Come on man she blocked me on social media. how's this SCRAMBLER gon WORK.?? Just saw her gettin inside someone's car My brains tells me it's another man's car It's over (hope it's not) coz I NEVER saw the driver's face) an THERE are 2 people who owns the same car model with the same color at work It's a man and famele But which woman who would beg another waman to take ride WITH her...?? coz it looked like that driver hooted on her convincing her to come get inside the car (or it was planned via phone calls or social media) an was letting her know which car waiting for her an off they go an been 2 days never saw her at work Obvious its a man Now it's been 4 months she blocked me on social ( don't know she blocked my phone number coz I never called her after I realized that she blocked me on social media) After all the things I've done for her she ended pulling away an ran This situation broke me deeply I've lost interest in getting other girls in my LIFE. Even WORSE I've lost interest in even having SEX haven't for long time No hooker or any other girl would seduce me coz I'm reeling from the pain of loosing her Even though I've chose to ignore ALSO giving her the coldness she gives me NOW Match her coldness with MORE arctic coldness But everytime I saw her at work it's gettin WORSE Gettin MORE depressed an secretly clinging on HER hoping she will change her mind My friend keeps on hooking me up with other girls but I immediately lost interest Now all I do is drinking beer an hoping I will find a purpose to improve my LIFE But now STILL stagnant Here this side EDUCATION system s*cks Hard to find a way to improve yourself as a man... An from the beginning she was the one doin all the chasing after she accused me of pushing her AWAY then the table turned an I was the one doin all the chasing ( with all the "nice guy syndrome" like u said) till she pulled the plug an ran AWAY I've been taken Ls after Ls my whole life since young age From school , sports , careerwise even betting or wanna call it gambling ( know this she doesn't know all of these things coz she doesn't really know me personally She all know my nice guy syndrome acts ONLY.. If she did I would have understood why her pulled AWAY) But after loosing her just proved me that I'm a"LOOSER" Can't be a LOOSER in all sector of life Must be somewhere I'm being celebrated that's why I'm taking another shot to improve my LIFE which is FX trading if it's all ends up FAILING like always I'm done . To HELL with this world To HELL with her To HELL with the man she thinks he BETTER than me See ya later Excuse my English grammar , English not my first language . I'm from south Africa
The she's got you and you're not willing to walk away....If she's seen you already walk away from another woman in the same circumstance....she knows you mean business but are patient.
I'm now 62 and have used 41 years of my time in 3 long term relationships. the first lasted 3 years. the second was an 18 year marriage. the third was a 20 year relationship. with all that experience the thing I have learned is this: NEVER make a woman so important in your life that your world gravitates around them. NEVER, EVER surrender your personal power to them.
Hey , are you trying to attract or win back your ex , specific person ( SP ) , restore a broken relationship / marriage or banish a third party from your relationship💕💕💕💕
@Eunice Erim Hi Eunice I hope all's well and good with you. I hope you don't mind my intrusion into your life, but I would like to give you some advice. With regards to your husband coming back to his marriage, be very cautious. Do not give him all your power but instead keep some back for yourself. He did not leave you for another woman, he left you because he was (and may be again) unhappy. If this were not the case, he would not have noticed another woman. You MUST learn to love and value yourself first above all others because in the final analysis, self is all self really has.
@@LifeOfRiley100 hi Rahil I hope all's well and good with you. With regards to my making video's, I've never thought about it and would not know where / how to start. On my journey I have experienced many things and amongst them, the wisdom that we are all here to have our own experiences not someone else's. The art of living which can only be learned through time, is not to become attached to those experiences but rather, to view them whilst having them as though you are just an observer of an event that is happening. And remember; NOTHING, NOTHING, NO - THING is what YOU think it is. Life is just an experience, nothing more - nothing less. Be well. Be happy. Kind regards DT
Don’t chase women, be friends with them, flirt with the ones you like and then let them chase you. If they like you they will show obvious interest, and if they won’t then they won’t. This has ALWAYS worked for me
You won't have to look back. Cause some hot ass thick booty mama will be right behind that cruiser, holding on to you. Giving her the finger.....Bye bitch!
Same happen to me, I didn’t chase and I’ve been with many younger better looking woman since, loving life, okay financially I took a hit, but finance can be rebuilt, time can’t be regained
The problem is sure it could cause the person to become needy and trying to figure out but ultimately this isn’t love it just causes attachment and in time if it’s not right it’s all wasted and kinda gross if you keep playing with peoples heart
Or kidnap her?... Why do people miss this out? It's fucking normal, it's man vs woman, man wins when he really wants to. (Just incase, omg chill people)
The guy in the video doesn't even get girls who is he kidding lmao, he's a 5/10 at best acting as if he knows girls so well. OP is right, if I girl stops texting or loses interest it's because she doesn't like you enough. Or vice versa, I've stop texting girls for favourable girls. It's not rocket science folks
All these rules and games. This is why it's best to be single, though it may suck at times. Men, don't let a woman change you for the worst. If it's healthy, keep being you. Embrace yourselves no matter what she says. Take this. 👑
When she pulls away, that is nature's way of reminding you where a man's priorities, focus and energy should be. Go ahead and build an empire, make more investments,... in short live your life...and then thank me later!
Forget what they are talking about brother you are 1000% right. They will either see you bossing up and come back, for the rest of the world will see you bossing up and you will have more options. Either way you're in a better position and you feel good. Great advice dou mur
I'm gonna be honest. You are describing immature people whose relationship is not gonna last more than a year. Let's be real here, if problems like this occur and she's constantly testing you, she's just never gonna be sure in your relationship
If I need to play games and not be sure or sincere of myself just because of a relationship, then it seems that it is just a waste of time. Move on with your life
Sometimes they pull away because of childhood trauma - fearful avoidant for example. But you are right never sure of the relationship wears you down in the long run.
WHEN SHE IS PULLING AWAY SHE IS FUCKING ANOTHER GUY,FORGET HER,YOU DO NOT WANT HER ANYMORE,SHE IS A LOSER NOT YOU...NEEDING SPACE TO THINK IS A MYTH,THEY JUST WANT VARIETY,THE'RE NEVER SATISFIED,ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A ''BETTER'' ONE TO FILL THE VOID SHE ALWAYS FEELS INSIDE
@@shabushabu1453 absolutely,women today they have the advantage of having toooo many options so they ''need'' noone to attach to.instagram and facebook have eliminated human relationships for good...
if she’s pulling away you open the door for her and close the door and never open it again, unless she knocks. You do not control her dumbass. You don’t need to teach her a “lesson”. She left for a reason.
@@gukonni When they start "pulling away", they're done with you. At that point, you have two choices; get rid of them, or spend the rest of your life living under their heel. There is no third option.
It’s not true at all in my experience. It depends what kind of “pull away”. You might have just been a bit too heavy handed and so becoming more aloof can make you desirable again. It works great if you just want to hit it a few more times before moving on
I’ve never had any of these issues up until recently. Got involved with a girl and I have have just realised I’ve literally done everything on your list. Thanks for opening my eyes. Lesson learnt
@@hrajabi7261 I'm now scared that i can lost mine... idk what to do. But ok, I know that I can't do anything, I've done everything that I could. Including all the mistakes and all the right decisions, so now I can only wait, and this waiting kills me😢
I thought I was the only one experiencing this until I came across this piece. I'll never do any of these again. Life is abundant; there's always someone for everyone.
😭😭😭😭am currently going through a very toxic moment but i thanks God am overcoming. I have learned simple lesson,,,, never beg a woman. Never explain too much and never let a womn that you cant do your life things without her. 😭
If she’s acting distant it’s probably because she’s become too comfortable in the relationship. Best thing to do is raise it and make it look like you’re not just going to stick around. That makes her feel less dominant and she will come back to you. If she doesn’t then she probs didn’t actually love you in the first place.
If your girlfriend is pulling away then shes not girlfriend material, move on and find someone thats not just right for you but also mature enough to settle down
So basically a woman will only go for a guy who isn't interested in her, and then start moaning further down the line when she is treated as unimportant. No wonder the failed relationship rate is so high.
Man or woman, the feelings of rejection are the same when someone you like (or love) pulls away. The bottom line is, if someone doesn't want you, they don't want you. There is NOTHING you can do.
Ok, before seeing the list, I would say: 1. Being too nice 2. Being needy/desperate 3. Buying her things/"buying her love".. 4. No initiative/assertiveness 5. Being too arrogant in assuming her attraction for you
@@ZamWeazle My woman loves roses, even in the talking stages, she dropped hint rhat she loves it so i got it for her and our love for each other grew stronger, cause i remembered and i care and bought her favourite flower. In relationship you going to end up paying somehow, either dates, flowers and her losing interest
@@Mkhl4Sure I agree. I think that list isn't 100% accurate. Having spent time looking into behavioural psychology and meeting and interacting with thousands of women around the world. You can't necessarily put out any definitive list that works.
As a girl who's been popular most of my life, I can tell you all these are not "mistakes". These are clearly signs someone actually cares for you. And it's how well behaved people behave. They apologize, they own their mistake, they own their feelings and are not afraid to show them. I'm married to the guy who did all these. Ok, the "gift" got me mad, I saw it as him trying to shortcut to obtaining forgiveness without having to question himself for his rude behavior. I still wore that scarf, it was winter and it looked nice. But he still had to go through a long difficult conversation about his mistakes.😁Seriously, please, continue being the respectful, well-intentioned, guy-in-love that you are. And if she keeps running away, THAT'S the unfortunate sign that she was never the one from the start. She only liked you halfway, and could only get aroused when she felt you were angry with her, done with her, couldn't care less, etc. Even if you did win her over by refraining from acting the way it comes natural to you because your mom brought you up well, she would have gotten colder again the moment you started caring again. Ask yourself do you seriously want to be with someone you constantly have to force yourself to be unnaturally cold for?? Your mom deserves a kinder daughter in law, your kids deserve a nicer mom.
Amen. While i do think that some "red-pill" advice is very useful (like focusing on your own life, going to the gym, being more out-going etc.), most of it can cause more harm than good. In a world already impoverished of love and affection, it is more important than ever to be authentic with your own feelings. The world desperately needs more emotionally sensitive people. I know, being emotionally vulnerable (especially as a man) is often painted as a fatal weakness, but i think in fact its one of the biggest strengths a human-being can have. It is the trait that allows you to build a genuine connection with romantic interests. Do not surpress your feelings. Whether it is being hurt, being in-love or being confused. Surpressing your feelings only leads to you building a shell out of anxiety and frustration. This shell makes it more difficult to feel good about yourself, which in turn makes it more difficult to connect with other people. Do not let the game change you, try to change the game. Stay respectful and well-intentioned, even if it means to make yourself vulnerable and to potentially get hurt. My most memorable moments were all made with women whom most of you guys would've nexted long ago.
@@darkforcekiller Yes, yes, YES! You've got it all right. I agree with everything you said. You sound so mature, emotionally balanced, and you're well spoken. In my book, you're great husband material. You seem... cooperative. Willing to listen to the Other, with the capital O, be it your lady or your buddy, putting aside your ego, tolerant, understanding. Those are features that make every couple, work environment, family, work out in the long run. Right? These "red pill", "black pill" videos only make all human interactions worse by making everyone paranoid about the kind intentions of the Other. Just make sure that you are going for a kind, sweet, tolerant woman. A lot of great guys don't give a chance to decent girls and would rather chase unattainable, emotionally unavailable, Narcissistic Personality, selfish, cold persons. And when it turns out it's Amber Heard, then you end up watching videos of men equally angry and disappointed in women, and the vicious circle is perpetuated. Men, train yourselves to go after girls like Camille Vasquez, who understand you and defend your honor, not after those who will destroy it.
BUT I GET EMOTIONAL. Plus, without emotions, why even bother? I want emotions!!! Otherwise i can just go jack off and smoke a bowl. But i miss the physical contact and affection. But, if all of this is how a girls brain actually works, just start killing. Because thats fucking evil. Its twisted and shouldnt be accepted in society. I hate this stupid game, it makes me wanna fucking puke. I hate the fact that I never get what I want EVER!!!! But im supposed to spend my life pleasing females?? Fuck that. I just really wanna stop... everything. I do not consent to being a part of the power struggle.
5 Mistakes 1.Confessing your feelings (she’s suffocated) 2.Apologising/Explaining (never apologise or explain yourself, her attraction plummets) 3.Winning her over with a gift (the more pressure she feels from u the less attractive she’s gunna feel) 4.Matching her coldness (once a women knows she has you it’s over and you’ll never haver her) 5.The ultimatum (giving her a big box of pressure, similar to coldness. Display to a woman that you are willing to walk away)
@@joyli2632I was about to commit this epic blunder, after I confessed she became aloof, I tried to give her a gift but she insistently refuse to accept it, I was having second thoughts of approaching and apologizing to her over the incident but I decided not to because I discern I have nothing to apologize over a rather kind gesture
I stumbled across this video and since I am always trying to learn something new I thought I would watch. After listening to this I have one thought that really stands out. If a man is having to put this much effort into a relationship then it would serve him better to step away and have some serious self reflection. Work on yourself first. Just like you would practice before you played a game or competition etc. Once you have done that the confidence in yourself will come. You can only control how you act and behave and feel not how she does. So if you fix yourself first, build confidence in yourself first. Then put yourself out there. If you have done that and know what you are worth then the games and mind tricks aren't needed. They will either like the way you act and the things you do, like flowers or whatever or they won't. If you being confident and being yourself pushes them away then they weren't for you. Wish them well and move on. The right person will not require any tricks. Once you know your own worth and are willing to let them walk or willing to walk away yourself you won't need these types of videos.
Wow - I totally agree with you bro - do the best to get back your ex if you think she is worth - then after soo much efforts still she is in that mode - then wish her for future and take care of your future - but don't leave things in between without even thinking deeply
That second part isn't even close to being true! Plenty of men have lost women by chasing money. However...I argue that the money they gained was of more value than the women they lost in 100% of cases, so your overall point remains true.
@@marc1speed Been there, done that and they get sh#tty about it later. Both decisions are wrong. The only thing that counts is what gets you laid. The rest is BS.
@@tonyg2916 It's not wrong for me mate, each to their own. In truth, these days I avoid women entirely and just look after myself. I'm done with their shit. I don't need their drama and their entitlement mentality.
The moment you start thinking about her while staring at the sunset, drinking a beer, driving, listening to an Elvis song and laying in bed E.T.C. Your fucked. Bobby has hit the nail on the head.
That's what I did. I moved on and she started to come back, lol. Did this to 2 bitches. Basically I told those bitches to take their shit somewhere else.
I found out that when I got more emotional with a woman, that's when she cared less, and that's when she had the power, and I lost. Ye who cares the most, loses.
That's right women wants someone who have his shit together while she can't even handle her own emotions and ego. Imagine buying a brand new iPhone X on apple store with 50 dollars, that's the mentality of women and it's simply hypergamy. It's just hard to take women seriously.
YOU KNOW WHAT, IF SHE GOES AWAY THEN THAT'S WHAT WAS MEANT TO BE. WOMEN ARE LIKE YOUR SHADOW, YOU CAN NEVER CATCH YOUR SHADOW, BUT WHEN YOU WALK AWAY THE SHADOW FOLLOWS YOU. 😉👉 TRUST ME ON THIS.
@@BobbyRio THAT SHADOW CONCEPT WAS THOUGHT TO ME BY DAD WHEN I FIRST STARTED DATING, IT'S INSANE HOW WELL IT WORKS, BUT AS YOU ALSO MENTIONED, I NEVER TREATED THEM LIKE SHIT AND LEFT A VERY SPECIAL MEMORY OF ME WITH THEM. THAT IS EXACTLY WHY THEY ALWAYS COME BACK, THE OTHER SECRET IS WOMEN ALWAYS REMEMBER A FUN AND FUNNY GUY THAT MAKES THEM LAUGH AND TAKES THEM AWAY FROM EVERYTHING, IT TOUCHES THEM IN A SPECIAL WAY, A SENSE OF HUMOR GOES A LONG WAY AS WELL.
When she pulls away she isn’t always testing you. Sometimes she’s just not sure about her feelings yet and that’s ok it’s not a red flag or means she’s playing hard to get!!! It means she’s taking time and space to assess how she’s feeling. There’s a multitude of things you can do or not do in order to inform her feelings. If you start declaring gushy feelings, apologizing about being awkward, text and call too many time etc it’s going to make he feel more unsure and possibly go for someone else. If you play it cool, do your own thing, mirror her, get back to friendly exchanges, make yourself extra busy and just be cool and sweet if she reaches out but just sorta mirror her and put it all on ice a bit. I’m a high value woman who takes her time. This guy knows what he’s taking about…
I'm 56 years old, I have had many, many women and married two of them. I would like to think they were my girlfriend's and my wives but in reality, it was just my turn.
I take it you lead a very dull and boring life then, along with a dull, unfun sap of a partner. You want a partner to test you, and test eachother, it's the best way to motivate eachother, stay on top of things. Find out eachothers likes and dislikes, there for having more exsperince dealing with eachother.. all that's itself brings in fun and happiness. If the first thing to do after being tested Is to give up and walk, then there's no hope left is there.
WoodyD Bro take it from me when a women tests you usually she wants to see how strong you are. If you are smart you will know the difference between a test if she likes you or a test if she is disrespecting you. 8/10 it’s usually disrespecting you
I've learnt that a man should only fight for something when that thing allows him to fight for it; anything that does not allow you to fight for it is not worth fighting over....period!
You right, but what does “to fight” mean? Fight whom? The problem is that modern man ends up fighting with woman while not noticing the real enemy of relationships called Ego. Following these advices people choose their Ego that keeps them in their well-known cage of their own miss-conceptions about themselves.
Damn. If only I knew this 6 years ago. I did all of these mistakes on this girl I was madly in love with and everything I did seemed to be pushing her away. I felt like I was going crazy. She got married to another man 4 years ago and it still hurts like hell
Let me tell u this guys , find a woman who wouldn't walk away from u just because u're showing her ' too much ' attention .. but rather find one that would appreciat it and even give it to u in return ^^
Dude this is so crazy. Haven’t heard from her in over a week. I have NOT sent a desperate text or a check up text. My last text was responding to her, and she never responded to that. But I’ve been banging my head against the wall pre writing texts in my notes of allllllllll the things you’re saying not to do
You have to keep not caring and watch yourself from the slightest slip up of showing you care. That's a headache. If she is more attracted to you because of this. So what? Who cares how this nut reacts? Just wait for her to end up on the news for jumping off a bridge.
Tar heels 215 not really bro, you understand when you have no competition. You are dating her it wasn’t oficial. To be official could be a few months from now. You was knowing her. Most woman pull away at early stage. You go and do your things they come back when you do not expect it. Patients is the key, if you really wanna love that woman you don’t assume you let her go and sometimes they come back and you start again from zero. Most woman do that.
@Superman J bruh right on the money! They want you to ask em out or chill even when they have a boyfriend. When you meet a women she'll put out the same energy you put out towards her. Fuck these games bs
We've all been there. When a woman pulls away, you've lost all control of the situation. If you want her back the only thing you can do is to let her go.
So I have this girl who came to my place on a first date we talked had great chemistry ended up having sex. The she stops texting me my last text was "hey what's up is everything alright?" Because I sensed she was being further away. She didn't text me back after that, should I text her back or ignore her aswell, my text would be something like > okay I'll take this as "ur better off without me" < I appreciate it if u can help
Why you text after you sex? You should of waited to contact her. And should of been on a phone call after like 3 or 4 days. And only to hang out again. So you should say something funny that happened to you during those days or something interesting during the day you were with her. Then jump into meeting again. She said no you hang up, she gives any answer other than yes or ok you hang up never looks back at her.
Bruno CBart stop assuming things on your head. You don’t know what she is upto. You score on the first night. You lasted 30 or more minutes. She will contact you again enjoy your life and go around to talk to other females. Don’t put your mind into her she will feel it. Remember everyone comes back at least once could be tomorrow or 20 years later. She is not your girlfriend it’s not official yet.
@@CashMasterStackzzS all these social rules, games and bullshit manipulation tactics we have to pull in order to attract and keep women attracted really make me dislike females and the female psychology.
I started chasing classmate for about month, we never had a good talk, after months of separation (winter break), i started ignoring her complete, now she is chasing me from last 2 years. 😄😄😄😆😆. This video is masterpiece
I can't help am a bit needy in a relationship and the worst thing is I fall in love way too easily but I can get over a girl very very quick the whole thing I find weird to be honest how my emotions vary from been needy and have attachment issues to dropping them in a drop of a hut just like that if she does not conform to my standard
A woman has options. Never make the mistake of thinking you're her only choice. If you want to be her first choice, you have to give her good reasons to feel that way, because someone else will do it if you won't. No woman owes you her feelings just because you like her and you think you're great to her. She has to make the decision to like you back, and pushing her to make that decision instead of letting her come to it herself will never end well for you.
@@tcchip , a girl (or anyone) that truly wants to be with you, will make it clear. Anyone who plays these kinds games and isn't "sure" about you is just shining you on. If you have to play games to get attention from someone, you don't want attention from that person... Trust me, they'll turn out to be a neurotic mess. The fish are always biting somewhere.
@@roonbare2769 unless you have known this woman for months, if not years, nobody whom you just got to know wants to be with you right away, regardless of whether you're looking for a relationship or casual sex. Why? Because she doesn't know you, period. Just because you had fun chatting with her for a couple of hours doesn't mean she knows you. And it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, women live in fear of getting assaulted, harassed, raped and murdered every day, so it takes time to be able to convince a woman you're safe to be around. I used to think it was playing games too, and believe me, I hate this stuff too. When we meet a woman we like, and think 'I want to be with her', subconsciously we want to own her, and that's where all the problems start. If you're not willing to show a woman you're willing to spend time to get to know her, while respecting her as an individual with her own life and give her personal space, you won't get anywhere with her, because being pushy only convinces her you're dangerous, insecure and possessive. She already has her life routine, she's not going to change it just for you just because you had a couple of great dates together. The instant you start pushing her to start making space in her life for you before she's ready, you just shot yourself in the foot. The reality is, any attractive woman you meet online or off, is getting hit on by a ton of men, whether at work or outside. She's got her own life and isn't waiting for you to come into her life and sweep her off her feet. You have to be the exception if you want her to pay attention, unless you want to go for socially awkward women who don't have much or any experience with people, much less men. Trust me, these women will be worse. They'd be insecure, distrustful and will always have a chip on their shoulders. Again, unless you really know this woman for some time, you can NEVER assume that you're the first priority in her life. She has a job, her friends and family, and you are a stranger. Anyone who's intelligent and attractive will naturally attract other guys. If you're not willing to put yourself out there and instead just pray she's going to pick you because you're a great guy, you're just handing over your chances for another guy who's willing to do it.
Nothing wrong with been tested... She has to know that you can take it, so when your child is diagnosed with a horrible disease you won"t fall to bits. Likewise men can test women in a similar way 'You don't love causelessly' Ayn Rand...
As a girl, you’re completely right. A guy shouldn’t do these things. But usually if I start pulling away, the root cause is I find the other person isn’t someone I can see a future with. So no matter what the guy does, the result won’t change. I think guys should realize that and just move on and find someone who is attracted to them without any doubt.
When she pulls away it means another man is on his way in..... Truth be told majority of women that pull away end up old alone, miserable and unhappy. A real women would communicate with respect
No it doesn’t!!! It means she’s not interested. It doesn’t mean there’s always another man. It means she doesn’t like you and she would rather be alone than with you. The truth hurts sometimes.
Smh I speak from experience. I've slept with many women who have pulled away. Some come back. End of the day girls play games real women can communicate clearly without insecurity games like pulling away. Some women act like 23 yr old children n others keep it real. Sorry if u cant tell the difference
I kinda know what to do but it takes practice to be chill and not making those mistakes, but also i don't like just any girl, after one relationship i feel like I deserve someone special. Thanks for the advices, i wish all of you guys stay chill when meeting that special person
Basically just don’t be needy. Be loyal but have your options open. Don’t allow one person to define your entire happiness when you are single. If you play it cool and calm, you’ll have less issues. I was so insecure when I was a bit younger, now I just don’t care. If she curves me I curve her. I’m not claiming anything, but girls hit me up a hell of a lot more than I hit them up for that reason. I literally have girls down south who regularly ask me when I’m coming to see them. That’s not looks, I’m an average looker and my profile pic on here is pretty old and a bit catfish. Be cool, seem like you have options and a girl will want to put her territory all over you. Trust me BrOoOooo
I’m glad i ran into this video because I made all of these mistakes with the last female I messed with & it’s literally went downhill from those mistakes. I thank you
"testing you" what am I? game to you? if woman gonna play mind game with you. just kick her out of your life and move on. you want real mature woman. not some ego mind gamer. relationship is serious. not some sort of game. men have life and they are not gonna waste their time with their bullshit. another reason why I am single and happy. I still feel sorry for good men who had to deal with this. I really hope you all have happy life.
If she has to test, then she doesn't trust and what the HELL is she doing in the relationship? Carrying her insecurity and constantly jumping through hoops is not my idea of a happy union.
I think the main theme of this video is that when she starts to pull away, just remain normal and show your routine behavior. Show her as if nothing has happened due to her pulling away.
Yep. I saw this so I deleted her number and carried on with life, months later she contacts me back and we’ve been on a date since. Have a spine and don’t put ANY woman on a pedestal.
I'm with Hamza Khan and a few other men. The exception being if you know you came on too strong. Stay busy in your life and purpose. She might call after awhile and don't chase her, slow it down. Most women will find us more attractive.
Girl: Pulls away from guy, calls guy creepy Guy: Pulls away from girl, flagged as discrimination and rude to disrespect women Total Society Score = 1/10
yeah its weird how when a girl wants to end things with a guy its like whatever. but when the guy wants to end things with a girl he is considered an asshole.
Bobby is absolutely right. I've made these mistakes. Listen up. However I'm glad now that she pulled away. In hindsight she was definitely not the one. But perhaps she is the one. Bobby is spot on.
There's nothing wrong in confessing your feelings. If she's in well and good..if she pulls away cut the cord forever, delete her contact number, block her from all social media accounts and work on yourself. Don't jump into another relationship. Embrace that pain and be an upgraded version. Our life span is too small to play these stupid game's. Be in your mission, Connect with people around you who has similar vision or hobbies and please instead of hating woman understand their nature.. it will set you free. Love from India.
As far as I'm concerned if she pulls away and I've tried to talk n communicate a few times, then obviously she's playing games or not worth all the hassle.
I can't believe I started watching this video. Be yourself. Be true to your feelings. Woman who play games are a red flag. Genuine and sincere behavior is normal. And trust me, there are a ton of normal women out there who don't play immature games like becoming distant when they love you.
Can I ask; if you are tired of the mind games and you want to end the relationship such as it is in order to heal and recover yourself then why, are you going to ask her for a break - up? Believe me Chris YOU shall find it so much more empowering as you go forward with your life experience if, YOU accept the responsibility for making the decision and then taking the action of finishing the relationship with her yourself. Live in your power to create the life YOU want.
I made all the 5 "mistakes" and she indeed stopped talking to me. This video is so relatable yet so frustrating. Like, to think that this is a personality trait of women is so annoying, like why can't they just be sincere and speak their minds already instead of thinking every little thing is pressure? Honestly, makes me think that we are almost taming a scared cat or some animal, which just means they know what they are doing and really are just trying to make something otherwise simple difficult.
@@laudasarkaar9788 this happened about a year ago. There was a clear moment when she became cold to me and started responding with one-word answers and without adding anything to the conversation. A few weeks passed and she was clearly flirting with another guy. It kind of pissed me off at the time and I blocked her on all social media and left her friend group chat. Then we had to attend a party together for someone who was a friend of mine and her and she finally broached the subject via message, saying that it was important for me to go there too (since I was avoiding her), which I agreed to (out of respect to the other friend). But in that same conversation, she also admitted, even though we still interacted in person in the same friend group basically every day, that one of my best friends who was also in the group had been sleeping with her all month (even though she said she didn't want any serious relationships during in this period of her life). After that was the time when I blocked her everywhere and it was one of the saddest moments of my life because we actually had a good connection at one point. Back then and to this day, I still unfortunately have to see her from time to time at college and have my day ruined by it.
yup girls like that have mad mental issues and they like 2 things... 1) to be treated like shit and 2) points fingers and blame others for treating her accorsingly... too much drama, fk that sht!
All women play games but you shouldn’t have to do all this to get a woman. If she’s not trying hard enough, replace her and give the other woman what she would’ve gotten. Then make sure your ex sees all your couple pictures so they can regret it and come crawling back. I just did that to a woman and it worked. But I dropped her again bc that’s just her personality. So she can be lonely for all I care, til she gets it
@@lordptah8349 well then not every girl plays games then. You can't just say every girl plays games but when I include men it's incorrect. You're acting like its completely impossible for men to do the same. You're wrong. ATTRACTIVE women easily attract and ATTRACTIVE men easily attract. Yes we are more selective. Selective doesn't equal playing games. It's just being careful with who u choose to trust and give ur body too. Not a bad thing rlly.
As a woman who's tired of the dating world, this is actually good advice. Can't tell you how many times guys have put pressure on me in these ways. Of course back then I didn't know why I didn't like it when guys bought me flowers on the first date, or kept saying how much they liked me, but that's exactly why. It's a total turn off. Nobody wants to date someone who is desperate and trying too hard. I'm not saying guys should try to play a "game" or be cold and fake, but it just doesn't feel good to go into a relationship with so many expectations. This goes for any kind relationship. Imagine if you met someone who wanted to be best friends with you and from the first day you met them they couldn't stop talking about how they've always wanted to have a best friend, and started explaining all the things you're going to do together, and how they want to be best man at your wedding and go on road trips. It would feel weird right? Same is true for dating. It just feels unnatural.
@UCyYlBkbnZ6JoSKJwZV84QgA Well just because they don't like someone does not make them a hoe. Also you do realize that for a woman to be a hoe a man is also needed... the one who buys the services. A hoe is at least making money. What the fuck is the idiotic male customer doing? Spending money on a hoe and then crying about it?
When my ex started making more money than me the relationship was doomed. She saw me as the weaker person. Problem is that women will always leave a man when they feel they can have more security somewhere else. Only a strong woman can look past this and realize that you are strong and that as long as the man knows you're on the same team that's when it will finally work. Good luck getting to that point in a relationship