She Said: She Would Cheat On A Man Who Makes $$ Less Than Her 🤯 | Anthony ONeal

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@anthonyoneal 2 года назад

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@caatherineaa 2 года назад

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@jjones5362 2 года назад

Subscribed! I feel each person should come together as 2 whole beings. Each person should have their own and be able to sustain what they have on their own. Coming together (in a relationship) should be an extension of building and building more together.

@mrs.gardener6363 2 года назад

This was a very insightful show! Thank you @theTableWithAO for sharing it 🙏🏿👏🏿!

@graceharris3650 2 года назад

I'm here for the prize! lol @the table with AO

@ofmiceandmandrakes1005 2 года назад

Our people really need to be educated. It's so much I want to say but I don't have time. A man with 55k with great money management can build wealth faster than an individual making 200k with poor money management

@Waterboy-wh7mb 2 года назад

I agree with you.

@nanagyambibi7426 2 года назад

Lol This sounds good to motivate the everyday man, but this is false. 200K is a whole different atmosphere.

@Tanniab09 2 года назад

I agree. To whom much is given much is required. And whom is faithful with little will be faithful with much. You can blow 200k yearly easily with reckless living. Look at some of these athletes who blew through millions.

@jdagrees9609 2 года назад

Amen 🙏🏾

@joyriverr 2 года назад

I see your perspective! 👏🏽👏🏽 To each his own!

@chloenchad 2 года назад

I was marry to a man who was financially well off a net worth of 2 million in assets. And guess what we never took vacation , spent holiday together. etc because he had a very busy schedule. Ladies Be Careful What You Wish For. All my friends was traveling and enjoying holiday with there significant others that made less than 45k.

@jmack2989 2 года назад

Facts! I knew (yes, past tense) that life well. Look for a well-rounded man who shares common morals, interests, and lifestyle as you.

@andymartinez1426 2 года назад

Wow that crazy

@angelharmon2465 2 года назад

Wow that gives me perspective for sure thanks for sharing

@sherrickjosey4278 2 года назад

People don’t understand that everything comes with a price a man that make a ton of money majorly of the time won’t be around as much or give you the attention you deserve.

@cececierra5294 2 года назад

People have way more problems in relationships when their is more money involved. My husband went from an ok job financially to almost 6 figures. I saw the stress that put in him. To always work and need to more more when it came to his job. I strongly believe he was happier at his job making less 🤐 I one time asked him DO YOU REALLY NEED TO MAKE 6 FIGURES? Mite sound crazy but we were way happier as a family when he made less 🤷🏾‍♀️

@lidyanaredeemed9848 2 года назад

I wish if they talk one at time . Money doesn’t build a house. Good character, vision, being disciplined, good spirit, definitely not lazy or lousy. Interesting discussion.

@tiffanyford7394 2 года назад

Yes, one at a time, its hard to follow their perspectives because everyone is talking at once lol

@vuyonhlengethwa3987 2 года назад

Exactly!!!!! They have a lot to share

@joyriverr 2 года назад

❤️❤️

@joyriverr 2 года назад

We definitely have a lot to say! On the show we dive in deeper and sometimes we get excited! But it’s raw and true!! Hope to see y’all in August!!

@tiffanyford7394 2 года назад

Hi Joy, I will be sure to tune in 🙂

@MPLetsTalk 2 года назад

Anthony looked like he was screaming in his head with the answers these ladies were giving and all talking at the same time.

@jasminekindell3141 2 года назад

I think we all were. And they contradicted themselves over and over again.

@lakecrowell9119 2 года назад

“I’m going to bring my physical bible” Ha! Great way to end the show. Definitely cringed throughout watching this show. It’s sad to see how far away people are turning away from God and His word and putting faith and understanding into the world. It’s either the truth or a lie and if God’s way is the truth and life, the only other option is lies that lead to death. But I love the way you handled conversation and did not sway from your beliefs !

@cececierra5294 2 года назад

Iv been scared to watch this episode😬 I'm all for the ladies getting their own platform. And I strongly believe woman being able to hold themselves down but sometimes when I hear people speak all I think is WHERE IS GOD IN YOUR LIFE/HEART. Look I'm not perfect but I do believe in equality and walking in faith and going to God whenever I have a problem Alright I guess it's time to watch..

@artreanuacarr4633 2 года назад

I with you Lake Crowell...I cringed as well....and I am glad how Anthony handled this conversation ...this was a tough one but he stood his ground and was classy with it

@utopiaexpress2715 2 года назад

Man this was a good conversation! I agreed with some of the things they were saying, but disagreed with most of it. I'm happy AO stuck to his guns with mentioning his faith and why he believes the way he does. I wanted a little more push back on some of the Christian related comments, but I understand it would've went down a rabbit hole so I'm here to just speak on the Christian parts of the conversation. I hate how people always put blame on the "Black Church" for things that happened in the past. Of course people in the past didn't have the knowledge that we have now when it comes to the word of God. Only thing we can do now is learn from it and teach the younger generations by those mistakes. I also hated how the young lady used the Old Testament to justify polygamy. We(Christians) live under the New Testament and Polygamy isn't tolerated. She also stated that people are now living in "The Truth". Jesus said, "I am the Way, the TRUTH, and the Life.....(John 14:) so if you ain't living by Christ you're not living the "Truth". The other young lady mentioned something about how she didn't like how it's taught that we should wait to get to heaven to live good. I understand her point, but we're just passing by this earth(James 4:14) and this is not our home. Heaven is for eternity so I'm not concerned about living heaven on this wicked earth. Jesus already told us(Christians) to "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth....(Math 6:19-20). And lastly, I think you can have Therapy and Jesus, but I will never put more faith in a Therapist(Man) than God, because God created Therapist. My last point for real. 😂. People can align their Chakras, do Transcendental Meditation, and believe in healing powers of Crystals, but As a Christian we can't believe in the healing power of God?

@hometowngirlncurls5669 2 года назад

This comment!! I totally agree!! I wanted more push back too but I see your point. That young lady was confusing "the truth" with "your truth." That term is too popular in the world. But if it doesn't align with the word of God, then it is not The Truth.

@godivabaker6622 2 года назад

@@hometowngirlncurls5669 Yep 🥰

@dancerfruit2 2 года назад

Total agree

@dancerfruit2 2 года назад

Here you see the difference of someone who believes in God vs some one who is taking up their cross daily living the word of God.

@MarshaT.ZoeLiving 2 года назад

I totally agree

@brownsugagigi3661 2 года назад

@AnthonyOneal, this was a great topic, and I actually listened to it the first day you posted it. As mentioned by others, they were talking over each other, which made it difficult to truly hear each person’s response. As a single woman, no, I do not expect to carry the weight of a relationship financially, but I will NEVER emasculate my potential spouse if he made 50-60k a year. I’ve seen first hand generational wealth built from nothing with both sets of my grandparents, and my parents. When you understand that marriage is built on other things, and not focus on what society says is the “standard”, you look at life/building with someone differently

@gracekeepsme 2 года назад

Interesting conversation, don't agree with their mindset, though. This is a generation of self love and that is not the primary teaching of scripture. My husband and I have 8 children and we have lived on $40,000-$80,000, single income for 10 years. We are debt free, mortgage and all and our cruze of oil has never failed. The Lord has truly blessed and I believe it's because we have tried to honor the Lord in every aspect of our life. Thank you for the content you bring. May the Lord bless all your business ventures.

@Yummy2u 2 года назад

I paid off my $100000 mortgage on single income. It is definitely how you manage the Lord's money.

@Dr.K.Harris 2 года назад

@@Yummy2u phenomenal stewardship! I'm on the journey currently...and the gazelle intensity is my grounding force right now!

@jdagrees9609 2 года назад

Amen 🙏🏾 cause yes my generation is all the way jacked up. I met my husband when he was working at SUBWAY making sandwiches haha But this man immediately got a better paying job and married me only after 8 months and I haven’t worked since ! If it wasn’t for our trust in the Lord, obedience and believing that HE is our true provider… I know for a fact we wouldn’t be at peace with our marriage and life as we are today. Everybody wants Gods blessings but don’t want His will for their lives. And that’s why they’re commenting under celebrity post talking about “Lord it’s me again” lol We have to get back to Gods way and what LOVE truly means 1st Corinthians 13 ! But sadly they believe love is love 😩 I stay praying for my generation tho 🙏🏾

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

Actually the Bible speaks of self care/love throughout the word. How can you love others in a healthy way if first you don’t love yourself.

@DakarVictoria 2 года назад

It's the character for me. Good moral character transcends income variances, because his income can change: job loss, low sales, no prospects. Things happen, but his character will carry the relationship and family. We must resist the temptation to extrapolate his present situation and make it the rest of his life. If he has good character with a solid plan, his income will increase.

@mariadesir4569 2 года назад

Amen! I agree!

@smileybeth 2 года назад

Facts!!

@maureennkotsi Месяц назад

I agree 💯

@maureennkotsi Месяц назад

I agree 💯

@maureennkotsi Месяц назад

I agree 💯

@Vocals8705 2 года назад

This was definitely good healthy dialogue and good points were made on both ends. I love that we got to see things from both the men’s and women’s perspective on this particular topic!

@Iamjasmine_nichole 2 года назад

Great episode! Transparent and honest conversation plus the comedy was a nice added touch! Great job ladies and @AO

@shaquanakillings6601 2 года назад

I must say, i thoroughly enjoyed watching this conversation. I loved the different perspectives and how they were shared, respectfully. Beautiful ladies and i can’t wait to tune into Joy Rivers and Friends, i already feel like I’m sitting on the couch with you ladies! 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

@w1lsons482 2 года назад

The delusion is real...🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️. This woman actually sat up here justifying a drug dealer as having potential, and these women are my age. The younger generation sees this and has all these expectations and want to live a life without putting in the work. So these types will be in the dating market for my son. I am scared of the thought😒.

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

That’s why as parents we train up our children in the way he/she should go and when he’s old he won’t go astray. Keep watching!!!!

@jasminekindell3141 2 года назад

LOL It really is. I couldn't take it.

@jasminekindell3141 2 года назад

And only ONE of them seem to have an actual job but their standards for men are 100k ...yea, Im sure they have their priorities straight

@MilaE 2 года назад

It’s not the church that makes you do that. It’s definitely a choice and about communication.

@chloelageaux769 2 года назад

Good dialog! Here are some comments to the points that were discussed. I'm definitely in agreement with the ladies on some points. You cannot go into a relationship solely based on potential. Yes, some men will rise because they have an innate desire to be accomplished and successful. More often than not, an ambitious woman will come off as "Motherly" to a man that only wants to be cared for. These type of men will mooch off of a woman as long as she allows it! Also, I understand about dating a man that drastically makes less than the woman. Most women come from single parent households. They know what it's like to struggle financially. This is why women push so hard to get financial freedom. If they reach that point, of course, they aren't going to want to give up a lifestyle that they have become accustomed to. Also, having a vision is imperative but so is seeing the fruit behind the vision or else you are just dating a dreamer! AO said that he doesn't knock cohabitation. It has been proven that living together together doesn't mean marriage. So, there really is no point in even doing this because it doesn't promote marriage. I do agree that for a long time, the church didn't do a good job of serving the flock. Now, times are changing; however, the Word of God is the same! This is why the Bible tells us to study to show ourselves approved. We are to seek and follow Christ not just pastors! Yes, I am a proponent of mental health. I agree that EVERYONE should focus on their mental health before they get in a relationship. Also, God allowed Solomon to have many wives and concubines but God didn't ordain or condone it because those women caused Solomon to turn away from God to worship other gods! We as human beings, are so driven by lust and our own desires that God will allow us to get or do what we want because we have free will. However, that doesn't mean that God is pleased with us or our choices!

@joyriverr 2 года назад

👀❤️ love your perspective

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

I’m here for this

@asunset8545 2 года назад

Wow, great insight chloe! Great points❤

@emeraldnewton 2 года назад

I really love the different perspectives. I’m big on hearing out people who may not see things the way you do.

@briacarter4474 2 года назад

I am hollering! Loved ! Loved ! This show . Now I’ll be honest my 28 year old brain goes straight to the man ‘s character,morals,faith,family ,and finances.

@Dr.K.Harris 2 года назад

AO kept talking about the "average" person...well, you have to ask "average" people...these ladies aren't a part of the population he's interested in knowing more about. At this point, it's all hypothetical. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@jasmynehinson6125 2 года назад

So what population are we apart of then? We all come from different walks of life and all have had different life experiences. Those are the perspectives we spoke from.

@joyriverr 2 года назад

❤️❤️❤️

@Dr.K.Harris 2 года назад

@@jasmynehinson6125 My comment was actually in support of you all being empowered to define your standards and/or preferences at this stage of life versus AO’s repeated efforts to get you all to lower/adapt them in consideration of the “average” person or these arbitrary, current cultural norms. If anything, exploring his concept of “average” person would interesting…🤷🏾‍♀️

@jasmynehinson6125 2 года назад

@@Dr.K.Harris understood and I agree. Thanks for the engagement. Hope you tune in with us on “The Couch”. 💜

@politicomonsoon 2 года назад

I think that is the part that annoys me every time. Where are we asking above average earning women if they want an average earning man. No, they don't. The same way and above average earning man generally does not want an average woman. Those things are perfectly okay. But we do need to define what Anthony's version of average is.

@katrinadunn5091 2 года назад

This is a great episode. One thing I’ve learned is that it’s ok to not agree with everyone’s opinion but respect a person’s thought. When they brought up traditional vs now. At the end of the day, we are moving further and further from the word of God. We want to do everything that makes the flesh feel good. Which is natural but at the end of the day, is God pleased with our actions. There’s a difference in making a decision vs habitually choosing to do wrong. Furthermore, you have to realize, as you continue to study the word, the more you grow spiritually. Don’t fault the pastors from the past because they were only teaching based on where the world was at that given time.

@claracatrice_ 2 года назад

Please give us a different view from a different group of women with a totally different mindset.

@claracatrice_ 2 года назад

Absolutely! That’s Anthony’s picture, but is that really Anthony?

@leemiller2243 2 года назад

@@claracatrice_ no thats a scammer

@omargraham8591 2 года назад

Why? This seems to be a very common mindset potentially the predominant or prevalent mindset. If this is not the case it is certainly the most commonly heard. If things are truly different out there i think we would see different results.🤷🏾‍♂️

@luisl691 2 года назад

And some order on talking. They were talking over each other

@beloved242 2 года назад

I feel like they are to the extreme. It all depends on where a person places their values. I want to live comfortably and be at peace- there's no price tag or income attached to that. Some careers have an income cap. A teacher, police officer, social worker etc..... on average they're not making 6figs but their life has purpose. Providing for me isn't buying me luxury brands- it's us working together to build our life together & him having drive & a provider mindset. There's so much more than the financial. In my opinion

@Ariel_LionofGod 2 года назад

Yesss!

@smileybeth 2 года назад

yes exactly, let us place greater emphasis on character, Integrity, stewardship and leadership in a man. Not everyone has a desire to "get the bag" some people just want to be comfortable and that is okay. As Christians we are not looking for the same thing as the world. Men need to be vetted in all areas before you let them in your house, try to build them or start giving them money. The same goes for women. I was trying to find some common ground but I am not sure if they are reflective of average woman, with average desires....For me I want a husband with the values I have, money is the least. You can build together. If his character and spirit is right, then yall can reach the moon.

@veronicaa.burnett3563 2 года назад

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. OMW now to subscribe to their channel.

@jdagrees9609 2 года назад

Whew Lord… okay now put on a panel of Married women please !! Lol

@joyriverr 2 года назад

That would be another dope perspective! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@lovefelix1566 2 года назад

Please and thank you 😊🙏🏽 AO!!!!

@lisacox3750 Год назад

Yes!!!

@keke508 2 года назад

@Anthony ONeal this topic was something I needed to hear about relationships

@rebeccac7613 2 года назад

Thank you. This was amazing. What an amazing group of Ladies. What a true blessing. Thank you.

@marcuse423 2 года назад

This show was entertaining. I'll just say that being single is still the best option given what's out there.

@jjones5362 2 года назад

@shalanathomas7751 Год назад

YES! YES! YESSSSSS!

@lanelandry1859 2 года назад

Anthony, thank you for what you do and the wisdom you share. It’s blessed my life and taught me so many key things.

@daynelcollins5208 2 года назад

The point of being married is legal marriage rights to help protect and build wealth and legacy. Your marriage license gives theses legal rights the black community is not talking about. But any millennials are talking about getting the bag or building together they need to get an understanding of this.

@mzwhispers13 2 года назад

A man who is working on their mental health is golden for a healthy relationship. As the ladies mentioned, he is willing to talk to a therapist it is likely he will be more willing to speak with the woman in his life.

@BabydollTanner223 2 года назад

Saving This Video! There were sooo many diamonds not even gems in this video

@Oatmeal_7 2 года назад

Make sure subscribe…..we’d love to hear more from you.

@karengreen-heyward4967 2 года назад

Whew! I’m glad that my 32 year-old, God fearing, college educated, loving, providing, school teacher, entrepreneur, homeowner, protective husband and fabulous father, African American male child waited on God and found his virtuous Proverbs 31 wife! Thank you Jesus!

@dikfeen01 Год назад

AO I love this show! Your candor and topics draw me back to you no matter how many times o tell myself to stop being on your jock. Job well done!

@terrancecole6507 2 года назад

Astonishing. Materialism personified.

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

I don’t think anyone spoke of anything material, maybe monetary……….but I want you to have what you desire, as we will attain the same.

@bwill357 2 года назад

These women are delusional 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

@chifundochiweza6718 2 года назад

Always love the open conversation with so many different perspectives Anthony! I think the expectations are so high because they are the head and meant to lead. When loved right a woman will submit and let herself be led by the man! However both partners have to bring something to the relationships for it to work!

@shalanathomas7751 Год назад

So sooooo true! My sentiments exactly!!

@MindsetMediaClip 2 года назад

All you gotta do is listen to most women talk and you'll QUICKLY REALIZE WHY THEY'RE SINGLE

@jdagrees9609 2 года назад

Yup 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

@joyriverr 2 года назад

Yessss! It’s best to stay single till you ready! You know?

@MindsetMediaClip 2 года назад

@@joyriverr its more like when the Man is ready and both sides have more realistic expectations. Most women are waiting for a man to approach them. But less men are approaching women because of the Modern Day expectations. They're just staying single.

@Cahluvca 2 года назад

@@MindsetMediaClip Consequences of modern feminism...

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

How do you know anyones relationship status? Because I believe only one woman shares that on the show. We love you though.

@mikebrown9521 2 года назад

It’s not what you makes, it’s what you keep.

@SamanthaO 2 года назад

@The Table With AO Unlearning and relearning with a legacy mindset! I thoroughly enjoyed these talking points. Such an insightful conversation from unique perspectives. Looking forward to watching The Couch!

@Thompson42223 2 года назад

I have soooo much to add to this!! Father God, breathe on me and on my future podcast! These are the topics that needs discussion!! 🙏🏽

@jalisathomas2221 2 года назад

Can’t wait to watch their show @The Table with AO

@BabeRuthuk 2 года назад

Another great episode @anthonyoneal! I will be tuning in to The Couch.

@curiouslifer 2 года назад

Loved the discussions ❤️!! Whomever has ears to hear, should learn the wisdom from this. 🙏🙏

@wrappednhope3974 2 года назад

@TheTableWithAO I really enjoyed this conversation. The way they looked at you when you said “women care more about the wedding than the marriage.” If looks could kill!!🤣🤣

@wrappednhope3974 2 года назад

I subscribed to their channel.

@lyfehappens2383 2 года назад

Great dialog and loved each minute. Definitely sharing!

@donyamonique 2 года назад

This was an awesome show and great conversation! These ladies were smart, beautiful, and insightful. :-)

@adb2u 2 года назад

No they are prostitutes

@Ariel_LionofGod 2 года назад

Doesn't this mean our list should be of character traits, not assets? A man has to have potential AND motivation. I don't care what a man makes if he has vision, is a good leader, and willing to put in the work to make the vision become a reality.

@Dr.K.Harris 2 года назад

That part!

@jdagrees9609 2 года назад

Forreal because I met my husband when he was working at subway! He immediately got a better paying job.. married me 8 months after dating and I stopped working the month after. I haven’t worked in two years lol His leadership role activated when he knew he wanted to marry me and God has blessed us abundantly since he stepped in his role and I couldn’t ask for more. All I wanted was a man who understood they had a purpose in life and that God was the one who gave them that purpose 🙏🏾

@beloved242 2 года назад

Same

@Ariel_LionofGod 2 года назад

@@jdagrees9609 beautiful ❤

@jaleesaj 2 года назад

Loved this show today…..cannot wait to watch The Couch With Joy & Friends…

@therealcarltonj9775 2 года назад

Minus the lady's talking over each other, I did enjoy the perspective they brought.👏 I definitely want to catch their show. "The couch"

@TheNursingHood 2 года назад

I already loved your show & podcast but this, this right here is hilarious & very much relatable. Love ❤️ this can’t wait for the next & future episodes.

@shaylalewis9575 2 года назад

Subscribed! Awesome conversation! Definitely sharing this with my friends 😊

@Shortstackzz 2 года назад

I love it, and what you do 💕 thanks for educating AO!!

@racheljordan6705 2 года назад

Very interesting discussion fam. Thx @Anthonyoneal for the content diversity.

@tinker2217 2 года назад

We were Just having this conversation at the salon this morning. You mess up and take care of someone then realize how Dumb you were and raise your standards for the next relationship.

@jasmynehinson6125 2 года назад

Precisely and that’s all we were saying. And to add to that, it’s unrealistic and unfair for a woman to have nothing and unrealistic expectations for a man. In the end, do what’s best for the two of you in your relationship.

@phebefolorunso861 2 года назад

I'm not perfect today but I'm NEAT! C'MON!!! 🤗

@IAmJaidaSteele 2 года назад

One minute they say they’ll “I’m not dating a man that makes less than me” next thing they say is “I am a helper, I will help him grow” Lol what’s the truth?

@jasmynehinson6125 2 года назад

The truth is, it depends on the situation which was stated repeatedly 😎

@joyriverr 2 года назад

Both. I’m not dating anyone because I’m taken. But I’m a helper have been for YEARS with no reciprocation, I was young and didn’t have the standards I have now! I’m a helper, a giver, I just need that in return now…Judge me if you must! We dive deeper on the show! Come chill on the couch!

@markesblack 2 года назад

They want the man that already has it and they want to claim credit like they really helped him to build it.

@jasmynehinson6125 2 года назад

@@markesblack that may be your opinion based on your prior experience with another woman, but NONE of us have done that or is it a practice we have. As stated we all have our own careers. Feel free to join us over on The Couch. We dive deeper into past hurt and trauma, also how to effectively heal from that.

@omargraham8591 2 года назад

The truth is she will help him grow from a point where he makes more than her to a point where he makes significantly more than her 😂

@minnyvanqui8107 Год назад

Some were not spiritually connected when they made some of the decisions they made in the past and refuse to see why the mindset is coming off as ignorance. When I got spiritually connected with Yah I held myself accountable for the stupidity I indulged with in the past. This was definitely one of AO's lesser podcasts. IJS

@deannalawson268 2 года назад

Sometimes when you don't plan, it's okay, Anthony. You had an excellent show, tonight. Proud of you Bro.

@farmermarshall 2 года назад

@The Table With AO They are bringing the heat!

@Only1QueenOfEverything 2 года назад

This is a blessing….thank y’all! 💛👑

@neodaltiair8624 2 года назад

They way some talk today makes it seem like they only care about money and themselves.

@Christy1ove 2 года назад

I loved it. Real talk no filter !!!

@joyriverr 2 года назад

❤️❤️❤️

@joyriverr 2 года назад

Thank yooouuu

@bryantworley2922 2 года назад

Women shouldn't get involved with a guy with the thought that he has "potential". He is not a Project. He should already have what you want, which will alleviate the frustration that will arise when he doesn't meet your pre- conceived expectations. Ìn my opinion, women who get with "potential" are getting involved too fast with these guys, like the woman who said that she would suggest cohabitation just because. Why? Has this man shown you that he can be relied on? This shows that the woman has the "well, I can always get rid of him" Mentality,, IMHO.

@tamikal.7346 2 года назад

The older generation of women taught this which is why we're seeing the negative results of it now; the younger generation is waking up to NOT dating/marrying potential which is why there is a disconnect between black women/men. We're both starting to ask and demand what's needed and you have to have it coming in.

@geethinks Год назад

We gotta do better at helping prevent our sisters from choosing string of bad relationships early in, as they shared they did. It hardly changes people for the better. Keep up the good work Bro.

@IAMJEWEL7 2 года назад

Uhm we can’t all talk over each other…hard to follow

@joyriverr 2 года назад

We excited 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎 but we will do better next time👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@user-ju2lz1ib1p 2 года назад

Don’t use the Bible to condone open relationships. Those people having multiple wives were descriptive and not prescribed. Please read to understand, not to only justify foolishness. I may not understand everything in the Bible but that statement was false!

@zeal4god402 2 года назад

Amen!

@SonjaWCoaching 2 года назад

I was coming here to say the same thing lol God did not condone it. Its there so that we can see God's grace but also the consequences of living outside of His will. Solomon's life def was not peaches and cream with all them wives 🤣

@user-ju2lz1ib1p 2 года назад

@@SonjaWCoachingExactly!!

@joyriverr 2 года назад

@@SonjaWCoaching how do we know God didn’t condone all those wives? What scripture says that???

@joyriverr 2 года назад

@@SonjaWCoaching and no one’s life in the BIBLE was peaches and cream…it was full of hard trials and tribulations, and triumph…a lot like life.

@rashedacylar5325 2 года назад

Financial coveraging does not necessarily mean a man makes more money than the woman. It means fiscal responsibility and stewardship.

@amies.52 2 года назад

This Auntie loves the way these beauties express themselves!

@AlekcisIwiye 2 года назад

I love when AO has women on the show, it's always a vibe 😆😆

@trsingley 2 года назад

The Word says, "the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil," but what about loving someone primarily because they have money....that'll get you in trouble too and have you overlooking all kinds of flags. What you save/invest is more important than what you make.

@Tan-rf6oe 2 года назад

Great conversation. We need more of this.

@kutlwanotlhoaele2191 2 года назад

Great segment and quite cool that these ladies are owning their platform. We'll done on the upcoming show and I think it would be quite interesting to listen, learn and put to test what will be said.

@sophia4christ 2 года назад

One at a time, please! It was so confusing to follow the conversation. Smh

@marym1055 2 года назад

Awesome conversation with beautiful intelligent young ladies! Would love to hear dialogue from older seasoned women on the same subject.

@lisacox3750 Год назад

Exactly

@omissamcmichael8215 2 года назад

AO thank you stepping up at 24:00

@deshawnpennix2610 2 года назад

In the same breath these women said they wanted to unlearn past traditions, but yet are asking for a traditional man who is the bread winner. I understand where they coming from but the way society works today I am unsure is some of the requirements is realistic and it may hinder the mental health of a prospective partner.

@dr.apostlealandisreneeport5803 2 года назад

This is real talk. Thank you for sharing 🥰

@mikea.4477 2 года назад

A.O. you are a brave man lol 💪🏽 Outnumbered 4:1 and took on the challenge anyway! 🤣🤣🤣

@jovonburrell903 2 года назад

They’re cool. Seem like a fun group of ladies to have convos with. AO - we got yo back bruh. We level with you on what we want from a woman. Love. Especially after you get the houses, and you have the savings and you are investing wisely - - we just look for someone we match with. So I feel you there brother. Financially - if we’ve already built and worked on securing our legacy - we don’t really care for a woman to come in thinking she’s going to build in that area; it’s already done. So hopefully the woman would come with the mindset to build something else (not financially based). Just bring more love in.

@cmw1riternboro 2 года назад

I can relate to some of what these women are saying, however I made the decision that I will not live with a man before I marry him. Also after reading some of the comments. I think it would have been a better interview if the ladies were not talking all at the same time to hear what each one had to say. They were not as considerate of the host AO allowing him to speak and have a little more control of the conversation. It was enlightening some of the prospectives these ladies expressed.

@adrianmcgowan3788 2 года назад

I have been to church in my younger years, and they discussed mental health, not using the phrase, but the very criteria was covered.

@angelina1221 2 года назад

@TheTablewithAO This was an interesting conversation. I enjoyed listening to the different perspectives and hearing how they came to that conclusion. I feel their show will definitely make people think.

@allinspiriation6140 2 года назад

This was an excellent show🔥👏🏽👏🏽💯

@dmont5363 2 года назад

The interesting thing about them they don't sound like they want to change but want to change the man to what they want. You can not change a grown man to become moral, disciplined, or an entrepreneur.

@joyriverr 2 года назад

I agree! We know that now!!! Thank GOD for wisdom!!! Now we know our worth! And we dive deeper on the show! Stay with us! Lol!!

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

Watch again! Lol

@beloved242 2 года назад

I hope yall pick this topic back up on the couch 😅. It truly was a good conversation even tho I was on the fence about alot. Maybe because my income is a actually a little above average my ideology is different about the money thing vs a very high earning lady. I'm subscribed for August

@b.elijahakinola8819 2 года назад

Sincerely, while my paradigm is completely different from these ladies thesis - judging by the motives of their communications and not just the words, you can say they just want a good man, that's committed and ready to build a legacy in which they find their identity of contribution in. We guys just need to step up and stay on course. Take responsibility, work, be of noble character and be legacy oriented from an early age. Thanks AO, love this!

@adb2u 2 года назад

Lady LITERALLY said she would cheat if you make less money. You simping

@jasmineud 2 года назад

Love these ladies!! Very real and fun😁

@90ashleydanielle 2 года назад

@AntonyOneal this was a great topic. It is very sexy when a man takes his mental health serious. I encourage all of my male friends to see a therapist. I can’t wait to tap into some of the conversations these ladies are going to have.

@roolyfe 2 года назад

AO so sad 😞 that black American women will not date average black American men like me who work in corporate America making 40K per year. Rather date a drug dealer making 200k per year. Going back to Kenya 🇰🇪 or Ethiopia 🇪🇹 for a wife. Average black man makes 40K. Black Woman 36k. Kevin Samuels is 💯 correct, Rest In Peace. AO ask them what do these women bring to the table? 1/4 black America women will ever marry. 75% of black American kids born out of wedlock!

@jonathanrabbon2890 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing AO.

@freebwalker 2 года назад

Thanks Anthony for exposing these Gold diggers, T.H.O.T.S, Ego driven, Unrealistic & LOST sample of women on this episode…I hope they truly find that guy they are looking for….

@Waterboy-wh7mb 2 года назад

I agree.

@joyriverr 2 года назад

@@Waterboy-wh7mb ❤️❤️ WE LOVE YOU OVER AT THE COUCH😎😎😎

@naudiacamble5979 2 года назад

An opinionated woman makes her a THOT or gold-digger? This entire interview was based on preference…….,for the purpose of exchange dialogue. And who said any of the women were “looking” for anything? ……..but I want you to be great my luv! 😘

@jasminekindell3141 2 года назад

IM GLAD SOMEBODY SAID IT

@mariacure9956 2 года назад

Great Show, A lot of Valid Points…

@alexanderjardine1191 2 года назад

It’s hard to hear when 3 people are talking at once

@maryalexander-lee4281 2 года назад

Subscribed @The Table With AO! Enjoyed the conversation, agreed with some comments and disagreed with other comments. Everyone is on a different level and these young ladies are speaking from their level, so let's not confuse that fact by trying to bring them to your level. Everyone has their own opinion and all of us will not agree all the time.

@sidehustlevikki1066 Год назад

Love the conversation. I do agree with the ladies when they said that lots of average men do have a huge 50/50 mindset so the woman's income is equally important as his and they want to know what you bring to the table financially. I also think that the equivalent of this conversation for men is that they have extremely high expectations of how a woman looks. Seems like most men want a female that is a 10 even if they look like a 5 or below. I also think that bc of social media men's expectation of how a woman should look is extreme and unattainable for most women. Take away the bbw, implants, weaves, lip fillers, and tummy tucks (all the things social media make appear normal) and most women feel like they cant meet men's expectations of beauty just as you feel most men cant meet those financial requirements that women have.

@claracatrice_ 2 года назад

Now that will make a great part two for this episode.

@erikhopkins9488 2 года назад

study your Bible people. 🤦‍♂️

@jasminebailey6810 2 года назад

Thanks for your email! I have subscribed to their channel.

@christiangirlTenita 2 года назад

Thank you AO for having this channel. I did receive the offer e-mail because usually I do not comment on this platform. Also, I’m not sure how to 📌 you in a comment. I watched and loved to see a group of minority women be on e one accord for the betterment of people. By the end of the show I realized that being a Bible follower and having relationships with God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit I could not agree with everything said but value everyone can still have a seat at the table.