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can u do this method when they are wearing a sleep suit like the magic Merlin

Kayla Buell Thank you so much. We are on Day 3 and my baby girl slept for 10 hours last night! It’s like a whole new life. I’m a stay at home and I finally get time for myself. 🤩

Obviously I am thinking of doing this with my baby although it worked for my son, he was a calmer baby. I just wanted to let you know to be careful with the monitor right by her crib. They somehow get to the cord and pull the loose cord and can get it wrapped around their neck or arm. My son’s actually got pulled off the wall even though it was what i thought of as just out of reach. Luckily he was a toddler but still got a bump. It was the same monitor you have. Anyways I hope sleeping is great now!

Calm your child be there when they sleep let them feel comfortable n they feel secure when they see their parents around plz stop leaving your children alone this is so not right

Hi, Do you wake your baby up for feed like at least once during this sleep training? I started follow your sleep technique for my baby boy ( will be 6months old in 10 days) but started with Nap time first ( as I wasn't sure can do this for night) it took him 20 to 25mins to settle down each time, few wimp during night sleep, he slept from 7.30pm and around 1.45am I picked him up to change his nappy & nurse him & put him back to sleep. He was bit fussy while changing the nappy because he was so sleepy didn't even open his eye. After I fed him, put him back to his crib, he was bit fussy for 2 mins so I console him, soon he calm down & fall asleep. I am not sure should I or shouldn't I feed the baby if he doesn't wakes up in 6 hours, he was hungry when I wake him up for feed, shall I continue it until he is 9months old?

Marie K well u get the hours during the day!

Shazana Khan obviously you are not a mother..

When u cant deal with it, dont go pragnent. The Babys are number one and not the parents!

100% agree !!!

I don't have any kids, but I was one who was 5 or 6 when I got out of my parents' bed. When I have my daughter in a couple of weeks, lets say I'm going to try this method so we can sleep on her own. Lol

I need this! But he has been screaming 1 hour now and I am about to break... going from CO sleeping to crib in own room.

Same here!! Our 7 month old was waking up at least 4 times a night while co-sleeping, and I am SO GLAD I found this video. I had heard of sleep training but was afraid of it, I didn't want to do anything strict or put my baby in a lonely sad situation, but Oh My GOSH this has totally helped our entire family. We are on day 4 of our sleep training and I would recommend it to any parent struggling. Kayla, thank you for being brave and sharing your experience, it really inspires me to keep going.

How did you wean from feeding to sleep?

@@kaylahudson1284 I'm there too

My LO in now 10 months. He was sleeping through the nights for most night from 6-7 MTHS. At 8 months he kept waking up most nights, 9 out of 10, he just turn 10 MTHS and I have had enough of it. He eats 3 meals for the day. Have at least 3 bottles during the day, but every night about 3 he wakes up crying down the place and is hungry. He sleeps well throughout the day too, so not sure why he wakes at night. He doesnt sleep in our bed but he's in the same room. So I don't think it's separation anxiety. Someone please tell me if you have had this experience and what you did to remedy it.

Amen.

Theres only one study that says it temporarily raises cortisol, which happens everytime a baby cries. That's about it.

@@evalemur my mom sleep trained my brother and he would sleep 8 hours at 4 months. My mom never sleep trained me until 2 years old when my brother was born and they were forced to put me in my own room. I cried. Banged parents bedroom door. My mom only slept in intervals for those 2 years and was a stay at home mom and didnt have much pressure to train me for sleep. Eventually the time still had to come for her to let me cry it out. She had to be firm because she often would relent so the weeks would drag on. I even grew jealous of my baby brother. The time is going to come eventually where they are too afraid or cant handle being away from you or not having a bottle to sleep or not being soothed back to sleep by you.(I still slept with a bottle at night tho until I was 9 years old and a pacifier until I was 6. had tooth decay problems because of it) Best thing you can do for you baby is develop a healthy sleep habit. A few days of sleep training isnt going to harm your baby. the best thing you can do for both you and your baby is to teach them to self soothe before the cognitive and physical wheels start rolling, and you get a "mommy please!!!!!! I dont want to sleep alone!!! I love you mommy. Please!!!" It happened anyway for me, and it happened at the worst possible time. I still remember that place and when I transitioned. My brother on the other hand, of course doesnt remember, but never had abandonment issues and had a healthy relationship with family.

@@BrendaRodriguez-lv7li babies can't self soothe though

@@eminemilly my brother did. He only cried the first 2 days. And even when he woke up in the middle of the night he went back to sleep. When he was hungry at night hed cry and be fed, but he generally slept very well. Idk about self soothe, but theres a time where babies neurologically can handle sleeping through the night. I on the other hand, cried every 2 hours until I was 2 years old to be fed milk or for my mom to calm me down. Do you think my brother felt more stress in two days than I did in 2 years when i felt uncomfortable and couldnt handle being hungry for more than 2 hours? Where my sleep was constantly disrupted. Where my mothers sleep was also always disrupted, and found it hard to attain a job sleep deprived? Oh and look at that, even when my mother jumped to my every whim and spoiled me, I still have an extreme fear and anxiety of being rejected and neglected :/. Not my brother tho.

Good for you for staying so strong

Then just go and comfort her. No need to torture her and yourself.

@@Papayaguave as a mom of two expecting my third your advice is extremely harmful and rude, what you are advocating for is unsustainable for some families, so we have to do different methods for everyone in the families wellbeing, it’s a lie to tell people that it is “torturing “ your child if you let them cry. I would argue the opposite , it’s actually damaging to your child to make them dependent on you for longer than they need to be. Guess what I used to think like you and I breastfed my first for 3 1/2 years co slept until 4 and a half, he had a harder time transitioning to sleeping in his own bed , that I would argue as traumatic. Had I helped him do this when he was younger he would not have had all of the separation issues he had. I made my child DEPENDENT on me to where he couldn’t function on his own!!! That is NOT our job as parents, we need to help our children to stand on their own two feet. There is a balance to everything, but guilting someone by saying what their doing is “traumatic” is plain wrong and you need to get off the high horse!!

@@catholicwife children aren't mini adults and they depend on us because they need us, these needs can't be reduced to "milk/food and clean diaper" babies are human beings and they also need human contact, emotional conecction and the only way they can express their needs is through crying if you decide to ignore their crying you're literally ignoring their needs. Also there's plenty of scientific evidence about the negative impact on the baby's brain when you practice the cry it out method or interval crying, etc. I'm a mom too, I know how it feels being sleep deprived and I've thinked about CIO a looot of times, but honestly when I remember the negative impact on the baby I just can't do it. Babies only will be babies once, we should stop trying make them independant since birth, we have to accept that they need us and treat them with respect and that means hearing and attending their needs. Here's an article you can read about the negative impact on the brain www.sciencetimes.com/articles/24246/20191112/babies.htm

How’d it go??

Thanks so nuch for that. I'm feel so bad about trying this with my baby. But things have gotten so bad I recently had a car accident due to sleep deprivation

How old is your baby? I'm about to start with my 5 month old

Tiffany LD My LO was 8 months old when I started the sleep training with him x

I really want to do the same with my little one who is going to be 2. I feel a bit hopeless and don't know if I should even try. I am having a second child on the way so I want to get his sleep schedule down.

@@mssimmons4739 I’m not sure what it would be like with a nearly 2 year old. My LO is now 15 months and if I left him to cry he would scream the house down. It’s very different to when I sleep trained him but saying that when he would go through phases of waking up every night again I would reintroduce the sleep training pattern and it would work wonders. It may be worth a try if you really want to and just see how it goes. All the best of luck and I really hope it works for you! Let me know how you get on xx

My son won't calm down if I go in unless I pick him him up. We are at 30 minutes of non stop scream/crying and it's so sad. Last time we tried he was this over an hour before I finally just brought him back to bed with us. Help!

shinty mc what’s your baby’s age?

@@sharavisuals6292 he was 8 months when we sleep trained.

@@shintymc1491 7pm- 6.30am!!! that's amazing...My son is 8 months old now...he still wakes up 3 times/ night...

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Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

Jassamyn how did It go?0

Blackout curtains are an absolute game changer when it comes to sleep!

Hi Kyara, I use to have the same problem with my little girl, she was waking up crying in the night-time but after I put into practice the methods presented in this Parenting Cours tinyurl.com/syfb4jw8 she sleeps all night long and my and my wife can sleep to. I wish you all the best

i agree. i have a 2 month old and idk if i can do any of the sleep training methods honestly. ferber method is only an inch better than cry it out.

❤ exactly. We force independence onto our children and create trauma for them. I have no bond with my Mom because she did this to me and we never really got close. I'm doing the opposite with my baby girl now and taking all the advantage of her want and love for me because one day she wont need it.❤

@@tawneydacko592 is so great that you are not repeating your mom's way. You are amazing woman and mother to your baby girl! She is so lucky to have you!! 💗

Lol same !

me too

Me three haha

Please please dont take an example from this and do some research on why to not sleep train your baby

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

@@TheStigmawarriors Can you STOP posting this cr*p. Seriously, let parents do what they want. A sleep deprived parent is just as dangerous, look up the reasons why this is also positive and don't be ignorant. There is good and bad on everything these days.

Nairelis Real thank you! I’m so happy she did well too! I was so surprised lol thanks for watching! 💕

How is it going? I tried this tonight for the first day and it did not go well

I was doing this for naps and bedtime, bedtime was definitely harder so I decided I would only try naps first so I didn’t overwhelm him and it worked like a charm! Since we just got back from traveling I have to start the bedtime from scratch 😭

@@Lmnopqrstuvwxyz686 oh, that's great! Thanks for sharing and hopefully your baby jumps right back into the routine!

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

When I did this, she got either more aggravated or wouldn’t sleep & thought it was a game…

Did you end up getting good results? My daughter is the exact same way won’t go to sleep until 2-4 am which is why I’m up now and sleeps so late

chasity fredrickson no lol but eventually she ended up sleeping early on her own. I think her body couldnt take it anymore & one day she fell asleep at 7pm and didnt wake up til 8am and ever since i havent had a problem.

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

Am so sorry you are going through this..am in the exact same situation..doing it on my own..may I ask you how it went ? And which method u have used?

Stay strong 😘

sarah mustakim hi! How are you? I just want to ask if you decided to sleep train your baby? How was it? :)

Hello Lyka, yes. It went very well. Now she's 11 months and a wonderful sleeper

My baby just turned 4 months and i am planning to train her near the 5 month mark ! But since we dont have a seperate room for him i want to train him while room sharing!

HappilyEverBorbon ahhh yay!!! Love hearing that! Thanks so much for watching 😘😘

Damn right! Agree

@TheInkinJapan right ... when you have no escape at all - you take care of your (multiple) kids all day long with no days off - SAHMs are the only moms I know who have gotten PPD, it’s an all consuming life with no breaks from your kids. Most moms I know look at me and say “kudos to you but I could never do that.” Why would we need to sleep any less than a working mom? Like what the actual fuck? The SAHM vs working mom debate is worn out - were all moms. But thanks for completely belittling a whole set of extremely hard working and exhausted people. I love how running an in home daycare is considered a career but being a SAHM is “not working”. Baffling. Kindly fuck off 👍🏼

@TheInkinJapan so sahms don't need to sleep? Your comment is ridiculously stupid.

I so agree with you, im trying to sleep train too. Me and my husband are worn out, we try thr cio meth...couldnt stand it tho as he was crying 2h solid roaring so ill try this method today :D

@@TheStigmawarriors I didn't click through all the links bc the first one is misleading. It's talking about babies under 3 months that cry excessively (concluding there are probably some other type of issues involved, numerological ect). Not a child crying for 20 to 30 minutes for 4 or 5 days. STOP spreading bs information.

They need to be at least 6 months old, that's what I read.

13lbs and 4 months you can start

@@RepentOrBurn That's crazy. My 11 month old still wakes up and needs to nurse. She's breastfed on demand though.

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

How'd it go?

Omg this is my life! How are you now?

This is me with my 6 mo!!! Did you try this??? Lets us know

I'm on day 4 and still brakes my heart when she cries but everyday is less and less and the improvements are amazing. She now sleeps at night. We are currently working on her naps

melissa meliss Great! Use the same technique. Set a nap time and stick to it. I also found that, sitting in the room with my child. She doesn’t cry at all and goes to bed within 5 minutes.

@@CopelandDecorandmomof4 for how long was the training for your baby?.. Mine will turn 2 months old in 3 days. Like I said her improvement is amazing for how little she is but sometimes I feel guilty because she is so little. I also feel it'll be worse to stop the training now as there is mayor improvement.

melissa meliss My baby is 1 years old so she knew I was in the room. It took her 1 night to understand what was going on. I never did it early due to nursing. My baby was still eating every two weeks. When she was 2 months. I ordered a baby sleeper. Wrap her up and she will feel as if she is still in your stomach.

melissa meliss you’re sleep training your baby at not even 2 months old?!?!

Self Made Millennial yesss! So far it’s been so great! Thanks for watching! 💕💕

Please dont!!! There are so many other ways to train them!! Don't let your baby cry :( please!!! Check out takincarababies on IG! She has a cry free similar option!

Nikola Kosterman of course! I loved watching these videos as I prepared to do it myself, so i figured it might help. If you get stuck at all or just need a little support, let me know! I’d love an update once you get started! Sending good vibes your way mama 💕💕

How did it go???

This helped me a lot because cry it out method is not okay to me. I'm cosleeping exactly the same as you and I'm going to try all this. Thank you!

Did it ever get better for you? Anything you wish you would have went back and told yourself?

Today is day 4 for us. My son has been sleeping really good! First night was horrible but I did not give in. Today it took him 14 min to fall asleep on his own for his nap! :) try it out.. you are doing baby a favor and yourself too. My son was waking me every hour, he just wanted to fall asleep on me, I couldn't even lay down cause that pissed him off. He wanted me to sit down while he slept. I got a super bad headache it lasted 2 days. My entire body ached, I felt nauseous. This is why I did ferber method.

@@JC-mp1nv This is exactly what was happening with me. My daughter is 7 moths old and she was nursing all night long and not even allowed me lie down. I feel sick, all my body is sore .Today is our second day and I have a lot of hopes..... God bless all the parents 💖

@@patriciatorres3030 hi! Do not give up. Its been 4 months since I commented on here. And my son sleeps through the night! I sleep so much better too and he does too :) just stay consistent and it will work.

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

Dont do this shit! Please...its bullshit!

How did you get your first baby to outgrow the need to rock to sleep?

The babys learn it when the brain its ready for it. Get informations online and dont do this shit.

Mine too. Omg he is 8 months old. And as soon as he gets into the crib he is screeeeaaaaaaming with tears 😢

She knows if she screams, you’ll come pick her up... Don’t pick her up. It’ll be hard at first but worth it at the end.

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/

@@TheStigmawarriors Wow! Thanks for the information

My baby did this for 5 days but I trained her so now I just read her a book while shes laying down until she falls asleep. She just listens and falls asleep even laughing in her sleep sometimes. Sometimes I do shadow puppets by turning on my phone flashlight and she smiles at the show. I used to have to wake up every 2 hours to feed her. I'd wake up 5 times a night. Wash bottles, sometimes change a few diapers, eat, and try and go back to sleep. I was easily agitated, to the point where at the end of the day, at my wits end I couldn't even watch my baby anymore, I had to calm myself down. I'm sleeping much better now and so is my baby thank god

Comfort is a need :(

@@shellyh5186 of course comfort is a need also by daughter and son are completely fine and sleep through the night they get all the cuddles and comfort during the day and before bed

What did you do? Trying to sleep train my 6 month old(starting tonight) to sleep in her own crib and I'm at a loss. Wanting something that doesnt involve so many tears.

Charisma Cogburn Responsive settling! I have always tried first to settle her without picking her up (bum pats, sshhing, stroking her face). That way she’s not falling asleep in our arms and then waking up somewhere else alone and confused. Introducing a little muslin lovey really helped. Plus once she started rolling and sleeping on her tummy, she slept deeper! We follow the same bed time routine every night and use white noise all night! Also an earlier bed time really helped us. She goes to bed at 630-7pm.

Every child is different. What works for one may not work for another. Be careful before judging another mom... especially if you only have one kid!

Same.

Same here ! Have coslept, met her every need from day one. Both my girls sleep the whole night. ( A 3 year old and a 15 week old )

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Me too

me too How did it go?

Updates?

@@citlalliyepez5379 she stopped it at 19 months :) I was 14 weeks pregnant and she stopped breastfeeding and also started sleeping through from 19-7am. Still sleeps with us tho :D

Here are the links, figure I'll post anyway so you or someone else may be able to benefit from them! Why not to sleep train/CIO Links on crying Long term cognitive development in children with prolonged crying adc.bmj.com/content/89/11/989 Effects of crying on cerebral blood volume and cytochrome aa3. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2831328 Infant crying: nature, physiologic consequences, and select interventions. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11923998 Maternal behavior as a regulator of polyamine biosynthesis in brain and heart of the developing rat pup science.sciencemag.org/content/199/4327/445 The Neurodevelopmental Impact of Violence in Childhood childtrauma.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Neurodevel_Impact_Perry.pdf The experience-dependent maturation of a regulatory system in the orbital prefrontal cortex and the origin of developmental psychopathology journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=4495696&fileId=S0954579400006970 Selective depression of serum growth hormone during maternal deprivation in rat pups science.sciencemag.org/content/201/4360/1034.short THE EFFECTS OF EARLY RELATIONAL TRAUMA ON RIGHT BRAIN DEVELOPMENT, AFFECT REGULATION, AND INFANT MENTAL HEALTH citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.130.917&rep=rep1&type=pdf Children with serious illness: Behavioral correlates of separation and isolation link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00705865 The Mother-Infant Interaction as a Regulator of Infant Physiology and Behavior link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4684-4565-7_4 Control of sleep-wake states in the infant rat by features of the mother-infant relationship onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/dev.420150307/abstract Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/109/6/1054.short The Effect of Excessive Crying on the Development of Emotion Regulation onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1207/S15327078IN0302_2/abstract Transition to Child Care: Associations With Infant-Mother Attachment, Infant Negative Emotion, and Cortisol Elevations onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-8624.2004.00698.x/abstract Effects of early stress on brain structure and function: Implications for understanding the relationship between child maltreatment and depression journals.cambridge.org/action/displayAbstract?fromPage=online&aid=82068&fileId=S0954579401003030 The neurobiological consequences of early stress and childhood maltreatment www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763403000071_ Disorders of attachment in infancy psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1997-07339-004 Asynchrony of mother-infant hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21945361 Nighttime maternal responsiveness and infant attachment at one year www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3422632/ www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201407/parents-misled-cry-it-out-sleep-training-reports%3Famp grubbymummyblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/13/accepting-the-reality-of-infant-and-toddler-sleep/ www.drmomma.org/2010/09/why-african-babies-dont-cry.html?m=1 www.gentleparenting.co.uk/kc/controlled-crying-history-evidence/ m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1252517954880460&id=693504594115135&ref=m_notif&notif_t=group_comment_mention&_rdr www.phillyvoice.com/screaming-sleep/ evolutionaryparenting.com/its-just-a-little-cortisol-why-rises-in-cortisol-matter-to-infant-development/ evolutionaryparenting.com/controlled-crying-cortisol-and-attachment-a-critical-look/ evolutionaryparenting.com/a-not-so-blind-review-of-the-recent-cio-research/ nymag.com/scienceofus/2017/06/microbiome-trauma-gut-bacteria.html? vimeo.com/88343229 www.google.co.uk/amp/s/neuroanthropology.net/2008/12/21/cosleeping-and-biological-imperatives-why-human-babies-do-not-and-should-not-sleep-alone/amp/