Sharmin needs to learn from SHAHRUKH | 3 books to master communication skill 

i would say if you don't have anything interesting or valuable to say, keeping quiet is best.

*_har bolne,chalne,uthne,baithne aur living style,standerd pr baat kar rha h_* *_koi thoda tahraav,shanti,maun par bhi baat kar lo,ki kam bolne ki kitne fayde h,kitna kam bolna chahiye, kitna unnecessary hum bolte h daily life me..... there's a beautiful line by great thinker_* *_"All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.":- Blaise Pascal_* *_So I'm not saying we should completely quiet,but atleast to speak.....aur yhi Art spread krni chahiye,kyoki har dusra admi aaj Art of speaking, speaking skills k naam par course bech rha h,but being a litrature student,you should divert your direction,jo silence aap kisi b rachna ko pdhne k baad aap apne ander mahsoos krti ho us se roobroo kraaye......aur dusri baat jo sbse Problematic hai, bajaye logo ko hum kisi fixed "speaking style, method" me fit kre,kyo sbko ek jaise tareeke se behave krne ki aur direct kre,har admi ki apni uniqueness h,uska apna andaaj h jisme vo comfortable h.....aur rhi baat ye methods ki to Sonam,admi kab tak dusro dwara btaye gye methods, techniques adopt kr le vo humesa kam sabit hoge,kyoki vo agree ya disagree ho kar nhi, Zarurat samjh kar adopt kr rha h,use psnd na psnd ka swl khtm ho chuka h,aur uski khud ki Pehchan vo pehle hi dab chuki h_* *_isiliye behtar yhi h ki logo ko formule sikhane ki bjaye unko apne andaaj aur apni ichha k anusar behave krne diya jaye,sawal sirf ye h ki vo dusri ki ko problem na deta ho, that's it_* *_baki rhi baat problems ki toh vo har kisi ko kisi n kisi jgh, group of people me interact krne me aayegi hi,koi b sab jgh fit nhi ho skta h,aur na hona chahiye_* *_and last thing Shahrukh k speaking sense pe baat kya kru m,uski Arrogance ko b log confidence bta kar follow krte h, and don't forget they're ACTORS,who has many peoples team to direct how to speak,what to speak,what not to speak and all_* *_So when you walk with that team to talk even a single interview or interaction+Very strong PR team to washout your stains.....So it doesn't make any sense to believe on one kind of videos_* *_and don't forget these celebrities are most vulnerable people of society who are desperately attached with their image and live in a Laa Laa Land..... completely out from Reality.....This is a different kind of topic to discuss.....I would say don't believe BLINDLY on what they says and how they behave, bcz They are ACTORS_*