My ex left me. We had a 4 years relationship. She said she doesn't want me. It was so hard for me to getover it. Just damn 4 years... Then I moved on. It was so hard for me (Sometimes I thought about suicide. Then i thought about my parents) I didn't contact her and did meditations to control my mind. I just focused on myself. I worked on me. After 6 months later i heard she ask about me from her friends. Then she called me and said She misses me and still loves me. But I wont go back.. I had enough pain.. I wont need her anymore.
Don’t try to re-attract any double minded woman who thinks she should be constantly entertained and validated. You got better things to do with your time, kings
Interesting you say this. When ever I say “I feel like I constantly have to entertain you”. The girl gets upset. My next statement usually is “when was the last time you planned a date for us”? Then there’s silence….
Wow pretty insightful. Could have used this type advice a while ago. Not sure it’s too late now. She’s at a 80-20 power play. Not attractive when you are a 20%er.
@@Don-pk2uy Because a lot of people aren't that genuine unfortunately. They probably get gratification from being on a pedastal or in position of power, more than a symbiotic loving relationship.
forget getting her back, buy a motorcycle, nothing puts a smile on your face like a motorcycle. What freedom, stop the endless games, enjoy life. Free for 4 years after 42 years. It was hard till my trip on my new Triumph Tiger to the coast. GOD BLESS Triumph.
Other female dating experts: bring her flowers. Make her happy. Apollonia: have self respect. Move on if she is not responding. That's why you are gem. 🙂
You know how hard it is to find a woman who’s single, fit, doesn’t smoke, looks gorgeous and showed interested in me? It’s like a once in a lifetime event to me to meet someone like that in a bar… of course my mind is going nuts ! Such woman are rare these days !
As a guy that took care of a girl with a broken heart. And gave her everything. You should not have to anything more. Still you get dumped. Rebound. Hurts.
Yeah that's what I did. First she is telling me she lost her virginity to a guy with my name. She has her boobs in my face, she was laughing and talking about my blue eyes We hung out at the pool for the next few weeks and then she went cold. She said I came on too strong??? I came on too strong? If I could figure out what I didn't do right I would start making these video's!
Same for me... She was single avoiding all relationships because of a broken heart.... I fixed her heart... I cared for her... Now when her wounds are healed... She doesn't need me anymore.... Fucking hurts like a MF.....
Learn from the women,use the same tactics and weapons she use. Treat her worst then she treated you. Some women love to be miss treated I can go on and on but could be politicly incorrect language.
She loses interest in you and you walk away simple, you need to look at it as disrespectful if she loses interest in you even a tiny bit you're great and if she fails to see that then you don't need that negativity in you're life.
@@ApolloniaPonti i just wanted to say i will go to your website and contact you. Thank you for the advice. Just to give you some context before i do. I came out of a 4 year realtionship. I knoticed i wanted to live my life with her so do finally what she wanted which was marriage. She wanted to marry she asked me will you marry me why havent you ask. Well i said look i hold her cute arms and said i actually do want to marry you. But if i marry u it will be out of love but not matteral goods. I told her that can you be patience and wait for me to finish my school work and get that master to get the job. Then to get you the home and provide for you the rest of my life. But she got feed up with me about me not giving it now to her. To understand i am a Taurus young 25 year old i have never had abundance but i have always given this Sagittarius girl that 4 years older then me what she wanted. Emotional and phsical sercity also. I love this girl with my soul and i want her for life. But she texted me 7 days ago i and told me it was over and that she liked that guy. I felt like a knife was thrown in my heart. But i havent conntacted her in these 7 days. I could go to her home and send her a letter. Is the only way of connacting her. Because she cut me off from all social media and blocked me on her phone. In Essence, when i was at school i didnt see her much and in that time i knoticed the hell with it. I made a mistake i want to marry her i will marry her and i will fix my ecomic situation as i go. Well i saw her in May we talked about a fucture togeter then i bought a ring but i never got the chance to tell her i was ready to comittee. 😪 this pains me the most i was ready! But she left me for an9ther man i am guessing because of the abcents of abundance. I will work on my new image i am trying to wait 30 days or 35 before i contact her. In 7 days i found 2 jobs i start in 3 days. So i will have 3 incomes i started going to the jym. So i need help i will contact you soon. On your site. Thank you for reading this. With much respect and love. Sincerly: Aaron salentine
Don't be around the girl who's pilling away/leaving so often. Stop ringing and emailing her, give her a chance to miss you. Be thin on the ground, leave her wondering where you are and what you're doing. None of that will happen, if you keep bugging her all the time
@@blacmanonrise1 occasionally post something with u having crazy fun (not with other girls in a club or something it'll only push her away, but if the pics involves hot girls somehow in the background while ur there just having fun not giving a fuck.. it's the sweet spot you want) .. emphasis on the occasionally.. u have to make her looking forward to what's next and always guessing about your whereabouts.
When she texts you. Tell her that you are busy. She will get verry curious as to why you are not making her a priority anymore. Then she will start wanting and craving it. And when she does become re attracted, don't give into her wants again. Instead be like this I don't need you. Or anybody but myself. And it's other people's decision to be apart of that. *don't say that to her. Just have that mindset*
This will make me lose interest so fast. I think it’s more about fine tuning? A balance. If a guy is “acting” uninterested I wouldn’t know he’s acting, because I will think he’s genuinely not interested which will make me back off. Of course men and women shouldn’t be overbearing but still It’s a balance.
@@deyondas8822 that is just what i tought, bro so listen if she says it , its the same like seeing her with another boy and you dont want to look like you are jealous that is just wat the girls like a man that is jealous what you are gonna do if she says something like okay you just think like that she felt it but she is teksting like it didnt do anything to her do you understand me?
90+ days of no contact.. I think she is coming back around. Listen guys, from my experience (don't take my word on it) she will come back if you pushed her away, if she pushed you away because let's say an ex came back, good luck, she got what she wanted, you gone. Sometimes it's not your fault she left you. Want to know how you don't put a woman on a pedestal, stop assuming it's always your fault. Like everything in a relationship, it fucking takes two.
sebseb seb i was awesome with her but she left, i tell her to comeback but she said it wasn’t the right relationship! So we didn’t talk for 2 month until now
@@nimas3276 I was the best I ever was, I went to a psychologist, she too confirmed I did nothing wrong and it was all her, but some women are dumb or immature or both and can't appreciate something good, their excitement comes from drama, from emotional abuse and pain and that is not healthy. When I saw her she wanted me gone, I felt and never looked back, didn't ask for anything, didn't beg, nothing, I felt with my head held high and that was it. Right now I am dating in search for a connection which I can not find. People do dumb shit they regret when it's too late.
The best to get her interest back when she lost it is. Don't show attention, lost interest too, move on with your life, let her see you can live and happy without her. If she's made for you, she will definitely come back. If he chase her when she lost interest, she is gone forever.
@@kavishjeeban5005 yes it’s true. Women care more than they show. They’re always wondering about you and what you’re up to. Just do you pretty much and if she comes back, do your best. If not, then that’s that ig.
If u truly love it set it free and if it comes back it was meant to be a woman will never truly respect u if u can’t show her that you’re willing to walk away
Darrick Brisco yes ...once they see you as a strong man walking away she will value you. Worked for me ...even if your heart is aching fellas ...hang in there..if she really loves you shell come back
That don't always work bro, I dropped a $20. Oh how I loved that twenty. It flew right into this old lady hands. She looked at me waved and said thanks sucker. I really should have gave foot chase on that one, but I get your point. Not everyone worth chasing.
That is the best advice! I've told many people that but they don't want to listen. Walk away! And when she comes back have real discussions about what happened. Don't just let her back into your life. Have some self-esteem and self respect!
Does it really matter how many words? Do you want a relationship with a woman or not? Get better so the next woman that comes along can get the best you that the others missed. Sometimes the best way to get revenge is to be successful. This may not only help you but her too. She may see you better and then realize she messed up with you and improve herself and come back and you guys can go strong or you do it with someone else or remain single and reap the benefits alone. The confidence this builds is enormous.
@@nicoserez1019 it takes the time it needs to take, Im meeting up with my ex this saturday, its been 3 months since we dont see each other, give her space to miss you and she will eventually check you up (they always check you up) dont post anything on social media, just go ghost, be misterious and she will need to send you a message at some point, it can take 2 weeks, 1 month, 4 months, focus on you right now, remember if you text her you're just giving her even more power, and pushing her away caus you're showing her that shes the max you can get
haha no bro she will think ohh he won a lottery with me , lets play game with him a do whatever i want and will treat you like a doll . I think is better to have a selfrespect and not always her ego beat you down so I think we should have some self respect and don't let them think that they are our first priority
Ultimately, i live by that old poem:"If you love something, set it free....if f it comes back, it's yours if it doesn't, it never was" Grovelling, begging, pleading with a Girl to come back. Sitting around and moping about her leavin, never work. it really is that simple
"If you love something, set it free...if it comes back, then no one else wanted them." ....or.... "If you love something, set it free...if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it."😳
I needed to hear this from a women’s perspective.. I hurt the girl I love the most bc of insecurities, doubts etc. everything you said about how some men are during the time to try to get them back hit me because I truly regret everything I did. My thoughts consist of her everyday and I do not want to let go because she’s the only one who’s made me feel this way before. I truly would do anything for her 😞💔
Currently also going through this dint know how to walk away we have 1 beautiful daughter and she is so confused it makes everything much harder how has everything turned out for yall blessings for everyone in the comments and god give us strength
while I'm in the same position ill say you shouldn't do anything for someone who wouldn't do the same for you. stop seeing her as as a fairytale and start seeing her for what she really is, doesn't mean she's evil but I guarantee you she's no angel either.
A man just needs self-control. With self-control the woman can set her hair on fire and the man remains unmoved. The man must at all times be in control especially of his breath as well as what he allows his mind to be attracted to or distracted by. In the relationship, which ever party makes the other to change their breathing pattern controls everything else. It's that simple. No need to analyze women or figure out their motives and devices, just have self control and she will acquiesce and fall in line or she will go into personal character attack to throw you off your center using chaos. So buckle seat belt and have some savings kept on the side that only you know about. Preparation is the first law of self-preservation.
I see know a different perspective. I didn't cheat, I treat her right, I did love her with all my heart, then suddenly she said she needs space because she's confuse about her feelings towards me and said to me that I will find a woman who sees my value. And we're more than a year already. I realize my value, I don't like the way she's treating me anymore. These few days I was like overthinking and can't sleep back whenever I wake up early in the morning around 3am thinking of her. I know what I want now, I want a woman who sees my value. I love her but if she don't see my value, I don't want to suffer the rest of my life begging for her love and attention. Thank you so much Appolonia ❤️
I feel as if she walked out of your life don't try to get her back its usually not worth it cuz it's all a game to her, she's doing you a huge favor by leaving and showing you she wasn't right for you anyways and her true colors, fellas YOUR the prize at the end of the day not her, it's not worth the pain and agony just focus on yourself
That’s right this guy nobody’s talking about because if she really cares about you she will come back and then she doesn’t go well move on look for someone else that the sad truth.
+Tru- KD Coolest comment. And I'm in a situation where my girlfriend of 13 years decided to sabotage our relationship. And she just upped and left me. But this comment just helped a hurting brutha... I'm gon' let her take her butt on. One closed door opens another. 🖐️🚪👫🥂
So true. Thank you. You’ve answered many questions for me. I ve realised that after 3 years I was just being used by my ex. I loved her more than she did me.
Paradoxically, the best way to win a Girl back, is to move on with your life, and show her that while you want to be with her, you don't NEED her. That need makes Guys beg, grovel, and plead with Women, which drives them further away....and only justifies her decision to leave in the first place. Move on, get on with your life, and start living it. Stop asking dumb questions like:"How do I get a girl to date/come back to me?", and start asking:"How do I become the kind of guy that girl wants to date/come back to?".Staying the same Guy a Girl left, won't bring her back to you, simple as that. If being the same kind of Guy a Girl left would bring her back, she wouldn't have left in the first place. Get busy living life, find a purpose to get out of bed everyday. Develop a firm understanding of who you are, define your life's purpose, and the philosophical basis for your life. (Whether they be religious or political). Then ask yourself this. If the Girl you want to date, or the one you're hoping will come back to you, followed you around everyday, observing your daily routine, what would she see? What is it about what she sees that would make her want to be a part of that life?
This is the only female dating coach I’ve came across on RU-vid who talks sense, if you used strategies from other female dating coaches you would lose that girl in a blink of a second
The "no contract" is key. My ex-gf broke up with me. I moved on. About 4 months later, she wanted me to join her and her friends on a 3-day weekend trip. I told her thanks for the invite but I have plans with my buddies. The no contract period gave me time to reflect on the relationship. It was mostly about her and her games. That was an easy decision for me.
This is basically what The Red Pill is talking about. And yet it is classified as misogynistic cult. Its refreshing to see a smart and quality women like this talk about this. Keep it up.
I love this. I met a woman and I let my emotions get the best of me. We had so much in common, wanted the same things, and had seemingly natural chemistry. Then I believe I took the fun and it being light out and was coming off needy! Oh no! She said she wasn’t ready and needy time. Boom. Wow. Now I know what I did wrong. I am currently focusing on me. I’ve done this before so I can do this! Whether or not she comes back is not relevant to me. Because I know the next woman I’ll react better! I will give the other woman all the time she wants. If I don’t hear from her down the road. At least I know what to do to catch myself and adjust to be more assertive and I’ll follow with confidence what your saying in this video! Ty for all your help!!
The first few days might be hard, but if you keep yourself busy and focus on yourself and smash out some personal goals/achievements - you'll soon realise that she was not worth the heartbreak. Been through it myself and got to the 3 week stage of no contact where she admitted she fucked up but I was past it. Look out for number one fellas and people will respect you more.
Yes that's true. I go through something similar, I didn't have control, got too attached and pushed too much. Maybe she lost interest forever and fucks up everything now. I was barely able to change my focus of mind the last days, but you motivate and show me, others go through the same and I can as well. Thank you
@@TkevTV Exact same boat bro. I feel u. Been 3 weeks now since no contact and damn, it's still hard some days. But this video has some strong pointers for sure. Been focusing on myself more and growing and achieving personal goals. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, just casually start talking to other women. Get yourself out there and have that abundance mindset. She may eventually come back and she may not. It will hurt, sure. But the difference now is that you're OK with her never coming back. There's more women out there. Stay up bro. Good luck 🤞🏽I might hit mines up after like 45 days when my mind is ready and strong enough to risk permanent rejection. Almost....
@@SrananKing yeah bro, good luck to you too. As an update, she and I broke up a week after my post. Through that I learned that, it's also good and ok to be down and to sulk. Not that it should be permanent, but when you're down, it has a reason and you need to process something. I was really down, almost destroyed myself, broke my hand and much more. Right now, after 2 weeks, I slowly get better. Focus on Uni again, work out more, train a positive and still realistic mindset, work on my restaurant and other business And I still sulk over her sometimes, I allow myself to be sad for the good times and for that I wish for more. But I also know, there are so many more, that deserve our love (NoHomo) There are so many more that fit to me, there've been before as well. So never giving up is truly key. Distraction is also good, still, processing it is just as important. One can never fully run from his problems. I wish you well brother, hope you do good and can forget her ✌🏽🙌🏽
Is she worth getting back... Because if you lost her....via she cheated on him or he cheated on her...i would move on... Never go backward... Always go foward...
That's what you supposed to do. If she cheated on you, that means she never loved you so! If you cheated on her, you need to let her go and find yourself. Move on because she or you will do it again!
My number one attraction to women is,I keep a straight face and never lie to a woman.And I know my true ORIGINAL identity which I NEVER make my self cheap. This has given me 110% of powerful confidence. Thanks Appolonia for mentioning examples of listening to our mother's.
I’m actually going through some similar situations and that’s exactly what I’m doing focusing on me and while living with her I’m doing things differently... I stop forgetting about me, started analyzing the wrong things I’ve been doing, I started taking the lead,complimenting her indirectly, listening to her and sharing things that happened through the day, when she comes home if she’s not i do the meal, when we’re going out she never know where we going all I say are you free if she says ok then i tell her to get dressed and surprise her. I’ve been practicing it’s a little hard but worth it if you want to save your family my wife said she loves me but she feel lost and wants to find herself so giving her time and on my side doing my part as a man without forgetting where I’m going has helped me a lot.
This video makes me believe that relationships in this century are way different than in others. At some point in history you had to be like a brave knight who would storm a castle and battle a dragon to get the princess. Nowadays it's the thing that pushes her away because that's the ultimate way of being needy.
This video helped me out tremendously. Some days I do great with talking with high quality women and some days, I strike out. I wish more women were open and honest like you, your videos are a gift. Whenever I failed I can find the reasons why and move on. Keep up the great work.
Thank you, the end made me cry because i have to love my self first. It sucks when your just getting to know a girl and you act kind of crazy for them or get mad because they played hard to get and now they think your crazy but its just so much emotion that you do feel crazy over someone. Damn Patty
She losing interest: 1. Could it be due my mistakes, 2. Could it that she has a better option? Reason no 1 may be rectified. .Reason no 2. Doubtful to reattract her. . is beyond redemption. .Let her go. ..find another better than her. I would do this.
Sad but true, I thought that I had found the one and I saw a future with her, well I was hoping that she felt the same. But unfortunately no, I was just a option to her. A " foody call " someone when she had no one else to go out with. It's sad when women steal your heart and then leave you when they find someone better . Women are always looking for their next " Upgrade " in their so called relationships.
If you've ever been a gentleman and let a lady have the last fortune cookie you sir was her better choice. The next woman who enters your life may own a fortune cookie factory, you deaerve it, word up.
This took about 2 days to happen so I talked to the girl I liked and she stopped liking the other guy because my friends told her he was crazy. So Moral of the story get some friends get some girls
The only thing that you can really do is work on yourself. Its not that easy to just walk away from somebody that you really care about. And in those situations you will have a scarcity mindset because those woman are hard to come by. Meeting woman and hooking up is easy, but finding someone you care about is super rare.
Currently I am going through such a situation, and this video affirmed all that I am thinking and believe. It's tricky, because you have to show her what your worth and what you bring to the table, while also showing her that you don't NEED her. Focusing on your own growth, development, goals and work is generally a good thing to do. We aren't going to get time back. And we should use it wisely. Thank you very much for your advice and input. Greatly appreciate it!
When no contact isn't always the option, and you have done everything, created boundaries, change your mindset, by not reacting to test, also stop chasing and working on you sometimes it's just patience and stay on the path. Especially if a kid is involved it's difficult but reality do everything right all you can do is wait. Break ups are hard but if you work on you and change you in the end its not always going to end by getting someone back. That's the last step accepting the reality.
Focusing on you after a break-up, especially if you were dumped is the only thing you should do fam. Deal with the pain so you can start your come up as soon as possible. Fuck all that other shit, let the world know that you gon be alright
This is true. I was dating a girl and she kept on pushing the boundaries and I ghosted her for 2 months. And she comes around apologizing and wanting to meet up. I was being nonchalant about it. Were currently dating. Great advice Apollonia!
Great video. Thank you. I met a good woman with some past issues. I unfortunately thought that I could "show her the light". Yea, no. So with me doing that I lost myself, lost the person that I KNOW I am. I seriously thought that could never happen. But this relationship has been an awesome learning experience for me. Once I started to just chill which is my normal self. Things changed. Sometimes we get intimidated by a person and we feel like we need to match up with them or they're past and what they're used to. But along the lines we tend to forget that THIS person is with us for a reason. F@#k they're past and what they did or who they were with. They're with YOU. What I got from this video is maintain strength, it always wins.
No contact should be forever unless she contacts you. If you contact her you lose your value, and she can't respect what she didn't earn or fight for. That's to much control if she contacts you the playing field is even at that point.
I am going through these videos to relearn these things in which I learned during my tenure in college. I am super satisfied with Apollonia Ponti's information in this video. Thank you
After an excruciating 1 month, on her request to give her time to figure out things for herself. She finally deleted me without even saying goodbye. The pain is so real, after all, fights I fought against my family, to keep her. She left even without telling me. I lost my family and one person I truly loved. I feel empty and hollow.
Fellas I fell into a rut forgetting my value . Never forget what value you bring to someone. Once you realize your value and believe it she'll either see it or eventually someone else will..
Great advice, what a powerful lesson. I discovered your channel a couple of hours ago and have have been binge watching videos ever since. You're absolutely right when you said it's not a game but human nature. I've thought for most of my adult life that men are supposed to play cat and mouse to win over a woman but to your point, it's about being natural and creating healthy boundaries. Thanks for all the great advice, congrats on your success and keep up the amazing work!
I learned a lot from your videos , now I am always the one controlling the relationship. The one key factor I would like to highlight is that never compliment a girl too much like if she sends you a pic don’t just say wow u r so cute , maybe you can simply say I like your style or I like your eyebrows, and most important is that you should not show your love to her all the time unless she says it first and don’t always be available for texting , girls like to think if this guy really loves me or not . If a girl feels like that she is the only one in your life and she is the most important thing to you then you won’t be getting that attention you deserve 😉
I have too many things I want to accomplish in life than to chase a woman who does not like me. As Chris Rock said, you can lose a lot of money and time chasing women, but you can never lose women chasing money. Focus on your money and your career, and the women will chase you, not the other way around.
What do you do when you sort of feel like you're isolated, you ask a girl out, she becomes busy. You also decide to be busy by doing something productive, going to the gym, looking for a job but still you're isolated. Some of the people close to you, the guys I hang out with talk behind my back. Friendships with people doesn't seem to last.
Thanks for the tips!!! February 14th, 2020. She told me she left me as she wants to fall in love with another man that has control. She wants this man to be more in control. It's been a bitter pill to swallow. I have stepped back for her to find this man. She contacts me from time to time but I don't want to hear that she found another man. I have taken steps back to focus on me.
You’re one of the few people doing this that really does a fantastic job and offers grounded and insightful advice. Thank you. I have lost the attention of a woman I really am in love with. She increasingly ignored my texts more and more until it became obvious to me that my value in her eyes is pretty low. I finally walked away (but I can’t call her an ex by any means). She’s told me several times she misses me, but at this point I’m not contacting her. I see the value in this whole walk away thing, but this all HURTS, I ain’t gonna lie 😢
I’m glad to have found your channel, I’ve already watched 5 videos today. Women don’t often remove themselves from these kinds topics to give a genuinely unbiased opinion. Well done.
That's exactly what my ex has done..started dating another bloke 2 weeks after we split up..despite saying she was deeply in love me when we were together!
the best video of 9 minutes of talking without saying anything important because for that you need to pay... Video in few words... Dont be needy but become something she would want to have in her life
@@DkaeRisk And that is why Appolonia speaks about an abundance mentality. Yeah, someone's smashing her, get your mind from her and go do other stuff, which includes smashing someone too. Take that time off, she cant be buzzed off sex forever. Just be dominant in your own life and make your moves easily, you'll get to smash her too (since that's what brought us here)
Phenomenal video. Inner work in not always easy, and it's also worth it. Shows maturity, self-actualization, and personal responsibility which is always attractive in anyone.
Distract yourself go to the gym,dress good,get a shave, go out with friends, if you’re going to invite her for a dinner only ask her if she’s free if she does surprise her show her you’re leader. Tell you what when we forget about ourselves that’s when problems start happening so don’t be In that category be a man and little things like asking her how was work or a little kiss on the chic makes a lot of impact, listen to her give your opinion on things if she asked but never be scared to show who you are.
You’re absolutely right I’ve been there it is hard. She was in control but I never realized only after things happened and when I watched your video. Thanks a lot
This is so true, I was in a relationship where it was pretty much over. She had me at her full control and at the tip of her fingers. We had four kids is she constantly instigated arguments for me to leave. I was trying so hard to save my marriage by telling her I loved her fighting for her etc. But one day something clicked in my brain and said I'm not taking this anymore. So I no longer focus on her and 100% focus on me. I started working out everyday for at least one hour a day lost a bunch of weight and most importantly stop giving her the time of day. I don't know what clicked in her stupid little brain but now she's telling me how I have everything I look at I am to have what I have as far as marriage kids house etc instead of wanting me to leave all the time. When we went out other woman looked at me and I think I made her realize that I could move on that I definitely could move on but you was trying to make me do and pretty much abandoned my home. The main reason I didn't do it is because I knew that if I left it will be considered abandonment and I will have everything to lose in a divorce. Anyway so lesson here is work on yourself first for some reason that will make your spouse realize that you're much much more than they thought you were or it will remind them why they married you in the first place. Be strong and yes this is absolutely works
Just remember.... theres about 4billion other women in this world. You'll find someone better, it just takes time. If someone loses interest and/or respect cut the deadweight and move on.
We been talking for 4 months, been on and off. I blame me because of my actions I wasn’t really showing her I wanted to be with her. So she had friend zoned me. But after expressin how I really felt and I gave her some flowers she said that it was a eye opener that I showed her how much I cared. Now we back talking she says that it feels like she’s forced to like me and that we can get authentic feelings back but it’ll take time
My experiences it doesn't "really" matter what you do or what you say if the woman wants to be with you she'll be with you if she don't she won't. And if she wants to be with you she will come see you ,she will swim a river to be with you.
I always knew I had the upper hand with every woman I ever been with because I never been In love before, nor have I ever felt love before, I was always accused of hiding my feelings or holding them back but they just dont understand I don't, as a clinically diagnosed person living with psychopathy, my feelings..they're just not there!
