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She Is Sending Her Ex Bikini Pictures (Is That Cheating?)
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@BitterComments Год назад

Run like Satan is chasing you.

@aqua6613 Год назад

I can't run...I'm too fat. Satan and me will just have to have a tea party or something.

@swim610 Год назад

😂

@dovelove1920 Год назад

@@aqua6613😂😂

@JP-ll8iy Год назад

😂

@jeanlenor1858 Год назад

Because he is.

@FrankS111 Год назад

Caller: “my wife won’t go to counseling because she’s a “private” person” Also callers wife: *sends bikini pictures to exes* 🙄🤪

@Youdontneedtoknowmyname3-iu1vk Год назад

She's private alright sending privates that is

@Hiker2110 Год назад

I literally LOL'd at this comment 😂😂😂

@fdllicks Год назад

Good one!

@donnasalerno9870 Год назад

My exact thought process. This guy needs to leave her. He is trying to save something and hold on. Sad situation.

@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Год назад

RIGHT. Unbelievable

@melaniea4901 Год назад

She’s not a “private” person! She’s a secretive person! Run!!!

@megandunning1558 4 месяца назад

Well said

@Julybaby12619 4 месяца назад

"Run Forrest Run!"

@dreamstories3524 3 месяца назад

That’s actually a very smart distinction.

@RachelSings21 2 месяца назад

Oh yes, THIS! Hope the caller reads the comments and sees this.

@ChrisAndCats 2 месяца назад

Selective privacy.

@Banana42699 Год назад

As a woman yes that’s cheating

@blahblahblah4544 Год назад

Yep, doesn't matter what she calls it. Hasn't the dude ever heard that song "Just a friend."

@Banana42699 Год назад

@@blahblahblah4544 agreed. a ex can’t just be just a friend.

@inthebooks3947 Год назад

Too bad if he divorces he gonna lose half his money

@blahblahblah4544 Год назад

@@Banana42699 I think they can in rare circumstances but not this one. ( Ex. My ex and I should've stayed friends and it was a mistake to date. We weren't for each other. I was too stubborn and he was to pliable lol Then he found someone hot and so did I. So we could've been friends easily since we were so over each other lol) But those are exceptions to the rules.

@Banana42699 Год назад

@@blahblahblah4544 okay yeah still disrespecting your current partner by being friends with your ex. Especially if you had any type of sexual relationship with him or her.

@pirate254 Год назад

A very wise man once said, "she's for the streets"

@jongarica2475 Год назад

Damn almost crashed my car reading this lol

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

She is and once she gets treated badly and rap** she will miss him. Have fun on the streets lady you're gonna regret this you seem like you have a great man. He's even willing to work it out. So sad.

@cabalogia Год назад

From the streets did she emerge and to the streets she shall return

@berlizgonzalez6736 10 месяцев назад

🤣🤣🤣

@albertrivera5443 9 месяцев назад

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 wise words

@TisHotMessHistory Год назад

She's already gone. Counseling can't save that. She wants a divorce, but she wants it to be his fault. She wants to be able to tell their friends that he was too controlling or trying to smother her. RUN!

@jongarica2475 Год назад

Facts!!!!!!!!

@Erica-wz8yv Год назад

Yep. She wants him to file for divorce so she can play victim. My soon to be ex husband did this. Cowards.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

I knew a pastor who said he had an addiction to s*x and still looks at woman. What a weirdo lol! Sorry but that's not changing you still have a problem.

@blahblahblah4544 Год назад

I hate it when they do that. They act awful until the other person leaves so they can play victim.

@bethford6884 Год назад

Exactly!

@24wallachian Год назад

She won't sleep with her husband because she's allegedly insecure about her body but she has no qualms sending bikini pictures to her ex?

@Matt-cr4vv 10 месяцев назад

There is no logic to it because she’s nonstop gaslighting him to get him to divorce her so she can spin it on the back end. Her husband just isn’t intelligent as it appears to not call it out.

@franziskani 4 месяца назад

I woman can dress "sexy" w/o feeling sexy. She may have not libido but still enjoy the attention when she shows off her body.

@kennedynguyen2036 3 месяца назад

@@Matt-cr4vv it's not necessarily about intelligence. Being gaslit by someone who supposedly loves you makes you feel like the crazy one for even having suspicions. We can see it because we're on the outside. He's way deep in it.

@marcrose3403 3 месяца назад

@@kennedynguyen2036 people do what you allowed them to do

@chanell5457 2 месяца назад

@@marcrose3403 it's true. But also some people are never satisfied and crave attention

@JustinCase780 Год назад

The gaslighting is endless. She's a pro!

@healthydatingmastery Месяц назад

😂

@monicamiller9345 Год назад

My husband had 2 affairs. When he was caught, apparently it was all my fault. RUN dude, run. I didn’t leave, and I so wish I had earlier.

@jkneeland89 10 месяцев назад

Couple things: 1. Paternity test on that 2 year old. 2. If she isn’t physically cheating yet, she will be soon.

@only1r.g.b 2 месяца назад

fr a paternity test is def needed.

@RafaelTorrez-zc3wl 2 месяца назад

I’m betting it’s not his

@Gardenpath11 2 месяца назад

Wow I never thought of that! I hope he’s reading comments

@KA-bm1gu 13 дней назад

Yep, or have regrets when those kids start doing those 23 and Me tests and find out that way. This is how a friend of mine found out her dad wasn’t her biological father.

@ultrahighgain412 3 месяца назад

This poor guy is going to come home to a completely empty house and wonder why he didn't see it coming.

@braveheartmoe001 2 месяца назад

He’s blinded so much by his insecurity with being alone that he stopped caring about his standards and values and is willing to allow this poor excuse of a woman dictate terms now.

@scottym.9077 4 месяца назад

He needs an attorney, not a counselor.

@thermalreboot Год назад

She's planning her escape. It's called monkey branching.

@dbtech4562 Год назад

Yes, she is in the exit phase. Plus she gets money from the marriage when it ends.

@christophercarrigg3775 Год назад

I think she was alpha widowed by the guy

@geometerfpv2804 4 месяца назад

This red pill terminology is so cringy guys...just stop...

@Ka_Gg 4 месяца назад

@@geometerfpv2804 But it's true. Sadly, the red pill community had to smack guys in the face because the conservatives weren't willing to be honest about how things are. I'm not saying the red pill community is perfect, but they came about, along with their terminology, because nobody was doing a good job with keeping it real.

@TylerHolmes148 3 месяца назад

@@geometerfpv2804the terminology may be cringey, but is it incorrect?

@jh26pt2 Год назад

This saying is spot on: when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. The sooner the caller splits from this woman, the sooner his life can start back up.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Yeah find someone that's actually trying to get help. It's sad that she won't get help she doesn't want to change. I hope he stays single he clearly deserves so much more my ex gas lights me I want it to end but I rely on him too much but no one cares so idk and no one wants to be transparent and honest. It sounds like she is into prawn. Gah I feel bad for this guy though he sounds like my ex.

@lzal9204 10 месяцев назад

As a woman, there is no way in hell that I would send bikini pics to an ex! And I guarantee there were more risqué pics sent and she is definitely not on the up and up. She’s enjoying the attention from the ex and getting a rise out of you. There are some women that thrive on this craziness and manipulating. She’s gaslighting you to make it your fault so that she isn’t seen like the bad guy. I’m sorry you have to go through this.

@schustererik83 9 месяцев назад

i don't know about you, but im more surprised he got married again, it never fails to amazing me to see divorced people get married AGAIN thinking "yea sure, this time it will work, it was totally not me last time". . . . . if my current ever ended for ANY REASON AT ALL, i would NEVERE get married again. . . .

@orneryoverwatch7031 4 месяца назад

@@schustererik83right? It's like how, if you've never been married, people seem to be *on your ass* like "hey why you wasting time, hurry up and tie the knot!" But if they know you're divorced, they never bother you with that sh!t... almost as if they know what it truly entails, and would never wish that on anyone... 🤔

@parkerskeeper9621 Год назад

She is a real piece of work. The audacity to be caught in a betrayal and to try and gaslight him into thinking it was nothing and then refusing to work on your marriage and give an ultimatum. She does not care about you or your marriage. Run!!! And start planning your exit plan strategically so she doesn't wipe you out. Go talk to a divorce attorney before she does.

@shb8212 Год назад

My wife is a very private person... except when it comes to sending bikini shots to exes 😂 I'm sorry, that excuse does not fly.

@mlokole254 10 месяцев назад

Of the same body she's embarrassed of!!!

@ethxo6734 Год назад

Can’t believe this guy called in to ask this question. Leave. She doesn’t respect you.

@FrankS111 Год назад

Marriage is over bro. She has checked out and doesn’t respect you. Get your financials in order and talk to a divorce attorney immediately.

@sherriflemming3218 Месяц назад

Absolutely.

@instahamx684 Год назад

She’s a very private person who is sending bikini photos to her ex. Poor Brian, he is refusing to accept that she is not interested in her marriage to him at all.

@Jane5720 Год назад

It’s a process to accept

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Or she could be a web cam model who knows.

@user-if4ke6en9r Год назад

@@mariahconklin4150okay, still a whore.

@nbkbot7836 4 месяца назад

Buddy sounds exhausted.

@BaconMountainMan Год назад

Wife: We can't be intimate because my body doesn't look great. Also Wife: *sends bikini photos to an ex

@mlokole254 10 месяцев назад

Makes perfect sense! 🙄

@amydaniels6442 5 месяцев назад

💯💯

@Veracityseeker7 4 месяца назад

Sigh🤦🏽‍♀️

@crystalmasters8582 4 месяца назад

Sounds like she is getting positive reinforcement from it.

@MichaelDelvalle-nt4gp 4 месяца назад

its sad that he's been gaslit so much that he has to ask if its cheating or not

@dlwilliamson5644 4 месяца назад

More than a year ago, I found out that my now ex was sending shirtless beach pictures to his ex. His response was, "she is my friend and I can nurture my relationships in any way that I want." In that moment, the relationshiT was over and even though it has been more than a year I still found myself watching this. I want to send it to him and will not. It is not my job to educate him.

@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 2 месяца назад

@@dlwilliamson5644You don’t need to educate him. He knows that it was wrong & totally in appropriate, that was just the excuse he used

@pmeehan_3 Год назад

Cell phones and social media have ruined relationships. I miss time before all this nonsense.

@yoelsyhutchinson4377 3 месяца назад

Cell phone didn't send pictures to her ex,she did,its not technology at fault here

@user-rr4or1xh2g 2 месяца назад

Agree 💯

@user-kl2jg9ve3v 29 дней назад

@yoelsyhutchinson4377 Your comment shows how low your IQ is.

@Girlgonewise Год назад

He’s married to the type of woman that wil light you on fire and blame you for having matches in the house.

@BestShootermanUbz Год назад

Dude has no backbone. This is the problem with dating/marriage today. They walk all over him and get away with whatever they want because he’s too nice.

@KittyCurioso Год назад

Yes, men do this too. They wrote the play book on it. He should run. She’s a crappy person

@ZappFranka Год назад

@@KittyCuriosoHas nothing to do with gender. It’s a learned behavior

@viviennedunbar3374 9 месяцев назад

My husband is always kind and sweet to me but he would shut down this nonsense ASAP, but I love him too much and respect him I would never treat him this way. I am going to guess that he really liked her physically and overlooked some red flags and is too scared to enforce boundaries. How can a marriage have such serious problems (no sex & emotional affair) within 4 years? You need to be masculine so your wife isn’t looking for that validation elsewhere. I am not blaming him, but why has she lost her libido for her husband while enjoying the attention of other men? This is seriously messed up.

@franziskani 4 месяца назад

@@viviennedunbar3374 Loss of libido after giving birth is not unusual (yes even 2 years after). Of course it is possible that she does have desire - just not for him (anymore). Sending the pics could be a vanity move or a kind of revenge (to her ex - see what you are missing out) - but her reaction to counseling and the threat she will be out if he does not let it go says otherwise. And that she has been secretly talking to her ex for 8 months and that he observed a change in her. She has an affair or hopes to have one. At best she entertains herself with having an emotional affair. While not being intimate with her husband. (that in itself is not a betrayal, many otherwise good marriages with faithful spouses suffer from that. That she is stuck in that might be a weakness but is it is not something she actively does to her husband).

@vaska1999 Месяц назад

Same with women. It's sad.

@kaitlinobrien243 Год назад

Bikini photos and she is a PRIVATE person 😂😂😂

@kekejefferson9219 Год назад

It's over. Shes done. She's just trying to make you break up first.

@noellehunt5901 9 месяцев назад

My ex husband constantly said "Forgiveness is Forgetting" following with his next statement "Thus this affair (I think the 3rd one) is really like a first time offense". I kid you not he believed that whole heartedly. My ex MIL insisted if I kept my home cleaner he would not stray.....um, 3 kids 8 and under and I worked full time too. House was not clean enough so its ok to cheat.

@Dontrolling 4 месяца назад

I like seeing kids messes, sometimes it’s genuinely impressive how big of a mess they can make. I was scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush trying to get slime off the floor last week😂

@scottylaub15 4 месяца назад

That is pathetic wow I’m sorry

@2Ryled 4 месяца назад

Gaslighting, triangulation you with the other women are prettier,better etc. When they aren't. Mil wants a divorce too. She can have her baby back. 1000% not your fault

@BlueDauntless 3 месяца назад

@@DontrollingSlime is not allowed in my house.

@finngamesknudson1457 3 месяца назад

Glad he’s your ex. Excuse about housekeeping is utter bullocks. Most men are almost oblivious to housekeeping. I know I have not been appreciative enough of such work my wife has done and understand why she gets frustrated that I don’t address issues I don’t see. We both work full time and try to share family chores... I was better at insuring kids played happily and productively than laundry or vacuuming.

@kristaw2686 Год назад

If she's not already cheating, she's shopping.

@Astro95Media Год назад

It's over. When a woman behaves that way, she's cheating. Her gaslighting proves she doesn't want to fix it. I know all this because it's exactly what my ex did to me. She'd been whoring herself out to a subordinate in his parents' house for a good nine months and wanted me to think I was crazy for not trusting her. Run, Forrest, run.

@StrongCore.Productions 3 месяца назад

Me too bro, together for 5 years, going on 9 months now and Jesus I dodged a Nuke, best thing that’s ever happened to me. hope things turned out well for you man.

@zeal4god402 Год назад

She says she is a private person yet she's sending private pictures to her ex? Utter contradiction...Next she will be sending pics of private parts. Emotional cheating leads to physical cheating

@Rynos30 Год назад

The ex is getting more than bikini pics

@yoelsyhutchinson4377 3 месяца назад

You think, 😂😂😂

@vaska1999 Месяц назад

Probably not. She's just enjoying these games.

@michaelmoran2125 11 дней назад

@@vaska1999ohhh miss the game has changed behind your comprehension. She's cheating, the kids not his, and she will not file for divorce as she gets more assests. Not one thing I said there seems unrealistic.

@drewbaker5364 Год назад

Talking for 8 months, I guarantee she has sent nudes not just bikini pictures. Not hard to cross that line once you start Run. You deserve better. If you get a divorce, grieve it and take some time to enjoy being single. Don't jump back into another relationship. Good luck!

@seadragon1456 Год назад

I wouldn’t even send my best girlfriend a photo of me in swimwear because that’s weird. And I’d FLIP if my husband ever sent another woman a beachy photo of himself. Run dude RUUUUUN

@aqua6613 Год назад

What if it'd a beached whale pic?

@edithandlez Год назад

If you can’t show your friend that’s a girl a pic of you in a swimsuit but they can see u in real life, you’re pretty insecure for that. It’s not weird you’re just insecure

@blahblahblah4544 Год назад

@@aqua6613Haha yeah the point is sex appeal. Beached whale isn't where it's at unless the lady has a preference for beached whales haha

@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal Год назад

@@edithandlez or some people just aren't conceited and don't need to send bikini pictures to their friends for validation. I think it's super weird to send pictures of yourself unless you're on a trip and at a destination that's fun to share

@nataliefigures5332 Год назад

She has zero respect for you and she is anything but private sending bikini photos to an ex. Run dude!!

@cess4089 Год назад

Cheating is abuse

@sherriflemming3218 Месяц назад

Bingo!

@andyg806 Год назад

The fact that this man has to even ask...

@menczelk Год назад

I honestly think if it was his first marriage he would walk / he wouldn’t have called otherwise. But it’s not just about her behaviour it’s also about him feeling like failing again - and that is a stronger glue than anything else when your self worth has been taken away by a gaslighter…

@redwar1772 Год назад

I agree 100%!

@Int868 4 месяца назад

💯

@herfirstmate Год назад

The bigger deal than the photos is how little remorse she's displaying.

@Mral236d Год назад

My wife is sleeping with 10 other men and staying out til 6 am the next morning. Is she cheating on me?

@seanconroy7222 26 дней назад

Get councilling, it will fix everything.

@rajsekharrao9594 18 дней назад

Are you Living Under the fucking rock or something?

@bigdaddy6207 16 дней назад

sounds like they’re just friends to me

@l-train7876 Год назад

He’s trying to come up with every possible plan besides leaving the marriage.

@larissabrewington9065 Год назад

"Forgiveness is forgetting!" She's hilarious. Fantastic person... ugh Why do people seem to gravitate toward narcissist??

@marlynsantos9677 Год назад

Poor Brian, the more he said "oh I know", the less it seemed like he did. Poor guy hasn't hit him yet.

@brianwood1536 3 месяца назад

It has, but he's processing it. From experience, it takes a while to wade through and accept. Terrible situation.

@handsomeawkward1822 3 месяца назад

If you have to ask “is this cheating” the answer doesn’t even matter. The fact that you even need to ask the question is a HUGE problem.

@sherriflemming3218 Месяц назад

Technology and the internet have made it so easy to cheat.

@warrensloan3467 Год назад

The best thing he can be doing right now, instead of trying to make this work, is gathering all the information and receipts he can for the inevitable court appearance. I hate to say that, but the way she seems to think of him I don’t doubt for a second she would try to take him for everything he’s worth once she knows he’s out.

@austinthomas2732 Год назад

I’ll answer the question. yes. Dump her

@WhyIneedGoogleHandle 7 месяцев назад

Let her go. She's not worth fighting for.

@David-wo9un Год назад

Maybe it’s not important for him to know but I wonder if there is any possibility he would want a paternity test?

@ChosenPlaysYT 4 месяца назад

Oh Brian… if she knows she can get away with walking all over you then she will. He’s too nice and naive.

@babyjessejames376 Год назад

This is such a sad situation. Brian sounds like a good man and a good dad. She is absolutely cheating, even if it's only emotional right now. If she doesn't want to apologize and invest 100% in repairing their marriage, then they probably should call it quits. That young child deserves to see a strong, healthy marriage.

@Matt-cr4vv 10 месяцев назад

I don’t believe it wasn’t physical that’s just what she told him as she gaslit him. She’s clearly manipulating him to push him to divorce her so she can spin it on the backend. The emotional affair BS she can spin. He’s trusting someone who has given every indication that she can’t be trusted.

@davidhealdjr.513 Год назад

I'm normally pretty pro stay together, but I don't think there's a lot of hope here. Sounds like she's already checked out.

@carolallison9685 Год назад

I would make the argument, and many people will disagree with me, that because of the way we form bonds with people we sleep with, talking to an ex unless it is for a legitimate reason, is cheating. Staying friends with an ex who you have bonded with in the past while you are also trying to build or maintain a bond with a new person is, in my opinion, infidelity.

@blahblahblah4544 Год назад

I agree in this situation. But it isn't across the board imo. I have an ex I never truly was into. And I always felt it was a mistake to date and we should've stayed friends. However I stopped contact. I could've easily not been attracted and stayed friends. Because my whole heart was not in it at all. I stopped contact for my spouse to give him feelings of security. And also it was good so my ex could establish his relationship. But if we stayed friends, there wouldn't have been this nonsense at all. On my end, it would've been nothing but friends. I currently have a crush on a friend of mine but it might not work. So I hope if I ever have a future spouse he understands my mentality and won't dictate me to go no contact with my friend. Because if my future spouse is that great ( He has to be if I'm getting swooned) then he should have healthy confidence. I want a man with healthy confidence for a change lol I know how to compliment. How to make a man feel secure. How to have only eyes for my spouse. But for once. Just for once. I want to see a man who don't need my help. Who is confident by himself. Man, that would be dreamy lol However I totally agree in cases like this. Emotional cheating is worse imo. My ex was emotionally cheating with a lady at work. Having eyes for his friend's wife. Ugh, I can still hear him say "But Wendy does this..." 🙄 Meanwhile, I never did anything like that. I always complimented. Secured the relationship. I've been on the other end of emotional cheating. It don't feel good at all. It feels like physical cheating to me.

@standground8284 Год назад

I agree, anytime I broke with an ex, I’d be civil if I ever bumped into them but I always went no contact. I’m not the bitter type anything like that, I just thought why keep me around if it could possibly hinder either of us from moving forward.

@geometerfpv2804 4 месяца назад

@@blahblahblah4544...but could your ex feel this same platonic non-attachment to someone he has had sex with? Nope. Men do not work that way.

@lyndaslocs Год назад

I wouldn't send bikini pictures to my friends, but maybe my enemies.

@BassBwoy3 Год назад

This is outrageous...married for 4 years, has a 2 year old together, she wants to leave already and is blaming this guy when she's in the wrong? How long did they date before getting married? Were there any red flags? She's either just wanting the divorce money or she was never all in to begin with. Insane.

@janae09 Год назад

If you have to ask the question, go ahead and see yourself out of that relationship. You deserve better.

@diggernash1 Год назад

Lawyer up, because she probably already has one.

@lot2196 Год назад

Yes. Her ex is a bad boy she can't get over.

@viviennedunbar3374 9 месяцев назад

He doesn’t have to be a “bad boy” but she sees him as more masculine than her husband as she is withholding sex while flaunting her body to another man. How is she getting to be so disrespectful of her husband and her marriage??

@adnanorochi3761 2 месяца назад

@@viviennedunbar3374I think it lacks spontaneity.. maybe he's not expressive and an adventurer! Like your woman will say I like going there or eating that, your job to make that happen a long side being connected with her to make good memories.. then it'll reward you with more than intemacy..

@michaelh2282 Год назад

He seems like a decent enough guy, on his way to being twice divorced. I honestly don't know how he screwed up this badly, either from choosing his mate(s) poorly, from his behavior, or both.

@royh2618 Год назад

He is weak. He chose someone who would eventually walk all over him.

@CM-rm3xj Год назад

Don’t be horrible. She’s the problem

@adnanorochi3761 2 месяца назад

@royh2618 means he should pick an idiot wife and ugly without confidence ! That woman manipulated him to think she wanted to make a family with him, but she's not.. That's on her only.

@rebeccaoprea9917 Год назад

She wants to move forward but she doesn’t want to do the work and be accountable.

@shelly936 Год назад

Brian, this narcissistic, gas lighting person doesn't have respect for you or your marriage. Run like the wind! She'll just get better at hiding this behavior, trust me. Life is too short to play games like this. The right person for you would never even think this situation is ok. Best of luck to you, God Bless.

@ashlieelizabeth8170 Год назад

I don't know how old you are Brian but you are still young. For Brian and anyone else who may be going through something similar: You can start over again, have a life you deserve, and have it with someone who truly loves you. Just know it can happen for you! Please walk. No matter how much justifying there is, this IS cheating and is such a disrespect to you and your marriage. You deserve better, Brian!

@citrustaco Год назад

Not easy like that for men. Because to walk away, then you lose 100% custody of your kid. And you have to deal with her cashing out with the divorce when it comes to child support. He'll get the blame in court and win majority custody. This is why most divorces are initiated by women. Not because women do more stuff than men, but rather it's harder for men to have a favorable outcome, hence the phrase cheaper to keep her.

@michaelh2282 Год назад

He can't be that young if he's going on his second divorce and has teenage kids. And boy if things are this bad now, wait till he's strapped with child support payments (and paternal duties) to two different exes. And from listening to him talk to John, he clearly has no self awareness of what went wrong, either in his choice of mate(s) or his behavior. Unless he develops some real introspection, I expect his next relationship to be another disaster.

@ashlieelizabeth8170 Год назад

@Michael T. Well like I mentioned above I don't know how old he is but since he has mentioned teenagers, 40's and 50's to me is still young in my opinion. I've witnessed people in my own family start over at age 65 and 70, whatever that looks like to them, and things got better for them. It's hard for us to decide since we don't know both sides aside from his. I'm going by off of what we heard. Self awareness or no self awareness, no excuse for cheating 🤷‍♀️

@ashlieelizabeth8170 Год назад

@Brian Odom 100% custody isn't always the case today depending. Back in the 90's, yes that 100%, it was like that for dads. It happens yes, but not too much because most family courts try to keep families together (depending on which state you live in). Mom's and dad's who bleed the other for child support always have been money hungry folks. Today when I hear "100%" and "walk away" that just sounds like giving up your parental rights and not taking responsibility. So many fathers abandon their families today without explaination for absolutely no reason. Not saying it's all the fathers who abandon, but more fathers do it than mothers. Today, it depends and it can go either way for mom or dad, whoever is more suitable 🤷‍♀️. Yes, mostly kids go with the mom because women take the motherload on when it comes to having kids, always has been that way for centuries. But that doesn't mean the outcome of dad never having them is infinitely not saying the father doesn't because ones of emotional intelligence and love want to protect and provide for their kids.

@ashlieelizabeth8170 Год назад

As for you two, I respect what you are both saying and where you're both coming from. However, instead of trying to pick apart my comment, I was trying to spread some positivity and words of encouragement. What's hard about these radio calls is it's hard for us as the audience to judge when we don't know the full situation aside from hearing his side and what's really going on. However, I wasn't only just stating this to Brian but to anyone else who may be going through something similar. Stay positive ❤️

@JustinCase780 Год назад

The dude receiving the photos is choking the chicken over them and she likes it.

@pi8582 Год назад

She's not that private!

@doreck07 Год назад

Run bro run. Guaranteed it was physical lol. Is marriage still worth it brothers? This poor guy has no aggression in his voice.

@jh26pt2 Год назад

This marriage … no. Marriage in general … absolutely. It’s not easy to find the right person, and it’s not easy to put in the work to grow as one. But if you do, there’s nothing better.

@aqua6613 Год назад

He sounds like Cleveland from the Family Guy 😆

@katysummer9418 4 месяца назад

I always had guy friends but never ever I had sent one of them a bikini photo.

@truckingwithtobee Год назад

Talking to an ex and sending pictures IS CHEATING! My husband had an emotional affair for 3 months. Even got a second secret phone. The woman was 2000 miles away. He didn’t have sex with her but it still HURT LIKE NOTHING IVE EVER FELT. IT WAS STILL CHEATING! RUN! You sound like a great man.

@amyridley3926 Год назад

She's cheating. She's cheating. She's cheating. She's cheating. SHE'S ALREADY GONE AND DONE.

@ROCKSTAR123620 4 месяца назад

Leave her

@kmb5678 Год назад

8months is a very long time to be in constant communication. She has gaslighted him and blameshifted which she likely does on a regular basis. This is why he doesnt know what to think, feel or do. I am in this situation......it may get worse. My husband was sending sexually explicit messages - i forgave. He got fired for sexual harassment - i helped him. He then repaid me by attempting to activate a dating profile and chatting to other women online and watching live cam girls. Run.

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

Players always say some version of it is in the past

@joshuacastillo9469 Год назад

This is heartbreaking.

@ropete33 4 месяца назад

"She thinks I should just forgive her and let it go" I will bet you everything from a Diddle Eyed Joe to Damned if I Know if the roles were reversed she wouldn't "forgive and let it go"

@GwenMotoGirl Год назад

She’s a very private person who sends bikini pics to a guy who isn’t her husband. Husband sounds like an amazing man and she doesn’t deserve him.

@Monae6890 Год назад

She’s for the streets

@atomiota5191 4 месяца назад

Poor guy. He sounds like a true mensch and deserves so much better.

@cptfreeman8966 Год назад

She wont go to counseling because she's a private person yet she sends photos to her ex... She also doesn't get intimate because she's insecure but she sends photos to her ex.. and then gives the dude an ultimatum for being upset. She's gaslighting him and homie deserves better

@rhondagriffith2159 Год назад

Wake up dude. Back in the days of "pagers" my husband had one and used it to meet up with his also "married girlfriend". The Gaslighting and lies never stopped. I'M Grateful I left and took the high road. THE NO REMORSE for her actions are A BIG RED FLAG...AND yes, it is so painful to be in those shoes.

@tentrickspony8925 2 месяца назад

You do not need her to go to counseling.

@H_da_6.5 Год назад

That Ex has imprinted her. Regardless if she stops sending those pics he’s always gonna be on her mind. I’ve been there before sadly.

@garybaltiejus7248 2 месяца назад

Cheaters playbook, "stop bringing up the past" just turn in your keys bro and call it a day

@2Ryled 4 месяца назад

Its called TRIANGULATION. Makes you feel guilty, gaslit, jealous, trying to up yor game to get her attention, feeling inadequate, etc. And then she can say its no big deal. When it is a huge deal.

@gdhhayes2129 Год назад

I needed this call!!! it so applies to my marriage, only I'm not the one in the role of his wife.

@VaCRAYtion 3 месяца назад

Is it cheating… no is it a reason to break up, yes

@sarahalderman3126 Год назад

Yes, it is infidelity for certain. Same with carrying on any sort of communication with any past or prospective partner. Any kind of communication with a person who could potentially be a partner is cheating, end of story.

@nicolaa9672 Год назад

Yes this is infidelity. I don't think that it is a problem having friends of the opposite sex or remaining friend's with an ex. However there are lines that you do not cross and that's one of them. Especially if you are not telling your husband.

@geometerfpv2804 4 месяца назад

@@nicolaa9672what reason could anyone possibly have to be friends with an ex? Things were so incompatible between you that you decided to go through the pain of a breakup to get out of it. What, you're just gonna be buddies now? I understand being cordial, but why in the world would you want to be friends? You've literally had sex, you can't be friends.

@og666 Год назад

let her go

@ellandecampbell6279 4 месяца назад

She certainly wasn't a "private person" when she was sending those pictures. Like they said, she'd absolutely be p!$$ed if the situation was reversed.

@jameslt4697 3 месяца назад

This shouldn't even be a call.

@tpolarbeart Год назад

I feel bad for your guy. I hope his life gets better

@markt4281 Год назад

“She’s a very private person” also she sends people pictures of her in her bikini 😂

@overworked123 Год назад

Yup, she's done.

@windupperson712 4 месяца назад

Begs the question, if bikinis are considered sexually explicit to send to your ex, why in the hell are we normalizing that to be worn in public? Dental floss and all😂

@hf110510 Год назад

You know Brian. She's checked out and not willing to work on it.

@1515asdfghjkl Год назад

I always feel bad for the kids in this situation. Because whether this lady refuses to believes it This will affect the kids for the rest of their life. It's so selfish and it seems like society encourages it because you're going after what makes YOU "happy"! Who cares who it hurts along the way. And what is it for? To go after a temporary lust meanwhile having no self control and then blaming others and never truly taking responsibility for your actions.

@raedorin979 4 месяца назад

I don't even send sexy photos to my hubs because i don't trust that my phone won't get hacked or stolen. Or that i accidentally put them in the family text with my mother in law😂😂..... why is this woman sending these photos to someone that is already an ex??!! Her poor hubs! If she does forget the ex and stay with him.... you think the ex will have the integrity to keep those photos off the internet?

@jeanlaubenthal698 Год назад

There is a difference between secrecy and privacy!

@hwinny2 Год назад

Love it, “weaponizing the apology!”

@steadystackin7250 Год назад

I don't understand how such a straight forward situation like this needs counseling / guidance to navigate through. Totally obvious what's going on and it's just a question of whether or not he's going to put up with it. He knows what other people are going to say already

@l-train7876 Год назад

He’s in denial.

@camilleward9157 Год назад

I get it. It seems easy from the outside but it’s truly hard when you’re in it.

@pauljansen6650 2 месяца назад

Bin her

@Ristofec 2 месяца назад

I might get some push back for this, but the majority of therapy/counseling is a racket. The vast majority of “professional help” is common sense advice. Some people need to be held by the hand and told what to do.

@eprofessio Год назад

FIRST, put your big boy pants on. Second, run like hell. Third, get the meanest divorce attorney you can find and do what they tell you to do. This person does not love, like or care about you. RUN!!