It hurts so much. I can’t believe I lost my best friend and my lover so quickly and out of nowhere. I just wish I can see her again she makes me so happy, being without her I feel so empty inside. She is my everything and more. I am devastated beyond words can explain😞
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@@Ninalor_ Thank you so much, it’s getting easier and easier as each day passes by. Haven’t spoke a word to her nor has she even reached out. That’s all I need to know, I’m not that important to her as she was too me. I’m moving on😤
Men…Especially men. When a woman shows you she is not interested any longer, and you were nothing short of a wonderful man to her, move on. When she misses you, she will come running back. If you open the door for her to return, she loses even more respect. Sure you might win her back for a couple of weeks, maybe even a few months. But she will soon go back to her ways. Only this time, it will be worse. Choose the woman that chooses you in all seasons of your life. I know this is rare, but you can’t go wrong when you choose the woman who chooses you through thick and thin. As painful as it is, if she cannot appreciate the good man that you are the first time around, do not allow her to have a second attempt. This will empower you to understand the value you bring to a relationship and help you attract a more mentally and emotionally stable woman.
i have to dissagree with this even though I like the intent. Sometimes a woman has been hurt and just needs a man to stand his ground long enough for her to realize hes not going to hurt her or abandon her. its important to set boundaries if you rekindle but you use these oppertunities to grow and learn to be more empathetic. definitely move on but its ok to leave the door open for a good woman who might just be a little scared.
@therealkeinemoniker I wholeheartedly disagree with you. I would even go as far as to say that Men like you are part of the problem. There is never any grace or mercy if the Man messes up in the relationship. Men are often villiafied will women are seen as the victim. It's time out for this. A lot of these women have the spirit of jezebel. As I said before, when the love is real, that woman will stick by your side as long as you aren't mistreating her. You are wrong in this opinion.
@@crwnofenlightenment all you're proving to me is that you've been hurt by someone. im sorry someone hurt you but people have their own individual experiences int his world and sometimes they do things out of fear and not malice or spite. a real woman who is secure and doesnt have alot of baggage, sure.. but not everyone has led a perfect life. or had perfect parents.
@therealkeinemoniker We've all be hurt by someone. The overall point is that it's time to start holding Women accountable. Just as we hold Men accountable. Nothing more, nothing less.
@@crwnofenlightenment you can hold people accountable while also being empathetic of their situations. the woman Im tlaking about, was raped and abused by her ex husband for 20 years, and her father before that. some people never come back from trauma. I'm willing to be patient and let her gard come down over time. and if it never does, i can live with myself knowing I tried to be patient for someone I loved.
he watches my insta stories like its his one purpose in life since the break up. but when we were together he wouldn't even look at them... its funny how the tables have turned
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I totally agree with you you did a great job with this video and these signs. My Ex broke up with me almost 2 years ago as she felt like the relationship wasn't going anywhere. she's now in a new relationship but still shows alot of these signs especially asking people about me alot and asking if I'm dating anyone which I find strange. I have a RU-vid channel now and have recently got a promotion at work it's crazy how people sometimes think the grass is greener on the other side but realise its not.
I have to say . Out of all the videos I watched yours is the least toxic,and most informative video I have watched ! My last gf and myself only almost 8 months ,it was semi long distance , 3 hour round trip.. we never fought had great communication, she ubruply ended things ! I call it a spiritual break up , we have life things to conquer, that we maybe let slide responsibilities, mental health ect, was day , to spend time together! She looked in my eyes it's no one else crying , I truly believe her only girl I've ever had total trust in . When she drove hour and a half to give me things that fit in a box , I truly felt our connection is still real ! Trying to work on me but process her absence at the same time ! Let's be friends mixed signals ect, Never experienced this kinda break up 💔 I'd rather she stole my money or slept with my best friend or something lol,!
i had a really gd relationship with him until he said he want a break up out of blue. For the last 20 days i have no idea whats wrong, and i decided to stop thinking why/whats wrong. He started reaching out to me, and im just feeling im not ready, or i dun trust him ....for whoever is having a hard time right now like me, we are in this together, lets just dont freak out like what Edi say
Closure isn’t real. You can’t put your soul into another person’s actions. You will have no power over your peace. You’re depending on someone else for your happiness and they may never deliver. All the things you seek exist in you already.
You create the closure, my ex wouldn't utter the words break up, he was calling it a break for months with an open end -.-, so I took my dignity anyway, wished him best of luck and left.Time has to pass obviously, if possible go to therapy, and you will understand, that nothing is wrong with you, they have demons they haven't get rid of, and its not your responsibility to save them. So, you can forgive in silence but not forget and never let them in your life again.
Closure comes from forgiveness. Not because you agree with their actions but because you decide to turn away from the harm that was done and leave it behind you, forgiveness is not only for the person but for yourself .
Love your videos. I am in need of this one, made me feel a little better. Its been a month for me ... toughest month of my life. Came unexpectedly, devastated to say the least.
8 years down the line someone tells me she needs space ... felt sad but then I resolved to be positive, make peace with myself & everything else then let go & focus on my life & my 7 year old son ... I've never had an idea how many women secretly admired & were willing to go out of their way for my sake - some married ..... I decided to limit contact to her other family members since they've been big part of my son's upbringing ... as the days go by I start questioning if I really need her in & what could I possibly miss living without her.
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My relationship was is perfect shape and we would always communicate then when he found out about his mother being terminally I’ll with cancer we talked and he said he didn’t know what love was. His mindset changed within a day. I understand his pain but the way he handled it was different. I still have hope because our relationship had a well rounded foundation
There is evidence that my ex is mad. Broke up over a highly emotional fight. I don't get the impression that shes coming back however, after 23 days of nothing from her.
Can anyone talk about the influence of her friends during no contact. Mine takes childish advice from friends instead of working out what’s in her head.... Back story- we had an amazing relationship for 3 years... started to work on having a child... getting married the end of the year.... she left for work for a few months and two weeks in she texted and told me she had time to think and she wants to be single and live her life “BLINDSIDED”. She cancelled all the wedding plans and told me she needed space and time and it was over..... I begged and pleaded for a week until I finally stopped and started no contact for the last 5 days... I know her friends are telling her to leave me but I also know she is hurting and not sure what she wants... any help?????
My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me recently, and it was due to the reasons that she has Anorexia Nervosa and she was diagnosed with it a little over 2 months ago although I believe the issue has been persisting longer than that and the problems have only really come to the surface until now, and she said she still loves me and cares for me, but the mental and physical battles that she has to fight make it too hard for her to handle our relationship right now. It really sucks and I hope we get back together. Our relationship was a good one, and relatively speaking we ended on good terms, well as best and as you can end a relationship. She said she still wants to talk, and also meet up in person, but as a precautionary measure I entered into no contact right after the breakup, it’s been hard and I’m honestly confused and lost, any advice is welcomed 🙏
My ex still bashes me on social media and blames everything on me when she cheated on me 8 months ago and has been with the new guy ever since. We share a 2 year old son and are still legally married but going through a divorce. We were married for 3 years. If someone is really with someone new or I was the new boyfriend and seeing her post negative stuff about an ex I would think that person wasn’t truly over it.
It’s been 9 months. And it’s still the same. Back. Forth. In. Out. Hot. Cold. More nice, than mean, now. He was very mean month 1-3. He’s told me he loves me. He’s taken me on dates. But tells me he’s moved on. And in a bad rebound. 💔
OK riddle me this one. My ex gf said were not getting back together but can be friends. She has reached out and we even video called for an hour she was smiling and laughing I loved it. Shes asked about my status updates walks etc who was it with etc and even asked why I was on whatsapp at 1am she said "you was up late lastnight" I'm currently doing 9th day of no contact but it feels she doesn't want me but wants me around 🙃 I'm confused. I've obviously declined the friendship btw. And another one suddenly all over tiktok lip syncing and following loads of guys , full face of makeup but when I was with her she couldn't be bothered half the time I'm not giving her the validation that's no contact folks
I know this is stupid.. I dated a guy online and we seemed so great together.. and then suddenly.. we finally cammed..I told him I was chubby and showed him photos he...was fine with it..then suddenly we cammed and he said..he feels shallow and he doesnt want to.. be together and blocked me all social media inputs we had together...dude...it crushed me.
Idk my situation is weird. She left me after 5 years. She deleted me on Instagram and Facebook but kept me on Twitter and Snapchat. Then a couple weeks ago she started following me on Instagram again. She always views my Snapchat stories. I still love her but i just want her back already she already does majority of the signs
i agree so much on the watching stories part - tho all my close frds said they are just bored. I think what we need to see is the pattern. If you posted something and 1 min later its watched by him/her, thats something. Its not a random boredom, esp its during work hours. I am pretty sure notifications are On on their phones
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What if I don’t reach out to the ex and haven't for like 7 months, but the ex reaches out to me once a week? The last time “three weeks ago" she was a little flirty with me, hugged me tight, touched my butt and was blushing. She doesn’t say too much about us or anything about trying to start over and won't come out and say she misses me but when I bring it up she says well yeah, you were in my life for 12 years. She says she wants to be just friends and she plans to move out of State but when we see each other her actions doesn’t match her words. Her actions show she still has strong feelings, doesn’t want to lose me, flirts with me and doesn’t want to let go, watches my Facebook stories and she says she even stalks my Facebook. But her words are saying she doesn’t want to be in a relationship, she’s wanting to move out of State and she isn’t in love with me anymore. Do I trust her words or her actions? I'm seriously considering blocking her. I'm not sure if that's the wrong thing to do. Please help!
You are an amazing empath and beautiful. Have you considered to put this energy and go for a LPC? Be a counselor. For you stability confidence boldness and reliability is your need from a man. Your anxiety will subside that would be a Gemini.
I’m a Taurus! May 17. Close to Gemini. I teach children’s swimming. So I have definitely considered a life in nurturing. I haven’t found my path yet, I’m just living by what feels natural. I want to help people, I’m unsure where I’ll end up.
We had a perfect fairy tale relationship for about 3 years... But now he just says that he has started losing feelings for me... He doesn't feel anything for me... He doesn't imagine a future with me and so he wants me out of his life.... He has started seeing other girls and says that he wants casual relationships no commitment.... I'm dead scared that he would find someone else and there will be no chance of him coming back... He hasn't blocked me on social media so we are in contact.... However he said he can be friends after a certain point of time but he will never consider a relationship with me... Even after I pleaded and begged him continuously for 2 weeks.... He is being very mean to me whenever I try to talk to me and says he wants space a lot of space to clear out all the toxicity..... Is their any chance he is coming back?
I haven't heard from her in 4 months.. the only tiny hope I've got left that she havent block my number .. I'm not on social media .. no idea why she havent block my number
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i love the way you advise u seem so calm, comforting, inspiring, genuine person. how i wish i could just open up to u abt the situation ive been going thru but i dont want to talk abt it on public. id like to share to u my story
@@edrinablissg no thank you for everything your doing for us out there with broken hearts... You are our light at the end of the tunnel :) god bless u Edi
@@nicolasm4061 you are just starting. I learned so much when I thought I was done. Playing piano is something I never thought I could do, and I learned it. The pain faded even though I thought I was over. And I’m happy with my life and new skill. Don’t even want my ex when they tried to come back
@@edrinablissg my ex ran into me and she looked straight in my eyes with a “I’m curious say something to me”. I said nothing was confident and professional kept going and radiating good vibes. She was confused I’m just done she’s too late. Hugs people !
I will. I do these through love and connection with you guys and I’ve been dealing with my own family struggles that have prevented me from connecting. As soon as I get through my own struggle, my priority is back with you all. Promise 💜
about the no contact rule. ive not been hearing from my girl for 3 weeks now. and if she does respond to me, how long should i wait to respond to her?? do u mean i should not respond to her at all cuz she is ghosting me?? but i love her so much..
Dantee it depends on how bad the breakup is. I didn’t speak to my ex for months and came on very slowly to talk to him. It worked. But I gave him a lot of space. It depends.
He guilt blocked me on everything. He said he wanted me in his life for the rest of it during the break up and we’d see each other again. What do I do? Simply going to get my life together. If I see him again, I do. I hope I will one day.
what about if she doesnt block you on any platform after the relationship is over? is that a sign that they want to come back? I would think that if they didnt want anything to do with you, they would block you. She did unfollow me off instagram but didnt block me.
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Miss Edi, how about if she says she’ll think about it? Because i am blocked everywhere and i spoke to her using my friends number. Told her this and that, and in the end she said she’ll think about it
i cant believe after a year im back on ur channel again 😓my ex dumped me last year then i did no contact and 3 months into no contact he came back i so stupidly let him back, and now im here all over again. he broke up with me cus of the same reason except this time he said he wants to be friends and wants me to meet someone else. thats when i realised, he was stringing me along. i was never his number one. im not making the same mistake again. as much as i want him back im doing no contact again so i can heal. today is day one lol. i want to come back to this comment in a year and be like wow i actually did it. i never let him back. i cant keep hurting myself like this.
Hi Susan, After applying no contact for about two months, I asked my exgirlfriend out for lunch twice. She was reserved at first and seemed not to be happy, but then she opened up a bit. A bit later I asked her to hang out and she declined. This made me feel very bad and the next day I told her we should stop talking so we could move on and leave that space for other people... We broke up 3 months ago. She was the one to initiate the breakup. She said that even though she still loved me, she wasn't in love with me, and requested some time away. I told her that the fairest thing to do was to break up, even though a loved her a lot (I told her). Right now I am going no contact again. It's been a week. But I feel a bit uneasy dealing with the fact that maybe I didn't make myself clear to let her know I was willing to work on our relationship harder. What should I do? Please advise.
Wow.... I really wish I could send you a nutshell of my story. :-( I could use some guidance and your information is actually more realistic instead of egotistically and you're not selling anything which is why I'm subscribing to you now lol . My stomach is empty and heart is hurting :-( and my situation is complex
How do you know if it was an emotional reponse break up? Ours is a little funky but it happened because we were arguing too much for her and there is a lot of stress that she is currently going through at the moment. (She is a dancer and has a very big final; of the year performance) At first it was mutual but I quickly changed my mind after and have told her that I think were making a mistake. I told her that I respect that she wants space and time and said I'll wait for after the performance in a week. I am just not sure whats going on. We were perfectly fine just a couiple days ago but now it seems to just be over. For context we are bothj in high school, and the relationship was just short of 9 months. It has been 3 days since the break.
Hi, so my and i have been dating for about a year and a half and its long distance. He did recently start being distant and didn't call me using our pet names often. I heard through a friend ours that he iss seeing someone else, which came as a shocker because he's always so busy so a second relationship didnt make sense. So i called him to ask which do people think we are no longer together & he asks to call me when he get home of which he doesn't do and he Stops answering my calls. So the following day im pestering him with calls and text him to tell me what he wants, instead he lashes out and immediately says he wants to break up, he was do called, of course i begged and apologised he says he's done. Later on in the day he says he just needs some space but we cam still talk and he's here for me whenever i need him. He continues to text throughout the day and is sending me emojis with kiss heart faces. This now completely confuses me, but i havent spoken to him in a few days. What do u think about this situation and how do I go about fixing it because i love him deeply
What of they are still in contact but sending you nasty stuff having a go at you..ie listing stuff you done or said whilst saying dont contact me again ?
@@edrinablissg well it was an ex lover that i wanted to end things with because they didn't go as i wished (h e ghosted, was flighty, probably had other chicks on the line) and i wanted to distance myself from the situation. Problem is, he is here now, we work from home i only see him online, and i'm starting to think about him again. Plus, he wants to have contact with me again, asks questions, wants to meet up etc. Its tricky...
he messages me constantly and acts like nothing has happened almost and it hurts like hell, he doesn't know what he wants and asks if we could be just friends for a bit. I'm preparing myself for the worst case scenario but there is a slight chance we will get back together, but I'm honestly not sure if that'll happen now. I'm meeting up with him soon to go over everything and I'm so nervous, as it's either going to go horribly or amazing.
What about when they say they need time to work on themselves and focus on their well being and kids. He told me if we’re going to move forward in the relationship that he needs to break down some walls. He seems to still want me but just wants space and time because he said he’s “Overwhelmed and depressed”
Is it really the case that if they like your instagram posts they’re still wanting you? I told my ex to only speak to me about our son, she says she’s still in love with me but a lot of water has gone under the bridge. She likes every single post of mine and believe me, they’re not interesting posts to her
@Nancy Clark my ex just died tho, and we're so perfect together and we never really fought. We decided to break up and then after a month of break up he died
I have a question: she told a friend she wanted a break and some space. A month ago she went to her dads. I did the whole damage control thing. (We lived together) last Thursday we had the talk. She said “we aren’t together right now” but still wants to talk and see me etc but I can’t force anything on her or be overbearing. Well, she’s yet to come get her stuff… clothes, shoes, anything… all here. Does that mean she eventually wants to come back? She was supposed to come Tuesday to grab somethings but nothing “definitive” she said… like still keeping it here. I want her to come home, she always has a home here with me. Idk what to do
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No seriously, you're personality seems great and you seem very compassionate and caring. Are you still in escitalopram? I just got out of a 6yr relationship with my fiancée we were engaged for 2yrs lived together for 5yrs. During those 6yrs she broke up with me 2 other times pretty much each 2 years apart and each break up lasted between 3-4months! I ignored her went no contact and she hoovered and both times sucked me back in. Most recently she left me again for the 3rd time 8months ago and I can't get her out of my head, I know she's a narcissist but I fkin love her even though she's put me through so much pain of all kinds. I suffer with panic attacks and anxiety attacks everyday and major depression. I pray to God for help and strength and guidance cause I've went through very tough times in my life but this pain is unbearable especially 8months have gone by and I still fkin cry
thanked god i ignored him when he sent me hints like liking ma over a year youtube comments on his video n posted a sad break up song 🤣 after he realized i ignored him few days later he deleted that song😎 next he used other youtube acc to like my other old comment n so many things that he did online. cuz i blocked him everywhere except youtube where i aint realized that youtube has block feature 🤣
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I got back with my ex after two weeks of no contact, now she is saying that she don't love me but just talking to me bcz she don't want me to be upset. When ever I ask her about our relationship she just say she don't want to talk about it.. I'm not sure what should I do... Any advice please???? I have been so disrespectful before and I have been an ass and that's why she didn't needed me before.. But she knows I really love her so much and all the fights were silly things which I never had a problem on but she made it as a big deal..... I'm not sure what I will do now ... I need ur advice edi
I am close with my exes mother we still hang out and talk on the phone even though he and I don’t contact eachother we agreed to one month no contact but he says if he misses me he will reach out but watching your videos I don’t believe I should respond but why do I do I’m so close to his mom aww are bestfriends
My ex dumped me 2 weeks ago and constantly checks on me and wants to chat, she gets mad at me when I don't talk to her. She always wants to hang out with me lately and do romantic things but says its not ever gonna work. She's always angry about why it ended, she says she doesn't want a relationship but gets jealous and scared that im moving on. She tries to sleep with me all the time and I give in coz I love her, she buys me things and shows love but then says we're over for good. Why want it over but try to see me all the time and be intimate with me I don't get it
