Should you speak up about being left out of a friend's party?

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Hoda Kotb and Jenna Bush Hager give some words of wisdom to viewers with their social dilemmas, including advice on speaking up when your guests change the thermostat in your home and what to do when you find out you weren’t invited to a close friend's party.
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@2legit64 Год назад

Good grief! If my friends have parties and don't invite me, I'm absolutely relieved! My feelings would not be hurt in the least.

@colleenjamison6610 Год назад

Maybe Bob & Susan are not house proud.

@ericabaysinger6343 Год назад

Hoarders 😂

@nancymeyhoefer4102 Месяц назад

we had a group like this and when we tongue and cheek asked the “last” couple when they were going to host, they said, some day. That was several years ago and the dinner club died. We have the other couples over when we want…but the whole thing was basically ruined. We have decided to let it go and “we” do nothing with the other couple and that is fine with us.

@shelbielinton9185 Год назад

Why did Jenna's hair change mid episode?

@schail Год назад

Omg! I didn’t even notice.

@shelbielinton9185 Год назад

I was watching it live and was like am I losing my mind or did her hair just change?! 🤣

@annlittle7788 Год назад

Someone may not have as nice a home so they don’t want to host.

@geoffreyr2356 Год назад

I host parties from time to time and who gets invited depends on the vibe of the party. I have some friends who will use their outdoor voices indoors, so they might only get invited to gatherings that are in the yard. I have friends from the world of running who may not enjoy being around my friends who don't enjoy sports. If some of my friends are bringing their kids, I won't invite my friends who either don't like children or do not know how to act appropriately around children. I don't love these people any less but I won't explain myself to them. Parties go on that I am not invited to and my feelings never get hurt about that. Grow Up!

@hp2546 11 месяцев назад

Parties go on whether you host a party or someone else host a party. So that means you get to decide who you invite. If you wanted to get invited, you cannot be available to host your own party because you cannot be in 2 places at once. A lot of people would think in their heads something like I want to be invited but then forgot to look at their position. They aren't available to go because that person is hosting their own party.

@mark31995 3 месяца назад

I admire people who have a lot of friends, (I have none ) it’s cool you have many friends and on top of that you are friends with many different types of people

@AvisWrentmore Год назад

Rejection is Gods protection.....

@jenniferl1908 Год назад

Agree, I have many friendships end and I thank God for that. It means our time with them is over.

@jettabartholomew1118 Год назад

It's illegal to drive barefoot or without a shirt

@goconnor0304 Год назад

Not illegal to drive barefoot. I just looked it up.

@heatherkelly3744 Год назад

We live on a farm in Iowa. During winter, the day temp is....65 at night, Blizzard weather you do not stand a chance to be warm no matter what!!!

@hp2546 11 месяцев назад

But it does not relate to speaking up about being left out of a friend's party? We all have struggles in our lives. So if there is a temperature problem in your farm, then you don't need to explain yourself about missing out the party.

@millyoo6927 Год назад

Somebody can see the difference how lady Star the show and how she look when end?

@mytexasdays1526 11 месяцев назад

Id tell you your house is a bit too hot for me and do you know what the temperature is in here? Could you please turn the thermostat down a bit? If its cold outside and the house is too hot for me and I spend the night i just open the window and close the vent in my room.

@rhondaharrell4828 Год назад

Allowing the friends to be separated will make them stronger individually. As for the potluck couple, maybe they don't have adequate furnishings to host. Or maybe they feel their home isn't up to par as the others. It's not a big deal. Get over it. So with the party girl. Her perception of close friend may be different from her "close friend." One feels they are besties, while the other just friends.

@carolynharris5363 Год назад

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@kympiercy7712 9 месяцев назад

@mytexasdays1526 11 месяцев назад

Just show up at that couple's house with your dish.

@mytexasdays1526 11 месяцев назад

You should have a list of all the people who go to the potluck and set the dates and the the house on paper. If those two couples don't want to host it at their house then you all go out to a restaurant and pay for your own meals when it's their turn.

@prestagraber1145 Год назад

Mel Robbins says if someone doesn’t invite you to a party, “let them.”

@tiffinyvann9723 Год назад

If they aren’t in 1 class they might be in another class together.

@valerie4912 Год назад

Don’t ASK Bob and Susan!! TELL them!

@nancymeyhoefer4102 2 месяца назад

disagree completely. shoes necessary for driving.

@Jase-zj9kg Год назад

Driving with no underwear is so much better

@pollykyle8018 Год назад

Driving barefoot is NOT illegal, urban legend. It is legal in 50 states.

@MommaDee23 Год назад

If driving barefoot is an issue to you, you need help...

@MichelePernerBlum Год назад

No you should not, you should not act like a baby ..

@JesusWarriorBush Год назад

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@mytexasdays1526 11 месяцев назад

Let it slide. So you weren't invited this time.

@MerM117 Год назад

Driving with your shoes off is illegal.

@antoniafoster8264 Год назад

Driving barefoot is not illegal. That’s a myth.

@Jase-zj9kg Год назад

I prefer driving with no underwear

@cleohall6775 Год назад

Most likely the friendship is over. The good friend could of told her I am having a party but its its only for a few persons. I have to find out about it though social media. I had a friend posted her invite on her what's app status. So I said the invite was not for me. I felt like if her and I is so close has friends why she didn't tell me. I just said it was not for me. Moved on with my life.

@hp2546 11 месяцев назад

Since parties is not considered a scheduled meeting anyways, I would of just go like that invite was not for me. Good decision.

@JesusWarriorBush Год назад

Have a good weekend Everyone... Love you Jenna 💓💞💞

@erictheisen3203 Год назад

Wow that was fun!

@daniellogan3085 8 месяцев назад

3:15 and the hairstylist in me noticed the hair. 😂

@nancymeyhoefer4102 2 месяца назад

we had a "couples" group thing going. there was one couple that didn't want to host..even when asked a few times....we ended all of it. we put in all the work...they didn't want to host. we don't invite them anymore and we invite the other couples. we don't care.

@jillschmidt9278 Год назад

Its actually illegal to drive barefoot.

@JK-uu9if Год назад

You never confront with a question. That gives them a reason to answer yes or no. Pose your statement with no option to give a answer 😊

@hp2546 11 месяцев назад

If you aren't that popular, statements don't work. Because giving them no option to answer is more like if you invite yourself without their consent, you aren't giving them an option to answer no. You can't say like I am coming. So in this situation, it is best not to even talk about the party and walk away from that person. If that person initiates inviting you, then only you have an option to give yes or no answer. Either way, you also must give them a power to be in charge with decisions as well. People who do not want to even go to a party does not require making a statement. Once you choose not to confront them, mind as well ditch the statement and leave them alone.