hiii everyone! here is the meditation I mentioned in the video ! let me know what you think :) ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-LGiJ51B0HGU.html
Aaron: If U did not discover them *already* , I highly recommend the U Tube Channel of the Theosophical Society in America (& they have @ least one really great recorded lecture on *precisely* this same topic!) Thanks 4 all of your efforts on your viewers' behalf, BTW.
Peace God. I wrote you on your previous video but didnt receive a response so I'll try again.i wont say too much but i will say this. Email me plz if you would like to build on further on the concept of universal knowledge and the knowledge of Unity and the God concept. Peace 7.
I meditate and pray in peaceful joyful love thought feeling connection. Basicly the vibration of peace joy love vibration Gregg braden brought up this info water energy studies confirm are feelings thoughts help heal ourselves or harm based off of are feelings and thoughts. It also creates a better form of life to florish in love with love thoughts feelings and speach. Also as we love we can self and group heal ourselves which is each other saying it already happened. Our life path of Gregg braden explains this for us. Gift of the blessing cd we all can bless look this up to learn more also our Depock Chopra life path mentioned when we meditate in peace joy and love all those around us serritonin levels go up also out side of the building we are in or within buildings if out side also those life paths of us mood changes in the same way we all are a one concousness connection no matter who or what being we are all one. Realy cool :). So even if someone doesnt know meditation is going on near by those life paths of us mood changes and we end up ascending and wake up more. Its time lets think and pray heal all the physical mental and health of all kind and spiritual by divinely blessing 3 areas. Bless the circumstances that are and what we require them to be without judgments. Then bless those that caused the circumstance we disire to change to a new circumstance and do the same for them to be blessed to the new circumstance similar to what we disire disire the same for them and bless them without judgement there us we are them. 3rd Bless the witnesses and you as a witness that witnessed the circumstance and to now have it be the disired circumstance now and bless all that witness and your self without judgment in love joy peace :). Then say its already happened speak it think say it feel it visualize it into being. We are all one connected as individual lifetimes and so we must help heal those life times with the skills each life path has and inspired to use when inspired like i just was now. I ask for full healing. I pray and have belief i ask you as other life paths to do the same for me as i am willing to do for you by saying i love you i bless you and others and all. I bless and pray in love joyfull peacefull healing connections and ask other selfs to do this with me there is no concept of time bless me bless you bless all. Think i am healed think you are healed and i bless your life in unity feeling belief in us for our individual life paths for food shelter financial need all to be provided now do this with me say its already happened 3 times or more in peace love and joy visualize it as we heal all are life path and forgive those that choose not to we are all healed :). Now bless us to have are required life and healing and free from debt or lack of health or needs that each feel we have and heal it with belief in what each requires what ever that is do this freely and be inspired in the way you can and are ok with within your specific life path want and need to be fully helped healed in all areas holisticaly now :). Every like is a prayer do this for us all :).
At a glance. Our parents showed us what we should do to receive love and what we should not do to survive as an infant. Be aware of this illusion to own your society fear and change it the way you prefer to be. 😊
Shadow work has revealed the most fascinating depths of my soul, unravelled decades of various traumas, and open my heart to healing the inner child and fully integrating the heart-mind-body. Shadow ... I embrace you and no longer run from you... putting a spotlight on my triggers / pains have been my greatest teacher. It led me to the deepest spiritual path I have yet to imagine.
This made me realize that I wore and still do wear a masculine mask. Never showing my emotions for fear of weakness. When what I really want for once in my life is to let someone take care of me instead of me taking care of them. Maybe not all the time but in some situations. Thanks Aaron.
That beautiful man they called Jesus..I call the Yshuweh of the Breath of Life..I get kinda tuff too..can relate..and then I just fall into his arms when I see a glimpse of glory🌊🐳🕊️✨😇🆙💜💎💌John 11:11 3:33..super special mssg in those
I no longer feel guilty about boundaries, or other people's judgments! I still have some work to do, I'm sure, but I feel good in my power! Bring on the meditation!
A true master understands and knows all aspects of their home. Even their creepy attic. Know the conscious and unconscious and you will consciously design all you create. Much love! 💚💚💚
i too had a bad childhood and am a "fixer" im sure u have reserached the personality traits of abused children when they turn to adults...( the one who acts out, the fixer, etc) thank u for being so open about ur past to bring us awareness ....( i know how tought that can be) ur story sounds like my story..... bc of the abuse i want to help others ....a great quote: “I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.” robin willams. " pray for people that pour wisdom into you.....that wisdom didnt come without pain.."
Great quotes! Those thought came to me already: I have a lot of empathy for people in pain, because I know that pain and it almost broke me. I don't wish this others.
Aaron I want to thank you for making these videos. Every time I hear you automatically I feel better and recover my energies and power. You are a person who inspires me so much. This year has been a year of learning. I discovered the law of attraction and began to immerse myself in meditation and read more about the laws of the universe. And I found your channel and you've been something important to me this year. Thank you. Greetings from El Salvador 🇸🇻🇸🇻🇸🇻🇸🇻
I started shadow work recently. I have been a people-pleaser all of my life. I also am battling with control issues. I have had to set boundaries for myself and everyone in my life. This whole awakening experience has been life changing. I still struggle, but I don't have the gloom and doom of depression like I did before. I am excited for the future for the first time in my life.
@@cooldude3280 what does it mean to you ? For me it symbolizes the "star inside" or really, Consciousness, Awareness, Spirit. The "Awareness" part of self awareness. 👁⭐
I wish it's that easy. You could never be two simultaneously. There is always a raw experience your consciousness partakes then when the energy charge subsided, self reflection happens. You then become the observer of what you experienced. When you tried to observe while in the eye of the cyclone, rationalization, analysis and resistance builds. Thus over thinking
@@jJust_NO_ it doesn't have to build to the point of "overthinking"... with an open mind and practice one can bring it just to brush up against the clone cycle's inner edge- the world between worlds. And so really it is three places in one... not two. 👁⭐
Wow! Your meditation helped me to let go of a narcisstic mother & childhood sexual abuse. A load off my shoulders. Bringing my shadows to light was very healing. Thank you Aaron 😇
Aaron, because of the work you have done on yourself, you are a light to the men in the world who have long felt they have to be emotionally cut off from their own selves. You clearly have learned how to balance the masculine and feminine within you without sacrificing what your dominant expression tends to be. This is very refreshing. May this video be placed more often in the path of those who need to experience and see this balance.
We can set up personal rules in our lives for what "must happen" for us to feel a certain way. A lot of the time we set rules that are too hard to meet which lead to giving us pain. We all have different rules on how we must act, behave, do, say. And when our rules conflict with other peoples rules we feel pain. Our rules then can cause a resistance between others and opposing vibrations. So evaluate what rules you have created and see if they are serving you. Are they causing resistance or empowering you? Create rules that are easy to be met, rig the system.
Hey my dear friends! Gratitude is a miracle, everyday I say gratitude words and sentences that day will be a great day for me Whenever I have problems immediately after saying gratitude words the problem will be solved. I am so grateful that I have the opportunity to watch Aaron videos as well. 🌺🌺🌺
Imagine this reality, that the universe love's us because when we realize this we don seek for validation because we are our own validation because when we are our own source of validation the femininity and masculinity synchronizes and balance emerges.
That's why I go neutral. I can say what I was gonna say and move on without feeling bad about it. And the best part is it comes with a touch of common sense.
Are you REAL 🤯 I was thinking that I need help with understanding the RELATION between my shadow work and the experiences I attract! You are one of the reasons I FEEL GRATITUDE 😄 THANK YOU💜
shadow work gets under other’s skin, but it’s not OUR energy it’s a reflection (mirror) for them since we’ve already charged & assended through that time! 🦋
Bonnie Massey if you believe in the law of attraction, then you believe that like attracts like right? So the people who are around you that are bothering you actually share qualities that you yourself exhibit. But you might be not be aware that this is happening, not because you are stupid or whatever, but because its in your subconscious, and its hard to truly know ourselves even though the ego loves to think it has it all figured out but in reality, we all have A LOT to learn, including myself. Ive found that anytime I come into contact with someone that expresses unpleasant vibes, I try to take note of the fact that I myself have been like that at some point, and see every one of those moments as a great opportunity for growth.
Hey Aaron, I only recently discovered shadow work. I have followed you for a long time and typed shadow work into the search and your video came up first on the list only posted 30 mins before. Thank you I feel like something has been manifested here. Love to you man thank you 🙌🙌
Wow. That was like hearing my own life story exactly. I totally feel you Sir. I LOVE how your videos are ALWAYS just what I need to hear at the moment. My existence is greater by having discovered you. Thank You Aaron, you are Amazing. 😊🤩🤘❤
I sat and realized what sits well with me. What sits well (in alignment) is when I am kind, give with discernment, sassy, funny, and having boundaries. I regret letting people disrespect me in my life thus far! I didn't realize until a couple of years ago that what I allowed was disrespect. Those couple of years ago is when I was coming out of depression. Jim Carey said its deep rest from who we were pretending to be. I believe this because I feel different. I am not the same woman anymore.
Thank you so much for clearing my doubts. Now i'll focus on happiness and gratitude so then my goal can come to me easily because i'm focusing on my passion. Much love
I used to be a fixer... after lots of pain and suffering I decided no more. I come first. Being myself and my comfort comes before anything. Life got better lol
Oh wow. You really hit home with this one today. I too am a fixer. I have been told that I let people run all over me. Love this video on shadow work. Thanks man.
This is the BEST Enlightening knowledge to receive at 6 in the morning! 💚 I was that 'fixer' person. People take advantage of a kind, generous, beautiful soul. I appreciate your advice. Thank you.
Shadow work is such deeply transformative work and a very important piece to the awakening process/spiritual journey. Once I learned and started implementing shadow work I was able to bring more awareness to my reactions in life. It literally changed my life! I understood the law of attraction before I learned shadow work, but didn't come full circle with my spiritual knowledge until I implemented it into my life. Now I not only use shadow work daily to move through the emotions that arise, but I teach others to do the same. Can't say enough good things about the process.
Thank you Aaron for sharing your personal story ❤️ I can totally relate to everything you said about becoming a people pleaser. I've been working on becoming the truest most authentic version of myself 🙏🏼💖🌈🦋
Let me tell u aaron, i too had the same conditions n relationships with my parents as u had, moreover my biological as well as step mom, both were abusive n hence i used to get bullied in my school, got failed in my school, could not express myself in front of people, but as soon as i let go of all that bitterness n increased my vibrations, only then im able to see a drastic, damn drastic transformation in my life, now im healing people around me, im able to express myself well😇😇
whats up man I also realised that the world we perceive consists of our shadow aspects and every unconscious person we meet are actually a manifestation of our shadow self that is ready to come to light and be healed
I am 100% like the way you describe yourself. It leads to a ton of heartache from people perceiving me as a weak pushover. The more you give the more people expect free things from you and use you. I need to apply what u r teaching
This made me smile so big. I'm glad to see you back in alignment with your authentic self, and steering clear of being what you think others want you to be. THIS is leading by example, embodying the truth that even advanced teachers are forever growing and learning. You being so transparent and fearless in claiming your imperfections gives so many others permission to do the same, without shame. You were born for this.
Again everytime I think I've learned all I can from you you drop a little nugget that I need to hear. When you said "give yourself permission to be you the real you not the mask you" I honestly felt those words very deeply man It almost made me cry. Thanks a lot pal
This really resonated with me - it felt like you were actually describing some aspects of my own past and how I ended up basically doing the same thing - being a people pleaser to a fault. Unconsciously this resulted in me attracting several partners who were no good for me and only continued the running script of verbal, emotional, and with one - physical abuse. It was deeply ingrained in me by both parents how unworthy I was as a kid. One additional thing I wanted to mention, I have also found that for whatever reason it seems that narcissists / sociopaths are attracted to empaths like a moth to a flame. I am learning to avoid them now but it took years to do so. And blunt? Oh goodness - from one Sagittarius to another, I think it is one of our hallmark traits!
We have learnt that we have to EARN love. That is why we become People Pleasers/Approval Seekers and Helpers/Fixers. I have taken 54 years to learn that I do not have to put up with violence and abuse from family or boyfriends and that I was actually Good Enough for the couple of men that I actually knew were right for me. It was never my job to parent my parents or to try to make them happy. I am not a one woman rehabilitation centre for all the dysfunctional men out there and nor do I have to fix my female friends lives. I can love myself too and I like who I am becoming. I have no fear of my shadow self at all and if it is what Aaron says the it is a good part of us. I think we should acknowledge that this part of us is a good part too just misinformed at times.
My dad is the same way! He is the nicest guy in the world loving big giving everything up to my mom and letting my mom lead the way, he tries to please her as often and as much as he can while putting his own needs and wants aside, ! The first time I first viewed your videos months and months ago I knew you and I had at least one or more things in common, but I did not know what it was,! Today I learned from this video that one thing we have in common is our dads are the same way in some respects, I don't think it makes them bad or good they just don't set boundaries, I really enjoy watching your videos, you are awesome! Keep up the awesome videos in the awesome good work, God bless you!
My ex was a people pleaser, and I always felt he had to man up!. He had an aggressive dad , mean mum, and was controlled by his mother and 2 sisters. I always felt he was fake. We split when I started my awakening ,but I do wish him well on his journey. Thankyou for video Aaron 💜🙏💜
You have done a very good phychological analysis by yourself. You starting to destroy the fake patterns that your subconscious mind had created many years ago by simple reveal them to your conscious mind. This is a very hard work because your ''shadow'' feel safe in the way it used to be.
I have given all my power not knowing just by being in the cycles and frequency you are talking about. I am on this journey now to reclaim it. It is a very steep up hill harsh wake up!!!! I am grateful of it, trying my best to show up listen and practice 🙏 thank u so much
Yassss!! Thank you! I was actually talking with a friend about this today. My daughter is pretty wild and I am very passive and anxious, BUT this is because my mother beat that fire out of me when I was young. Taught me that being myself caused pain. Now as an adult I'm stepping into myself. Shadow work is so key! It's great you're sharing this 💚
Soooo similar to my story. My 8 year old is a so extroverted and care free (I admire it) and im quiet and introvert because my parents punished me for expressing myself. Im 27 and im just learning who i really am. Its a fun journey 😊
@@LateshaRenee Thank you for sharing with me 💚 I am 36 and have a 3 y.o. and a 16 y.o.! For the first time in my life I am happy. I love my own company, happy to be single, and working towards my dreams. These videos help me so much, and keep me inspired! It's a truly beautiful thing 😊🥰
Where there is light, there is shadow. We are neither darkness nor light, we are both. Our shadow is a part of us and we all have it. Lets just face it, we all have dark emotions such as jealousy, anger, frustration, bitterness etc. I don't believe there is a way to get rid of these emotions once and for all. I am 26 years old. If I am going to live this life until I'm 100 years then Im gonna have to face these emotions many, many times again. If we can embrace, accept and eventually love it, we receive the gifts of the shadow; passion, magnetism, and our true desires.
I respectfully disagree, once one's vibration is high enough, the emotions such as jealousy & fear will entirely dissipate. And if they arise, it will be through the form of a thought, which you can quickly acknowledge and then let it drift off, never to be see/felt again
With all respect, I understand the concept of High vibration and being the observer of thoughts. In my personal experience, overemphasizing such practise makes me ungrounded and inauthentic. Not saying its not useful, it definetly is, but balance is key, as with everything. This comes from someone who has practised yoga for six years, mostly kundalini yoga, which is said to heighten your vibration and all that stuff. I have also read a lot of books on the subject, many of the ones Aaron talk about. I had the same belief system as you, however I have come to the conclusion that we all have darkness and light within us, wheter we like it or not. Just my opinion, if you are sure about your perspective dont let it bother you :} PS excuse grammar and spelling Im swedish.
I realized there is something about my shadow that sometimes and kind of expects people to say no when I ask for things, so I argue for it as if they said no and didn't give me a chance. Update: did a reading on myself. I don't trust myself well enough because I have this deep-rooted belief that what I think is naive or inferior to other people. I think it's because when I was told no as something, it was also a form of criticism or I was too stupid or naive to consider why it wouldn't work. I just assume other people know more than me and I know nothing. However, it's to the point where the reading encouraged me to look to myself for answers rather than blindly trusting others even if it looks like they have everything.
I’m also a fixer......and I sense still a lot of pain in you, Aaron. I really enjoy your videos, and I learn a lot from you. Thank you for your knowledge compilations, which have led me to many beautiful realms. I just hope you give 50% of your income to your step-mom, because there is hardly any video in which you don’t mention her and revive her. I understand you are giving us an example; you are sharing your pain to explain, but wherever SHE is, she has been the more influential person in your life....and maybe OUR life!
Wow, I really don't know what happened, but lately your videos are more attractive to me, I feel them more honest, I feel you more honest in your eyes, in your gestures, in your stories, in the subjects you approach. I feel the realness there. EDIT: WOW and I just wrote this before you said that your energy is best when you're being yourself.
your videos are not just to raise my vibrations it's really stopping painful patterns and helps me to understand myself batter ... from all my heart thank you ❤❤🙏🏻
I’m a female I have more masculine energy than feminine energy.....I’m happy I watch this because my cousin always tell me be more feminine if you want a boyfriend 😩 but I can’t no I understand I just need to be in my own fame 💕 Thank you Aaron
Im a stickler with time. I hold people to their words. Im early, never on time, let alone arrive late!! Your word is your bond. If you can't keep your word, you're factually unbelievable from that moment on.
Great video, Aaron! Keep bringing shadow into the light!🎆 I Am a Woman who had to bring about a Very masculine Energy to start All over again about Twelve years ago with two kids! A shift from a soft and delicate Ballet dancer, translator and spouse to a Warrior! As years went by everything got balanced with a lot of work from within! Medtitation, Yoga, Tai Chi, Energy Medicine, Holistic Nutrition! Balance is the Key! Equilibrium! Thank You for sharing Your experience!
This was very helpful. I am also a fixer and my father also retired as a fire investigator and will give his last even if he goes without. I’ve had a problem creating boundaries and it haunts me because I attract those that drain my energy completely.
Thank you Aaron! I was wondering where your updates would come again! Thank you for the beautiful translation of the unconscious part of me. Namaste brother ♥️
All I could really think about watching this video and another one you recently filmed was "How can I serve you?". Not from an ego place or a submissive place. Just from an honest open-hearted place. I'm so feminine but I had to wear a lot of masculine masks to survive, especially in my career, which I was told by men I worked with was "too hard for women". These days, I choose peace beyond survival and letting go of the patterns of my mind to lead with my heart. And I have no idea how it will all work out and that is alright :)
Thank you, Aaron. I listen to you every day. if you are going to take the time and teach us then I am going to show up. My partner for the first time sat down with me in our living room while I was watching you and I was interested in how he was going to respond. He asked who you were and then he settled back in and listened. After you ended I thought for sure he would ask if we could change it as I watch you on or large screen t.v. Instead, as I reached for the remote, he stops me and says, NO, I want to watch his next one. Inside I knew I was watching someone waking up as he asked me to write down your name and RU-vid channel. We've been together 21 years and this was the first time he showed any interest. Thank you. You are waking people up all over. Your work is not in vain and now I have a viewing partner! Much love and admiration!
You had me LOLX when you said " hey this is what I want to do is that okay ? Is that okay if we do this ", and you had that look on your face because I HAVE BEEN THERE this was an awesome video ! Thanks for all the tips and insights your authentic self is AWESOME keep shining bro 👍🏽
Great video Aaron!! This one really hit home with me and they keep getting better and better! You have no idea how much you help me. Keep up the good work, much love!!!
Humility before God is the pinnacle of wisdom. The wisdom of the world amounts to nothing. Jesus Christ is the Way the Truth and the Life... God bless.
Really resonated with me with the comment about not wanting to do the same "thing" at night that he was doing all day. Now it makes sense to me how I transition between a "work me" and a "home me". I make decisions all day long and that is the last thing I feel like doing most evenings/weekends.
I'm getting more balanced with boundaries, but I've become more introverted seeing people, and doing my hobbies more aligned with myself. Or I'm hiding from people still..I don't think I am but I'm seeing people for who they are more, and I'd rather do my hobbies that make me feel alive.
Omg you will not believe this, But a year a go I saw this video for some reason and couldn't understand it at all and today was suggested to me again in tik Tok by a girl that watches your RU-vid and is incredible that today I can understand perfectly about shadow work and law of attraction and manifestations even though my spiritual awakening started 3 years ago but started to question everything in 2012 😱😱😱 love of your videos by the way time here is 4:44am in Florida....NAMASTE 🙏🏻☺️
Btw when I am most stressed at work, i play your videos to hear your voice and to calm down 😂 thank you for being you, you helped me so much since I found you 😇
Your story sounds very familiar to mine. I also was a helper and a fixer for everyone except for myself. My dad had those loving qualities but his boundaries were lacking. My mother was very dominant exhibiting masculine energy. I took on the role of both of them in some aspects. I served an ungrateful narcissistic husband for 30+ years. I gave and I gave until recently about three years ago I'd finally gave up and had no more F's to give! Hopefully by year's end that marital contract will be null and void. The gig is up. You see I had a spiritual awakening that was triggered by a person (my TF) which is a gift in and of itself! I knew then my marriage contract was up.
Aaron bro! I totally relate to everything you are saying in this video. I too had a tough childhood with an abusive, controlling, religious, strict step-father. My brothers and I were taught to fear his authority at an early age. We learned through fear instead of love. We adopted survival strategies like being small to stay out of his way, lieing to avoid severe punishment. When we were a little older it turned to going above and beyond to try and gain his approval, or love for that matter. I'm 37 years old and to this day I am still uncovering layers of conditioning and trauma from my childhood. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It really helps me connect the dots and clear my own unresolved issues. Namaste brother 💚
My dad has a people pleaser mentality which sort of affects our family. He is a very spiritual man and has a very laid back attitude. He believes service to man is service to God but i do agree there should be boundaries. He taught me everything i need to know about liberation and awareness but sometimes i think he is on a whole different level from his family...he is here but not really here sometimes if u know what i mean. He says he gave us everything we need and now its time for him to focus on his spiritual awakening. I think i need to do more service...im kinda stuck in a more selfish place where everything is about pleasing myself so one of your recent previous videos has been helping me with that.
OMG Aaron, I'm just like you. I even have the same background with the controlling stepmother and the father who was never there. My father was a policeman. And I'm a fixer too and boundaries is what I have been struggling with. Thanks for baring your soul, it shows me that we all have our problems and people are not so different from each other
So glad to see this video Aaron! I too went through the same exact thing growing up. The people in my life that knew it are amazed I came out on top like I did. Thank you for all that you do!! I hope you know it's appreciated!!
I loved this video. I was such a huge people pleaser to the 100th degree. I learned to not care what others think of me and it changed my life. I still slip back sometimes but I'm getting better and better at it everyday. I'm definitely gonna check out the meditation you mentioned!
Thank you so much Aaron!! Your videos are getting more & more helpful everyday!! 🙏✨💛 You have such an amazing way of delivering information, that it doesn’t then feel like a chore to do, but something that sinks in over time & organically becomes part of how I think & feel.
Most every man wants to fix things especially when they are married it can become a problem because sometimes a woman just wants to talk about a problem and not have their husband gets frustrated with wanting to fix everything all the time.
Aaron pls change ur words and see ur WORLD CHANGING.......... (1)Stop staying ppl should not be late. (2) Start saying to your self....... Ppl are always on time. (1) and (2) are of same end values and however have different frequencyed words ..... Rest you know better. Blessings and Thanx for sharing ur teachings .... And yes yes we are in this world to fix ourselves nothing more than that.
Always love your videos Aaron! I've just gotten into the concept of shadow work. I've healed a lot of traumas and mindsets, but I never had a term for it. Now that I have a term for it, it's easier to work with it. It's funny because I have always been EXTREMELY driven to not be a hypocrite, but to have humanity is to be hypocritical, because we are all imperfect. Love your energy! You make learning fun! 😊
Again...Wowwwww....This is another inspiring, thought provoking, amazing video! Higher consciousness is obviously filtering crucial information through you, Aaron, to lift humanity to a new awareness. Thank you!!!!
