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Sexual Conflict in Human Mating | David Buss | TEDxVienna 

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If we all want love, why is there so much conflict on the mating market and in our most cherished relationships? Sexual conflict pervades the mating arena prior to sex, after a mating relationship has formed, and in the aftermath of a romantic breakup. Love has a central place in human sexual psychology, but conflict and exploitation pervade human mating - something we must all confront in order to control our own mating destiny. American psychologist David M. Buss is a leading researcher and author in the field of evolutionary psychology and human sex differences in partner selection. The 2005/2016 book The Handbook of Evolutionary Psychology, edited by Buss, is considered the definitive text on the subject. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@thomasrichardson5425
@thomasrichardson5425 6 лет назад
David Buss is not just An evolutionary psychologist, he is THE evolutionary psychologist. He is one of the founders of the entire field!
@adeldee1689
@adeldee1689 5 лет назад
Best comment here, thank you
@mgtowbooboo8530
@mgtowbooboo8530 5 лет назад
yes sir! go mgtow
@Canaldefarticles416
@Canaldefarticles416 5 лет назад
Thomas Richardson exactly. Evolutionary Theory!!!
@ruthcoetzer4184
@ruthcoetzer4184 4 года назад
Along with Cosmides and Tooby...
@amt318
@amt318 4 года назад
He's my professor for one of my classes this semester, one of the best professors I've had so far :D
@YouAwakeYet
@YouAwakeYet 4 года назад
When my girlfriend at the time started college, one of her classes was Evolutionary psychology and David Buss had written the book she had for that class...reading that completely opened my eyes
@shishram163
@shishram163 5 месяцев назад
Is she still with you?
@sneakykidugo
@sneakykidugo 4 месяца назад
​@@shishram163good question 😂😂😂
@looopaa9783
@looopaa9783 2 года назад
its so funny how the women are constantly laughing and clapping and the men are just staring
@saymen881
@saymen881 11 месяцев назад
Why do you think that is?
@beepbopboop7727
@beepbopboop7727 3 месяца назад
Their game is up
@Schopenhauer69
@Schopenhauer69 17 дней назад
Men are romantics
@quantummath
@quantummath 5 лет назад
Pragmatic/Realistic psychology is my favorite type of psychology. It invalidates most ideological views over the subject in a heartbeat.
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 5 лет назад
This is actual science. That's why.
@Johnny_Savage
@Johnny_Savage 2 года назад
One of the very few TED Talks that deserves to have millions of views, and of course it doesn't have them
@techdedicated
@techdedicated 6 лет назад
Someone give this guy a beer!
@vaimast
@vaimast 5 лет назад
@@pratiktembhekar1996 true
@corysmith3447
@corysmith3447 4 года назад
@@pratiktembhekar1996 this sems 90% blue pill, 10% red pill to br honest, alot of man bashing here
@user_name8147
@user_name8147 4 года назад
@@corysmith3447maybe hes a Simp?
@seriously1184
@seriously1184 3 года назад
@@corysmith3447 You are right ! he was very annoying with that !
@mgu1N1n1
@mgu1N1n1 3 года назад
Why?
@kristie369
@kristie369 2 года назад
“ They think they’re hot, but they’re not” lol
@watsonwrote
@watsonwrote 5 лет назад
Wow, it's a lot easier to get a stranger to go on a date than I'd have thought!
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 5 лет назад
When they say no, it's hard. When they say yes, it's easy.
@kiralight6661
@kiralight6661 4 года назад
Because they probably used very physically attractive people to ask those strangers out
@Magicisreal66
@Magicisreal66 2 года назад
@@kiralight6661 this whole entire study was absolutely manipulated by the human male to feed his ego nothing more than that this guy's nothing but a bullshitter
@chickwithaguitar6876
@chickwithaguitar6876 2 года назад
Dr Buss’s lecture is so interesting and makes logical sense. At the same time, had me laughing as he’s so entertaining.
@mihiershandilya2736
@mihiershandilya2736 Год назад
Men in the audience are not really surprised and kind of depressed. Women were laughing and surprised in the beginning but by the end they were shocked to know their own realilty
@JOHN----DOE
@JOHN----DOE Год назад
Boy, he ain't kiddin'. Men see what they want to see, and they are wrong 90% of the time. This is why women live in fear; they can't even be nice to someone without aggression. Definition of aggression: forcing someone to do what they don't want to, on any level, especially when you have willfully ignored what they are telling you.
@mimoso_7773
@mimoso_7773 4 года назад
Oh my God! By far one of the very few genuinely beneficial videos among all the TED videos! Absolutely love it!
@ucanleaveyourhaton
@ucanleaveyourhaton Год назад
Hey… I’m with you here ! 👍
@peggyharris3815
@peggyharris3815 4 года назад
"Don't smile at your stalker." Yeah...I'm taking notes. Lol
@vimalcurio
@vimalcurio 3 года назад
Are you a girl
@tearichardson8458
@tearichardson8458 2 года назад
This man is just absoultely inspiring, it makes me think about maybe becoming a psychologist one day
@SmilaZ
@SmilaZ 2 года назад
WORTH WATCHING! So right on. Very good.
@danielmontealegre566
@danielmontealegre566 3 года назад
This was such a useful and insightful video! 🙏
@lasimahmed6167
@lasimahmed6167 Год назад
Gem of a psychologist great communication and presentation.
@missMagbeth
@missMagbeth 2 года назад
One of the best TED talks!
@a.a.5880
@a.a.5880 6 лет назад
I was there live. By far the most hilarious talk!
@mgu1N1n1
@mgu1N1n1 3 года назад
Yawn
@cartergomez5390
@cartergomez5390 2 года назад
That's awesome! How much were the tickets? I want to attend a TED Talk someday.
@ucanleaveyourhaton
@ucanleaveyourhaton Год назад
Cool 👍. How much did it cost ?
@hbvanengelsdorp
@hbvanengelsdorp 5 лет назад
This was insightful.
@ajeetalbert91
@ajeetalbert91 5 лет назад
Men cheat once or for a short term when they get an opportunity. Women have the long term affair.
@user-fy1uo6ou4s
@user-fy1uo6ou4s 5 лет назад
with whom? other women? xd
@iriselba3027
@iriselba3027 4 года назад
He didn't state it as an absolute this was based on statistics of a controlled group
@nezahuatez
@nezahuatez 4 дня назад
Literally a common trope that the man cheats and lives his wife for a new woman and relationship. This trope simply doesn’t exist for women. It’s not solid data but we both know this trope which says enough. You sound silly.
@nezahuatez
@nezahuatez 4 дня назад
@@user-fy1uo6ou4sI should’ve just read your comment because you destroyed their logic so succinctly. Even if you consider only single women this would mean women often have short term relationships too lmao.
@vincinzo9428
@vincinzo9428 3 года назад
David Buss is always incredible
@teresabaptista7016
@teresabaptista7016 5 лет назад
Great talk, Professor David Buss. Thank you.
@Steelhorsecowboy
@Steelhorsecowboy 4 года назад
I met my wife when she was 14 yrs old, married 6yrs later. Happily married for 40 yrs.. I guess I am abnormal.
@apataye
@apataye 4 года назад
Profoundly abnormal, no doubt. And (as long as this society keeps going in the same direction as it does nowadays) you´ll be getting more, and more, abnormal with each passing day.
@mrkane64
@mrkane64 3 года назад
It depends on how old you were when you met her...🤔
@accurategamer7085
@accurategamer7085 3 года назад
Check the Dna of your kids.
@Steelhorsecowboy
@Steelhorsecowboy 3 года назад
@@accurategamer7085 Done, no issues. We are all connected in our family tree.
@accurategamer7085
@accurategamer7085 3 года назад
@@Steelhorsecowboy noic3
@NRD-tv
@NRD-tv 3 года назад
Thank u Dr. David sir giving us such a grt information
@highpeaks3598
@highpeaks3598 3 года назад
Best Tedtalk ever!
@MrCruckles
@MrCruckles 5 лет назад
Someone give this man a medal.
@MrCruckles
@MrCruckles 5 лет назад
Man of the year
@omkar0lb7
@omkar0lb7 4 года назад
One of the best Ted talk i watched! Thanks David Buss😊
@phillconklin382
@phillconklin382 5 лет назад
Men find them in more conflits because they are responsible for the pursuit, often correlated through misunderstanding.
@swavnasahoo711
@swavnasahoo711 4 года назад
Straight up one the most intriguing talks.
@nacarreira777
@nacarreira777 5 лет назад
Excellent presentation!
@scalamasterelectros3204
@scalamasterelectros3204 9 месяцев назад
You mean penetretion
@davidcombest1134
@davidcombest1134 4 года назад
Very informative
@ACruz-kq9di
@ACruz-kq9di 5 лет назад
Smart man. I wish he'd be more blunt about these facts but I realize it's necessary for him to water down the truth to appeal to the audience.
@SylvEdu
@SylvEdu 3 года назад
I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on by at least half of my girlfriends. So either the women are lying about whether they are cheating, or I'm really good at wooing women out of my league who then proceed to realize that fact.
@thezerowulf507
@thezerowulf507 3 года назад
Definitely lying.
@jeffsmith9420
@jeffsmith9420 3 года назад
Keep in mind Buss is a sophisticated liar.
@jeffsmith9420
@jeffsmith9420 3 года назад
@Status DMG Like I said Buss and his followers are just aggrandized teenage boys who push the same "biotruth" narrative to rationalize their immaturity.
@sViviftie
@sViviftie 3 года назад
Probably the last one, own experience can never be taken as representative for a national or international standard. Sorry that happened to you tho.
@agirl2094
@agirl2094 2 года назад
I think it’s a personal issue and also cultural.
@ioanananescu525
@ioanananescu525 Год назад
So good,so true!!!
@catkeys6911
@catkeys6911 Год назад
Well, this was a lot of insightful stuff about mating, and that's very important, but partnering up for life is also about sharing and nurturing. Having some common interests and values. 2 people can *reinforce* each other that way, with each one having the other's happiness at heart.
@johntindell9591
@johntindell9591 4 года назад
thank you
@jean-victorcote5825
@jean-victorcote5825 Год назад
When parents give THE talk to their children, it should be along those lines. It could save their life, or at least their happiness. Mating is a very practical matter, but it is often presented in an useless way.
@Saint_Nicolo
@Saint_Nicolo Год назад
This is so interesting.
@SigalTifferet
@SigalTifferet 6 лет назад
Great talk!
@mgtowbooboo8530
@mgtowbooboo8530 5 лет назад
yes sir
@stravagantares
@stravagantares Год назад
Extra interesting Ted talk! ✨😯👏🏼
@redboy8883
@redboy8883 2 года назад
Evo psychology meets comedy lol. Great informative talk
@caucasianafrican1435
@caucasianafrican1435 5 лет назад
Makes me never want to get married and have kids.
@ikengaspirit3063
@ikengaspirit3063 3 года назад
@Language and Programming Channel Marriages are very normal in a society. It is basically the way society balances the wants of both sexes inter and intra competition.
@emilian7052
@emilian7052 3 года назад
@@ikengaspirit3063 he said marriages are not natural not that they’re not normal- which is true
@ikengaspirit3063
@ikengaspirit3063 3 года назад
@@emilian7052 Even Hunter Gather societies tend to have some sort of pair bonding. The breaks from that tend to be in highly ritualized contexts. Maybe Marriage as the West does it now is "unnatural" but the basic thing taht when it appears in other cultures we will call "marriage" is.
@awesomenice742
@awesomenice742 3 года назад
@Language and Programming Channel Idk bruv they be jeolousy out there so idk how Harems are normal The best way I can describe it is a polyamourus but monogamous society. Monogamous only when humans see a key factor of a beneficial long term partner and polyamourus only on the occasion.
@yoooyoyooo
@yoooyoyooo 2 года назад
In my mind it's the only right thing to do. It's all too shallow and unreliable. Why would I risk my time and emotional investemnt in a person that can decide to leave at any point? Also why would I do the same to someone else? It's very cruel and I don't feel like participating in the game at all. Nature is pretty cruel.
@crewlj
@crewlj 5 лет назад
Over perception bias I would argue is a natural component of the mating process given the obvious numbers men must pursue in order to achieve what they desire.
@gabrielleheard6366
@gabrielleheard6366 4 года назад
Brilliant
@judahjeffries6469
@judahjeffries6469 Год назад
This guy is my professor!
@ChrisDragotta
@ChrisDragotta 2 года назад
We are basically not compatible at all. Not surprising.
@kchannel5317
@kchannel5317 5 лет назад
Is florida really a good statistical representation?
@caucasianafrican1435
@caucasianafrican1435 5 лет назад
Even worse, Floridian college students.
@PetersFXfilms
@PetersFXfilms 5 лет назад
I believe this study has been replicated across multiple cultures witch consistent results. If you're interested, do a google search on it.
@salvatoregargiuoli385
@salvatoregargiuoli385 4 года назад
Sir, your "Evolution of Desire" changed my (vision of) life. It should (not) be studied at school.
@vimalcurio
@vimalcurio 3 года назад
Wdy wanna say dude
@felixbertoni
@felixbertoni 3 года назад
4:57 that dude not applauding in the middle, amazing x)
@raphael18ify
@raphael18ify 2 года назад
Curious, what is this business about someone being an "8" wanting "10's"? Where does Prof. Buss have a list of these rankings and the definition of what constitutes an "8" or a "10" and so forth? Would appreciate help if someone could direct me to a book or essay the Professor has written about this subject.
@Johnny_Savage
@Johnny_Savage 2 года назад
just a quick informal way to explain the much more complex concept of people having different mate values, he doesn't use it in his research
@raphael18ify
@raphael18ify 2 года назад
@@Johnny_Savage Well then, your statement begs the question, who is a "10" and who's not. Buss states that "10's" are more likely to cheat on a mate that is not a "10", so it might be helpful to know who you're hooking up with. I also have to say that this guy has a unique talent for pointing out the obvious: After reams and reams of research, he concludes that rich men are more attractive to women. Jeeves, quick! My smelling salts! Something a lot of hapless males have known for centuries.
@TokioTE
@TokioTE 2 года назад
Usually in studies regarding attractiveness, there is one or one group of researchers who assigns these ratings (1-10) to all individuals in the study, following some metric. Dr David Buss' book The Evolution of Desire might be a good place to start.
@dirtypickle4080
@dirtypickle4080 Год назад
it's not that deep bro
@catsaresocute650
@catsaresocute650 Год назад
It's impossible to discern that bc people have different predernces. Part of the absurdity of the entire thing. I mean ranking people into numbers like this should make anyone uncompfortable without the point that it's bs in acccuracy but okay
@youssefbakrito
@youssefbakrito 5 лет назад
3:03 dude was not having it
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 3 года назад
Because he knows he's a 4 out of 10 and the resultant implications are grave.
@mohammadfarzan230
@mohammadfarzan230 2 года назад
Thanks
@smilinazzdoggy825
@smilinazzdoggy825 Год назад
Best in the business
@pgoughms
@pgoughms 4 года назад
I'd automatically think I was being pranked.
@76shian
@76shian 2 года назад
This is precisely why religious courtship is important
@catsaresocute650
@catsaresocute650 Год назад
This talk is: a) hopefully BS b) even if not should be treated as such
@HeroinChrist
@HeroinChrist Год назад
@@catsaresocute650 delusional. seek help.
@catsaresocute650
@catsaresocute650 Год назад
@@HeroinChrist how is it delusional? For f* sake go out and meet some humans
@proudatheist2042
@proudatheist2042 Год назад
Right...believing that Muhammad flew to the moon on a winged horse and that God killed dozens of children for mocking a bald man is a fantastic foundation for a reciprocating relationship. (Sarcasm.)
@124madcow
@124madcow 5 лет назад
If this does not red pill you then nothing will.
@corysmith3447
@corysmith3447 4 года назад
Um this is the most BLUEPILLED (men bad women good) video I've seen, theres nothing red pill about this, accept for vaguely elluding to women's hypergamy
@Heliotail
@Heliotail 4 года назад
The way women treated me have red pilled me quite enough to no longer want them.
@ZedAmadeus
@ZedAmadeus 15 дней назад
Thank god! I'm safe.
@elin_
@elin_ 7 дней назад
​@Heliotail With that attitude, women don't want you either, so...
@ronaldolobatofernandes1730
@ronaldolobatofernandes1730 Год назад
My Word
@paulwally9007
@paulwally9007 2 года назад
At times the audience looks decidedly uncomfortable. Partially I think this is because he's opening up some home truths that we'd rather not hear, but I think reducing the mating process to some cold, scientific cost/benefit analysis leaves out a crucial, for want of a better word, spiritual component. I think people intuitively feel these theories are incomplete, and in some way demean what it means to be human.
@SmilaZ
@SmilaZ 2 года назад
Yeah, but that's because humans are not fully awake and aware, nor is there much wisdom, or pure love. Most Humans don't really properly know what love is.
@hpe-eo4ce
@hpe-eo4ce 2 года назад
I don't see how women being armed with the knowledge of evolutionary theory to help them avoid men with dark triad traits and avoid abuse/stalking is demeaning.
@PearlHandle
@PearlHandle Год назад
@@BeardLAD wtf?
@marleyofficialmedia
@marleyofficialmedia 3 месяца назад
I don't hear anything funny, and don't understand why people are laughing like they're at stand up comedy. Very valuable information for us ladies. Be extremely discerning in your mate selection.
@caucasianafrican1435
@caucasianafrican1435 5 лет назад
Isn't the term Branch-Swinging.
@thezerowulf507
@thezerowulf507 3 года назад
Princesses that are more Tarzan then Jane
@zephomalunga5251
@zephomalunga5251 Год назад
Brilliance
@kagetsuki23
@kagetsuki23 5 лет назад
That why commitment is a bad strategy for men, short term relationship is the way.
@mgtowbooboo8530
@mgtowbooboo8530 5 лет назад
yes sir
@thorsten8790
@thorsten8790 5 лет назад
And how to you want to preserve you culture and create a Family?
@kagetsuki23
@kagetsuki23 5 лет назад
Maximus You use a surrogate mother of your race, and you raise your children yourself.
@thorsten8790
@thorsten8790 5 лет назад
kagetsuki23 Poor children growing up without parents.
@shin-ishikiri-no
@shin-ishikiri-no 5 лет назад
Only without mom. No big deal.
@mizzop
@mizzop 2 года назад
Shoutout to the Fresh and Fit super chatter that recommended him coming on the show! I second that🔥 FnF gang mark the register👇
@wherebarbarameetstheroad8600
Curious...if the threat of violence and death could be removed, how many women would say yes? How about adjusting for social shaming?
@DaaWood998
@DaaWood998 4 года назад
I don't get people laughing and thinking that is a joke. It's a real life science and biology mechanisms
@AgentDearestZ
@AgentDearestZ Год назад
Laughing at the pain, breaking down of society.
@pkimberlyox02
@pkimberlyox02 Год назад
I think they laugh because it's not a joke and that makes it funny
@orefemetsemfelang7618
@orefemetsemfelang7618 7 месяцев назад
How is this only @ 200K views?????
@MrAlexLowen
@MrAlexLowen Год назад
I feel that this catches just one small part of the entire man-woman relationship topic. It lacks the psychoanalytic aspect, which is fundamental.
@bhastro9959
@bhastro9959 Год назад
Because there's no scientific basis to psychoanalysis a la Freud.
@catsaresocute650
@catsaresocute650 Год назад
It lacks, among other things, the aspect where humans are free thinking and feeling SENTIENT beings, not un-concious beings running a biology programm.
@dreamingmusic3299
@dreamingmusic3299 5 лет назад
"She's not "yours", it's just your turn." MGTOW
@mgtowbooboo8530
@mgtowbooboo8530 5 лет назад
Yes sir
@KhemistryIBMOR
@KhemistryIBMOR 5 лет назад
Dreaming Music A hard truth.
@yoma2977
@yoma2977 5 лет назад
She is yours for as long as you stay a desirable man, if she leaves you it's either because you lucked out with her in the first place or your just not a good man, at least anymore.
@dreamingmusic3299
@dreamingmusic3299 5 лет назад
+Create Channel pfffft [snort] Let me guess; you're either a woman, or a man under the age of 25 who has never been divorce-ra ped.
@godkimseokjin6429
@godkimseokjin6429 5 лет назад
I would another person be yours??
@CiMcM135
@CiMcM135 2 года назад
Dayum he be Bussin’
@kaashkaash8695
@kaashkaash8695 6 лет назад
What about excitement?
@SonoTom
@SonoTom 6 лет назад
too bad that he didn't address mate guarding and paternity uncertainty. that 2-3% false paternity rate sounds dubious, given the large minority of women, per one study, who admitted they would conceal outside paternity from their partner.
@includao
@includao 6 лет назад
the 2-6% has been confirmed objectively by large genetic studies on contemporary populations at least.
@afafssaf925
@afafssaf925 6 лет назад
Exactly, but what he didn't address is that modern women have the pill, so you wouldn't expect the rate to be big at all. But given the data, it's more likely that his hypothesis is correct.
@Jako19800126
@Jako19800126 6 лет назад
David Buss forgot to take into account factors of the civilization, when he talked about that 2-3%. Remove all the constrains civilization puts on women like morality, laws, commonly accepted rules, fear of shaming... and that 2-3% goes up to at least 20-30%. Wouldn't be much suprised if it were even more. Good genes hypothesis or the dual mating strategy is real.
@dreamingmusic3299
@dreamingmusic3299 5 лет назад
Sono Tom - A CDC study showed that approx 30% of live births were to fathers who were NOT the genetic parent.
@Heliotail
@Heliotail 4 года назад
The true rate of paternity fraud on the part of women is at least 30 percent. That's right, one out of three kids are the product of adultery on the part of the wife or paternity fraud.
@willythebluebear
@willythebluebear 5 лет назад
full red pil content..
@JuanTorres-ny9ff
@JuanTorres-ny9ff 5 лет назад
What does "red pill" mean?
@Blackzwell
@Blackzwell 5 лет назад
Juan Torres being aware of the truth.
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 5 лет назад
@Hard Truth And just as importantly, who yourself are. Not what society tells you to be.
@Eminovici
@Eminovici 3 года назад
@@JuanTorres-ny9ff Watch Matrix.
@jennykerr9877
@jennykerr9877 2 года назад
You won't learn from the matrix, you gotta go on reddit and look for the red pill.
@goldkhw
@goldkhw 2 года назад
In my teens I always had two backups. There were always two suitable second choices who would show up if I called. You must have that.
@beautifulnightmare7551
@beautifulnightmare7551 2 года назад
Ew
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34
@SylviabombsmithUjhy75bd34 6 лет назад
Buss is a boss. Maximum respect. Pure pimpage... Selecta~
@delanomcgee2923
@delanomcgee2923 2 года назад
Hook up culture is the main culture, dating is not even a thing anymore. So defining a date in the modern atmosphere would be tough at best. I think Netflix and chill is far more prominent today than out on a formal date for dinner
@beepbopboop7727
@beepbopboop7727 3 месяца назад
This is your Overperception Bias talking.
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 Год назад
Look up the main videos that give advice for how to tell a girls into you. Every video I've watched says it's absolutely a sign she wants you if she touches your arm lol
@dakotapeters5654
@dakotapeters5654 Год назад
It explains why so many men think like that.
@bethannrobison3498
@bethannrobison3498 8 месяцев назад
the audience laughed at so much stuff that is actually really sad
@obengbismark9065
@obengbismark9065 5 лет назад
Truth
@paulthepainter2366
@paulthepainter2366 5 лет назад
I didn't know Gary Busey was this smart
@martiananomaly
@martiananomaly Год назад
2:57 literally me 💀
@con2mms2000
@con2mms2000 2 года назад
Even I'm pretty sure the investigation was made by experts, I found really hard to trust women's results. You trust her actions, not her words.
@IchinShek
@IchinShek 3 года назад
People laughing at the strangest things... >> One guy threatened all the guys in her life until there were none left! >> Hahaha
@naolucillerandom5280
@naolucillerandom5280 5 лет назад
...Backups?
@thezerowulf507
@thezerowulf507 3 года назад
Weird he didn't mention woman lose their pair bonding ability when they are promiscuous
@rfmmike6096
@rfmmike6096 3 года назад
@Stinkmeaner It's definitely a possibility but more so in women cause they retain DNA of every dude they sleep with
@rfmmike6096
@rfmmike6096 3 года назад
@Marie Baker It's not a lie at all, do your research
@rfmmike6096
@rfmmike6096 3 года назад
@Marie Baker Ever heard of pre ejaculation?
@agirl2094
@agirl2094 2 года назад
No you’re just worried that you won’t measure up to the man she had prior to u. Give me a break
@katakuri774
@katakuri774 2 года назад
@@agirl2094 but statistics show that this is true though?
@hafer88
@hafer88 2 года назад
there isn't the one and only partner. the oneitis is an personality disorder.
@lukasbade5919
@lukasbade5919 13 дней назад
less data stability and academical work than my fking bachelors lol
@xeflatio93
@xeflatio93 3 года назад
notice he just talked about male and female? he didn't take a list of 150 genders
@Zizuthros
@Zizuthros 4 месяца назад
I want a rain check
@user-kz3qp9qn9l
@user-kz3qp9qn9l Год назад
Красавчик!🥸
@clashofqueen93
@clashofqueen93 5 лет назад
It's like studying a species, the way a scientist would study rats, rabbit etc behavior the types of test done can be endless to come to a complete or near complete conclusion. Can we really say, people are capable of studying their own species knowing that their are boundaries?
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 5 лет назад
Yes. Cold hard information and data is observable. The boundaries you are referring to have to do with philosophy/metaphysics, which is not the same thing as science.
@Eminovici
@Eminovici 3 года назад
@@GrubKiller436 It can be done, for sure. But should we really do it (going over ALL boundaries)? And for this we need philosophy. Otherwise pure utilitarianism will turn our scientists into little Dr Mengele, like we see now in China.
@ashaya85
@ashaya85 5 лет назад
The big question is: are we born with this characteristics , or is it something we develop? Now men can say: Look, every men look at other womans so it's normal. Is it?
@TheGamingg33k
@TheGamingg33k 4 года назад
It is normal. Our dna is hardwired to mate with the youngest or healthiest looking individual. Which is the same case with women. Women also check out handsome young powerful men. Men check out young, healthy and "motherly" women. Its basically our DNA trying to survive in any way possible.
@Chris-T4
@Chris-T4 4 года назад
QuantumButthole women don’t look for youth in men, they actually prefer older men, specifically 7 years older on average.
@hangukhiphop
@hangukhiphop 3 года назад
@@Chris-T4 but not because they look old!
@Eminovici
@Eminovici 3 года назад
These characteristics are biological but we can control the degree in which we let them influence our lives. There are both polygamous and monogamous cultures for example.
@SeniorAdrian
@SeniorAdrian 2 года назад
7:53 can please someone find me a clip or a photo of that comedian called "Jimi McFarland"? I didn't find anything on google.
@angelcastro1707
@angelcastro1707 5 лет назад
Vienna, huh??? Freud would of loved this :)
@attackhelicopter7403
@attackhelicopter7403 5 лет назад
Not really, Freuds teacher, Schoppenhauer would had destroyed that guy...
@angelcastro1707
@angelcastro1707 5 лет назад
@@attackhelicopter7403 Didn't know Arthur Schopenhauer was Freud's "teacher". And who is that guy?? You talking about David Buss? Lol
@attackhelicopter7403
@attackhelicopter7403 5 лет назад
Nah not literally, but Freud was a big fan of Schopenhauers books and theories
@russianfolktales3641
@russianfolktales3641 5 лет назад
Let’s not forget about Karl Gustav Jung
@certainlynotthebestpianist5638
@certainlynotthebestpianist5638 3 года назад
I must admit, that it indeed is a blessing to be asexual
@emiliosnic
@emiliosnic 2 года назад
You are not asexual. You are just terrified.
@catsaresocute650
@catsaresocute650 Год назад
I mean I can see why that talk would geberate that expression, but I can assure you the talk is simply bs
@Schopenhauer69
@Schopenhauer69 17 дней назад
​@@catsaresocute650nope
@kaglmaladina2867
@kaglmaladina2867 2 года назад
6.20 girl with glasses. She been called out. felt that one. took it on the chin tho haha
@YellowhatDick
@YellowhatDick 5 лет назад
Women have long term mate value? TED Talks always bringin' da' knowledge!
@thezerowulf507
@thezerowulf507 3 года назад
And he didn't mention why men shop around, it is to spread seed. Thats why woman decline rapidly in mating value over 30
@djrinpoche
@djrinpoche Год назад
Has anyone been keeping track of Mr. 3:03?
@hafer88
@hafer88 2 года назад
man of the dark triad (mass murerers for example) are for many women unconscious attractive for women (evolutinary psychology). they seem confrontational and aggressive for them.
@GnarledStaff
@GnarledStaff 5 лет назад
I think he might be looking at that “two gene” theory wrong; They get physical/financial investment and genes from mate and emotional investment from the affair. She wants to marry the count, but court the rogue.
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