should we get married? 

Ruri: I don't want to get married, it's not for me. Also Ruri: I want to make a ceremony and invite my friends. Also Ruri: I don't know 😂

I'm impressed how open you are for each other's thoughts. If it comes to marriage, I resonate with Matt the most

You guys are AMAZING TOGETHER! I first found Izzy's channel when looking for better ways to study. But, I also tune into Ruri's channel, due to an interest in Japan. Had no idea you all know each other! Now, I have subscribed to Matt's channel as well. These podcasts are so much better than cable TV.

I love this podcasts! Thanks for constant posting! I want subtitles!!! Please!!

I really enjoyed this whole podcast and your discussion of interesting topics. Thanks for making this.

All 3 of you have very good perspectives on this topic and they all are valid. I've been there done that and I just see that modern life has definitely changed the whole dynamics of what a true successful life time relationship should be. Izzy!... I'm completely mesmerized with your eyes!

I love the camaraderie between you all. Subbed to all of yall. Can't wait to see the growth in 10 years

You guys are so funny. I've enjoyed a lot. Thank you for this amazing topic

I just found this podcast, you guys all offer a good variety of insights :D I tend to go with Ruri on this one. I think we have all grown up to think marriage is just another part of tradition that we should strive for, but this is just one more tradition that seems to be falling by the wayside since the spread of the internet. I think many traditions in this world are so strong because of a lack of access to viewpoints outside of the "norm", and I love how to internet has allowed a lot of people to question their commitment to these traditions. Finding your soulmate and living together as one is a great story for some people, but it's not for everyone. I think love can be as specific or abstract as you want it to be, and it really depends on who is interpreting it.

Gran episodio chicos sigan así me encanta escucharlos ojalá hagan podcast más a menudo, saludos desde México, greetings from México it is a plesaure to listening to an amaizing podcast.

You guys are awesome! Keep up the GREAT Videos ❤️🔥

I see eye to eye with Matt when it comes to getting married. Having a sense of commitment to somebody is incredibly important to me 😀

Great Way To Start Off A Day

Matts is wisest person and most reasonable . I like the way you answers and argumentation. I agree with all of your opinion

I appreciate all your open opinions. Personally, I resonate the most with Ruris perspective on this topic.

You all are very nature and bright and colourful beauty!!! Truly appreciate and love your career path 💖

Very interesting subject!

we want moooooooore episodes

Yes, because it's a legal and binding contract of life commitment for both parties. It's easier to write the rights and responsibilities of each parties in an agreement rather than just saying it, because you can deny or forget oral agreement easily over time. So making it official will make it easier to maintain the commitment of the relationship in the long run. It protects both parties' rights and their offsprings, especially inheritance and child support responsibility. and I think adopting your wife's surname in Japan is not that uncommon especially in the wealthy family. Every big Keiretsu/Zaibatsu family do that for their daighter by adopting the future husband as one of their son/family before the marriage.

In my culture there's no rule of changing surname. My mom and dad have different surnames.

Nice episode ...want more

MARRY IS A COMMIMENTS TO YOUR PARTNER AND IT'S BEAUTIFUL BEING A FATHER.

Thank u for this! When will the next video be uploaded?

TENGRI BLESSING YOU!✌🇰🇿NEVER STOPING!👍

I love you so much guys rsrsrs. Ruri is very funny uhauhahua. I laught a lot with her. Continue your work.

Izee and your Japanese friends and also boy friends, I have heard your conversation about marriage, So in my opinion when the younger generation is thinking about the marriage they are totally unaware of the situation which is what after the marriage, because there are many reasons as you had discussed like family, culture, father and mother sometimes different areas, nature of the people, education, family background,all these things are consult with our filling for each other, The most important thing is that love has no condition unconditional love ever lasting in my opinion, because today's marriage not ever lasting after two or three years the results are always in divorce because they are not matched with each other and So many unexpected problems comes after the marriage but those who are atay and steadily in every situation they can Live happy life that's the whole conclusion of the living life.#copy writer,

izzy has the voice of an airport announcer

I’m not religious and also used to think “marriage is just a paper”, but I now think that is a misunderstanding of the power of symbolic meaning. The act of getting married is a way to communicate devotion in ways that are hard to do in any other way. You are actively shutting the door from exiting the partnership. Sure, you can just tell a partner who want to commit to them, but we should not be so naïve as to downplay the ritual of marriage in solidifying that commitment.

I personally find marriage important (because of my religion). But it doesn't have to be a fancy wedding you know, just families/friends coming together and celebrating this moment together. That's it really. When it comes to Ruri and her short lasting relationships, I think that happens because your 'boyfriend' really isn't a good fit for you. When you find someone who truly understands you and has a good chemistry, relationships will last longer. I had the same mindset like you where I would get bored easily, untill I found someone who understood me well. Our relationship lasted about a year, but I still had to break up because I got bored.. weird from me to give you advice while I have the same issue as well haha. Just don't rush when it comes to relationships. Hang out as friends and see where things are going. If it will happen it will, no need to rush things..

I have 2 different names as well but I think taking my wife's surname would be interesting.. well to me getting married is just making the relationship legal in someway but I guess it depends on the person I'm with I'll just go with whatever she wants. No need to argue 🙂

I would seriously want to be part of conversations like that I have a lot to say and things for which i would want all your views on. Specially you matt.. is there a way for me talk with you in speech specific way ?

Good job 👍

Loved the segment on the surname. Ruri's take on it is something every couple should communicate about and either find a compromise or be firm like Ruri. With my gf, the talk was pretty simple. With my kids, I want them to have my gf's surname since it's unique imo, especially for a Filipino. Mines is Dela Cruz; which is one of the most generic surnames a Filipino can have. As for our marriage, I wanna keep my surname just cause it sounds cool to me LMAO even though it's a generic name and my gf will keep hers because it is a rare surname (as far as I'm concerned) and she has 2 other sisters so their surname will die with them if all 3 of them happen to take the husband's surname

Each person must lives up to his or her dreams through his or her own nature.

I enjoy a lot while listening this episode :D thanks

Like and love is not the same. Getting bored to quickly can get you in travel. Have lot of friends with different interests that will help you. You do not have to be romantic with all of your friends/

I WANT TO GET MARRIED!

The discussion is really based on individualism. Human society is not built based on one single idea. One can disagree with society. However, society is made by multiple family communities based on families. One may think society may be built by individuals only; that idea, however, has not been happened in human history.

It's not a matter of "should we get married?" But more so "Do you want to get married?"

I understand the bordem part.... It's not just about the person..... It's the stress and responsibility that comes with it...... But, a freind of mine told me I haven't found someone I love.... Well, hmm... Don't know what to say to that......

without the context of experience things don't seem to make sense 🤔

Amazing Podcast. Greetings from México

Joks

Not getting married You don't get. 1) To be under his Insurance. 2) raising a kid by your self. ( Hard ) 3) not having the influence. ( Best of both worlds) 4) doing the parents stuff by your self 5) less income. Comming in 6) if you get sick ( simple Flu ). Still have to help the kid 7) the Father only. Outing 8). That Father ( voice) might have more weight behind it ) 9) being a roll model to other families 10). Kid being picked on because he doesn't have a father. ( Kids can be REALLY MEAN!!!!!! )

I see a value in getting married, but for me, marriage is not an option, maybe in the future (more than 5 years, I'm 27 by the way), same with having children. I think this is because I didn't grow up in a typical family and I'm not religious. What do you think about the age (or other important factors) to get married? That is, some people get married and have children so young, is that okay with you? edit: why this video has so few views? It doesn't show up in my feed either.

Hi ruri

Question for all of you: At what age / age-range do you expect to be married?

Well as far as marriage goes I'm very much a traditionalist I like the traditional Valves. I like the state that I live in Tennessee I'm pretty well-off the laws of the state benefit Me as a man. Prenuptial's agreements are hard for a woman to beat in the state of Tennessee. But ideally I would like to see the laws changed in Tennessee. So that you could have a wedding and not be married by the state and legally call your significant other your wife with no legal repercussions. I don't like the government getting involved in marriage. It's not advantageous for my situation. I would take care of a woman well and I wouldn't cheat on her. And I would make sure she was taking care of for the rest of her life that my children would get the major majority of my money. But as long as she was my wife she would be very well taken care of. To change the subject there's an interesting study women that hang around with their friends that are divorced or 74% more likely to get divorced. This is from the University of I think San Diego could be wrong but it's one of the UC system in California. They say you are the sum of your five closest friends. My best friend is my mom is sad as that sounds but she's extremely moral very traditional minded. My brother is probably my second best friend is very traditional minded very moral far better person than myself. My friend bull is a far better human being than myself. He is very traditional minded also. I'm an extremely strong-willed individual. All my friends in high school were involved in drugs rock cocaine. When they got involved with drugs I abandon ship left all of my friends. I've never used any illegal drugs of my life. I told my grandfather that I wouldn't drink I've had two sips of alcohol so not perfect. But I'm pretty good at keeping my word. I do believe in God I have a very primitive mind. A lot of people that don't believe in God always cite the great evil and suffering in society is one of the reasons why they don't believe in God.. I'm a very simpleminded person if there was an evil and suffering as terrible as it is there would be no good in there would be no reference point for good everything would be boring it would just be existing as silly as that sounds every day would just be another day there be nothing to look forward to everything would be perfect you have no respect for life. I did not very articulate and didn't articulate that very well and I apologize for the quality of my writing. When you see suffering and evil you have great appreciation for life.Well I am functionally illiterate so again I apologize for the quality my writing. I'll tell you I look up to as far as marriage goes Mark Zuckerberg. Mark Zuckerberg seems to be extremely loyal to his wife and I don't think he cheats on his wife and he has immense opportunities to do so. Mark Zuckerberg prays with his children. Mark Zuckerberg's wife Priscilla is extremely classy very ladylike and extremely decent human being. Mark Zuckerberg's wife actually seems to love him genuinely. Mark Zuckerberg wasn't worse billions of dollars she would probably still love him. Most people would not be that fortunate.Well I could rewrite all of this and make it much better I can assure you that it would take a lot of time.. Well I'm a very simpleminded personI fear hell so I try to do the right thing.. I'm certainly not perfect. I'm a Neanderthal at best. I'm sure if you read this you'll lose all respect for me.An interesting fact atheist or 30% more likely to get divorced. People that pray every day live an average of 6.7 years longer than people that don't.Women with very high IQs are more likely to file for divorce especially after having a child..Women that have slept with more than five men statistically more likely to be unhappy in marriage.Women with college degrees statistically are more likely to file for divorce 80 to 90% of the time .Younger women marry older men are more likely to file for divorce.That's my two cents

must need to know about my question which i asked you above please tell me honestly. I wanna to know about your boyfriend and how Long with him and how much closer?

Izzy is 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. I wish, dream I could marry Izzy 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

I found my dream girl how’s my wife cherlong from itzy Kpop

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Just in time to combat post-Valentine's day blues for single people. :|

Hi everyone😅

enough

Llo leo nuestro labio i lohojo.

This Podcast kinda reflects our society. Men are getting more and more feminine while women are getting more and more masculine

polyamory relationships will never be enough, you always want more.

How is it even possible to be legally together without being married? Strange statements made here.

Why marriage? Answers: 1) Religious - It's a blessing from God that a man and a woman become one flesh, and a further blessing that they be fruitful and multiply. 2) Non-religious - Society, culture, government, and civilisation is built on the foundation of the family unit. The historically best form of a family unit is within a marriage framework. - So we see the breakdown of the family unit in the west through increase evil such as growing up without one's father (the majority of inmates and criminals come from this background) and the phenomena of wokeness that even attack classical Liberals.

didn't know double surname was also called double barrel haha

No

Every generation tries to reinvent the wheel.

Why does she always say she's at Cambridge? Just wondering if there's a reason.

maybe You know about my nature

Merakonofeks

I would like to marry with the girl in the middle 😍

Matt is much more traditional on his approach about marriage. He has his values and feels strongly about it. THe girls though, have much more of a modern way of thinking regarding marriage, whether you’ve learned it from your parents or have developed your own ideas about it. To each person though, it all comes down to your personal attitudes towards it(marriage). Some are culturally based and some are religion influenced. Your video should’ve been more about your personal attitudes about it, not what you know about it. There is no science behind marriage, just like there’s no science behind love. It’s just a natural phenomenon that occurs when two people are in love with each other. That’s all you should remind yourselves. When there’s no love, it becomes a contract. Meaningless. If you want to get married, fall in love first.

I want to see middle lady always single.

I really wanna married one day but I’m a lesbian who live in Iran 🤫 we can't even exist in society

NEVER get married, there's no reason for it really.

Click bait. Talk to them just because there eye candy 🍭🍭🍭🍭😂😂😂😂🍭🍭

Merakoadeyabavnfokucro

I think most people are meant to be married, while the rest are not meant to be married so staying single is best for them. In Canada, 4% of relationships are polyamorous while 96% are monogamous. If most people want a relationship to last, then polyamorous is much worse than monogamous marriage. In the USA, polyamorous relationships last about eight years, while monogamous marriages last 20 years. Polyamorous fail/divource rate is 92%! Marriages fail/divorce rate is 41%

Matt u be talking to much lol let Izzy and ruri talk it out

I am desperate for attention

Orange is fake friend

You guys are just too young and do not see all that it means getting married. As you mature in your life you may be able to understand

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