Be private when you are dating boyfriend, keep him secret. Only post on social media when you are married! Thank you for your complete honesty Blessings CEO, You Are Very Intelligent ‼️💯‼️
#1 A Man Is and Will Never Be Scared To Ask For Sex, So Never Be Scared To Ask For Money For Your Bills & Your Personal Needs. If A Man Cannot Provide For You, Yes He Is Definitely Using You ‼️💯‼️🎯‼️
Some women don't communicate well with their partners. A man cannot read your mind unless you communicate with him in a way he would understand. Learn to communicate. Thanks Blessing 💯💯💯
Don't post her on social media too if you are not married to her. Yes, even on her birthday don't do it and let's see who crys out loud. Men, ladies want your money, energy, attention and time. If she decides to play smart, take these away from her.
Blessing sometimes I don’t agree some of the things you said! A woman can be independent don’t make sex looks like only one person enjoys sex ! Sex is both enjoyment
True but more than half the time, a woman would rather not have sex. She gives in cos her man wants it, even in marriage. Many don't reach orgasm cos they are not in the mood but the man is already jacked and won't take time to get her into the mood. If you don't want to give her money don't go inside and wait for when she wants it then let her know you both enjoyed it - simple
You can't agree with anyone 100%, just as noone agrees with you all the the time and that's ok. We however have to have open minds to listen to reasons to throw away an erroneous mindset, I believe that's one of the secrets of the white man. Africans hold on to things cos it favors them or are convenient
Sister Blessing the beauty herself, you are very right about going to a Man‘s House,I live in Europe, I believe you, 1 time I was invited to a Man‘s House, he made a move to my Body, I stopped him, he became very angry and I left very quick and we don’t have contact to each other anymore, there was also a time I invited a Man whom I believed to be very responsible and gentle to my House because I was too busy to go out on that Day with him for a Dinner at the City, he suggested he come to me, we ate and everything was fine until he asked me direct for Sex and I refused, he was veryyyy angry and left without saying bye, I will never ever make that mistake again, now you are here saying the same thing, thank you so much Lady Blessing😀❤
Women shouldn't Start a relationship with a man that is not ready to settle down. Life style is very important if it is what you want, that is my advice.
I am a middle aged African man who grew up in Africa but have lived in an advanced Western society for over 2 decades, hence I am versed on the two cultures. As a trained clinical psychologist, emotional intelligence coach and practicing therapist, I have seen some of your videos where you expressed views I found to be quite impressive and well articulated, but on this one I will deeply beg to differ. The views and notion you expressed here is not totally accurate and may actually be very damaging, detrimental and bad for women. It is based on a deeply wrong premise that 'sex is a favour women grant to men' hence they (women) have nothing to gain from it at all, which is very far from the truth. Your views here aims to treats sex as something very transactional, which should NEVER be so in any form of intimate relationship. A great part of our time as therapists is spent trying to help some couples understand this in their challenging situations of their relationships. If sex becomes totally transactional then it qualifies as prostitution (exchange of sex for material gain). This is bad for women in many aspect; from their self esteem and self confidence, to them being able to have a strong free voice in any such relationships. It is not right or correct that a woman should see it as being Ok to depend on a man for her financial support. Though this is commonly accepted because of the culture of poverty that has pervaded most of our African societies for a very long time now, it still does not make it right. It is teaching women/girls that it is OK to totally depend on men. And this is not what Women Liberation is all about. This thinking makes a woman to be mentally lazy and not to think or see herself as being capable, but rather only start thinking and focussing solely on how to find such a man that can be giving them money. You must observe that such flawed notions that sex should be totally transactional does not prevail in rich and advanced Western societies where a lot of women truly understand what Women Liberation, freedom, pride and dignity truly means. Take note of this - *"No man respects a woman who totally depends on him for money (except his wife and the mother of his children)".* Sex is a mutually beneficial act of pleasure indulged in by two or more consenting adult persons - sometimes it comes with emotions and sometimes not. It is a *mutual* pleasuring of the parties involved and should never be seen as a transactional instrument tailored to satisfy one party in any relationship. And yes, it is very okay for both men and women to occasionally give gifts (material or monetary) to each other in any relationship. It is healthy and helps to build stronger bonds of trust, intimacy and commitment. But should never be seen or taken as the basis for sex in a relationship. That has never really helped any woman in a relationship.
Hi blessings big up from 🇺🇬 am requesting u to have a session on our mothers who want us to remain in toxic marriages bcoz they fear the reaction from public. Its them first not minding what their daughters go thru
Thank you very much. i remember a man who even spent so much on me and he never saw my laps. honestly he liked me so much but i didnt find him attractive enough. a man who likes you must give you money or gifts. period!
100% right. when a men gives tips or some things a woman can be done differently, he is trying to help you in a good way (caring way) he isnt a simp, beta or alpha shot. he DOES LOVE YOU. but woman are very contradicting, meaning she wont listen to the mens helpfull tips. Its more you think like 'NO i must be unindepandable, must follow MY instinct and no one else' (Insecure mindster woman cant help, they're born like that)
My sister, say no more oo. The way I’ve learnt my lessons from #4 Eh. Krrrr I would sleep next to a guy, six months even guy no take force anythin. Take other one don come take force me I give him something. Guy way I know no good for me. Eh never ever again in my life I take go man’s house whhhhhh owulibulukor
Hello Blessing a lovely video full of useful tips. I'm based in Zimbabwe. Why don't you have a paid group for more private business kkkkkk I know you can share more there.
Oooh well they say it sounds transactional if they tell us what they like sexually and we say we love money 🤣 that's why I'll admire people's relationships from a distance.
Madam, you will surely remain single. You will not go far in life playing a tough woman when you know you are as vulnerable as any other woman out there. Be humble and talk politely.
