So you broke up.... Now WHAT??! 

When Lydia said "I'm never afraid of being alone but, I'm always afraid of being ALONE with someone." Uuwiiiiiii I felt that in my soul💯

Me I used to cry every Friday evening when everyone is being given a weekend plot by their bf and Me going home with chicken and a bottle of wine😅.But during workdays ,no crying plz ,you gotta keep your job my friend, remember you the one paying the bills bcoz he is no longer with you💪. Much love from Rwanda 🇷🇼 ❤

Around this time last year my heart got broken....he just called me after an year of dating and told me I deserve better. I was broken....I had seen a future with him. Looking back, he did me a huge favor...I started my looking inwards journey. I actually followed most of your do's and dont's so I strongly co-endorse the message. They work! I recently discovered TMI and I'm in love. Good job ladies!

Short story, a friend of mine offended me, he apologized, I wanted to dismiss him and tell him not to worry about it, but I remember you ladies telling me my feelings are valid, I fully accepted the apology and it felt good, the lessons av learned so far, you ladies are truly a blessing❤️❤️❤️

I admire how Lidya expresses her thoughts

for me I cried daily for a month. then told myself girl...your life has to move on please. I took 2 short courses for 2 months and let me tell you it was worth it. I gained 2 additional certificates. that's how I managed to do get over him. let me tell you it helps. I had to distract myself and it was with something am passionate about.

Waw.. But ladies you didn't touch on being friends with your ex.that's the biggest clowning to do immediately after a break up. Love you guys 💕💕

Yhooo. It's important to let yourself feel the pain, man. No matter how hard or how long you try to suppress it, it WILL manifest somewhere, somehow, and most times, it won't be pretty. Go through it. FEEL IT! 💯 agree.

Heeey, I'm always forcing my uni friends to watch these ik I nag them but it is what it is but the quality on information we learn is a lot to even use for us young people in the future. Never let anyone take you for granted. Love the show lots 💕

discovered this podcast today, am watching it like a series.....wow!! you guys are amazing

Appreciate the fact that; "When hearts break, they don't break even" When Lydia said that👆 I felt it!

For me I went for therapy. Best decision I made. I healed and I'm happily single.

Hi Murugi and Lydia thank you so much for changing my angles on men, from boundaries to even letting go and helping me grow better as a woman...bless up🙏

TMI Are definitely shareholders of my time.❤️❤️❤️❤️ I am watching the full episode

Lol the amount of edges that have been destroyed in the production of this podcast- all are D for Dooonee. 😂😂 love this 💕

Wueh I am just now realizing it's almost a year since that mess of a relationship. I went to therapy for six months. It's true hearts don't break even. Men deserve nothing. Only hell and wickedness. Now I can laugh but for a minute I thought my heart had a hole 😂😂😂 I was just asking God how I could love someone like that like why did I attract such trash. He was such a mean,hurtful man. Like what is it in me that attracted such nonsense. Therapy helps honestly. My ex taught me that men hate women.

Nairobi will give you some character development. It’s harsh out there.

I am GIGGLING so much omg, chiiiiiile. What's wrong with men please. Posting funtimes when they KNOW it will restrict your breathing pathways 😭😭😭nThey hate us, they want to kill us smh

I died when Lydia said, "The third day you are eating ugali and water because you have given up on life." 😂😂😂

Heartbreaks are so sad for sure the moments of feeling unworthy are the worst but the keep going,stay strong and better yourself is what helps us move everyday.

I'm in love with all your shows 😍😍😍I never get tired listening to them and I'm glad I found you early enough coz I'm really being educated here 🤗🤗🤗Thank you ❤️❤️

Lets play a game called "WHO IS LYDIA'S EX???" 😁😁

I know keeping yourself busy with work or a routine goes a long way to get yourself distracted. That way you don't think about them too much 😌😌

I would suggest you prioritize yourself always, take care of your mind, your money, and your body always regardless of relationship status, then breakups just become transitions along with life.

Idris Elba was just chilling! Now he has lost followers! 🤣🤣🤣 It's definitely TMI!

The comment on "remembering that one time you cuddled in February 2007" honestly killed me😂😂

I am also like Lydia.. Once I'm done with you I am just Done! No going back because by the time I'm making that decision to quit the relationship, I have really thought about it and I know it's for my own Good so once I'm done with you, It's D for Done Guys!!

wow...this episode is the one!! 14:20 called me out direct and I heard that. This podcast is fixing nations for real

... when heart's break, they DON'T BREAK EVEN!!!!!!!🙉😭😭😭💃🏼,WISDOM LYDIAA🙉🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼, WISDOM

I ffeol like (insert Lydia's voice) we need an episode whereby Lydia narrates to us her dating life coz it seems like she has been through a lot...

I came to realize that the reason why my situation the breakup was not even was because it was a one sided love....i agree that blocking them everywhere was very helpful for me.

TRUE LYDIA..WEEH HE MOVED ON IN LESS THAN A WEEK. I was so torn yooh.. like what.. how the hell. worst case is when your common friends send you screenshots of his posts. never felt so messed out. 4 months later I was 80% healed nigga started mourning.. he used to video call me using different numbers crying like a little baby i was like.. okay its now your turn you can get a hold of yourself

I feel your dilemma dear, don't confront him. Just move on.

yes there is like 2 sharon mwangi's......there is sharonkmwangi huyo mwenye u just said then there is the other lady who acts with kina Seth Gor who is sharon mwangi

Am that person who moves so fast after a breakup am like kusonga nikusonga kaa injili

We do suffer after a break up but on that note let me point out something important. The Victim Mentality. Most people in a relationship always know or have a hint when something is not right. So in most times a break up don't just happen out of the blue,, it's usually a slow fade. So I think it's high time after a break up we stop playing the victim. It's okay to cry that one day, but after that move on. Closure is overrated. Move on, especially for people with kids, your mental health will directly affect your kids both mentally and physically.

niko locked..why go to school na wisdom iko huku kwa streets hehehe ...nawapenda sana

love it! serious ga,e huku. simu zibaki on the table.

I reaaaaaallly love you girls❤❤❤we're healing its a process

this is so me 😂😂i will unfollow , unlike,block then sell or burn your gifts especially clothes 😂😂

My former lover told the parents 2years after our break-up. It was just dramatic how his dad kept calling my mum in those two years

Currently going through a heavy HEAVY break up and this will really help me 😊

".....never afraid of being alone....afraid of being lonely while in a r/ship. ....."

Yoh! Lydia can be really funny sometimes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

Haaaa! I got Angel Lately right! Wooohooo!

I got the jaytakeapic question..you should have seen me get so excited...wuhhhuuu

You guys👌🏿😋 Is season 2 coming soon next year? Fan host on the pod 👉🏿🥺👈🏿 Haha, the dilemma today is so funny. And I honestly don't understand why we as women do this. He's shown you he's not about you before (surely cheating in the first year of marriage?), Then you go ahead and get the confirmation directly that he regrets the whole thing. Unless your confrontation is about separation, it won't amount to change. Most times we expect men who've shown us they don't care about us to have remorse and empathy and suddenly change, but 99/100 times that never happens. Khloe and Tristan?? And Lydia just said this, closure won't matter. It's not even about you. So I'd say just sit on the info, and because it will definitely happen again, one day your soul will tire from all the disrespect, then your spirit will give you courage to walk away. All the best sis ✨

iyo dilemma ni intense hehehe ...nacheka tu pekee yangu kwa barabara aki watu wanadhani hii jua inafanya nachizi...amazing episode munanimaliza

The love I have for these two. You make me happy 😘😘😘

😂😂😂the dilemma today was so funny ..am like "huuh?! Sis...It would be such a horrific funny conversation for the man😂😂😂

Can she tell her husband to send her money (the impersonator) but sasa jina ya mpesa itatoka jina ya nani?

It's about to go down 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Lydia!! Why are you shouting? 😂😂😂😢😢

Love this, I wish you could do more episodes in a week

Edges , edges, edges, edges

I have been waiting for this episode!!

never seen Lydia so passionate about a topic before

🤣🤣🤣TMI talk weuh😭.. Investing financially for your pain

Wow u are changing our way of seeing things, keep going

I totally enjoy your segments🙌🏾

Jo I was literally screaming Angel!!!

Please delete the pictures and videos you have with your ex they are not even that cute 😒😅

Murugi please stop talking about Lydia’s edges. Same way you don’t want her mentioning your kids.

I got it right,,,I guessed Sharon k Mwangi😂

I guessed Sharon right 💃

Gosh, the excitement!!

This was a fun video ladies😊

Well to be quite fair Murugi needs to stop commenting on Lydias edges. It should also not be something to constantly be made fun about and it makes the audience focus on something about Lydia that does not really matter. Just saying.

Heh Pastor Lidya...and we all said Amen!!

Spotting a bump on Lydia?😉😉😉🤓🤓🤓

Joan is so funny 😂😍

Yes, i am also team.. unfollow and blocking.

Loving your content

A break up with also family heh.... please talk about it!

This influencer game cracked me up 😂😂

Lydia is so baaaad at this games 😂i always know she will loose even beforr they start 😂

Not wood 🪵…. ALAAR ! 😅😅😅😅

🏃🏃🏃🏃I have been holding on to a man for 6months yaani since July 3rd .. let me now move on

Lydia's Hairline are tired 😩😪😫😴

Can we also stop talking about mukemis edges😂😂😂😂 love from Nigeria

Into fashion I guessed Brian babu and Jaytake a pic

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This episode was such a trigger for me.

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Honestly I don't like the way Murugi keeps talking about Lydia's Edges. She needs to puts boundaries with you too

#triggered

Free therapy!💹💹Thankyou both

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