratulations

@@shinelleliverpool1145 awww thank you I got married in February Gods word is true❤️

@@christellembasha5405 thank you!!! God honored that I’ve been married for a year now

Sierra LaFaye girl I did, on the way to work. Sobbed my eyes/heart out.

Girl I opened the flood gates, it was too beautiful for me to contain.

Girl I’m doing the same thing. Can’t hold back

I feel you. 😭🙌💞

Sierra LaFaye Amen

Marquia Tyler me tooooooo

smerfett1607 me three lol

Same here

Marquia Tyler I can't put this down. The message is so good!

YES YES YES !!

LAVICHA WILSON aww it's okay. There's many times I wanted to but I realized it didn't mean as much to the guy I liked as it did to me. Or some of my friends wanted me to just find somebody for me to kiss and I thought it was weird because I would want to date the person. My parents waited to kiss until they were married and I want to do the same thing. Although they already had kissed others in the past before they got married. Like it's okay if you didn't wait. You still can. My favorite preach Heather lindsey talks about this all the time. Both her and her husband when they met they were not virgins but they waited to have sex and kiss until their wedding day. Here's a video about it ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CSsNRxLKxlM.html But yeah don't feel ashamed Eventhough I never kissed or had sex. I have done other things that I still regret to this day but I know I'm a new creature in Christ.

Hey girl! Just turned 21, in the exact same boat. Keep the faith queen. The Lord really has had his hand on my life in that area specifically and I guess you too. Every time I got close to dating, getting intimate etc. something always happened.. I am very glad!

Anna's Travels hey me too! I just turned 21 last week. And my friends and co-workers thought I was strange for not drinking or serving beer at my job because God told me not too. But for real it seems like every time in the past with sin or when I liked a guy I felt like God was waiting to see what I would do and if i would obey but whenever I decided not to something would happen and we wouldn't date. But I'm fine being single this series has impacted my life so much and strengthen my beliefs. I'm not afraid of others judging me because I haven't had my first kiss and I'm still a virgin and want to save them for marriage.

@Lovematters God bless you, sweetheart! I just wanted to encourage you to stay strong in the Lord. There truly is a lasting blessing in saving yourself for whomever God says is worthy of you. I am 30 and still a virgin and I am proud and unashamed. And God helps me everyday to embrace this season with contentment in Him. That doesn't mean the struggle is not real because it definitely is, but the Holy Ghost is a keeper and the reward in waiting is much greater. May God continue to bless you to be an example of light.

Lovematters this is beautiful! For God's glory don't be ashamed you haven't given into the world and it's way

Amen ALEXIS LAUREN . yes he is preaching to these generation , my generation. Parents these days specially in church they just make you believe that sex is bad but will not sit you down and address the issues that need to be address.

Mary Anne Nano This series is AMAZINGGGGG !!!

it is! i didn't want it to end! :(

His book, Relationship Goals, comes out 4/28/2020.

ME TOO I'VE WATCHED ALL 6 TODAY ALONE 😭👏🏽😲😱❤☺️🙆‍♀️💯❤

I still have 2 more to go. ❤ This is everything I needed to hear!

I’m in a relationship right now and this is leading me to end it but it still hurts to have to do that 😭😪

An aunt that you rarely talk to sent you the video leading to THIS sermon? Girl, I think from now on you need to talk to that aunt more often cause she obviously has a great spiritual love and care for you! ;-) My guess is that she was probably debating a little right before she sent it. "Should I send this to my niece at all? Will she receive it okay?" She then decided to take a leap of faith and answer the Lord's call and send you a link to the video and I'm SO glad she decided to answer the call! God Bless your aunt, you and pastor Mike! ;-)

Lauryn Christian Amen! By His stripes you are healed 🙌🏿

I agree

Chipo Hoyi Bless you Sis!😊 I too have an 11 year old, I was 18 when I gave birth to her. GOD is Amazing! I want you to stay encourage and know that HE is preparing us for our purpose and HE will also continue to guide and teach us how to teach our children what it means to live a life honorable to HIM. Be blessed!!

Chipo Hoyi

God bless you Chipo. I am also practicing celibacy. I got delivered and i am new creation.

God bless you🙏❤

I agree I'm doing it all over again no sex til married! I'm praying for you as well Queen and me too keeps us covered in the name of Jesus 🙌🏾

I thought I'd leave a comment here since I'll also be 28 this year as you were last year. Waiting for marriage if God wills.

The Hood Goddess This word is what you call a Rhema word a right now word from the heavenly father

I think so too! This was my favorite sermon out of the whole Relationship Goals series so far!!

Obayanju Damilare agreed!

Obayanju Damilare agreed!

Amen ❤️🙏🏽

Agreed♥️

Agreed

He made me cry

Gladys Njeri are you in Nairobi? I wish he could just move here because there is no guidance in the churches. Plus people treat sex so casually. It's not funny.

Nyakarima King yes I am in Nairobi.Our churches don't even recognize the existence of sexual sin especially amongst young people until someone falls pregnant,then it'e evident.We(my fellow youths and I)in our local church will be discussing this on Friday 23rd March 2018 during a night prayer meeting,you're very welcome!We will also pray and break all and any soul ties or connections the devil has on them.Karibu

Gladys Njeri Hello. I am not well so I can't make it. I live in Sweden and I have trained myself on keeping yourself pure. I came here in early December and found out how sex is prevalent among Christian singles. It shocked me. I have been sharing his videos to everyone I know. Please show the videos in your church. My email is nyakarimaking@gmail.com. Get in touch.

89skeezy me too

I'm praying for you ❤

@@pastormichaeltodd7454 With all due respect to you, my friend, can you give me an objective foundation upon which you base these claims to 'revelation'? We are commanded in Scripture to test every spirit, to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world, deceiving many (1 John 4:1). Therefore, we are not to believe everything that claims to be from, or of the Lord. This command presupposes an objective foundation upon which to test these spirits. Therefore, you must provide me with this foundation in order to prove that what you're saying is of the Lord, and not of your own subjective feelings of intuition, peace, or what you think you see or don't see. I also would love to caution you, for your own sake, as well as the sake of the flock that you oversee. I myself fell pray to seductive spirits in the former ways I walked, believing it was God who spoke, when in reality it was not. This wrought great devastation in my life and in the lives of others around me. Yet, through this hellish destruction, God brought me to a place where I discovered the doctrines of the Sufficiency of Scripture, the Perspicuity of Scripture, and the Providence of God; among others. These doctrines have radically changed the way I live my life in worship to Him. I now serve Him, not based upon what I *feel*, but what I *know*, based upon His written, objective, absolute, and eternal Word. There is no subjectivity in that. There is absolute peace, and absolute confidence in this, for I *know* I walk obediently to Him through it. I now am able to serve as a pastor of a small flock, and the joy that it brings me to be a conduit for His Word, rightly handled, is beyond my description. I also know, as I'm sure you do too, that we who teach will be judged with much greater severity (James 3), therefore it is incumbent upon me to warn you - in love, my dear brother - that you will be held to account for every soul you lead astray. Well intentioned, or not. Hell is filled with people who had good intentions. Remember that, dear brother. Let that truth be sobering to you. That said, I appreciate the heart behind your post, and I pray you will look to His objective, written Word as the only foundation for your life and ministry, as you lead both. Blessings, dear brother.

Thank you guys for sharing this, I truly admire your strength, and may God continue to bless you

Shalomie Brown I’m going to keep praying on you young lady! God bless this young lady right here!!!!!

Shalomie Brown stay pure Sister

I can own my sinful past because I'm proud of what Christ has done to change me. Amen.

❤️

Same i have made mistakes i pray God breaks the soul ties for me

Marinique1989 me too!

You have it find someone to talk to even if you can’t go to this church. He’s right the enemy always counts on you staying quiet. I felt the same way but when I reached a good friend helped me. God will place people in your life that will help.

I know you posted this a while ago, but I'm sure you could find a church in your city/area that has people you would be able to talk to!

I know me too :) love the transparency and unity! God is using this pastor and congregation in amazing beautiful ways for Gods glory! 🙏🙌

Girl you dont need to go church welcome him back into your day he knows you and he wants you to say you know he nos yoh he loves you x

I’m sorry to break this to you, but you are Christian. The word only speak to them that have ears and who listen.. you only need to confess that’s all

Ughnotuagain Ughnotuagain amen!

Me too 😔

Codey Tyus Keep going Boo. I pray school goes well for you, Get that degree Sis ✨

Me too

Sara Sundgren ...so very true. We need this spoken about in church. So we (God's people) can better direct our youth. I wish this had been available to me as a teen.