Sister Circle Live | The Difference Between a Grown Man and a Grown Male 

Wow, "A grown man looks to be of service a grown male looks to be served." 💖

"A man will show you who he is, based upon what he does ..."

You have to place boundaries on everything.

Love it. Men need a circle of positive male influences. Transparency, accountability,and vulnerability, repair, reset, forward to break cycles

He will be hired as a regular on this show !!!! He inspired me as a man and as a professional

Dondre Whitfield needs a show, a podcast, or something! The brother is on point!

This brother need to write a book...that was well said

Love this brother as an actor, but he's droppin some Priceless gems in this one

He is speaking so much truth. Every Man is a Male. But not every Male that you meet is a Man. A Male wants to be serviced. A Man wants to serve. A Man realizes that he was put on this earth to be a servant leader. WOW, WOW and WOW again!!!

Dondre is so handsome. His wife is gorgeous as well. Beautiful couple

HE NEEDS TO SPEAK TO THESE YOUNG MALES HE HAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MIND HIGHLY KNOWLEDGEABLE 💯

Damn! He made me realize I've been a grown male to my wife for some years now!

The brother is speaking MUCH truth!! God bless you Sir!!

There's really nothing sexier than a grown ass man. So many grown males out here and it's discouraging. But the grown men give me so much hope!

I’m living out everything you said my brother. I have 4 girls to raise and how I treat myself, their mother and them is how I measure success in life, not money, trinkets or external attributes. There truly is a difference between MALEHood and MANHOOD.

I’m going to marry someone just like him

Just go on ahead and add him to the circle! Thank you sir!! I love this show already but he was truly a BONUS!!

"There's a difference between a grown male and a grown man "🤔 You'd better PREACH Dondre cause I don't think it's loud enough.

STRAIGHT FACTS, NO SUGAR COATING AND NO CHASER.

The fact that this is not already well-known speaks volumes to the state of the our current Society civilization

In service of vs being served. Preach Dondre!!! My husband is in service of me. He caters to me and he don't deny. As I am in service of him as well. Grown man and grown woman status. Love without conditions. Awesome.

WOW!!! That was deep!!! I don’t believe I’ve ever heard a MAN say those words ever

I have tears in my eyes, I miss my man. He treated me like a queen

There are a lot of grown lil girls running around but we never discuss this it’s always about a man. Focus on self first before entering any relationship

Speak that truth! Boundaries a must!! Come on grown Man!!!

Please write that book!! What a breath of fresh air!!!

I think this guy has been listening to Tony Gaskins. Either way he's speaking words of wisdom.

This is one of the best teachings on this subject I’ve heard! Especially as a mom of young men.

OMG this segment was so so so awesome. Please bring him back on the show

I say all the time, some men don't mature, they just get older. Hell, that statement could include women.

THIS is what a Grown Man Looks .. How a Grown Man Talks.. Proud to have heard THIS MAN say what he knows to be true and real !

Place boundaries I love it!! We are all responsible for our relationship.

Superb Transperency!!! Thank you! 💎

Dondre’s point is so profound and so simplistic at the same time...and while there is an arrested development with some men ...there is also a role reversal with some women...for example the way he spoke about his mother essentially raising him by herself...she was put in a position to be both father and mother...so I can understand why some women take on that authoritative role because for one reason or another the father is not there and you have to be everything to everyone

That was a great interview and definitely a teaching moment!

When black men speaking truth listen

Miss Quad is a living witness to the grown male, she has been delivered😭

This man is basically talking about leadership and love! As a man there is a service provided to his wife just as there is a service provided to a husband by a wife who is a grown woman. Love in its truest, genuine form is not self seeking but when people play house or live out life in their own self seeking manner, selfishness is at its highest form. Being involved with an individual who wishes to honor you and respect you, that person is going to render service to you by loving you in a true and genuine manner and when you're deserving you'll return that same form of love and neither husband or wife, woman or man is neglected or disrespected. When a man speaks of this love it's gonna come from a man's pov and vice versa, so him speaking on the service provided to a woman by a man isn't touching on the topic of submission from a woman/wife to a man/husband. That all depends on what you believe and what works for you and your spouse but in love in general there is a service rendered by both parties and love is equal on both sides even if shown/displayed differently!

The Difference Between A Gentleman and A Man. The Same As A Lady And A Woman. THERE IS LEVELS TO THIS LIFE YALL🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏

Every grown male needs to see this BEFORE entering a relationship. Periodt.

My GOD he betta preach.....He needs to go globally and teachhhhh. many men need this. luv it thank you brother.

I agree with my brother on this topic, but I do want to clarify a few things: 1. It is perfectly fine for a man to be served by his wife so long as he is caring for her and their children as the Bible has spelled out. 2. In addition to fathers leading the way and setting he example for their sons and daughters mothers have a great responsibility too. It is important that mothers show their daughters how to be young ladies with dignity, pride, and standards. Not to mention saving themselves until marriage. 3. Oftentimes it is preached that females should save themselves until marriage. I cannot remember the last time in my 24 years that I ever heard a man/woman tell a young man to preserve himself until he meets his wife. The importance is not stressed and that is a major reason why infidelity is commonly committed by men. Because fathers are not always present, and our mothers/grandmothers are raising out young men, I say to women, take the time to instill self worth, respect, virginity, etc into your sons rather than telling him he has to be a Man, the Man of the house, the provider etc. It is not my intention to point fingers, but rather to shed light on another side of things.

A grown Male looks to be served first while a grown man looks to serve. The man provides, protects, and wants to cater. The grown male sits back and wants to be taken care of... Be 45 and acting like 15...

I could listen to him forever, he needs to have his own show ☺ ♥

YASSSS HE BETTER TELL IT AND HE'S TELLING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!!! WE RAISE GIRLS TO BE WOMEN AND BOYS TO BE GROWN MALES NOT MEN!!!

I see he really is how he looks; secure, strong and wonderful!! Congrats to his family 💖💖💖💝💞

I had to watch this again! He is so on point! I can't wait 2 buy his book. THANK YOU FROM ALL US LADIES

He speaks so well it’s truly admirable!

Mother’s can’t teach a boy to be a man. I absolutely agree

A lot of grown males out here! Really grown boys. Like he said a part of them stays at the age they were damaged.

Everything he said was magnificent but "out of respect" is something so many don't understand. They attach their beliefs about insecurities to people who are simply being respectful of their spouse.

A man that can share his relationships and vulnerabilities I AM REALLY GOING TO LISTEN TO AND LEARN

Yes brother we need you. The men, out here realyyyyyy need you. Go bother, thank GOD for the wealth of wisdom he has given you. Thanks sister circle for having this positive message.

I love hearing enlighten men speak on their journeys! None of us will every be perfect but we must seek to be accountable to ourselves and those under our guidance.

I have so much respect for him for keeping it real he did a great job on the show

This was deep! I have to share this video!😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I love when syleana said. Hello somebody!!!!

amen brother u are a catch. can I say I amen again. nothing sexy than a man that knows his boundaries and having the courage to stand on his beliefs strong

That was a great segment. Thank you all

WOW! Circle of Sisters, Thank you for this eye opening interview that truly needs its own platform

Beautiful segment .Forever and always love y'all.

Factsssssssssssssssssssssss! You better PREACH...even to the Preachers 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯🎆🎆💯

Lord yes. I am praying for a grown man. Had a grown male for 23 yrs. almost killed me. God is so good. Thank you. Pls keep helping us 😉😉

I so needed to hear this, thank you, stay Bless & safe 🙏

Loved him since he was "Robert"!

This is truth!! Quad felt it too. I hope he speaks to the youth, great message!!

This is a conversation worth listening to. Keep it coming sister circle, you did that! Subscribed ❤️

I wish my dad felt that way when i was born

we need more of this. ❤this

I been in love with this man since the Cosby Show 😍 Robert 😍 and to see him as a father, husband and still in the acting game ❤👏👏😍 Peace and blessings 👑

Spot on indeed!! Ty DW, for representing. God speed on your mission ✊🏽

A powerful example of owning your actions and self reflection in order to make different choices... Thank you🙌🏾😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I just had to come back and say amen brother. please preach

EVERY woman and every MAN needs to view this! He dropped that knowledge HOT!

Wow, he was speaking some serious truth. I'm definitely buying his book for my grandsons.

He expressed every point with such clarity and power! Great job!

So in a nice/polite way he was saying that no woman can ever be the mother and the father. Simply well put. Hell they fail for it

Omg!! Hands down!! This was too good!! Basically what he was saying age don't make the man mind make the man.... Love it & him👏🏼✊👏🏼✊

This panel literally spoke into a situation in my life. I told my son's father just yesterday, I'm here to love and nurture and take care of our boys but I cannot make them men. I cannot make them hard that is not my job. I wanted him to also take into consideration his childhood. I'm definitely going to sit down with him to watch this again! Thank you so much!

I love this episode! so much respect! will play it over and over again

This is a great conversation. I wish they wouldn't interject so much though. They need to use non- verbal ways to show active listening. This is taking away from what the guest had to say.

Fantastic....Every Man out there needs to hear this....🤗🤗

He spoke facts and I truly enjoyed every second of it! Thanks for sharing!❤💯

Love this!!! He summed it up nicely!

The same goes for grown women versus grown females.

Awww man I loved this!!!!

Enjoyed this tremendously. Mr. Whitfiekd spoke the truth. When he described the difference btwn a grown man and a grown male, it confirmed what I'd learned sometime ago. Knowing the difference allows women to make better choices and find greater happiness. We don't have to settle. No one should. Thank you ladies of the Sister Circle.

This was awesome, real, transparent and necessary for many to hear. God bless Bro.Dondre and his beautiful wife wonderfully❤.

What a beautiful segment- I want us as a society to get to a place - we gotta hold ourselves accountable! With severe consequence when we don't! While I understand from a psychological behavioral perspective - i just hate to see someone use poor parenting as an excuse to be a liar, coward,theif or cheater.....it screams weakness and narcissistic

~ AMEN * EVERY MALE IS NOT A MAN AND EVERY MAN IS NOT A GENTLEMAN. * EVERY FEMALE IS NOT A WOMAN AND EVERY WOMAN IS NOT A LADY. * AS MY FATHER THOMAS S. JONES, SR. TOLD OUR FAMILY AND MYSELF

Best preaching I heard in a long long time up to you brother up to you and thank you for the information. This was really good I like this I would love to hear more

This was authentic and powerful! 💕💕💕

✋NUTHING BUT THE TRUTH💯💯💯💯💯

Love this and I also love that Quad wants all the info on how a man should be...because she wants to be a good woman for her husband but wants make sure she aint just trippin!!

This is so deep, I love it👏👏👏👏

My my, this conversation needs to be recieved by so many of our black men. Thanks for the informational and profounded message Dondre❤

All I can say is “amen”!

The shade of it ALL Quad know she wrong at 3:47...Y she had to sip HER ☕ after THAT statement 😄😄😄😂😂

Wow we all fell to the floor at the same time 😭😭 a man of integrity. Amen

They need to have him on more, loved this discussion.