what age will we peak in life? 

Also, as someone nearing 40 it's great to hear young people having these thoughtful conversations. When I was in my early 20s, podcasts didn't exist and RU-vid was in its infancy. My college friends & I were just drinking it up, playing video games seven hours a day with zero sense of urgency or passion for success or becoming our best selves. Good on you for starting early! These excellent habits you're establishing will compound and lead to great results for all three of you.

it's like this, if you are not moving towards the next peak, then you have peaked already and then it doesn't matter when that happened

Damn, I turned 25 in december and I really felt this episode. I though about these topics a lot lately and I can relate with 95% of what all of you said and I honestly wish the conversation was longer and more in depth. Since my early teens I thinks I celebrated my birthday twice in my life, so it always had a trivial importance to me but the aging factor was alway a big thing so I always take the chance to have a retrospective of what I have been through the year, what I've left behind and where I am going toward. I wish I had someone to have conversations like this in my life too... If only there was some kind of online community (idk, like a Discord server perhaps) where you could connect with random people around the globe that would enjoy this kind of conversations too ;)))

Listening to you guys and your experience and how you guy achieve things in life make me remember of my past how i grow up and change with the passage of time, achieve things and learn from it. Keep sharing your experience. One day i would like to join you guy.

Love the "Peak in Life" discussion! I peaked *physically* in my early 20s competing in bodybuilding shows. *Professionally* I peaked at age 27 becoming a Personal Training Manager for a nation-wide health club in the U.S. In achieving my *personal goals* I peaked age 29-34 when I first moved abroad to teach English in South Korea. It was like hitting a "Reset" button and starting Life #2! In doing so I achieved all my travel dreams in Asia and even Europe! After that, I hit a bit of a lull with no more goals. Until I put myself out there and met my fiance 3 years ago at the age of 36. I can now say I've peaked in *Relationships* in my late 30s. Despite 8+ years away across the world, I'm closer to my mom than ever and am about to get married this year! Although it's impossible to look ahead and know, I believe there are even more "Peaks" to look forward to such as kids, and giving back to others in the community. Thanks for the thoughtful conversation and for evoking this in me ^^

The older I become, I believe it's, like Izzy said, feeling valued, by people that I care about. A call, drop in, a message. This was an interesting topic, I am about 15-20 years older than "the trio" and I began to think on how different my thoughts, goals and beliefs were in my 20s Izzy, it does evolve, or should. I liked the idea of the snapshot each year to track. As most things in life, your beliefs osolate, but core values can be challenged and while most stay the same may be "reviewed". Have a goal and work towards it, be flexible, grateful, kind when you can, selfish when you need. Persevere. Just an ex Australian soldier throwing in my 2 cents Take care and thank you

I feel really relaxed when I'm listening to this podcast and y'all talking about your life experiences and your opinions helps me in many ways Tysm for always making my day better!!

Seems like celebrations, Christmas/Birthdays/Halloween, is for the young ones. I share the same sentiment with Matt. At some point birthdays started to feel like a death timer.

Keep it up guys! Great podcast!

I think when looking from the perspective of your 20s, 40-50 years old may seem distant and maybe not as productive, but in reality it's what you decide for this age to be😍 hopefully, we are healthy by that time🙏 but even if not, we can be super-experienced or will have tried different career paths and know something about life! I think it's a fruitful age too!✨ if you keep being interested in life, stay curious!🙌 Every age is beautiful and well, it's true, there is melancholy in getting older, but in my opinion it's important not to lose ourselves in it, in our thoughts of the past. There are still opportunities no matter of the age we are in! I hope we use our time wisely and love every minute of it! God bless🙏

Know this channel through Izzy and now it’s become my go to place on RU-vid. You guys are amazing! Please keep up the great work!

I loved this conversation so much! Subscribed!

yessss I love this podcast sm!!!!!

Ironically I don't have enough time to listen to podcasts, but I liked the clips I listened to! Ya'll remind me of me and my friends, and it's nice to hear similar conversations echoed by a friend group I don't even know. I feel connected.

This is a very good idea. Please continue. I love it.

I want to be that crazy auntie too :D I really like this podcast guys. I am not much of a podcast person but I like watching the way you talk casually. I feel depressed on my birthdays for 5 to 6 years since I am getting old and I didn't achieve any of my goals in life. I hope I won't feel disappointed when I turn 30. :(

This podcast is so cozy - amazing that I can listen in while you guys just chat about everything haha

I like your experiences about the life. Thank you for all.

I find this an engaging conversation; special thoughts about mothers on birthdays and interesting perspectives about life in general. Great job on Spotify👍; spot ON🎙️🎧! 🍰About my birthday, it is always festive whether I like it or not because it's on new Year's Eve 🎆🥂cheers 🥰

Such a wonderful podcast 🤍🤍👑

19:10 is a great idea! tracking our favourites or writting a letter to ourselves about how we are at this moment of time, so that we can look back and actually see more concrete evidence of how we've changed over the years. Thankyou Matt for that! My perspective on birthdays during my school years. had been that there is no need to make a big deal about it But my friends have completely spoiled me over the years by making a bigger deal of it than i've ever expected , for which i'm very grateful and lucky. My resolution is to be better at spoiling them back on their days as well. I need to up my gift game. Audible credits are actually a great idea for that! And my mom definitely needs more appreciation from me on birthdays especially as well. Thankyou Matt, Izzy and Ruri for your very deep and introspective podcasts. I learn new perspectives in all of them from all of you every time!

Love the content

I liked very much.Thank you all of you😊

Thank you for picking interesting topics so far. btw i have a fixed podcast time everyday to wind down my day.

I’m really enjoying it

This is so helpful, suitable for me

Pleasee keep going with the podcasts, there are fantastics!! I really like the vibe wich do you spread!! by the way, could you talk more about taboo subjects? I would like to hear your thoughts about those less comon topics, you guys seems pretty clever and wise😁🧠

Watching from Brazil!🇧🇷🇧🇷

Really great conversation. I am 25 and honestly can completely relate as someone who going through mini mid-life crises. I haven't been able to throw parties for past few years but mainly spend time with family. Is the guy Filipino? Haha

Happy birthday

I haven't had a party in years but this year will be big since I'm turning 21. Actually every day will be big after that

20s is where I gather everything I want to do and work on it and 30 hopefully I completed some by then

16:20 i actually like this podcast because of that like it's really interesting to hear your dialogue guys😍

Speaking as a "BOOM geriatric" of 43 heh heh I have to say my birthdays nowadays I make a point to step outside, inhaling the fresh air, then exhaling a loud "GET OFF MY LAWN" whilst shaking a cane overhead at the neighborhood kids that have lit paper bags full of dog excrement on fire. All jokes aside. As for my birthdays In the past, I have honestly forgotten some of them myself. These 3 things I know though. Matt, old man strength is a thing! haha so that is something to look forward to. Izzy, Your plateau cruising altitude will be sky high! And Badass-Auntie Ruri... You'll always be badass, because if You're asked "What are You rebelling against" Your reply is a simple... "whaddaya got"? :) Can't get more BADASS than that! You're all treasures!

I celebrate my birthday back in the day with a play all day party at our house where all my friends would come and we all like play video games all day order what we want or even until morning the next day.. like it was a tradition that lasted until I was 13 and I was always excited about it.. after that, my birthday became less and less of like a kid's party.. I was ok with a simple lunch then would hang out with friends at the mall or at the Karting track if we were lucky..I think the last birthday that I can call a blast was my 20th birthday.. cause that's when I got to buy a car with my own money.. my birthday is still meaningful to me but it's not a s meaningful that I get excited about it Everytime it comes.. now it's like just a normal day for me.. I mean I live alone and I'm used to celebrating it alone now. I don't need to ask my parents to get me this and that for my birthday cause if I want something I can get it anytime cause I'm earning my own money.. now in terms of peaking in life I don't think about it that much.. I just wanna go on a d on with what I do until the day that I die.. yeah I wanna evolve but I still want that evolution to happen in my field of work.. sure I would want to be a team principal for our team in the future.. I think that would be interesting to see if I could be like Toto Wolff and get our team to winning multiple championships yeah that's the dream I wanna achieve.. and in terms of marriage, I don't think marriage is necessary.. sure I wanna have kids and become a father (hoping that his son would continue and have the same dream as his or her father) but I'm the type that if it comes it comes if it's for me it's for me.. but right now I just wanna enjoy life.. mean I have a great job and everything about it is fun and there's never been a boring day in this field, I absolutely love everything about it and as long as I'm breathing the same air as sir Lewis Hamilton, and in the same country as Harry Potter then I'm good with that.. and I see myself doing this even if I get old ☺️

Ruri is soo cute 😍

dang , when you were telling about you're career till 30 (famous person) 😂 and then i was like wait it's me 😂, i just have to work more smart as you always say .

I don't really like birthday parties, I prefer to have a good time with my family, eat my favorite birthday cake and watch a good movie. I think I don't like gifts so much either, I would prefer something useful and cheap instead of something super expensive and pretty. I also have the idea of ​​spending a birthday completely alone for the first time, to have a time of introspection, thinking about the past year or my goals for the future (I don't know if I will, but I would like to). I enjoyed the podcast as always, I like to listen 3 different perspective about life.

Because all 3 of you are comfortable with changing your mind when new information comes in. It makes me wonder what your Myers-Briggs types are. I would guess you are all XXFP or XXTP

Ruri! Plz live in Tokyo. You will be surprised how much freedom Japanese in Tokyo and (also Yokohama) have. I’ve never heard f such a old belief👍👍👍

😘😘😘

Ruri😍 still my fav youtuber, you're inspiration... No harsh comment but i prefer seeing u alone

Izzy is a Scorpio or Sagittarius or on the cusp?

I didn't see the importance of birthdays until today. Definitely gonna start thanking my parents for my existence. Besides that, it's just another first world problem, just another day to fortunately still have breath in this life. What age will we peak in life? I'm gonna be peaking all the way into my graveyard 🤣

Do the money episode next

hiç bişey anlamadım ama yine eğlenceliydi thanks

Loving from Pakistan ❤️🇵🇰👏

I asked my mum and dad not to celebrate my birthday since I was in 4th grade after my dad brought me to an orphanage in a developing country.

You are so cute izzy

Where's Milly?

I have a question for you why people celebrate Birthday ruri ? Why they are happy. For born here?

Izzy is so beautiful ❤❤❤❤ n cute.

Pls add subtle in your video.

Tbh when I was younger I wanted to be rich and famous by 23 lol didn’t happen I’m 23 now so yea lmao

So Ruri never wanted to be the good girl.

hey, I have an idea, I wanna marry one of the two girls in the video on my birthday, how's that? lol

most people don't peak in life

Not true at all. I started my art journey when i was 38