Yes, sis blocking the bread crumbs. I did the same to protect my heart. He later called me from a unknown number and made sure to apologize and ask for my hand in marriage. He later thanked me.for blocking him 😂 that woke him the fuk up. When he knew i was moving on and cutting him out of my life forever. I wasnt going to allow him to call me and try to stay friends with me.
POV: If someone breaks up with you, give them the space that they want because that’s the mature thing to do Don’t stay where you’re not wanted. This gives them a lesson for the future. This shows them that you have the maturity and the confidence in yourself to pick yourself up dust yourself off and keep it moving. Loss is never yours.. it’s his. It’s a great way to call their bluff. And if you guys get back together and he decides to do this again, it’s going to make him think that he can’t use this to control you, so if he wants his freedom, give it to him. Instead of him seeing the break up as a punishment towards you they will remember that you didn’t chase them down. It’s not your job to fix what they broke. Instead you just give them the break up space they want. They will see this is one way that they can’t manipulate you in the future. This is so important because now they see that they can’t manipulate you by breaking up to get you to behave like a dancing monkey. This is very important so if someone breaks up with you show them that you believe in yourself enough that you would just give them the break up and you’re not gonna stay where you’re not want it.
Yes , please don't change your number if you want them back because I changed my number 1 time before learning this truth. It is the biggest pain in the butt to get your accounts regulated not to mention your personal life like Dr's and local community folks.... needless to say I have NEVER done that again 😮😅
Definitely did that - touche! Done with that sucker, who walks with a dark, cruel, evil heart! No Contact 4Life. I chose me and healing each day. He thought his good looks were the glue.. 😂😂😂
I had a breakup today brother, i loved her more than myself, but she chose another guy who just met a month ago...... Thanks man, you lit my day up. I gotta focus on myself and watch her regret this decision that she made.
Don't you worry about what other people do! It's not in your control, and it can't be explained anyway. She did not see your VALUE, so good, let her go! Peace and Love to you, friend 💕
I’m literally so hurt rn. She was my first true love and she lost feelings for me. Idk what to do anymore because she led me on until today. I hate it so much.
Perfect love cast out fear. God just used this man to speak to you today because He is the God who sees and loves you and her. You are on the right path ❤
I had more peace of mind when I wasn't dating! I think I'll remain a hermit! Just too many games...you'd think people were still in high school...damn!
But what if the ex is neither toxic nor you want them back but you just don’t want to chance see how fast they may be moving on or doing whatever they can to move on? Sure the philosophy is: “if they haven’t blocked why should you?” BUT I find that blocking them anyway will help you with urges to peek or help with accidents where something is shared and your ex might be involved (if that’s possible). Blocking, I feel, will help you with not contacting them. Which is what most people need after a break up. You need a cool down, a phase where you calm yourself, where you make yourself the ultimate priority. Be selfish. Heal you. Always. Only you. And you shouldn’t think of anyone else but taking care of yourself. Stay transparent with friends. Talk as often as you must to vent. Cry. Grieve. And move on. But keep them blocked. Not because they’re bad or toxic, but because you need less exposure to a place that is sensitive and emotional and too raw. Heal. Work on you.
Sometimes - just sometimes WANTING them back is not the best movement..one may HAVE to move on even though that want is strong..it can be soooooo strong that it feels like a NEED.. At times taking then back can block a GROWTH [ blessing-if you will ] that comes with connect / disconnect.. The line can be thin at times Appreciate your KnowLedge Bruh
I was going to block my ex but I know it kills them more knowing u haven’t and knowing you have the WILL POWER not to that drives them crazy like it’s going on right now as we speak to me.. I’ve been like this for 5 days already and it’s none stop… she’s with someone else who she admitted me that they kissed but yet told me she doesn’t want me out of her life even cried and everything.. so what gives me the will powder not to pick up and reply.. simple.. accepting what she told me and moving on.. it’s hard but doable.. keep y’all self occupied.. what is meant to be will happen if not you’ll never seen them again.. don’t force the outcome just let it be. Be strong my Kings and Queens and shelter yourself under Gods love.
In my case I'd blocked my ex-girlfriend because she was emotionally toxic and I don't see a future let alone be married to her. Had I chose to stay in that toxic relationship and even married her, one of us would've initiated a divorce. Plus she would've acted emotionally out of control and blame me for everything. So the mature way for me to handle the situation was just to say absolutely nothing.
I had to block mine, it allowed me to have the chance to heal and stop obsessing. Plus, this is not the first time we broke up, each time we did he stalked me on social media. Since he broke up with me, I wanted him to feel a real loss. What I didn’t expect was how powerful this made me feel, I got my confidence back putting my foot down.
I'm hoping to get here soon. He broke up with me on Friday, and was calling me on Monday. So Tuesday I told him that we need to go our separate ways and that he doesn't get to break up with me and then friend zone me. I felt empowered in the moment, but now I'm just sad.
@@TiffMoFlo Sadness is ok. It’s part of the grieving process. Bottom line is that you can’t force him to be with you or beg him back, bc he won’t come back correct. You have to move on with your life. Start focusing on you. Do something to improve yourself; work out; clean your space; get involved with things that bring you happiness. He needs to see the improved you, the one who is ok without him. He has to come to his own realization what he lost. And if he is meant to be, he will come back and fight to be by your side. If not, you may just attract a better man who will love you and be committed to. I feel for you. After 5 mos of being separated from mine, there are times I still get sad and cry. But, I’ve been working on me and found happiness in myself again. It’s ok to be sad, but take back your power and focus on you. Have faith that everything will work out like it’s meant to.
I did the exact same thing, he did experience the loss, he started reaching out to my best friend, long story short. Blocking was the best decision ever. That showed him, I wasn't playing. I was moving on...we are now engaged, he called me from a unknown number 😂 he later admitted that he tried reaching out to me and got really bad anxiety. Since i went dead silent on him, the fear of losing me forever. Woke him the fuk up.
Yes. I blocked my ex because shes a vulnerable & covert narcissist. Tried to get her to talk about it in therapy but all the mental gymnastics made me the problem. She discarded me for someone with similar benefits. I blocked her in everything. I blocked her friends and family as well. I feel so much better not allowing her access to my life.
If you deleted all your own social you crazy dude, don't let any woman do that shit to your mind, just block her on everything but deleting your own, hell noo.
I had too. He left me twice. Tried to reach out from different numbers etc. I was so hurt. I had to move on. Didn't want thay pain and dead weight anymore.
We broke up mutually and tried to just be friends. It felt too much like we were still pretending to be in a relationship, when we should have been working on ourselves if we ever wanted a chance of getting back together. I broke off the friendship last week, and unfriended her on the only social media I have just earlier today. I told her a week ago I'd keep her number if she never needed anything, but I couldn't promise we'd stay friends on social media. I just got sad seeing her posts, and I felt like we were playing an unspoken game of posting after the other one would post. It was hard, but necessary
I think blocking a person because it didn’t work at the moment is very immature, I get if they was stalking and harassing the individual but to block a person because of a disagreement shows your never fk with me and you don’t care about my well-being at all.
Too late - I didn't block him, but I unfriended him immediately so I didn't see him pop up or anything. He must have seen that and he blocked me.... even though he was the one who broke up. We ended our conversation saying I love you, and then that.... So I don't know.
Ohno now I feel dumb. I want a future with him, but I want to not be in pain waiting and seeing him view my stories and remind myself of him all the time, so I unfollowed and removed him for time being… but maybe he will take it like this
He dumped me, blindsided me. No arguments, no toxicity, I was happy & thought he was too. He said he wants to be friends, but I don't. I don't want him back, don't want to be his friend, don't want or need closure from him. We're still friends on Facebook, but don't interact w/ each other. I don't want a reaction from him, I just don't want to see him, his face, his life, etc. He doesn't deserve to be my friend anywhere... not in real life or on social media. Unfollowing him isn't enough, being curious about his statuses makes me feel uneasy.
So blocking them doesnt show that you have moved on and you dont care?!!! I blocked her and moved on and i feel better. Wish i had done it sooner. Just my opinion !
I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We are both 15 but we are just about to turn 16 and we started going out for 2 weeks. 3 dates, I treated her with love and respect. I was this masculine figure for her. I gave her safety and protection. Gave her support because her ex assaulted her in many ways, stalked her so she has trauma, I helped her. We both liked to play basketball and we met in police cadets which in breaks we could play basketball. She asked me and we started talking and playing. She said she liked me first. This is pathetic and embarrassing to say but she was my first real kiss. We started hugging while sitting on a bench, watching the ocean nothing too serious however she broke up with me because she found it uncomfortable that i put my arm around her when we walk about, We were watching a movie and we were hugging each other. She found that uncomfortable and she never told me these things until the day we broke up which was 2 days ago. We were walking in the woods, we started kissing and we were touching each other. I dont want to go in details. We stopped but then we done it again 2 seconds later. Every SECOND i kept asking her if she was okay and comfortable, she replied yes and she continued. I noticed the 2nd time, things were getting too far so I said maybe we should plan it cause I wasnt prepared. When we were kissing she jumped on me and we started kissing even more but passionately, you know? She walked home and I kept asking her if she was happy, okay and comfortable. She even told me she enjoyed it but it reminded her of her ex who assaulted her and she still loves me. The next day, I thought everything was fine. Oh context, before we started in the woods, how did we get to that point? After 3 dates she invited me over to her house where her mum and sister werent going to be there for 2 hrs. Then wed watch a movie. I bought her mum and sister and even her chocolates and treated the family with respect. Then she walked with me to the train station and thats how it happened. We had a great day. Anyway, the next day. I pretended nothing happened cause she told me everything was fine. I said, "wuu2 xx?" She replied 3 hrs later, with a long paragraph, saying how its unbelievable i was thinking about sex which I wasnt. I was being affectionate and noticed things were going too far and stopped it and maybe we should plan it. So she says I make her feel uncomfortable when I put my arm around her when we are walking and thats the first time she said that in our 2 week relationship. She completely changed, she was a nice person. I wad being a gentlemen and respected it. I told her everything is fine now It wont happen again, Calm down and we can talk later. She kept arguing with me and then later I said "if thats how you feel about me, then we shouldnt stay together. Take care" She said "why are you trying to break up with me when I broke up with you an hour ago thats so sad" I didnt over react. I tried peace, The day before she sent that long message I told her "What happened last night was good but we should take it easy. If it makes you feel uncomfortable. Lets not do it again until we are both ready. I hope things dont change and I still love you for what you are inside" Yet she still argued and even said "Im not what you are looking for" I told her I enjoy being with her and dont care about other stuff..Im slowly picking myself up. I have to see her tomorrow at Cadets. She'll probably gossip but I dont care. Ill still be polite and respectful expecially when everyone likes me there. It was a nice experience. Id like to hear what the rest of you think if you read it all, Sorry if I ranted about this so long 😅 It was painful. It still is. She makes me feel guilty and everyone told me I did nothing wrong and its a natural thing, She overreacted. So Thank you for reading, Hope everyone whos going through a break up heals and moves on to continue living a better life. Dont let her/him win
You have to be cordial when forced to interact. Otherwise pretend she doesn't exist. You were to invested in the relationship so she started creating drama to test your strength, by over accomadating her your behavior indicated she is calling the shots. Just don't acknowledge her existence when outside of school unless she shows interest again and then tell her this is how it's going to be, take it or leave it. You must never act like you're afraid to lose her or she'll continue to create strife. She must know she behaves or she can get lost.
So wat if YOU broke up with THEM & blocked them? He seemed to be back & forth with me so I decided that maybe losing me & taking away his thought process of “she’ll always come back” would help him figure out if he truly cares for me or is just lonely. I blocked him cuz I didn’t wanna see his stuff but after a week of no contact I feel a lil more level headed. I don’t plan on reaching out or going out of my way to follow him back/stalk him on social media or anything. I just wanted to kno if unblocking him would give him the wrong idea that I am in fact still going to come back & completely defeat the point of breaking up with him in the first place?
So what if she dumped me and two days after she moves out she lashes out all jealous about my new activities and changes? 😂I had really been trying to improve myself for a few months now but shes pissed mad that ive been doing things that i would not use to while we were together. Like posting on social media, trying new hobbies like climbing (which she never showed interest for) etc…shes like ‘i hate the person you’ve become!’
I do want him back BUT i also want him to quit that bs of "marriage is just a piece of paper"! 3 years of relationship, he says i'm the love of his life, the woman he was waiting for, we had a wonderful relationship so when i started talking about real commitment and going into the next level as partners he gave me that answer. I HAD to break up with him because after that disscution he started to being distant, inconsistent and didn't kept his word repeteadly. He left me alone on my birthday when he promisse we would go somewhere and celebrate my birthday. I don't understand why.
🤷🏾♀️Sis, do you, but i would give him ONE MORE YEAR to commit to you in marriage. If he doesn't offer you a ring by then, then step..he probably won't. He selfishly has you in limbo while he's waiting on the REAL girl of his dreams... 🙏🏿Pray that everything works out for you.💕💕💕
Whenever I try to move on he comeback nd behaves good for 2 3 days then again being toxic and I am drained of this cycle should I block him or just ignore don't know what to do he is enjoying without me and am thinking about this only all the time
if his personality is attractive, if he loved you deeper than anyone has ever loved you, then trust me, he will be just fine, its okay to block him, he will just drift off as mysteriously as he appeared within your life.
Someone blocked and then unblocked after some time like 8 months but suddenly when I texted her she again blocked me then immediately within two days she unblock me but she don't even see my stories and all I just wanted to know what she wants and what is the meaning of this
No I was just thinking anyway I'm not worried about her changing her name because she couldn't of my friends that are like their date they got good taste and stuff they said she's okay like very nice person but they didn't want to tell me cuz it doesn't get mad but it actually helped me calm down not be so because they tell me that these are single guys they tell me she's a dog that's what they said. And wolf grandmother single jet nobody shoot she freaking that there are all these people around me my friends and shit and they're single and I always doing that with different six days if they say she's ugly will fax you the ugly but I didn't see that way I ain't worried about it let's hear freaky how long should I dress she freaking Stockholm syndrome which means she's gone to buzas anyway since she's going to end up taking them damn abuser she freaking was though she freaking like she get mad she like choking people there's somebody's for Teacher lesson she doesn't get involved with somebody the last relationship you have for me for 1 she said she gave her life to Jesus right and 19 JC said she got into basically became a hoe because she said because she said that she lost her virginity after she became a Christian and then she had like five freaking boyfriends before me and none of them would marry her I was just an idiot
Ok so I won't block my ex because he dumped me and I want him back and men usually kick me to the curve, I get heartbroken, I stop chasing because he stop responding that's the only reason
So if they dumped you and you want them back and remain friend's on social media then you're going to get hurt warching them move on with their life and having a good time and new relationships
