She was Murdered by her Obsessed Stalker Ex | The Devastating Case of Clare Bernal 

Wow!! May God continue to protect and shield you. Stay safe

@@Sigma2HisAlpha Thank you

Keep that gun on you all times and know how to use it........your life is important

@@bobbyswain7049 Yes I carry it on me always..I went to a shooting range to learn..Thank you for your comment

I’m happy you got away. ❤️It’s crazy the lengths they go to. I had to buy a gun too but I’m still scared. I won’t have any real peace until he dies.

They do play out like the stories are almost scripted! It’s hard to watch knowing what is to come. It like watching a horror movie and the girl is running towards the danger in slow motion! There needs to be a specific “stalker unit” at every police station that is able to assess the situation with a questionnaire that tally’s up points per actions, if the stalkers actions score high enough he is picked up IMMEDIATELY!

I feel the same, every true crime story is an entitled controlling guy escalating aggression eventually murdering a girl. 6 women every hour die at the hands of a man and over 50% of those are cases are a man she knows.

Be fair now, yes most stalkers are men, but there are also deadly women stalkers too!!!

There are plenty of men being stalked and murdered also. And it is just as dangerous when they are. I can't imagine the fear in a stalking situation. Like you can't be yourself, be FREE, because someone is controlling your ability to move about in your autonomous right to do so. Very sad. Be careful out there people.

@@melaniemunro6696 Men die too. Killed by the angry aggression of stalking women. There are sickos on both sides of the gender scale.

Her own mother failed her with her cowardice.

@@yeetnama9094 How do you make sense of that? How is this her mother’s doing? Smh Jesus!!!

@@yeetnama9094 so says the loser hiding behind anonymity 🙄

@@yeetnama9094 that’s my auntie, you don’t know her, so kindly do one you horrible person

@@melixzacdon’t feed the troll

Thank you .

1000%. How many billions of times must we be told?!!!

Quite right.

When someone is head over heels or infatuated, they wanna learn about you, spend time with you.

That's a fault of norepinephrine

Exactly!

It's all about control

So true! Here in Alaska I experienced that breaking a restraining order , the abuser didn’t even get jail time! Alaska has the highest rate of sexual assault/abuse. The system cares LESS! If the predator is a stranger then they take it more serious, but if it was from someone that used to have a relationship woth then they don’t take it serious! Sexual abuse of a minor or breaking restraining orders with abuse has less punishment then writing bad checks, or theft with money over $ a certain amount. so that this tells victims & predators -that money/monetary items are more important than a life.. F’ing system is so backwards! I promise a predator of children gets less time then a bank robber if both found guilty!

So true. Evidence shows that they just get more and more aggressive as time goes on. It's so ridiculous. You hear time and time again of people going to the police multiple times and they do nothing and then that person is dead. Wow!?!?! I wonder who could have done that? It's so sad. These people need to be put through the ringer

They talked about her as though she was some sort of Miss Venezuela...

exactly. and restraining orders need to be easier to get... even tho most the time they don't even work tbh

@@Southamericangirl42 in their eyes she was- so after you watched this tragic story- thats on your mind??

To be fair there's only so much the law can do. If someone wants to kill you they'll do it.

Well stop dating dangerous man

@@traditionalsoldier3639 That's exactly what killed her. The fact that she put an end to it. geeezzzz

​@@traditionalsoldier3639🤣😂🤭

​@tantalize5795 you think that's funny????? You're sick. You're probably one of these men

Good for you

Same.

This is also my hope. Unfortunately my stalker is in government and has made things very difficult for me to leave

​@@danc.5509I understand

@barbara.sexaloid. I did too.

Agreed. Once a stalker, always a stalker. You can drive out nature with a pitchfork, but... They are the ones who should be stalked... by the police 24/7.

Unfortunately, liberal leaders continue to view this as mental illness first and danger second. They continue to push more lax laws on these monsters. Evil cannot be cured.

@@leeroyv5345 With all due respect, I do agree that there most definitely needs to be far more intense restrictions, consequences, punishments, etc., that people who commit these acts of stalking, harassment, etc., end up facing from governments and legal systems around the world, however, dismissing the *objective fact* that people like this are mentally ill and mentally unstable and developing the mindset and perspective that they are “just evil” and that you can't “cure evil” is, quite simply, and I don't say this to be mean-spirited, disrespectful, callous/insensitive, or anything remotely similar in nature, an irrational, unrealistic, closed-minded, short-sighted, ignorant, naive, confined, narrow-minded, “black and white,” unreasonable, cognitively and critically impaired or vacant, and unbeneficial way of thinking and overall perspective of we, as humans, who are in no way “all or nothing,” “good or evil,” simple/straightforward, or 1-dimensional, 2-dimensional, or even 3-dimensional beings, but rather, we are innately complex, complicated, multi-layered/multi-faceted, intricate, unique, and a product of a seemingly “never-ending” list of factors, circumstances, events, situations, experiences, and more, which includes those who commit these crimes, acts, etc. This idea that “liberal leaders” are doing something “wrong” for identifying, understanding, acknowledging, and taking into account the fact that human beings, no matter who they are, are not the way that you, as well as many others, for that matter, describe and view them as being, or that it is “not essential” to attempt to treat the practical and likely underlying issues with one’s mental health, which significantly impacts their thinking, behaviors, impulsivity, ability to rationalize, plus so much more, is something that not only astonished me for a multitude of reasons, but it, furthermore, is a mindset that very much exhibits willful ignorance, unawareness, and a lack of understanding and knowledge of the very thing that those of you who think this way are, which is the same thing that people who commit these acts/crimes are, which is an incredibly complex and complicated human being-only, we are not cookie-cutter or carbon copies of one another. I am not, by any means, someone who is religious; I am, however, someone who is deeply spiritual and who believes in only a couple of beliefs that one typically sees those who are religious believe in, outside of the fact that even those personal beliefs that I share with those who consider themselves religious, are not precisely the same as they see and believe in them. Now, the reason that I mention this is because of the choice of wording here and by *many* others, as far as describing certain people as “evil,” which doesn't necessarily mean or indicate that those, like yourself, who characterize people this way are automatically religious in any way. However, many who do also tend to make it noticeably clear that they have religious beliefs, which makes sense considering the exact choice of labeling individuals, as well as overall considering them to be “evil people,” as opposed to “good” or “decent” people. Even with my very own set of spiritual beliefs, I can't just base everything around those beliefs to fit them, nor can I ignore things based on Science, Medicine/Medical Science, and so on-luckily for me, my spiritual beliefs don't, for the most part, dismiss or ignore things founded in Science and adequate research, which means that I don't have to question things that I have learned and have gained knowledge, understanding, and awareness of throughout my 33, and almost 34 this coming October, years of life, lol. My point is that whether someone in your position is religious or not, and whether the sentiments or perspectives of certain people being “evil” derives from a religious standpoint or not, the fact that human beings, no matter who they are, are not “just evil” or “entirely good/decent,” and the fact that anything that people consider to be “evil” about someone directly tie to issues within their brain, such as a plethora of mental health-related struggles, disorders, and conditions, which no one chooses to have in any fathomable way or stretch of the imagination, as well as stemming from that specific person's life experiences, factors, events, and how those particular things have impacted that person’s brain, behaviors, etc., does not change or somehow become “nonexistent,” “irrelevant,” “insignificant,” or things that shouldn't get addressed. It doesn't matter if two people have the same mental health diagnoses or have experienced similar things-they not only do not have the same brain, but they also don't have the same life experiences entirely, so those people who say something like, “I have such-and-such disorder/condition, and I haven't done x, y, or z” or “I experienced/endured this one thing, as well, but I don't like this one person,” and this is no different than those who consider specific people to be “just evil,” clearly have a lack of adequate, realistic, and rational understanding, knowledge, and awareness of us human beings in general. A vast amount of people also act like or exhibit thinking that suggests that two things can't exist or that they can't acknowledge two different things about someone or a situation at the same time, which is something amongst people that is becoming more and more commonly shared and demonstrated through the opinions, sentiments, perspectives, and thinking that they share online especially. For example, too many people act like it is “unacceptable,” “not right,” or somehow “invalidating” to victims of various things to develop an understanding of not only that someone’s actions that caused harm to another were undeniably wrong, but also establish an understanding of how and why it is that the person became the way that they did, which includes acknowledging the fact that there are many cases where a person’s poor thinking, concerning behavior, and damaging actions “make sense” when one has an understanding of not only the potential and likely mental health/illness they possess, but how and why someone could become the way that they did due to those mental health-related issues and all of the things that they experienced and went through throughout their life. One thing, as far as knowing that a person’s actions were in every way wrong, does not have to negate or devalue the significance of how and why someone ended up the way they did and came to do those awful things they did and vice-versa. The same concept and understanding, without a doubt, also applies to how governments and their judicial system handle people like the guy, in this case, not to mention the statement that you and others made about the inadequate system and consequences that too many governments have regarding offenses like this-let’s not forget the precise opinion you shared about liberal government leaders and them “continuing to view this as mental health first and danger last.”. Firstly, “liberal leaders,” as you put it, are not wrong for viewing the issues within these people as “mental health-related” first and foremost. One has to identify the root of a problem before anything else. Secondly, I highly doubt that conservative or republican leaders have “figured out” or established the “most beneficial and reasonable” way of handling things either. As a liberal myself, there is no doubt in my mind that regardless of whether a government that liberals run or conservatives/republicans run, there is a blatant issue with the steps they take to keep everyone, including the offenders, safe and secure, as well as more than obvious problems and flaws in the resources, outlets, and programs they provide to treat people who offend, prison reform, jail services, and much more. The answer isn't just to lock everyone up and “throw away the key,” so to speak, nor is it to ignore the objective reality and nature of how human beings are and how and why they came to be a particular way. If people think that locking up everyone for good or just executing people, while simultaneously, and with willful ignorance, ignoring the facts and realities going in within these people who, and again, did not choose to have the mental sickness that inhabits their brains, which profoundly affects and impacts a significant amount of aspects of themselves, as well as how and why they think, act/behave, “rationalize” to themselves, etc., well, outside of what I have already expressed in this response, I don't know how else to explain just how irrational, flawed, and simple-minded that mindset and thinking are at the end of the day.

@@kate_m_k88 The mental health related issues that these people experience, is that they have an ego... that they think they are above the law, that it is ok to control someone, and if not verbally, then physically. The fact that these people have not been held responsible for their actions in the past... they have not been told no by mommy and daddy. That's the reality. If you have had a child murdered, if you have experienced the terror of being stalked as I have, they are a completely people than an emotionally disturbed person being aggressive, with mental health issues, whom you speak of. These stalkers and murderers are calculating. They do not need to be kept safe and secure as you put it. When you speak of EDPs, those are the people who do not have a plan, they do have a chemical imbalance, an alternate reality that they live, and yes it can be scary for them, and thus, yes, they need help in a safe and secure environment... but that is not the same as some jackass who can't accept that a girl doesn't want him, and so she has to die so that no one else can have her. Your stance is valid, but for the wrong argument.

People would be surprised to no how many are Really like this ...

Thank you:) I'll use this when I date someone.

Yep. Been there. That's should've been a sign for me but I ignored it.

Wow... that is such a great tip! WOWOOOWWWW!!!!!! And.. also .. any sign of violence or talking about violence.. RUN!

Yes, as my abuser once admitted to me that when I said no I'm not comfortable with that. He heard challenge accepted to change my mind. ???? What a werido

Doesn’t always work, the best abusers can hide and put on a show pretending to respect your “no” and when you least expect it”BAM!” They will get you back!

(( hug ))

😢😢...or if your deceased!

There is one thing to try if this happens to you: practice being unattractive. Think about it. You can put on an act of not being desirable. There are ways. Make it seem like you aren't special. Claim you once had cancer and can't have children. Claim you are torn between liking men and women. Use your imagination. STOP feeling you need to be sincere. Pretend that "now I'm telling you the truth." Then lie. The point is to make him think he dropped you of his own volition. Make him think it was his idea to break up.

sadly I relate 100%.. 8 years of it.. your words you have to give up your life to protect yourself and others. Exactly

@@CodeE558 sorry to hear this happened to you as well.

Those are people that can't regulate their emotions. Im so glad you safe and ok

Wow, you are so brave, Rachel! Glad you escaped. 💪

Wow that’s scary. I’m glad you got away.

Congratulations. You understood the situation and resolved it effectively. The police or judiciary could never have done it so well.

Thank God you took drastic measures to survive. That's what has to happen in these situations unfortunately.

No kidding. Crime and punishment seems to be lopsided these days with credit card fraudsters and the like getting 15 years in prison over $80k, and rapists and murderers getting 2 years and probation. It's so twisted!

Thank you... the police should have alerted the victim, family and given them witness protection, a refuge or a safe house. This is part of the fundamentals of public safety and policing.

@@randyrawdingii5135 THEY HAVE THEIR PRIORITIES SCREWED UP. IT SHOULD HAPPEN TO THEM TO FEEL THE PAIN.

i blame the cops and justice system. its their fault she died as they didnt do enough

Another let down by the Met!!!

What do you mean by "real protection"? What could have Police done? Give 24*7 security to Clare?

Agree

Exactly. If someone is dangerous, the last thing to do is to be sincere.

That's what I am saying! Doesn't make any sense! They arrested him for breaking his first release on bail conditions and released him again on bail?? This is the part I cannot comprehend! She would be alive!!

They don't take it serious, because they are 'just women'.

Girls have to becarefull men fall in love .

At times like this you realize where exactly everyone's judicial system is really messed up. Why wouldn't someone take a psycho's words seroously.. Hello they are sick in their own crazy world and they are only thinking about their own needs and wants . So why wouldn't they let you know that they will take care of you if your against them ...

@@robertasliutas2903 the government was just after the money...bail him each time to go back to stalking her till he killed her...

I hope you are OK now Glad you are still here ❤💜🤎

Same but I still live in fear 12 years later unfortunately.

@@refugeofthoughts8870 I hope you will be ok ❤

SAME!!!

These shows prove to me that women are stronger than men, in general. And so are you!

wow. what a wild thing to happen to you! As a mom to a budding teen, I am terrified that a boy / man will stalk her. They can be predators. The fact that YOU left school early because of HIS actions is so unfair almost like we live in a patriarchal society or something, huh?

Kindness shouldn't place to violent people

Yeah, I know what you are talking about, there are boy types and very aggressive freaky people gang stalking me. Ever since I was stalked by a young man, jealous females have made me their target. Now listen, they are actually very mentally disturbed, and out of anger try to prove they are who they are not, not in a million years. I describe them with the P and B word, dangerously mentally disturbed and they know exactly they are not who they portray to be. I sure know......

i'm so sorry that you had to experience any of that. i'm glad that it ended and that you're safe xx 💜

I'm sorry I did that back then. Whats your number maybe we can talk about it? Meet for coffee! Lol. Just kidding and I'm glad you are okay. Men like this make me sick

One night I was running from a guy who wanted to kill me,it was such a surreal experience

Report get it on record. GUN. !!!!

Very common in Brazil unfortunately

Keep mace and a switch blade on you.

I always think that when I watch any of these crime shows!

Because the law in the UK at that time allowed for it is my guess.

Because unfortunately we live in a society where we are hugging criminals. It's so weird

Take extra precautions, it's so scary 😨

Because we live in a world now full of bleeding heart dumbasses.

They always give men the benefit of the doubt.

Gang stalking is mental illness. It’s not real

I agree... Her sweet grandfather broke my heart. The first time he spoke, I said to myself, "I like him!" I thought Clare was so fortunate to have had him as her grandfather (and he was fortunate, as well, to have had such a sweet young woman as his granddaughter.) God bless them both. 🙏🏼🌺🌺

Same 😢 so sad

Same here

His demon possessed.. he had a demon of jealousy in him.

@Pavel K. He had a demon alright very evil.

Cyber stalking story of my life

Delete your social media, and remove you pics offline, and stop using your name on social media.

😂🤣

So, what you're saying is your single now?

Can they? Ugh ‼️

It wouldn't be surprising if he was simultaneously stalking other victims, too.

That's true by the time they actually talk to you they been following you for months he worked with her so it's a little different but other wise that's how it generally happens

@@ponygirlusa Well at least they don't have to deal with him anymore. (I highly doubt he murdered each and every one)

@@bentheg9793 You are aware the word victim is not just for those that have been murdered right? And her family and friends, still have to deal with the consequences of his actions? Sorry if read your comment wrong. Just because he did not kill all his victims, doesn't mean they wasn't effected by what he put them through or less valid, It could of been them.

@@ponygirlusa some stalkers are like that. It seems like a lot of these guys aren’t specifically looking for victims, but kind of come upon the situation where their attachment becomes pathological or delusional

Even her friends told her to just "be nice" to him. Gawd.

I'm staggered that he wasn't deported before this happened.

Don't get involved with a man who uses cocaine.

@@maggiesfarm7970 Unless you happen to be a cocaine dealer.......... You can't generalise, not every bloke who does a bit of blow, is bad news. That's just ridiculous, drugs didn't make this guy the sad act he was, I refuse to allow them to take the rap.... Anyway, hopefully by now, most women recognise the behaviour that these sort of blokes exhibit. And get the hell out when they do!!!!!! When it's over, it's over! I've never found that one hard to grasp, when she says, 'you're a lovely guy but I don't think we're right for each other', or whatever line she chooses. I've heard most of them, + they don't always include the bit about being 'a lovely guy'.......... I'll admit, the final ruling has, on occasion, been a long way from 'a lovely guy'........ a country bloody mile away!!!!!!! You have to deal with it, getting dumped isn't fun, in fact, being the one who does the dumping, also isn't fun, I don't know which is worse?...?.... I hate being the cause of tears + misery, + then there's the times when instead of that, you get the rage!!!!!!! You're a total bastard for ending it, even when you've done everything possible to make it as painless as you can humanly manage...... Whatever you do, you don't do what this bloke did. Hindsight is 20:20 but the signs were there, as I said, I really hope sisters know the tell-tale signs of controlling, obsessive type weirdness + nothing like this case will happen again any time soon. A final word to my fellow man, before I go......... We all love + lose, + when things don't work out, keep your head held high + keep on keeping on. You then, which hardly needs saying, do what men have always done when facing the dark shadow of rejection...... You go out + get completely bloody sloshed. That's what real men do, probably always have, + until the day when love runs smoothly, they probably always will............

@@sihammer7942 the thing is, Claire DID NOTICE the signs three weeks after getting to know him and she broke it off. That didn’t stop him from stalking, harassing and eventually killing her. You can tell women to watch out for these signs all you want, but that will never stop a psycho from doing what he does - and it just comes off as victim blaming

@@MM-we4no Fair point, did I sound as if I was blaming Clare? Dam! I absolutely wasn't + I'm sorry if anyone thought I was. It's blokes that can't deal with getting dumped, that I hate + they're ALWAYS to blame in these cases. It seems that laws are failing to protect women from these sad acts that can't handle rejection. And again, if anyone thought I was blaming the victim, I apologise, but I wasn't....... In fact, now that I've just read what I wrote, if that came across as victim blaming I would question your comprehension + ability to correctly interpret what you read. I clearly stated, Clare was failed + didn't get the protection she needed. Victim blaming? 109 people agreed with what I said. 1 person said I was blaming the victim. I rest my case.

It’s almost impossible to stop somebody psychopathic, dead set on violence. Unless you carry a weapon yourself most likely.

Yes, but she should not have mess with him in the first place. But never gives anyone a right to harm you.

This gave me chills. I won't classify myself as being stalked, but someone i met has been knocking at my door like 4 times over a few days They were knocking 10 minutes ago at 6:50 a.m. i don't feel i can tell them to stop!!! I would think if they knock at 1 am and i don't answer, i don't want to be botheted. I don't think they will hurt me but their unwanted knocking bothers me. We both live in the same building. They are elderly. When i did allow them in, my dog eventually went after them, jumping up, he's a small dog. I was taken back because my dog has never done that but he clearly doesn't trust the person.

Well, apparently, she was too embarrassed to report him sooner..and that ignorant, passive mother of hers did absolutely nothing to protect her daughter!

@joytimmons 🤔🧐 she didn't "mess with him"...this kind of weird victim blaming is why she felt embarrassed to report it for a while. Like she somehow led him to behave this way. Ludicrous

Yes, they bring in other people, for sure. Highly suspicious and threatening my personal space, very often by complete force, because believe me if I notice them approaching you will see me at least several hundred yards away in a couple of seconds

I had a feeling that some women kinda go along with what men are doing, even if they don't like it, because they are afraid of the confrontation. And rightly so, knowing that they could be physically in danger most of the time.

Please never stop being aware of your surroundings! I can only imagine how terrifying that had to of been!!!

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You left out the part where you slept with him and he got attached to you.

SO true. Notice that they never pick jerks who deserve it. 🤔Almost like sociopaths and narcissists need nice people to feed off of their energy. BTW Anchorage representing!

I was told I must have given the stalker positive signals to trigger this…. Really? What about all of the signals that I gave that I don’t want any of the stalker’s attention??

Well it is true that they seek out certain types of people

Very true. They pick YOU

They picked you because you look like a victim from a mile away. Sadly

I'm so sad that you had to go through what must have been an horrendous time? I really hope you have managed to come through it? Goodluck and Godbless.. Paul.. London.. England...

Be gentle with yourself. The pain you experienced during your active trauma caused a part of who you once were to die. It was never your fault..You are not alone. I hope the grief you live with every day becomes less of a burden for you as time goes on. You are strong. Edit: I forgot the good part. Blessed Be fellow traveler.

It's drawl

Same. I still live in fear so many years later and he’s been behind bars for years. The day he dies will be the happiest day of my life. I’m so mentally messed up. I’m happy you got out. Healing isn’t easy but we deserve to heal.❤️

Me too... I fully understand and biggest hugs to you ... Nights are still terrible for me, so instead of fighting it I stay up late working and go to sleep around 3-4 am. It's been a decade but that stalker still sends me letters ... It is terrible ... I understand and much love to you 🌞💝🌞💝🌞💝

Nobody cares.

WOW!! Dude I'm sorry to hear you went through that. 😱 For blokes being stalked, the woman can throw abuse allegations and rape = your arrested. Which is sick. AS the real victims that truly are in a abusive situation are more afraid to come forward. Not to take away from this young woman's tragic experience 😢 Just another layer to this terrible crime.

I had an X girlfriend that stalked the Hell out of me. The 1st time she came to my house, broke into my garage, and was about to break my new friends windshield with my bat....I went to confront her. She tried to kiss on me, as she told me if she couldn't have me nobody will! She called the cops right after and got US BOTH arrested. This same thing happened 2 more time. I soon realized that the legal system treats a man who's a victim incredibly different then a women victim.... it's literally not taken seriously which gives a female stalker even more power! Been single since... 15 years now

GPS hidden inside or under your car.

If they get your phone they can also install a hidden app that will send GPS info to their phone

I'm SO SORRY you dealt with that! Scary!!! It happens to men and women...and when a man is a victim, it's harder because usually the girl is believed. She can make false accusations and because your the man, people usually believe THEM! It's crazy. Glad you are ok now and safe. What a psycho.

Protection for everyone!

The world hates women and children.

So glad you are safe.

Also unnecessary clingy behavior such as making up that one was supposed to get together when it’s not true is also a red flag. Basically, the person doesn’t give you space to breathe. Even a “harmless” stalker is a psychological threat because one doesn’t know when and how it will escalate. Document everything, make photos when you are followed by your stalker to make a case against. You need systematic evidence for police, lawyer and authorities.

Why didn't this guy just blot himself Why take her out too! The world needed her the world certainly didn't need the likes of HIM!

Good advice. I wish I knew all this stuff when I was younger. I can’t even keep a relationship because of the trauma I experienced with my abuser/stalker.

The sad thing is that she did realise this fairly early on, their relationship didn't go beyond two or three dates and he still harassed her for months and murdered her. A predator is a predator.

@@alessandraa24 Yes, it doesn’t take much at all to be become a stalker’s target and the stalking can go on for years…

And yet the police didn't tell her that ... What do they do ?

Authorities are just so useless, well, unless you are skateboarding then they will crack your skull 💀 and throw you in the clink.

Yeah, that's how it works..for eg "you're not a killer until you killed someone"

This is true last year l couldn't get a restraining order until that person became violent! Took over a year the effect on my mental health was harrendous

i dont know how many times people are not aware, and people live more in a dream world than reality. The world is cruel and i filled with dangerously harmful people..people who have killed who is still free..its one of the reasons i dont want to have children..i dont want them in still world full of so much suffering, hate... i might overdue it..but the world as enough kids who dont have parents..so we should care about what is here already..help one another, and dont think that being stalked will never lead to murder...or still will never happen to me...obviously not everyone is into crime docs like us..but they dont have to..they just need to be more self aware of danger...red flags..im always on watch if i meet new people...i am careful to let new people in to my life so fast.

Or read the daily paper Sad

@@tracydaye6059 exactly!

It stuns me how much her family knew and did nothing more than listen to the situation get worse and worse. If that was my daughter, I would have insisted she come home, job be damned. She was so young and unequipped to deal with that situation.

@@vintagetoycollector4983 yes!!! I absolutely agree!!

Exactly her mom has to regret that decision smfh

Amen

Yep

I'm shocked at her mother's statements and zero actions. 😠

I don't think it could have been prevented

It could of been had he been arrested and not released

@@christinamcilwaine8235 he would have done it when he got out

Peaceful?

@Kimberly wrong. Not always. Mine didn't get to me and he wanted to kill me. Lets see how how able he is in 64 years well 57 now. It doesn't always happen that way

Get a security system in your home. Also carry weapons with you at all times.

I hope you get a gun ): I’ll pray for you this is sickening . Gos will protect you

You lesbian?

Time to move hun

You should runnnnnn are mad sister move from her

They don’t care

Your Dad protecting you! Great Dad!

Kill him lol ?)

That's what dads are for.

@@purplesunflower8242 Thank you.

@@difficultjourney3216 The good dads, anyway.

I agree. Stalkers are mental cases. They need to be locked up in mental hospital and when they are release, they need to wear tracking device implanted into their heart like a pace maker. If they get anywhere near their victims, the device sends a shock to render them unconscious.

I think 🤔 it has a lot to do with how reactive rather than proactive law is set up. It often seems the police don’t or won’t do much until something physical and terrible has occurred. And maybe legally they cannot. It’s a flaw in the system because looking backward it seems so obvious where things were heading. Even when he has plead guilty to death threats he’s let out on bail before sentencing because he still hasn’t “really done anything “.

@@walden6272 That would be sweet. 😎✌️No doubt it would be considered “inhumane”. 🤷‍♂️

It’s the laws. They need to change. I’m tired of seeing women go through this bs and ending up dead. My ex has stalked, kidnapped, raped children etc and I was a victim of his as a kid too and they keep letting him out. It’s ridiculous. Some people NEED to be locked away from the world because they don’t change.

@@walden6272, Your idea is spot on, Bullseye 🎯, excellent...It's just a damn shame this can't be done because most criminals & mentally unbalanced folks get more protection & advantages that law abiding citizens don't get in the so-called justice system!!!

I agree with u 💯

Clare was lucky to have such a nice family❤

@@alexb7641 dont go to the comments till you finish the video, that will make sense right? You do realize people watch the video in different times and days?

I think its better because the UK system would have slapped him on the wrist and send him back to society where he would so it again. Glad killed himself m. If its American I would have wanted alive because they would actually punish him

@@alexb7641 don't read it maybe?

Years ago ,I had a stalker who thought "we were in love" ....I never even had 1 date/ coffee/ anything with this fella !! It was before the Stalking Laws were changed here in the USA. I was told by the police " unless he hurts you,we can't do anything" !!! Thank God he left me alone, like you !!!! I was a single Mom with 2 kids....totally alone !!! Even with our Countries Stalking Laws....it is still a Very Serious situation !!!! But IT IS a bit better than it used to be. Stay Strong & Always be aware of your surroundings !!

It’s okay to write whatever you want and watch it whenever you want

She failed her as a mother. 1 by not taking the situation serious. And 2 by not raising her with a loving and protecting father.

That 5 days in Italy. Uff… wonderful memories.… that is so sad!

Yes someone so dangerous and careless.

Although we should be able to use any social media platforms freely and securely, unfortunately the world we live in does not allow this. I have always believed that more harm than good will be the result. It’s the children of tomorrow I worry for. Sad sad world, take care.

Facts and other technology

And even SM is nothing new, it's been around since the net began, just not like it is now!

Yes it is true, though in this cse they met @ work God bless you 🙏

My stalker was before the Internet. It doesn't matter, though. Stalkers are obsessed, single minded, and very resourceful. They will make time for it. It's their mission.

Narcs are usually the ones who do the ignoring silent treatment to their victims as punishment though. Tbh, no one in a relationship likes to be ignored, this circumatance is entirely different

Yes! That would be a perfect way to handle it. And as you said, false claims should receive the same punishment if proven to be 100% untrue.

@@BS-dq1kz Stalking is so difficult to even prove in the first place for many reasons and nuances.

Right?? Those women are sick

Please be careful go to the police immediately

I took me years to get rid of mine , it took a murder suicide in my neighborhood to get the police to do anything and after each restraining order he would start up again. It took 8!years three restraining orders and charges of stalking and harassment to get him to leave me alone but he still tries to contact me through my family and mutual acquaintances. He pounded on my doors and windows too…. He has convinced so many that it was all in my head and all he ever did was love me… no one understands unless they have been through it….

His name was Michael too!

Wow. People are crazy. Glad you escaped.

@@martinezlucia101 My ex husband was pretty bad. I talked to an Attorney after filling several protection orders. My Attorney told me next time I file, to make it for the maximum time, 12 year’s. So I did. He was so bad that during our divorce when the judge notified him I filed for 12 year’s of protection. He got instantly furious. And his buddy had to restrain him to exit out the courthouse. I had to wait several minutes before I could leave. That’s another thing. If you ever have to take someone to court who has anger management issues. Or control issues. Don’t let them see where you parked your car. And don’t let them see you leave the courthouse. This judge could see the history behind our relationship was bad. And he knew if he proceeded on our first schedule court date for appearance to divorce. I would have problems with him by himself. It was just him and me there. So the judge requested that I have proof of residence living inside my county for a year. And my ex asked if he had a witness to residence would that help? Judge agreed. I went to my attorney’s office for a “Residence Affidavit” to fill out. And asked my neighbor to come to the courthouse with me to have it notarized. My ex brought his boss to court. My ex was a contract worker. Once the judge took all the freedom from my ex away from harassing me. He was furious.

Right! I had an exl-andlord like that. He was EVERYWHERE all the time, it was just so terrible. I quit going anywhere, doing anything, I was scared. The cops did NOTHING. It's been 3 years since but it totally changed my view of the world, of people of MEN, I just feel so depressed all the time, I really find no joy in life anymore at all except for my pets.