Sister-In-Law DEMANDS I RESCHEUDLE my “STUPID WEDDING” so her PREGNANCY can have MORE ATTENTION 

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It was the mom, not the sister, that demanded they postpone the wedding. The sister demanded they get married at city hall. That tells me the sister is jealous because OP and her brother are going to have a more extravagant wedding than she did. That's what is at the bottom of it all.

Story 1. Sorry, SIL and MIL. NO DICE! You've KNOWN about our WEDDING for a YEAR AND A HALF! So if they don't go, it's no skin off op's back. Story 2. Ana should have thought about that BEFORE demanding the neighbour remove their fence. Story 3. Maybe BRATS MOM should attend PATENTING CLASSES. And the SON needs to go to trade school and take Independent Living Skills classes.

Story 1: your husband's sister can attend your wedding while still being pregnant

Story 1: No way is the OP a jerk here. Both the SIL and MIL are big jerks and drama queens here. It almost sounds like the SIL planned out this pregnancy so that the birth date of the child could be as close as possible to the OP's wedding. Its bad enough the SIL is the golden child of that side of the family.. but the OP and husband shouldnt have to change their wedding date, planned out well over a year in advance, just because the SIL is pregnant. If the SIL and MIL are going to continue to act this way, i say uninvite them. They are being unreasonable jerks here. Story 2: Yeah, the OP and other neighbours made the original mistake of not getting a professional surveyor here. That would've prevented almost all of this. Once you have those official lines, then you now exactly where and where not to build yor fence... and if Ana wants to whine and moan and threaten to sue, then just show up the official markings. Now as for Ana, what a great first impression by living "in the sticks" as opposed to the city. Not a good thing. As for the OP, he's not obligated to replace the fence if he doesn't want to and he most certainly is not responsible for Razzey. It really sounds like Ana needs to get better control of Razzey. Sounds like Razzey has some issues that Ana should be addressing. Hopefully the OP enjoys his new home. Story 3: OP is not a jerk here, the mother is, hands down. She is so over-bearing and coddles the son on pretty much anything and everything throughout his entire life. No wonder the kid is a lazy slob. The OP has tried to help him, but the son wouldn't help himself. Why should the OP have to motivate him at this point in his life... and especially with the ways things have been the last few years? While it is good the son is starting to wake up a bit here, he's still not in the clear yet. Hes going to have to show that he is serious and get out of his mom's shadow here. Story 4: Okay, this "friend" is just a complete moron and i'm really wondering why you are even entertaining this friend at all. Who really care if you are 5'3 or 5'6? OP needs to tell this friend to rack off here or need to re-evaluate this friendship. A good friend wouldn't keep bringing this up all the time. Story 5: Okay, the SIL needs to shut up here. The niece and nephew have every right in the world to both be angry at their dad here and to reject him and his new family. He 100% abandoned them and now has regret only because he has a new family, not because he's intrested in their well-being. I dont know what he was really expecting here. That decision is all on the niece and nephew, not the dad and definitely not the SIL. The brother and SIL are the ones who should be ashamed here. Story 6: OP isnt a jerk at all here, and im honestly surprised that she agreed to be the photographer for Tina's wedding to begin with. People really need to stop trying to "be the bigger person" here, when other people won't do the same. I also would've walked out as well. I wouldnt even give her any kind of refund either.... she barely deserves the pictures you already did take.

Noooooo do you stop trying to even explain that to your sister-in-law? It’s none of her business if she don’t come she don’t come. If your mother don’t come she don’t come let it go and make yourself happy. Enjoy.

The title is so long that when I got the notification for it, it said STUP instead of stupid

I feel the sister got pregnant just to mess with their wedding

For the first one You should be careful that your sister in law doesn't plan her baby shower at the same time of the wedding or idk if the baby would be born by then or what

How are evryone days old comment when it is released 10 mins ago are they members Well under 10 mins gang 👇

Im suprised that in the last story the sister got mad that all the reception photos had to be on a cellphone camera. When i went to a wedding i took tons of photos for the bride and the groom along with almost every person there with a cellphone camera and it wasnt bad at all.

Story 3. I hope dad here reads this. YOU ARE A GREAT DAD! A parent have to teach the children how do get by. Helping the kid with a resume is a good thing and then it is up to the kid. You are teaching the kid how to get a work. And trade school is just as good as a higher education any university. The kid understands that if he wants money he need a education for future work or a work right now. It is NOTHING wrong to begin work now or go to a trade school. You did your end of parenting. In the future the kid may ask for advice. A parent should give that advice and then it is up to the kid to do the rest! Good father!

narrarator isnt the hero we deserve, but hes the hero we need

On the last story that step sister is extra foul. It’s customary to have food for the photographer. It’s usually written into the contract. I would have kept the deposit and not gave them a damn thang.

Story 1: Not the jerk. I get that having a baby is a BIG milestone, but so is a wedding. NO ONE should bow to demands that a wedding ceremony should be postponed just to placate someone having a baby.

What an intro. Seems like they've already made the decision for you for you to sack 'em off...

Last story - who the hell doesn't treat your vendors like the much appreciated helpers they are (unless they really weren't helping that day.) We treated our photographer like gold on our wedding day and he has a seat at one of the tables with the other guests where he got to eat and join us like everyone else. The way I see it. If the photographer is having fun won't that be reflected in the photos? They were in our case anyway? I personally thanked every one there that helped to make our event special because they helped to keep things moving, fed everyone there and just plain kept everyone sane and happy the entire time we were there. Family or not that should be appreciated. Gratitude is something we need to teach a lot more of because it seems to be on life support these days.

Story 2: You never know what you have until it's gone

Deadbeat Dad story: If I were OP, I would have told SIL " You better stop because given his track record, your kids will be in the same position soon enough." That would shut her up forever.

When you have to worry about something as insignificant as height then you must really live a life with no worries

i dont even approve of weddings. i think they are a massive scam. and i dont think they would be the jerks for going through with the wedding. i think they are jerks for having some lavish extravagant destination wedding. but thats besides the point. even i can tell that the sister in law is trying to one up them for petty stupid reasons

Story 2: If you want a new fence so bad, build it yourself

OP 1If I was in your situation I'd just take their invintations back

SIL isn't demanding that the wedding be changed for the sake of wanting to attend. She is demanding the change because she wants OP and her fiancé to "donate" the money they were planning to use on the ceremony to her family for the baby. She's also scared that the lavish wedding that her brother is about to have will make hers look pale by comparison and in her eyes that's just not acceptable. So she wants the attention put back on her as well as the money. Mom shouldn't have taught her child to believe she's some silly princess. She did her child no favors by doing this. I can only imagine how miserable SIL's husband's life must be living with a woman like this and a MIL reinforcing this stupid belief. I truly hope for the entire family's sake that the child SIL is carrying is a boy.

in story one they are not the jerk

2:27 Hell no! Her husband's sister was a brat, but her mother went through a completely other level.

Story 6: If OP' step sister was using a whole professional crew taking pictures and videos that are not related to you, I would understand not planning catering for them. Having your own step sibling taking professional pictures and charging you less than market value as a wedding gift and treating them like that is unwarranted and shows a lack of standard and morals. Good on OP to walk away as soon as she understood that.

For the first story I wouldn’t be surprised if SIL got pregnant on purpose to pull this kinda stunt

1:35 womp womp for sil

Story 4: Might be an asshol, but funny things for me - I'm 185cm, (something 6'+) but when in a situantion someone clearly shorten than me tells they are 6'+ - saying "Oh I wish I was that tall, I'm only 5'8"...." the look on the faces is pure gold....

My dad has always been useless and my mother told me at 18 i was on my own 😅

Shadow of the colossus Respect.

If you want to be married in India that would be great I think the sister and the mom only care about is her pregnancy getting married in city hall is a red flag here that makes them the jerks plus I do see a trigger on the original poster of the story here they are the ones to blame

2:06 I would say good ok then dont come!

She 100% started sleeping around or having sex at every turn with her husband just to get pregnant on time to try and wiggle in between your wedding plans. Honestly, it sounds like they're doing you a favor by not attending lol. Uninvite the lot of them, watch them throw an even bigger fit, get married, go on your honeymoon, enjoy yourself. Your husband has been treated like shit for far too long, it's time you pushed him along and away from that toxicity.

Sister-in-law and Mother-in-law are toxic!

I recently posted on this Redit channel, I wonder if there will be a Video of it

Last story: OP should not only not refund the deposit, but flush the thumb drive of wedding photos down the toilet. The mom is stupid for taking Tina’s side in saying “Keep the peace”, aka “be a doormat”.

no one???

Watch the SIL suddenly miscarriage after y'all cancel the wedding

Who’s here under one hour??

This neighbour just want 9 inches of yards. When op took fence down. Then when op took fences down then want op didn’t new fence up. This just buly

Does anyone know what the game he is playing is called?

Congrats on the marriage tho

Ana did say that she would pay SOME OF IT but not all soo ok

Only two comments. Wow😮

What is the game called?

For the 2nd story, the narrator really needs to listen better. The neighbor did say that she was willing to pitch in for a new fence. But I do understand that either way another fence was out of the question.

Why does it say 3 days ago when this was posted seconds ago????

Story 2: Ana’s pettiness led to her being hoisted by her own petard. Story 3: The son is a lazy spoiled brat with a coddling mother. At least the son is slowly starting to realize that his mom sheltered him. The mother set up her son for failure and is blaming his father/the OP for trying to discipline him. Story 4: What is the friend’s deal? Why is she so hyperfixated about the OP being 5’6” instead of 5’3”? Story 5: Why is the sister-in-law still defending her deadbeat husband/the OP’s brother? Does she only care about her marriage and not her son and daughter?

Hey, is 5’8 a good hight for a male?

Lets see MIL FIL SIL AND HER HUSBAND NOT COMING WOOHOO LESS PEOPLE BOTHERING THEM IN ANOTHER C OUNTRY!

Your sister in law is just entitle and spoilt because the sister in law because she thinks her pregnancy is more In wedding. Now op trying to force het son changes te wedding. Op sister In wedding want her brother and sister in to get married in at city hall because this her wedding more fancy then her wedding. Then want free baby sitter

Forwarding me their original poster in story number two. He sounded like the entitled one. You stick to property lines you’re saying oh I had this arrangement left my old neighbor OK that neighbor doesn’t on the house anymore. And he’s basically saying well if I can’t have my fans where I want it, then you have to suffer. OK yes the neighbor asked him to take it down but they say oh well if I can’t have it on your property then boo-hoo on you. Know you stick to property lines dude.

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Srry I’m late

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No you are not the junk

Can you guys, like, stop playing the same podcasts Over and over again on Spotify?

Im early

First 6 seconds

wow third comment

Story 4:…. OP can just agree to be 5’6.. it’s a stupid argument

Does anyone know what the game he is playing is called?

Does anyone know what the game he is playing is called?