SINGLE MOM MOTIVATION | Podcast about Life 

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I think that even when a single mom has a support system she really is still very much alone. I have 2 kids, boys, and my parents help me out a lot but when I make a decision about my kids that I feel is right I still get so much grief over it.

Lord she is so right, I wish I had known myself before I had my children. They do deserve so much out of life and it is all on me. Thank you for this

I especially resonate as a single mom, with needing to plan out my time very intentionally! And also not being desperate for love.

I tend to be an overgiver, giving so much that’s it’s detrimental to my own well being because I never get anything in return and that tears me down from the inside out. I stopped caring about myself, stopped pouring into myself and let myself go. My self esteem plummeted because the husbands that came into my life, and then eventually an old puppy love from high school, and they tried to take everything I had left. They drained me. God had to tell me that I needed to be single and be still. I was throwing pearls among swine and that’s not of God. (And that’s a bible verse guys) I have to be still for the first time in my life and just rest in him, knowing that my child and I will be provided for and well taken care of with or without a man around. My strength comes from the most high and I am unstoppable. I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me

Wow! Great tips. I am a single mother and life coach for single mothers. I did a live on Facebook about the same thing. Self love is the best love. How can you love anyone else if you don’t love yourself? It’s impossible. Plz keep this content coming.

Chatela, I listened to everything you have said thoroughly and through the understanding The LORD has given me, from a "so called" single mother to another you are dropping jewels my dear. I say "so called" single mother because when The LORD is walking with you and guiding you, you are never truly single or alone. Yes it can be very challenging to the flesh at times, but its building up your Spirit, it's Building up your character; it goes alone with that saying, " whatever doesn't kill you make you stronger. When I found out I was pregnant with my now 8 year old son, I knew from the very beginning I would be a "single mom". I didn't leave room for pity party or blame game. I did what was necessary for the well-being of my child. I moved to a totally different state and started over from scratch with Faith and only $200.00 to my name. I went to a shelter for woman and children, I gave 100% and Grind by The LORDS mercy ,I climbed to the top of what looked like a Terrible situation. My son has never went without anything. I nevered relyed on other's especially a man who didnt truly know what love was, because you have to Truly Know The Lord to even Know what true love really is all about. So I say to whomever reading this, Focus on your children, love them be patient, kind,, long-suffer them, put in the quality time. They will love you for it, most importantly TRUST IN THE LORD HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH!!!

God has definitely been doing great things in my life recently. I used to waddle in my sorrow and pain as a struggling single mother but I'm on a come up and God has been working. I'm not living in fear and depression anymore. I was hurt and bitter for so long for being a single mother. I really thank God for being the head of my life. I take responsibility for my choices and now I'm moving ahead. No more sitting around being a victim. I'm turning my pain into an empire and inspiring myself. This video just speaks everything I've been through.

We’re witnessing only a glimpse of this woman’s inner strength right here. Incredible. Every word was so true and empowering. 100% on the bit about journaling. I learned to journal at a young age. I’ve never really had friends or a support group that weren’t toxic. I’ve found that being alone is best while I work on learning to love myself. I’ve always thrived in my independence but being alone can hurt sometimes so that’s why I learned to write. It’s one of my many strengths and a great way to check in with myself, acknowledge my own emotions, remember my strengths, and validate my feelings. As a single mother, I couldn’t agree more. I won’t continue the trauma that’s been cycling throughout so many generations. I WILL model a mother who loves herself, who allows herself grace to heal, who shows up in her fullest authenticity. I will raise a son who loves himself, feels worthy and is capable of making healthy emotional choices and physically healthy choices. I will be a mother who learns to love her body, and knows her worth. Thank you for being a soft hearted and strong minded woman with a fierce spirit, ready and willing to make the most of your past decisions. This full circle is inspiring and empowering for others

Beautiful and wise. Thanks you for your motivating words. I needed to hear every word this morning. Single parenthood is not the easiest but it feels good to see others getting through it, doing well & raising healthy & happy children. I feel much more supported & motivated when I see that.

That's the biggest statement that I'm adjusting to which is the routine and focus for one day might not work for the very next day. At some point that constant change will create a gateway to being stuck in survival mode,... so it is best to find a routine dedicated to a short term goal that allows for some stability - that'll reduce stress and open up for better opportunities of growth, peace and purpose.

BEAUTIFULLY SAID🗣💙 you are a great mother and woman! You made the best decision

Chatela, Bravo Bravo & a million Bravo to you sweetie. I love the part that you said don't be so desperate to love and end up loving the wrong person that will hurt you. I'm a victim of it when I spent 5 years with a Narcissist. One morning I woke and said to myself I have a pretty angel that I need to race and I need to teach her alot of goodies. That's how I left him. Loving myself, my kid and focusing on my creator is the best thing ever. BRAVOTOEVERYSINGLEMOM#

What an important and brilliant video. This is so true. My life unfolded because I had very little self love. Learned from it, making changes but I wish I had known this when I was young. Every young girl needs to watch this xx

To all single mom.Jesus become ur companion thru all of this.God be with you all single mothers❤

New subscriber here! I love your videos thus far! I am also a single mom. I have a 3yo, 2yo, and almost 1yo. It is very difficult but it is my favorite job in the world. I am also self employed and looking for more ways to build my income as I want to be a SAHM mom and spend time with my kids while they are young. Thank you so much for your videos, encouragement, and advice! You have a life long supporter, follower, and friend here 💜

Girl this is my current situation 😢Going through the motions and changes now in the healing phase

Stay strong to all Single mom like me.Godbless!

Thank you...I have been allowing men to use me since I was molested as a little girl and I am now trying to heal and raise my kids...I feel like I am losing alot but I have to be strong like you and all the others...

Thank you for this 💙. It’s so easy to be stuck in bitterness.

I just want to say, I can listen to you talk ALL DAY. Your words are powerful and mighty, yet your voice and energy is soothing. Thank you for sharing this, many of us single Moms can very much relate. I would love to hear more from you and about your journey.

I really needed to hear this 😞

Truly inspirational and motivating! Thank you for having the courage and strength to share this wisdom with us and I really needed to hear it 🙏.

I absolutely love this. I have been so bitter for having no help. I needed this mindframe shift

Do the inner work is so true 🥹

This was beautiful. Thank you both,great job. Great content

This woman is incredible and this was everything I needed to hear ❤ thankyou!

Thank you so much for sharing your story.. God bless you all

This is amazing. I needed this

I need you as a friend in my life. Subscribed

This was so beautiful. I really resonated with this. Thank you!

Beautiful thank you ! Very wise women powerful words . I needed this

This is amazing 🙏🏼💖

Loved loved loved this podcast , she said so many things that hit me! 💕

Beautiful I enjoyed watching/listening to this.

Beautiful spirit❤

I wish I have known this before having any children.

Wow. I'm thankful for your words! Life makes this much more sense _ optimism 💙💜❤🧡💛🤎

I love this talk, thank you do much

Love this

This is truly inspiring

I hear you 💙

I am a single man parent in Germany, is my first baby boy * I want friendship who will help me with idea if I need help , sometimes I don't know what to do.

This was beautiful

You are such a beautiful mama! And I love what you share! Definitely subbed and liked!! Would love to be YT mama friends!

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