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do you believe in love at first sight? 

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What are attractive qualities in a partner? Why do we form romantic relationships? What do you look for in a relationship?
In our second episode we ponder these questions and more, exploring the way that romantic relationships shape our lives and what characteristics are important in finding and building relationships. Tune in to hear some personal takes on these topics!
P.S. from Izzy: Apologies for my audio quality in this episode!!! Had some technical issues in recording that I didn't notice until after, so this is the audio recorded from my headphones (aka a potato). Despite this we thought the conversation was great fun and we all really enjoyed this discussion, so here it is! Rest assured mic issues are now all sorted for future episodes :)
🎙️ Welcome to Milliseconds Apart, a podcast where three friends, separated by thousands of miles in real life but just milliseconds apart over the internet, chat about life, meaning, human connection, and everything else in between.
☘️ The Trio
🐼 Matt: / mattagustin
🐥 Izzy: / izzysealey
🐈‍⬛ Ruri: / ruriohama
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@AhmetKaan
@AhmetKaan 2 года назад
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
@aspiretoinspire9679
@aspiretoinspire9679 2 года назад
Even though some people don't believe in it, there's actually science behind the feeling of falling in love at first sight. True, deep love may not exist yet when you first meet someone, but you may create the memory of falling in love later on in your relationship.✌✌✌🥰🥰🥰
@tropicaldimitri7374
@tropicaldimitri7374 2 года назад
More like "getting attracted at first sight"
@dilaraacasia1206
@dilaraacasia1206 2 года назад
I love your deep conversations!! 😍😍 Just keep going guys 💙
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Thank you Dilara! :) ❤️ -Izzy
@zeamixx6371
@zeamixx6371 2 года назад
Like the old song by The Beatles said: "Would you believe in a love at first sight, yes I'm certain that it happens all the time". Maybe not love, but the first contact, the first impression makes the difference. Because the words like "personality" "intelligence" "honesty"etc at the begining are not but empty words. If anybody doesn't even allow you to demonstrate how do you really are and how do you really feel, then what kind of relationships we are talking about of? "We are not true, we are not pure, we are not right…" An interesting talk😄
@golcuk2076
@golcuk2076 2 года назад
Between 9:46 and 10:05 I totally feel you Ruri and neither I couldn't explain even to myself why I am acting like that in those times but then I realized some things about how these feelings and instincts might have come up with my past but right now, I can't find enough energy in myself to write those things to here :)
@marcossgd2172
@marcossgd2172 2 года назад
I think there's a difference between what you feel and what you love, you choose who you love, you can't choose what you feel, that's why I think most of people these days break up once they stop feeling, cus they don't love, they just get carried away by the feeling. Love is commitment and is a decision not a feeling, when you see a homeless person and decide to give him money or food you are giving them love without feeling anything towards them (or maybe pity, maybe compassion) the thing is you decide before even thinking what you feel, that's true love, just decide to give without hoping to receive anything, I know most of people wish a relationship to be mutual but is a shame not everyone is ready to love that way. What do you guys think about this thought? 🤔
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Hmmm, this is pretty interesting. We should discuss this on our podcast-Ruri
@smentado
@smentado 2 года назад
I felt in love with Matt, he is so amazing and their ideas are so mature and reflective ❤🧚‍♀️
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
🥰🥰🥰 Sending you extra love today and thank you for the kind words ❤️ -Matt
@nguyenpopg0706
@nguyenpopg0706 7 месяцев назад
I literally fell in love at first sight with Izzy's smile, personality and also of course her educational background.
@eittorres
@eittorres 2 года назад
Awesome episode. You three seem like genuine human beings. Thank you for sharing what you think.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Much love much love, Edwin ❤️ Thanks for being here with us on the journey 🙏🏾 -Matt
@cayplusconnects
@cayplusconnects Год назад
Glad to listen in this conversations; not letting this podcast off my radar easily🖖🎙️subbed btw👍🎧😊
@tamastakacs3810
@tamastakacs3810 Год назад
Procrastinate answering messages is 100% relatable Ruri. I feel you 🖐😩 (while writing this I see others wrote this as well)
@Dunkface
@Dunkface Год назад
Rudi is the type that drains energy and Matt is the energy maker. Izzy is the energy.
@Natedawg713
@Natedawg713 2 года назад
I’m with ruri .. for the fun and excitement. . Quality over quantity Izzy. Bruh been like 7 maybe 8 since a actually serious/healthy relationship
@zector3103
@zector3103 2 года назад
I jst love this podcast ! Its just like watching "Friends".. It really fels like u are our friends and that we are just having a deep conversation
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Yes yes yes, Zector! Thanks so much for sharing as that is exactly what we are going for here 💪🏾 We’re happy to have you along with us on the journey and sending you so much love and good juju❤️ -Matt
@zector3103
@zector3103 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart Omg is this real ? He awnsered 😮 I feel so honored to be the second person u responded to wow a dream come true 😄 Thank you !!!! Looking foreward for the next episode !!!
@user-nx6cw5zv5o
@user-nx6cw5zv5o Год назад
Your podcast really help me to improve my English skill, thank you
@ibrahimtuncer2758
@ibrahimtuncer2758 2 года назад
Loved the episode! I don't think that love at first sight is real. You usually feel that way because your pyshically attracted to that person (face or body for example). When two people get to know eachother and when they are building a relationship, the love part will come. That's how I think about it. Good luck with the podcast btw!
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Thank you❤️-Ruri
@brandonm8920
@brandonm8920 Год назад
I love that Matt appreciates hyenas and knows that they are truly an amazing species and how lion king represented them in a way that media sees them as "malicious and dim-witted". Just a little something that I agree with. Loving the podcast so far, keep it up!
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart Год назад
Someone needs to give the hyenas love, Brandon 🙃🥰 Thanks for the encouragement and being with us here ❤️
@yogi9631
@yogi9631 9 месяцев назад
I can't take my eyes off Runi and Izzy. so yes i believe in love at first sight.
@benegesserit9650
@benegesserit9650 2 года назад
Izzy can you share the link for survey among college students about attractiveness at the beginning vs ending?
@leviathandiabolo6296
@leviathandiabolo6296 2 года назад
Love at first sight? Don't know. But love at first bite? Yes. I have seen it in Ruri's eyes. She falls in love with everything she eats. Ruri would marry every food if she could.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Ahahahahahahahah-Ruri
@ikramtanyafi4601
@ikramtanyafi4601 2 года назад
Amazing 👏😍
@dommyxgaming8888
@dommyxgaming8888 2 года назад
some interesting opinions about relation ships im intrigued on which other topics u will discuss tho a question will this podcast have guests ?? Or will it just be u three guys ??
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
We’ll discuss whatever we’re up to :) we might invite some people. Stay tuned❤️-Ruri
@samiiraxuseen2503
@samiiraxuseen2503 2 года назад
You're doing good job . Keep going 👏👌
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️ -Matt
@joseandres-vlog6277
@joseandres-vlog6277 2 года назад
I really like it! Saludos desde Perú.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Thank you!! :) ❤️ -Izzy
@alan.3008
@alan.3008 2 года назад
I usually watch your videos to improve my listening in English🇧🇷👋❤️
@XzXzXYouTube
@XzXzXYouTube 2 года назад
Will subtitles be added in different languages? Or will it be in English only?
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
It will be only in English for now-Ruri
@Natedawg713
@Natedawg713 2 года назад
What about wanting to leave a relationship but being afraid of being alone again so you don’t/can’t.
@patrickrad1735
@patrickrad1735 11 месяцев назад
Great 😊
@Migwelp
@Migwelp Год назад
The RU-vid algorithm demonic for sending me on this rollercoaster, wtf.
@animeact2180
@animeact2180 2 года назад
Hey is online love without seeing him/her in real life possible , I mean if we have good relationship but due to country barrier we haven't seen yet so what do you think about ?
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Hmm, I think it’s possible, but what's the point of it? why not become friends?-Ruri
@animeact2180
@animeact2180 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart well we were friends earlier but now it's totally different things 😅 haha , thanks for your suggestion Milliseconds apart team ✨
@ho-ry5uf
@ho-ry5uf 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart I think the difference between being in love like this girl is saying and having a friend is obvious (unless you've never been in love/ you identify as A-romantic.).
@Ramounskee
@Ramounskee Год назад
Matt is such a lucky guy meeting Ruri
@gsmplus5614
@gsmplus5614 Год назад
I love you guys
@braziliandaniel2316
@braziliandaniel2316 2 года назад
Ruri, here in Brazil exist a comunity Japanese, so Big❤🇹🇷🇯🇵, the more big of world
@Jbo2000
@Jbo2000 2 года назад
I assume Izzy gets the most action. And Matt is the same as me. "I enjoy being alone😖"
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Ahahahahahah -Ruri
@yeyenico1151
@yeyenico1151 2 года назад
For someone that responds with memes, I prefer texting haha
@vanellopeschwetz76
@vanellopeschwetz76 2 года назад
what do you guys think about long distance relationship I mean I know you're from different countries but somehow managed to be friends is it possible to do this in a romantic relationship?
@vanellopeschwetz76
@vanellopeschwetz76 2 года назад
because I think like only different between close friends and romantic relationships is kinda being touch in a sexual way ıdk I can't really know that if I'm seeing a person as a close friend or someone that I'm fall in love how do you guys separate them
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
I do think so. If you can meet at least twice a year then why not-ruri
@niemansianpier4668
@niemansianpier4668 2 года назад
I heard on the news that young adults in South Korea think that dating relationships are a waste of time ... maybe it's post-modern culture or the effect of GMO foods ... or maybe they're just a more advanced society in the world...👽
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Yeah, but it can also media being media and exaggerating stuff -Ruri
@walkingtalking123
@walkingtalking123 2 года назад
How long should one wait before getting married and if marriage even necessary?
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Whenever you're ready :)-Ruri
@utubelife198
@utubelife198 2 года назад
@ruri dont take it to heart this is first time when i see you smiling.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
I guess somebody didn't watch my recent videos lol -Ruri
@joon4484
@joon4484 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart haha yeah I guess 😆
@utubelife198
@utubelife198 2 года назад
@@joon4484 ya older people have more experience .
@zector3103
@zector3103 2 года назад
what ? shes laughing all the time whatchu re talking about ? Just kidding 😄 Nah man i love Ruri s personality shes funny in an awkward way Dont take this wrong Ruri but it always makes me laugh
@utubelife198
@utubelife198 2 года назад
@@zector3103 i think you are brother of@ruri
@dandysan6825
@dandysan6825 2 года назад
10:53 I will watch more tomorrow, very interesting topic 👌🔥
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Much love and thanks for being here, Jairo ❤️ -Matt
@user-gl3uc2mm8s
@user-gl3uc2mm8s 8 месяцев назад
I love them
@patrickrad1735
@patrickrad1735 11 месяцев назад
🇰🇷🇨🇦🎭🎥🎁🎅🎄😇👸🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙🚙💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
@Natedawg713
@Natedawg713 2 года назад
Can we hear what’s Cambridge is like and the people that have come from that school head a lot of good things
@sabrinamukimova2082
@sabrinamukimova2082 Год назад
I likee so much when your laugh😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@predajor
@predajor Год назад
This is Real.
@saltymonke3682
@saltymonke3682 2 года назад
What do you guys think about Loyalty in a relationship?😬
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
It depends on how you define loyalty -Ruri
@saltymonke3682
@saltymonke3682 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart what's yours Ruri? perhaps, in the next podcast?
@ipandaluver9564
@ipandaluver9564 Год назад
Ruri medical student like me 😭😭❤️❤️ love Ruri
@TM_718
@TM_718 2 года назад
Ruri is so mature for her age
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
We like to think Ruri is mature, no matter her age hahahahaha -Matt
@TM_718
@TM_718 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart truee
@AxelMattias
@AxelMattias 2 года назад
Nice, this is like Trash Taste Podcast, except it's not "Trash" lol
@sabaj2859
@sabaj2859 2 года назад
Great😍 but Izzy's audio quality wasn't good
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
It was all tidied up for the next one so apologies there! Happy you are with us here ❤️ -Matt
@Natedawg713
@Natedawg713 2 года назад
Lol maybe we all just need some pets
@Deibi078
@Deibi078 2 года назад
I want to see Mr Salas here
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Ahahah ah why -Ruri
@RonaldDinopol-lk6ms
@RonaldDinopol-lk6ms 9 месяцев назад
Good morning
@RonaldDinopol-lk6ms
@RonaldDinopol-lk6ms 9 месяцев назад
love in first site I believe that,
@thomasthomas6557
@thomasthomas6557 7 месяцев назад
Olhagrey
@gogositlho855
@gogositlho855 2 года назад
Is it good to thinking of marriage at 24 . Thank you
@shubhammalekar4850
@shubhammalekar4850 2 года назад
If you're financially stable
@saltymonke3682
@saltymonke3682 2 года назад
depends, stable income? psychological maturity of the couple? mutual understanding? relationship goals and personal goals of each of you? marriage is a commitment on a binding contract you know.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
I don't think that there is a perfect age for marriage. It depends on your lifestyle, financial, mental, and physical state (and many other things). It's whenever you're comfortable about it❤️🤙🏼-Ruri
@equipo1557
@equipo1557 2 года назад
the cuality the audio is not good :c
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Working on it 😅🙈 -Matt
@Griffith8
@Griffith8 2 года назад
ıf you have a discord channel may you share?
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
No discord at this time, but we will be sure to share it if we start one! -Matt
@Griffith8
@Griffith8 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart I got it, thanks
@intervalkid
@intervalkid Год назад
Dig.
@lecryptojames
@lecryptojames 2 года назад
I feel that two of y'all will date someday.
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Hahahahaha it is more sibling vibes with the three of us 🤣 -Matt
@Sapporoweather
@Sapporoweather Год назад
I do like your Japanese accent English.
@patrickrad1735
@patrickrad1735 11 месяцев назад
🚜
@jackchen8367
@jackchen8367 2 года назад
what's wrong with Izzy's mic? This time she sounds sort of weird compared to the first time
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Sadly had some technical issues and only realised afterwards 😭 am triple checking the settings every time before we record now so hopefully won't happen again 😂 thanks for bearing with ❤️ -Izzy
@Deibi078
@Deibi078 2 года назад
Lol
@soraxgc8740
@soraxgc8740 2 года назад
Izzy needs to fix her microphone because I can barely understand what she's trying to say
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
This one was accidentally recorded with her recording through her headphones 😅 That said, it was all fixed afterwards so should be good moving forward! Thanks for being here on the journey with us ❤️ -Matt
@soraxgc8740
@soraxgc8740 2 года назад
@@MillisecondsApart No problem, man. I really enjoyed this podcast. 👌
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Love that love that ✊🏾 Have the best day! -Matt
@thomasthomas6557
@thomasthomas6557 7 месяцев назад
Cldarnmatllav
@riccia888
@riccia888 2 года назад
Dont forget that Marilyn Manson is ugly but still find love at first sight
@lidakupry9668
@lidakupry9668 2 года назад
Since when did you start learning English?
@MillisecondsApart
@MillisecondsApart 2 года назад
Since I was a young kid (and assuming same for Izzy) - however, you were probably talking about Ruri 🙃 I’ll let her answer that one. -Matt
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