Simon Sinek: "I FEEL LONELY!" How To Deal With Loneliness! | E230 

Raising money for which charitable cause? Thank you.

Simon you are a good person. You don't have to over explain things. Not saying you are.

I love your intro message "keep it to yourself". Perfect. Diary of a CEO is the most personable interview online

Great conversation😊. Thank you.

We need to deal with bad exploiting employers

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3orZrYPCJpQ.html

I am Christian and your reply is extremely self-rightious and judgmental. Next time get down from your sel-righteous pedestal and offer comfort and hope. I am convinced that would have been more helpful. 😢😊

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Thank you @@soniaperez2417 for responding with such eloquence and love to the above ❤👌🏼 I’ll be honest, I was rather maddened that someone has taken such a beautiful and vulnerable comment about the positive impact Simon has had on their life, and used it to talk about religion 🤦🏻‍♂️ I support wholeheartedly those who have faith, but this is unhelpful. So thank you for your wonderfully measured response, I imagine you’re a pretty awesome human being 🙏🏼

Thanks a lot for sharing, it is very helpful, we have tendency to give advice, and you are right it doesn't help, until we are ready to receive it. But what we need in this moment ,just sit in the mud with friends 😊and also very important point, I like,that even we are not in service, our obligations is to care for people, who are ❤

exactly lol

YES that's great! The fixers tend to interrupt the sharing and get impatient and get angry with you for not adopting what for them seems the simple and obvious solution. I've been in the situation many times where there are key factors hidden to me and them and those were the keys to resolution. It's not a simple fix in any case.

Exactly, I feel like I know better and can fix all their problems and make their lives easier but now I know that is not how it works.

It might suit him ... but not most men

I think we all just want to be 'fixed' We just want to be happy We can't figure out how to do it for ourselves, so we project onto others, by trying to fix them. Empathy for the fixers would be nice too. No one 's trying to hurt anyone. Just state your boundaries, say, you don't need help, thank you. That's what I do.

I’m in my early 20’s and going through exactly what you went through. I guess loneliness doesn’t want to be my friend yet.

@@MdTahsinulIFayed - Getting to know is good…

Gorgeous! Thank you❤

​@@MdTahsinulIFayedThank you for your vulnerability, friend. You are not alone. I hear you❤

What a beautiful share...amazing...I remember feeling so distressed and alone. before an exam...my dad got me to go to the garden, look up at the evening sky....and said we are part of all this.....your beautiful example reminded me of this

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You keep it going.. even daily walks in the neighborhood seeing other people going about their stuff will help.

God bless you! I hope God sends you a friend you can enjoy your time with and share memories!! Amen!

You can do this. Complete your journey of life with grace. B4 you know it- your journey will be done and you'll be reunited with your Son and Husband. It is a current trend of no friends. So it's not just you. People are so complicated now, be grateful to not be drawn into the drama of life.

Sending you heartfelt love❤and hugs and to keep reaching out just as you did here on you tube. You never know who may become a long distance friend or if you will find that one video that will help lift you up snd onto another trajectory. ❤one small step at a time and keep your heart open even if it feel’s crushed - love always wins.

same. I listen to DOAC everytime I work at home.

Same! I just discovered this last week and I feel so blessed to know this exists

Oh, OK time to settle in yourself up ! Lol

Agree. It’s such a powerful show. Not just another podcast. They’re impactful honest conversations.

Same here! I struggle to create meaningful connections with my acquaintances and colleagues, I feel like they're just not that interested. This really helps, it's a surrogate of having those conversations that I'd like to be having

Thank you for sharing you insight ❤️

What are some examples of things you'd do that would be considered wrong?

But they get paid for sitting in the mud, it's very hard work and can't be expected as a free gift of everyone. It would be a relationship that has a balanced emotional bank account.

Really? I think the paid part is there for just that...$ A stranger a friend a family member a clergy etc sit in the mud w you as I do for them so no you don't sit in the mud w your clients. Unless you mean something else?

@@ishavidaayurveda it’s still not easy to sit in the mud with someone whether you get paid or not. Not everyone can be that person for even someone they love. It does take love to do it.

I am exactly in your boat...every word! We got this!

@@angonorato1770oh yes we got this. Best regards to you.

That’s exactly me. I’m going 51 in Jan 24 with greying hairline. To make things worst, I work with young co workers and they have partners married or to be married . No one looks up to a single person who earns average wage . Especially so a woman. And when you get angry about some work issue due to some poor response internally, I hear people say ‘Non married woman are angry and behave differently from married ladies.. sigh 😢

That’s exactly my life except my siblings are too busy in their own lives. My fur babies help to some degree.

And I feel just like you do in a similar situation

Thank you for this ❤

Thanks Tammy AI

Thanks so much for this recap ❤😊

Thank you. What a friend you are. Saved me 2 hours of my life. Sounds like the same things everyone says.

@@tannwich5350The entire podcast is worth a listen. If you believe he’s spewing rhetoric, you mustn’t be paying attention.

I only knew certain parts of this. Thank you for posting more of it. It brought tears to me eyes.

@Sheila Anderson We could all use a little more Pooh & Piglet

Love that.

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I've sat in the mud with so many. But who has ever sat in my mud just for a change? Sorry, but this is all BS. There's a lot of self important, totally selfish aholes out there and it's nearly all of you. Signed single white ageing woman, never married no kids because all males are getting boring asian females who cannot even speak english let alone engage in interesting deep and meaningful conversation, because let's face it they actually all just want a servant, and whose name is now a source of prejudice and discrimination. Money talks. The only way I will ever get a man and get married is the size of my investments. If i declared that I am worth $10000000, I guarantee not only will i get flooded with dates, they will all arrive early, dressed in a suit with a bunch of very expensive flowers and Dom Perignon, along with a dozen marriage proposals in the first week.

..You hit the nail right on the head. So few people are willing to be authentic.

Admire and imitate or adopt

Having a really hard time moving myself on. Afraid to stay and hard to go.

@@PeggyShingleton I think we have to learn from the past while enjoying the present

I appreciate you making me aware that there's a distinction between ADD and ADHD, i've seen high level ADHD on days when he didn't take his meds. But feel my sister and i could have ADD which seems to at least display itself quite differently externally

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Yes you can, teach your friend what and how you would like them to be.

And here in lies the magic of life!

I do not live in London. Is there an opportunity to watch event online?

Same, would it be live online?

3:14 I'll ask you Steven, how are you doing? You are PICKING YOUR NAILS, looking at them as you phrase and deliver this question to Simon. Fidgety, distracted. What's up? xx Your viewers happy to hold space with you!

I loved this! Many thanks!

Yey, I love you both!

Beautiful Paula. You clearly have a tender heart.

That's so kind of you Paula. I love you! :)

I love you

That is so beautiful and openly honest. Thank you.

I say this too. My cousins say it's weird. In Asian culture it's faux pas. Lol.

I have had the same and in my experience the worst are those who haven't yet lost a parent yet. A friend lost her mother and then said to me (I had lost my mother 5 years earlier) I'm so sorry I wasn't really there for you, I was so blissfully unaware of what it was like until it happened to me.

I feel you Camille. I no longer have my mom and dad. Aint easy living alone… even my own siblings have no idea how lonely I am

@Gastrolicious Gelayski I am so sorry for your loss. It feels very lonely. A lady told me the other day, "we are no longer who we were after losing a parent," let alone both. I feel an identity crisis of sorts. But I have to pull myself together and reinvent myself somehow. I know my parents would want me to be well. I will pray for you as well. May we find strength.

@A Beautiful Country good insight, maybe them not being able to relate to our loss makes them emotionally unavailable. But still, common sense goes a long way.

That sounds difficult. Are you there for your friends? Is it possible to find new friends

gosh it seems many of the weathiest entreprenuers in the world actually have ADHD. and so many people look down on them. these people have an extreme ability to focus on what makes them tick and just make money!

No joke. I can connect with him

Omg i didnt know he had adhd. It makes me connect w him even more !!

Yes, amazing!!

Poor little Simon with ADHD :( those kids in Africa are such vain little shits in comparison

Be productive while in waiting. When you get busy with you, your person will show up

....or they might not (show up). Which is ok. Don't do anything with the condition or expectation that something is going to happen. Just do it because you want to.

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3orZrYPCJpQ.html

It's OK to be broken as long as you don't give up on yourself and remember even the brokenness is not an everlasting state of you. Only those who have been broken can meaningfully walk with another soul that is about to break or is breaking.

@@nedsantos1415 That, is the sweetest thing I 've ever heard!

I don't think I have had anyone who gets who I really am.

@@Kinsugi what you want to transmit that’s the key. But it all starts with you knowing yourself at all your ages. That’s how you can extract your true essence

Totally relatable

Excellent point. It’s the people that make us need therapy. Children need to be reinforced knowing that they themselves are enough, and being your own best friend allows you to befriend others ❤

but i like to be lonley ! :))))

Hi @reazl773 Thanks for making time to comment on this.

Do you know where I can get info on what 3+1 is and get detailed info on that?

@@jean300490 01:05:20 if you listen 20 mins from there you will understand it

Get off the internet and start meeting face to face. Maybe it might work better.

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I'm disabled.. I feel totally worthless, but moreover invisible. I feel you 😢

Simply by posting this you are of service. So many of us can relate to this feeling and by connecting with us you touch us and remove that sense of loneliness and fear. Sometimes, often, we serve others simply by being ourselves. Thank you for your post ❤❤

I’m 60 and I understand. Your comment made me feel better. Thank you for being open and honest. 💜💫💜

It also focus on getting people feel your why and this also great of making comnections and selfreflection.

Yep. Don’t have a soul to call. Doesn’t mean it’ll stay that way forever, though. I have chronic limiting pain so I have to stay home. Maybe it’ll change one day.

That’s not a problem with this this talk. That is a problem for you. You need to establish friend relationships in this world. It’s is a FUNDAMENTAL requirement of the human condition along with food, water, sunlight. Companionship.

Agreed 😢

Yes. Probably Many of them don't know how to be one yet . Bless you.

He plans when he’s going to cry.. didn’t he say he’s on the autistic spectrum Beware of who you get advice from.. just because he’s got credentials & is on a podcast does not qualify him fo this

You are not alone then. You are with the sound, the beat, lyrics, voice, tone, message and communication with the artist of that good song! Listening to music does not really make you alone. It is the best gift from God. Understand the story of the trumpets in Heaven. It is deep!

The point is that when you feel bad, you should/could call a friend. It's not only about the tears.

if missing the point was a person… 🙄

@@goodtrouble841 apparently many agree. And thankfully to the comment section I understand the point better.

And opening up and making yourself vulnerable by sharing how you REALLY feel can be tough. Well done for being real. I'm sorry they reacted like that, it can hurt. I'm so glad you've seen that it's not that they don't care. I remember a few years ago, sharing with my Mum how lonely I felt...she told me to go for a run! She has Aspergers...

1:01:34: 💑 Being vulnerable and sharing struggles with your partner can deepen the relationship. 1:01:34: Narcissists are filled with self-loathing despite their bluster and power. 1:01:59: Strengths and weaknesses are contextual, and it is important to work to your strengths in the right context. 1:08:00: Shared struggle releases oxytocin and deepens relationships. 1:08:48: Leadership is about going first and taking the risk to be vulnerable. 1:09:30: Educating your partner on how you would like to be supported during difficult moments is important. 1:11:12: 💑 The key to a great relationship is having intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility, along with favorable circumstances. 1:11:12: Having deal breakers is important, but it's crucial to be open-minded and not limit potential partners based on a checklist. 1:11:12: The act of co-creation is important in relationships, where partners understand and accept each other's differences. 1:11:12: Great relationships require intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility. 1:12:36: Personal growth and improvement are important qualities to look for in a partner. 1:13:23: Passion and a love for something, regardless of its commercial success, is an attractive quality in a partner. 1:16:05: Circumstances such as timing and location also play a role in relationship success. 1:16:32: Having two out of the three components can still lead to a good relationship, but all three are needed for greatness. 1:17:39: Being honest and vulnerable about one's emotions is essential for emotional compatibility. 1:21:43: 💔 Heartbreak teaches us about the nature of being human and the importance of co-creation in relationships. 1:21:43: Heartbreak teaches us about the nature of being human. 1:23:42: The act of co-creation involves listening, volunteering information, and filling up each other's toolbox. 1:25:19: Being open to feedback and asking for help in relationships is important. 1:25:47: Successful relationships require co-creation and active work. 1:26:38: Service, not sacrifice, is the key to successful relationships. 1:27:47: Denying someone the opportunity to help is denying them the honor of being there for you. 1:28:57: Fixing problems instead of holding space can prevent people from opening up. 1:29:14: Acknowledging past mistakes in holding space can help create a better environment for opening up. 1:29:20: 🌟 Simon measures success by momentum, not by achievement, and feels a sense of meaning and purpose in contributing to a better world. 1:29:20: Simon views his career as an iceberg, with the goal of waking up every morning inspired and fulfilled by the work he does. 1:33:24: He is driven by the momentum he contributes to and is never satisfied with his achievements. 1:33:31: Simon wants to continue working until his time comes, knowing that others will carry on the work he has done. 1:34:06: He believes in leaving the world in better shape than he found it and wants others to continue the work he has started. 1:34:44: Simon finds a sense of meaning in tackling difficult and uncomfortable problems. 1:36:37: He values the gratitude and impact his work has on others, but it doesn't affect his ego. 1:37:30: Simon's work reminds him to keep going and feels like the work he should continue doing. 1:37:49: He shares a story of his experience in Afghanistan, highlighting the importance of staying calm and focused in challenging situations. 1:38:35: 💪 The speaker reflects on their experience in a war zone and realizes that true purpose in life is to serve those who serve others. 1:38:35: The speaker had a surreal experience during an airdrop mission in Afghanistan. 1:39:27: They were initially stuck in the country but eventually found a flight to leave. 1:41:13: Feeling panicked and without a sense of purpose, the speaker decided to volunteer and serve others. 1:42:54: They had a moment of realization about the importance of serving those who serve others. 1:44:29: The speaker and their colleagues were able to board a flight carrying a fallen soldier. 1:46:03: They had an emotional encounter with a wounded Marine and a doctor on the flight. 1:47:09: The doctor expressed that the feeling of working on these missions is more powerful than working in a regular ER. 1:48:01: The speaker shares their insights with military leaders upon returning home. 1:48:38: 💪 Simon reflects on the importance of serving those who serve others and the personal cost that comes with it. 1:48:38: Simon shares his experience of being choked up while telling a story and the difference between the private sector and those who understand service. 1:49:28: Simon emphasizes the importance of serving those who serve others and the unwritten rule of serving someone who serves others. 1:53:45: Simon talks about the personal cost of focusing on the movement and neglecting personal relationships. 1:53:57: Simon expresses his desire for companionship and the opportunity to share his life with someone. 1:54:03: Simon acknowledges his past mistakes in being a servant in relationships and his commitment to improve. 1:55:36: Simon reflects on the worthiness of the cost he paid for the movement and the impact of the work being done. 1:56:53: Simon highlights the importance of having conversations about the human side of success and mental fitness. 1:57:48: Simon explains his focus on mental health and struggles as the underserved foundation of being a successful individual. 1:59:04: 😊 The speaker expresses gratitude and promotes Blue Jeans and WeWork. 1:59:04: Blue Jeans is an online video conferencing tool that offers high-quality meetings and calls. 2:00:08: WeWork provides a sense of community and creativity for entrepreneurs and businesses. Recap by Tammy AI

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3orZrYPCJpQ.html

I'm almost 65 and just realised the exact same thing. At first it came as a great revelation and liberation until the sense of mourning the wasted opportunities caused by a lifetime of confusion kicked in. So, maybe I'm being unfair here but, I'm struggling to feel much sympathy for someone who has realised in their 30s when they still have more of their life ahead of them than behind them...

@@sohosteveuk I'm 49 and have nothing to show for it. I feel 38 at the most. I never really understood "reality" and how to navigate it. I wish i chose a different career path that had more opportunity. I am shifting to something much better and with no salary ceiling. I also plan to take my landscape painting father. That seems to be an old person game anyways lol. My life was ruined by caring too much what other think and limiting myself. What i went through sucked and i can't even talk about it. I mean to a therapist i could and will. I just don't want to die single. I have very few friends. Once somebody moves i lose touch with them. A good friend died recently. I've known my best friend since 4th grade, so that helps. But we don't have that many deep talks. I do have ADD, not sure about the H part. It never got diagnosed. School was a total shit show. My parents never monitored me as they were dealing with a dying marriage. After school and the Army i just bounced around......then bamm here i am. Meanwhile my bro got a sweet job right after college, then another and now has been at SAS (like Google) for 20 years as a project manager. Easy job, great pay and benefits. He chose a much better career path. I tried to be a graphic designer but it was too demanding for my brain. You create something really cool, then gotta do it again and again and again. Good luck getting past 50K for years. When i was younger the idea of marriage or a relationship made me feel smothered. I didn't have the income to support it and my mind was always daydreaming or moving onto the next thing. It really sucks. I will finally seek help soon. I've suffered enough but then i'm so used to that, that it seems like that is just how my life is. Meanwhile others just go through life like a hot knife going through butter.

@@infowazz as a person on this planet you aren't required to be something impressive or do a ton of things to show yourself as being successful. You live your life, do things you like, connect with people, work, relax and be human that's not failure.

Tkank you.

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-3orZrYPCJpQ.html

Did it?? I don't know anyone dead from it not one person. I've heard of a few people been murdered in hospitals or "care homes"... Strange that 💀 lots of heart attacks as well since that injection.

​​@@newhorizonslifecoachcheers Yea okay. You still need people it's the way we were designed.

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Yes

They say whatever is in walnuts can help. I used to get the winter blues. Ate walnuts every day of fall winter and spring and haven’t had winter blues again. I watched a different ceo podcast yesterday that said naming it could help. Like as a child I didn’t have the words to share the trauma but now I do I can say that to someone who cares and they have hopefully developed listening understanding and caring skills so that I can now put the whole thing behind me. Depression talk always makes me think about melancholy character types. When a person knows they are melancholy hopefully they can learn how to use their strengths to overcome their weaknesses. Like managerial skills to overcome ocd. Or however that works. But looking at a chart and learning your particular ins and outs seems like it has good points. I’ve heard at the same time though that particularly melancholy people are irritated by some of the information… Blessings because the journey is the destination.

I think he’s ND as well. I’m NT and hyper-emotional which isn’t fun or the answer either.

Hello, is there a test we can take to find out ?

i just want to say you are not alone, because here I am, with the same exact situation as you, as well as the same mentality. I myself haven't sought out a life coach/therapist yet, but it is one of my next plans. Go for it and I wish that one day we can find a way around this, finding the happiness that we seek

Same!

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Hope u enjoy every day🎉

Happy post birthday - this podcast resonated with me as well.

@@robertpaulson6388 - oh yes, it was the right place and time for me...

Noone is like Simon Sinek - ppl matter to this man! "Life is beautiful not because of the things we see or do. Life is beautiful because of the people we meet.” Simon Sinek💜

This sounds very similar to my experience too. I have lots of good people in my life but I want someone to be in it next to me. Hope we both can make that connection.

I hear you. Same here…. I’d like someone to make memories with but people I meet, even if they do show up, are only interested in mutual consumption. I miss going on holidays with someone, but I won’t couple with just anyone to have that experience. 😢

@@georgieb1471 let’s be friends

same girl same

I think there are a lot of us in this world right now... It's pretty sad.

This is exactly how I feel!

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Sounds amazing what you wrote❤

Beautifully spoken about the flower.

[type:] HI REN [take:] 9min20sec for viewing [try:] not being touched by it [do:] a deep dive on Ren; learn his medical history and latest treatment for misdiagnosed Lyme Disease [read:] multiple responses by thousands of people and not one of them is negative or even rude [cry:] inevitable, so let it happen [allow:] yourself to feel a shift on levels both micro +macro [know:] we will never be the same "_____" and then ... [feel:] again; finally!