Everyone is so kind, treat the little girl as their own child❤️❤️ （In case our new friends don't notice, most of our videos now have many subtitles in different languages: Arabic, French, Russian, Korean, Portuguese, Japanese, Spanish, Indonesia, Vietnamese and so on. Please go to your SETTINGS and select the SUBTITLE you need❤）
The last lady gave great advice, like it's nice to see people help him with his daughter but he should also be careful with leaving his child with others even if its for the bathroom cause you never know.
When there’s a kid left alone at a mall, or a store: Me: *Silently watches kid from a distance, and makes sure they’re safe until their parents are back*
I did the same to a little girl then my bestie came near her and she said something in her ear .I was confused..then they had a conversation she came to me and said " Hey ! If u really wanna keep everyone safe near you go and do a conversation u dumb she is my sis she told me that a girl is starting at her ...yo I have to tell her whole truth she said thank you to you but ...IT LOOKS REALLY CREEPY if someone stares at you for 15 mins .." My brain : I will never help anyone ...I just hate socializing
I do this. I remember one time on Christmas eve when I was 15 a little girl hugged me while I was shopping at a mall crying because she had lost her parents. I took her to the security guards and they called her mom using the store speakers.
@@leah6824 Yup too, every parent single or not, but i think Niloofar was commenting on single dads because 1) They are the subject of the video or 2) Single dads get little to no respect in society.
I remember having to stand outside the bathroom waiting for my mom in the mall. I remember I started to cry cause a man was staring at me. But he was actually making sure no one bothered me. 😂🤦🏽♀️
When I was young my dad would take me with him in male's comfort room if I want to pee, but he just let me used the cubicle. I grew up with him because my mom is not with us, and this video made me cry a lot for I remembered the memories I have with my late dad. A big respect for the single Fathers out there who's raising and taking good care of their children ❤️.
im a teenager and i was walking with my friend in the mall. another teenage boy asked me if i could take his little sister into the bathroom, they couldn’t find their parents. while in the bathroom the girl asked me how old i was and then said she thought i was older because of how i look and my voice. she was the cutest thing.
@@lune-moon5664 most of the time the parent just takes the kid into the men's bathroom, my mom always took my little brother into the ladies room with her until he was old enough to go by himself
Honestly it makes me sad hearing so many people giving the entire country so much hate over the pandemic right now, during these tough times these people are still incredibly kind to one another and it really makes me feel better
especially because its not their fault, almost every country could have done better, look at korea, why cant these rich af, feeling superior countries do the same?
People are giving hate to the country's top authorities for intentionally concealing information about the virus..Around 60 M people have already suffered...And if the virus has spread this far by people eating Bats etc, naturally they will receive hate..Don't be a dumb sympathiser..
@@sherlock5902 The only one dumb here is you ironically enough, it was already confirmed by the WHO to not be from eating bats. Plus eating bats is a tradition in Palau but the virus never came from there.
0:50 When I see the child holding hands with the male actor and female on the other side and she is happy and jumping, it is soo sweet, like a perfect happy little family!
It's better for boys to go into the ladies' room because all the ladies' rooms are partitioned and have doors. There is open urination outside the men's room, and there is no door.
I have many issues with this. Especially after a certain age. In the US the women's stalls are not often fully enclosed. There are large gaps in between the doors AND at least a foot of space between the stall doors and the floor. I have had NUMEROUS times where a child's head has popped under the stall door. There are family restrooms thankfully but people still bring rambunctious little boys that they obviously haven't taught manners to into the ladies toilets.
3:23 she said the right thing. Although there are good people out there, there are bad people out there as well. It's good to see ppl helping them out but atst it's very dangerous as well. Please be careful~ but so thankful for these good people ^^
That's exactly what Mencius said! "honor old people as we do our own aged parents, and care for other's children as one's own" www.linguee.com/chinese-english/translation/%E8%80%81%E5%90%BE%E8%80%81%EF%BC%8C%E4%BB%A5%E5%8F%8A%E4%BA%BA%E4%B9%8B%E8%80%81%EF%BC%8C%E5%B9%BC%E5%90%BE%E5%B9%BC%EF%BC%8C%E4%BB%A5%E5%8F%8A%E4%BA%BA%E4%B9%8B%E5%B9%BC.html
The normal thing would be for him to take her to the men's bathroom, just as there are mothers who take their son to the women's bathroom and nothing happens.
I do think this is a cultural issue, not the normal or abnormal thing. Where I'm from, that would be completely acceptable. But clearly here it is different, as most of the women agreed it would be bothersome. But I don't think you should assume that this is because they think the men's restroom is unsafe for the child. There could be many cultural explanations. It could be a cultural tendency to follow rules combined with it being rare for men to go out with their daughters alone, making this an uncommon situation in general. It could also be because of different attitudes to nudity around children, where men's urinals offer more exposure than women's stalls. There could be many explanations.
@@cheesecake7274 Most of the world considers it acceptable for young children to use the opposite restroom because they don't have sexual thoughts and therefore aren't considered a violation to anyone's privacy. The important thing is that the adult is always in the right one for that reason.
People keep bringing up about how China is looked at as a "mean" country and then they see these videos and are surprised... That's not the case really. They are like any other country, they will have their bad sides and biases that hold them back but what they do have that most western countries don't is a very big respect culture and I think that is what you see in most of these videos. They respect their elders, they respect the less fortunate and they have heavy national pride especially when seeing one of their own in pain. ... where they do fall short and westerners are a bit ahead of them is respecting ideas and lifestyles outside of the norm and advancing with the new generation. It's a push and pull situation with China in my opinion but they are on the right track.
Your observations are right on the dot especially "westerners are a bit ahead of them ........". However, I need to add my own perspective on this statement, it is a tussle for the Chinese people with their upbringing and historical perspective, eventually they will evolve their own acceptance in their own pace. Let us not judge each other as we are all part of Humanity. Diversity in thoughts is not own by anyone. They are not communist in ideology, LBGT and religious rights are allowed but not broadcast. You can practise but not go around and preach. It has been like this for thousands of years. Thoughts from a foreign born Chinese
@@tessayasmine3673 lmao I don’t hate them I just don’t have the patience to take care of a child although I do have the patience to take care of animals
despite of being the most populated country...the cleanliness level is really amazing and of course by watching all this really approves that Chinese people are really humble and defines humanity at it's best!!
I’m from Germany and I think here the rules for bathrooms aren’t as strict - if you see somebody’s with their child, they are free to use every bathroom. If a father is with his very young child, he can definitely go to the lady’s room, because often, only there you can find the option to properly change a diaper. The problem is not fathers taking care of their children, but society not giving them much room to do so 🙄🙈
There should be changing tables in all the rooms but in many places it's just considered wrong for the adult to be in the opposite restroom, regardless. It's more socially acceptable for a little girl to be in the men's room than an adult man to be in the women's room. And the reverse, a little boy in the women's over a grown woman in the men's.
crepesoftime I agree with you too! Little boys can to enter in lady's room, but little girls can't to enter in men' room. Yea, i know that there are many pedophiles, but the child will be with her dad!
This is really beautiful! Because I’ve never thought of single fathers having these kinds of problems. It’s very sad. I did once see people wanting tables to change diaper in males bathroom too, but I didn’t realize that even when the kid grows up a little a bit they’ll still face problems as a single dad. Thank you for this!
Awww it's so lovely that everybody was willing to help even though it seems some of them were in a hurry Plus that comment of the last lady was right, don't go and don't trust strangers so easily
Love all the women who take time to d cute girl and the dad. Even the last woman who also help them as well as gives him a piece of advice. A mother or like a grandma's natural instinct.
I’m glad the last lady gave advice on not being so trusting with people because it’s 100% true, you don’t know what kind of people are out there and you shouldn’t fall for how they look, if they look trusting or not so I’m glad she told the girl not to go with anyone she doesn’t know ❤️
@@sonchaeyoungmakesfeelgayxd4044 en Asia hay muchísima contaminación , ni respirar se puede , todo el cielo es nublado si estás acostumbrada a otro lugar te cuesta respirar ._.
Ellos con una confianza pueden entregar a sus hijos para que los ayuden y aquí en mi país entregarle a alguien tu hijo para que lo ayudes es como decirles "niña pequeña perfecta para secuestrar"
Depende, es muy raro que le des una niña a una mujer para que la acompañe a un baño y se la robe🤔 qué crees que en esos países no roban? Si hay muchos secuestros
This is so sweet. When I was little and hung out with my dad because my mum was elsewhere, he'd take me to the male ones and let me use the cubible and waited right by the door. No way on earth he'd let me go on my own until I was old enough. He's still overprotective to this day and I'm an adult. I got an amazing dad ♥️
This made me remember one time me and my family were eating out at a restaurant, it was crowded that night and I remember I suddenly felt ill so I went to the bathroom. I ended up puking and started crying because my stomach hurt so bad, I was 7 or 8 at the time. Then I heard a woman from the next stall over calling out to me, asking if I was okay. I have horrible anxiety but in that moment her gentle kindness really soothed me, she asked if my mom was with me but I told her she was out in the restaurant and so she waited for me until I was able to gather myself and just kept talking with me. She ended up walking me back to the table I was at (another thing I really appreciated since it was so busy) I think she was a college student at the time and I never saw her again but that kindness always stuck with me, that she'd take the time to console a sick kid she didn't even know and go out of her way to make sure I got back to my family safely afterwards.
Look at all those great ladies, I especially liked the three that tried to teach the kids something; don't hold it in little beauty, the one that sanitized her hands and don't go with strangers 👏🏽👏🏽
As I imagined people of china are soo kind and generous, but many times misjudged, may be cuz of how media works or the politics. It truly warms my heart when I watch treeman's videos it made me so happy that if I ever go there someone will surely help me❤️.
Rhis is why unisex restrooms/family restrooms are so important! The struggle single fathers must face daily is in surmountable. Especially good fathers who are just trying to raise their daughters right. Sending love to all the single parents out there just trying to do right by their families.
I saw a little girl go in to the ladies room while her dad stood outside. She looked like she was no more than 7, so being a mom of 2 little girls, I stood by to make sure she made it out safely. It’s no brainer to help whenever there’s a need.
This made me remember the time when a father asked me to take his daughter to the restroom, made me feel nice knowing I helped someone out that day :,)
One day I swear, I’m going to move to China, or maybe another stable country in Asia. These people are all so wonderful. I’ve been watching this account a lot over the years, and it makes me wish that America was like this. Sure, maybe we are the land of the free, but we most definitely aren’t the land of the kindness. :/ Thank you to all the good hearted people out there! 💜
Masked Siblings I etheir wanna move to China,Korea or the Philippines or maybe Thailand I have family and family friends in Korea and the Philippines so it would be pretty comfortable
Hey a Chinese girl here! I'm so glad you want to move to China but you'll have to work a lot in order to keep it up with the rest of the people! Chinese people are used to doing things really quickly so if you get any slower you will probably have a hard time but you can count on other people to help you! Chinese people are really good at teamwork and will help you if you need it!
My father is also a single parent. Even though we're not close, I think he's a good parent. He's not just a showy person like me. Even if he's scolding me and those words are painful, I understand how frustrated he is. He's raising his 2 daughters and I think it's too hard to be alone. He's a tough guy. I remember the answer he gave me when I ask him why he's still not finding someone so he can be happy... He answered "You're not yet finished with your study, how can I find a new wife?". I'm happy that he chose US but I want him to be happy. Now that I graduated and hopefully I'm going to study abroad with the help of scholarship, I'll do my best to help my family. -No one ask you say? But I'm happy to share. I love you guys!
Oof,reminds me of something from 3 yrs ago...that time it was about 3 days before my trip with my family to Australia. My lips were cracked and bleeding and my upper lip was cracked literally. So my mom told me to drink more water or else my lips are gonna suffer cuz its cold there,so i remember drinking 2 litres of water during our recess time in school....next thing I knew...I ended going to the toilet 5 times during our lesson.(it was about an hour) Well at least my lips got better the next day🤣My teacher was like *我劝你去看医生，每次星期二时候一直想要上厕所...这孩子丫...* Because for some weird reason,during that year,I always feel like peeing a lot on Tuesdays...for the whole year! That was the worst year of my life🙄 except that I got to go to Australia😁
No le confiaría a mi hija a cualquiera... preferiría que el padre entrará al baño de mujeres y que diga "llevo a mi hija disculpen" cualquiera lo entendería
See!! Just because corona virus started in china,doesnt mean all the people there are mean, bad etc You shouldnt' be Disgusted too much!! And hate them They're also Kind! Heart warming🥺💖
I love the Auntie scolding him at the end for entrusting the little girl to strangers. It was so sweet that she cared even though she was one of those strangers.
Awwwww I really appreciate all the other people They are sooo Kind!!! Really So happy to see kind-hearted people everywhere❤ Thanks for the video and your efforts❤
I salute those dads who bring up their children all alone. Especially, those dads who has daughters. There are some things that a girl can only tell another woman or things that a woman should teach girls. Those dads are amazing, confident and very brave.
I take my daughter with me into the bathroom. When she's old enough to use the bathroom on her own I'll let her go into a public women's restroom room. I can stand outside and wait for her to finish. It's not a big issue for me. I would feel uncomfortable leaving her in the hands of a complete stranger.
I saw a report a few days ago - 21 provinces out of 36 are having literally zero new cases. Which is pretty well done to be honest when you compare the time frame to others
I've had to do this before taking my niece out with me when she was younger. It was only twice and both times the ladies that I asked were so sweet and more than happy to help. Thank you for anyone willing to do this.
This happened to me one time. Once, I went with my neighbour's little boy in an arcade. He wishes to play at his birthday but his family cannot afford it so I decided to play with him (I am 18 at that time). He was 7. When he wanted to pee, he was too shy to go with me to the female's cr. Then, a man helped me. Forever grateful with that tho. **english is not my native language
