Some Rough Advice for the "Real World" 

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Well, you should get use to the idea at some point of your life, you're going to hate your life. And that's where the challenge comes from. Is figuring out how to not hate your life at the point. It's why elderly people 60, 70, even 80 and 90 year old's ask young ones what they want to do with their life. They're gathering ideas still.

Growing up to be "Happy" worked for John Lennon, right?!

Ignore the person who said you are gonna hate life. There are going to be points where you will, but those are more transitory bits to get to the good stuff 😁

Tom Kelly Uh... no? He got shot?

just to let you know that the sentence hit me too

There are many pads you can go by but in the long run there's still time to change the road you're on

I think the biggest mistake people make is blindly following or completely ignoring their gut. We're more evolved, but we're all still base creatures who won't handle constant instinctual upset, nor should we, and it's also not our instincts that tell us how to get to what feels instinctively better. If you don't feel good, summarize what things happened and how they made you feel before critically analyzing why you think they made you feel that way, and running experiments to test. And just like any science, you need raw data with unpolluted factors. I can spend hours half-reading a book and half-listening to music without realizing I'm not fully appreciating either or feeling confident or enjoying life, and when I just face some potentially harder facts than "I kinda did stuff for a while and it kinda wasn't good" I usually come around to making my life a little better

As someone who is working on changing paths again, I am happy I heard that

I'm changing from graphic design to nursing right now and that's good to listen to. Get anxious thinking 4 years of study I need to have, searching for job in another career path older, being away from my gf working full time and studying.

Pretty much. And it's like society thinks they know what's best for us when in reality only we know that answer.

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Ever heard about ants?

Some don't even try not to die. They just try to make it to the mating point and self-destruct after.

this!!!!

Ouch.

@@bizzyg5751 It doesn't have to be too bad. All this really means is that you can bend the world to your own dreams as well

@@_xddd_ How?

@@PuertoRicanGrinderX By gathering people or joining communities and then enacting change.

@@PuertoRicanGrinderX getting a footjob at applebees

Mitchell Hutchinson true, he wouldn't have had the power and influence he had if it weren't for the people who supported him

I did a screenshot on this , thanks

@Mr Flowers Well, it isn't easy to see our own shortcomings since we don't even know clearly about ourselves even though we know ourselves best. Changing direction could be simply stopping what we are doing for awhile, and starting to go the path that focuses about our well-being and our own problems, before getting back to the track.

@Mr Flowers short comings are always defined by the people around you ,"you don't get out much" leads to "i don't get out much" not the other way around and maybe it is bad to stay at home instead of going out but it depends on you ,if you are told that then it's a short coming and changing that won't change the inner mechanics but whrn you realize that through smth that changes everything and that matters and that's what he means when he says "change the direction" also I don't like the way you phrased your opinion man.

@@vunguyent9696 I agree man but i don't think we know ourselves the best ,i feel we know when we are being real and that's how we know by contrast when we are not being ourselves (which is changing every second),sometimes i feel a personality is like an art piece or an electron .you can't really tell exactly what it's true interpretation is because it changes with every turn but you van have some vauge idea that's barley enough to act as a reference point

This is prob only thing that was discussed that I do always feel I have down pat. I do always feel like I know what I want to eat. edit: changed 'u' to 'was'.

That sounds like something that a socialist would say "Freedom is awful".

@@saynotohookups what? .... Wait what?

@@saynotohookups It's almost like taking statements out of context completely changes their meaning or something. It was a hyperbolic joke, not a philosophical claim.

@@pendlera2959 eh it sounds immature. Alot of us like the freedom of being able to choose what we eat. It's honestly hard for me to understand the mindset of someone who wants their food to be chosen for them. Its like your subconsciously longing for tyranny

U get high for a living? Dope

@@Naturalgainz I do 🤣

Be careful and don't look at the statistics. If you feel like something's off, call in sick.

@@Adhanks91 hahahah I've actually worked in several roles managing industry safety so I get weekly emails updating me on industry fatalities.

If you love it keep doing it. There's not many jobs people love.

You got it!

@@KB-ur4nk Thank you ☺

You’ve totally got this, and hey, if what you decide to follow doesn’t end up suiting your lifestyle and interests, there’s nothing preventing you from pursuing something else. I wish you the best, and good luck!

I hope you doing well

Good luck!

He is so lucky

@@senacelik3098 Well, he said that he worked hard. Not that being a doctor was thrown in front of him because he's lucky.

@@ok9908 he is lucky for he knew what he wanted. I didnt say he didnt work hard

@@ok9908 If he had someone to support him in study(parents) he is still lucky as hell... In my country if you don't have a degree you can only work in shit factory.

Family support is very important. In big families older siblings are bossy and bullies. The younger ones dont get attention. So its diffcult to grow.

"*Enjoying work* has more to do with the people...." You can do work without good people or a good attitude, but you'll get burned out.

Kim Drennon That's not what he said.

kidego3kgt whether it's verbatim or not, that's what he meant

John says that all the time..... Like in his video about ' what to do when you grow up' ......

Put it on a t-shirt and say it again for the people in the back!

I looked for this video, and your comment gave me hope.

So do you feel it's worth it ? Does your end goal satisfies what you imagined it would be ?

So what will you do?

How will you get out of this situation

Same here. But the job pays well so can’t complain.

I’m 25 too, feeling lost and confused. I’m with you on just wanting to be happy, even if I can’t see how it’ll happen. Virtual hugs.

Same here at 23. Haven't accomplished anything and failed 2 career/ business ventures. Plus I haven't gotten laid in 3 years. @@bobthebuilderday6leader

Same bro

Settle for content, it has a longer high.

You are rare, to me at least, since i never cared about my happiness. For 7 years all i did was to be depressed in a corner, work from 9-to-5 living under my parents roof. It only came to the point where the pain was overbearing the fear of changing, and then i joined college. Currently in college, trying to be an artist.

Agreed, same scenario but still in school

Same, just graduated from college and slowly gaining that motivation to be happy back.

Yo don’t do it for them. Do it for your life.

Early career engineer here (about three years in industry). If I really spelled out my opinions on the topic, it would produce a wall of text long enough to be a paper, so I'll keep it relatively brief. For what it's worth, and I realise that I'm about to say something incredibly heretical as an asian child, the mental bandwidth you can spare on worrying about things is a precious commodity, and your parents' expectations for you are not worth wasting it on. It's hard enough living up to your own standards for yourself, their disapproval is just self righteous pratter that they didn't earn. But more importantly, being on the other side of the process of going through college and getting a job, I can say that in my opinion it is _so_ much nicer on this side. Suffice to say I would not relish the thought of doing it again. I recognize that you're going through something damn tough, and that there's one more additional barrier ahead of you (getting your first job - it feels demeaning, and if you have any connections then that really helps fast track a truly brutal process, so I'd advise trying to form some). But again, the suffering is not eternal. Once you have relevant experience, you have leverage, and can then roll the dice in your own favor. No longer is your entire future a hostage of _that_ paper, or _that_ professor, or even _that_ boss. The win is there. Keep faith in yourself.

Yeah, I'm 22, dropped out of my degree and haven't found that. I'm starting to think I could find passion in drawing or learning an instrument but I've thought that before and lost it again. It's alright though

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would recommend looking up ikigai

I'm lucky getting this now that I'm 18 and seeing this.

​@@EddisdeddI'm about to turn 21 in slightly over a month? Do I have a good headstart?

@@cataclysmicclasher3490 yeah, I'm 23 and this hit me too lol, you're fine. I wish I saw this when I started college (at 19)

Maybe it's good that I watched this at 18 then

Thank you

And here comes my luck, born in the 0.0001% that wanted fellow humans to be honest and sincere and actually has mood swings depending on how nice the human race is, why even bother to live if the others humans suck? I don't care for my life , I'm tired of pretending that humans can't break beyond repair, I'm one of them, I was too empathetic and foolish as a child and look where it got me, a faster death which doesn't matter, the dissapointment and suffering is 100 times worse than any death imaginable, if you told me before I was born that I had to choose between a butterfly and a human? I would choose a butterfly, even if the life is short I can engrain myself in someones memory as a beautiful thing and live many lifetimes in their head, as a human it's impossible to do that because they don't view me as that, they view me as a fucking transaction.

@@coreo6688 You are a thinker in a society of instinctual behavior. People's base behavior is survival, and in this format of western, specifically business based society - the 99 percent has to look out for their own agendas. I also was disappointed in my fellow travelers. But not anymore - they will have to awaken on their own time, or not - that is their path. But for you. Don't allow anyone or any group of people - to dictate your destiny or core mindset. Keep growing. Keep striving to be the best you. Don't allow your own thoughts to swipe out your own existence. We actually need more people like you. Now go forth, in all your beliefs - and prove to me - that I am not mistaken in mine.

Soooo true

I got that!

Same

I work with toxic people so burnout

No it has to do with can I live comfortably without being in existential and financial crisis every month while barely making ends meet month to month with an ever increasing cost of living and a wage that might get a doller increase if I'm lucky while being overloaded with an expanding list of demands and expectations.

Literally almost same, I am 23, got fired from a job 2 weeks ago after a break down, was working 50-60 hour weeks, and now I am sitting in my room everyday not sure what to do, and I am thankful I found this video, and your comment.

funny, im also 24, named Jacob, making 13 an hour, and was recommended this video. small world

I'm 24 and jobless 😔

I am 23 had job i loved,and then I got a new boss that didn't like me. So the first i did wrong he fired me.

*I FEEL THIS.... WORK IS UNWILLING TO WORK WITH YOU.* Why don't we come together and fight for higher wages? If someone quits and you have to pick up their work......... Logic would dictate that you should get part of their salary. Not 100% of it but at least 25% NO ONE BATS THEIR EYE AT THAT! WHY ISN'T THIS IN CONGRESS? WHY ARE THERE NOT PROTESTS AND RIGHTS ABOUT PEOPLE BEING OVERWORKED? YOU ALL DO IT TO YOURSELF! I'VE GOTTEN FIRED FROM MULTIPLE JOBS FOR STANDING UP FOR OTHER PEOPLE. HOWEVER, I MADE SURE BEFORE I GOT FIRED TO MAKE SURE THAT THE COMPANY WAS INCAPABLE OF INFRINGING ON THAT PERSON'S RIGHT AGAIN. I WAS/AM WILLING TO PUT A TARGET ON MY BACK TO MAKE SURE THAT COMPANIES DO THE RIGHT THING.

Spot you in the darndest places, hah.

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Eye spy The8BitDrummer! Hello 👋

Holy crud, it’s the drummer man.

Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .

The rich Invest in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...

I thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.

Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Kate Elizabeth Amdall, I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000

INTERESTED! can u share more details?

Ashley Deaton that's awesome! Good for you!!!

Ashley Deaton 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Ashley Deaton YAY YOU! That's awesome my friend!

Congrats!!

Good job!!

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School is not always a gateway to a job. Here am I sitting with a bunch of diplomas and I cannot get a job D:

rockyroo10 eh. I mean if you really want to spend 50,000 to learn what you could online anyways then more power to you. College is 80% degree

I dunno Nicole, to me that just says "I can fill my head with a bunch of other people's ideas and pass them off as my own".

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Great message though and I am working on changing my path in a way that still allows me to pay the bills. I hope it works out!

They aren't lucky, we're unlucky (though we are also doing it to ourselves)

Maybe other animals did choose a path and they choose the right one, we choose poorly and made things way to complicated for ourselves....

No, we are lucky, we have choices and that's awesome even if it's scary.

S'what we get for eating from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil.

ahuh. it's great not being forced to choose extinction and the destruction of habitat, living at the mercy of human economic activity. no choice at all. yeah... even the thinking is infused with myopia and laziness.

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Some people also just seem to be okay with doing something they don't love. Like... they're gonna be content with just being mildy interested in their chosen field, while I would be miserable.

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a_marie08 no you are not alone. I Will be starting my 3rd year of college. no idea what I'm doing.

I live paycheck to paycheck and I'm looking to have all that changed this year, as I want to have money work for me instead. Will you be kind to share your process?

Well, I've gotten into a plethora of assets with $73k spread across stocks (options and futures) for the short term and Roth IRA, index funds, and ETFs, for the long term. I've been investing with help from a pro fund manager, Herman W Jonas who oversees my investments. Now I sit back and reap my dividends while I just reinvest from time to time.

Do not forget that prices can be erratic, rising and declining quickly, often in relation to companies' policies, which individual investors do not influence.

I tried getting into stocks myself some time last month and lost a ton of money as I was ill-advised. Can you please direct me to him as I’d like to hear from an expert?

Your assistance was helpful. I was able to have a conversation with him via mail. What's even better is that he's certified with a registered broker. I'm getting started right away!

Hello Professor! Is it normal to feel left behind and sad during my college years? because I'm not enjoying college it feels like im learning nothing and i felt that I'm just only wasting my time studying in college.

Same 11 years here too, 3 jobs and a masters in between, still haven't found.

i hope it gets better for you🖤

its 14years ago now

Hi, everyone i''m going to graduate after a year thinking about it I feel like I'm running out of time and haven't studied much that i get a job. I'm afraid how can i get a job. I'm afraid. I'm so lost

@@sanchitatamang7385 How are you doing?

M Clarke reminded me of my public bus driver who has a masters in theology but gets paid 3x driving the bus

M Clarke I feel the stress when my brother shames me about being a Health Science Undergrad qualified Domestic Cleaner. Thank God for Hank and John being the brothers I wish I'd had!

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That sucks. The worst advice anyone ever gives someone entering university is to just study what they like or love. No, study what will get you comfortably and do what you love in your free time, unless you are good enough to reliably monetize it.

Also here after his latest video? :(

@@timt2708 yep

I hope you are doing better! If not, i recommend reading Nietzsche and taking long walks.

I know it's been a while but I hope you're doing better! You're not alone

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God told me to reply to this comment - since you need to do something - which I don't know about. well! Best of Luck I guess

Sounds boring to me.

What is your job?

Not really it’s reality and you can fuckin enjoy it and not have to prove your worth by attaining some type of idealism portrayed by society. You obviously did not see the video or your not an adult.

Natalie Rodgers - I was literally about to say the same thing.

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That’s okay, just take a different path/direction as explained by Hank.

I feel this entirely. I want a skill that makes me feel like I'm worth a damn but that'll only lead to a bitter end. Despite that it's hard to shake at feeling off.

You allowed me to put my life in a different perspective.

Ur still very young. You'll figure it out.

I wanna be like Walter White but without the terminal illness

Just wait until your 30...

@@gadflyofhumanity_6847 it's been 4 years and you're commenting this? wow never knew you cared..

@@richardobugsy6189 wtf

Hi how are you

@@singhbhai Hi whatsup?

Feeling useless is exactly what the 1% want us to feel.

Same…

i searched 'what to do if you are just dumb' haha

I searched up: why don't I understand anything..

youre not useless

omg i repeated this moment of the video more than 10 times because i really needed to hear this but i am still not sure and i think i will never be sure. i just need to ask u, did this advice work for u?? i know it's been only a month sice your comment but just tell me so far how it is going

@@arabicforfree2259 yes, i was depressed and now I'm much better

@@radishdocx well, i am glad to hear that.

@@arabicforfree2259 hope you heal too

Hi, how you doing 4 years later?

I think where school fails us is… your whole life is your career. Every choice and decision you make is your career. Once you’re in the real world - it seems like you’re tossed into an ocean you must learn to navigate in your on. Same thing happened to me… it’s like, every positive and negative is on you.

School fails us by lying to us to get in debt for a useless degree. They lie that the degree will get us good careers that don't exist. Or they say there's that one job that matches this degree, but they fail to mention that there are 6000 students who'll graduate with the same degree every year, all been told that they'll get that one job. School need to be FORCED to be honest. NO MORE LIES.

@@mandalahigherplanes9044 the school fails us because the education system keeps lying to us. The truth is, the market is oversaturated, too many people today own degrees in comparison to even 30 years ago, which is not really a long time ago, when many people were still uneducated and chose to do very simple jobs. Today not many Western people would choose to work in the fields or as cleaners, plus, technology and automation have definitely cut off many archaic jobs, so there's not really a choice to be a farmer or a shop assistant anymore. Universities will not tell you that there are not enough vacancies for the career you have studied for. If people knew it, most of faculties would be cancelled. The sad part is, the more years will go and the harder it will be because of more competition for the same demanded jobs. We are basically doomed.

I hope youre still making art.

Very real.

I started kicking ass. I'm the boss now. 😎 still very real.

@@gl0wbot768 can I ask what are you doing now?

@@EpicIntegral no reply😥

still... 😓

I mean, don't you get experience through internships and stuff on your 5 what not? Depending on what your major is?

OK!

Don't risk it Hank! Pizza one night quickly becomes pizza every night! This is my cry for pizza help. wait wait... This is my cry for pizza, help! There I fixed it.

ZeroChaos69 HELP! This is my cry for pizza

Becca Moses I know!

I need a graphic of this on a tee shirt

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With that first part, are you saying you don't like receiving advice from older people?

@@jackjack4412 nah bro I'm saying he acted like his advice was only going to be alright when it was amazing. When people say "here's my 10 cents" it's generally just a small piece if advice. I wasn't trying to say anything about age, but older people can often have more experience to back up their insights if you're asking...

This is at least the third time I've watched a video for the "first time" then scrolled down to the comments and found my own comment... I'm not sure how to feel about it. In relation to the video, I'm still going down the same path, yet still don't feel anymore dedicated to it than I am to the wind. Do I follow one motion not because it is my one path, but because the paths are everywhere, and switching is too confusing? And is that negative?

Srishti Chauhan Same

Yo Indian... doc or engineer? Decided yet?

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Most people are educated since school to be employed and be able to buy, not to be employers or sellers, also not to be self-realized. --------------------Some of them suffer from this still at doctorate level: they doubt if it is enough, if now they are useful. "Hm, maybe after this contest, this prize, this TV interview i gonna finally be employed, I gonna finally be able to buy and provide". But you are never enough when you constructed everything you are upon a very weak externalized structure; when your source of energy can be shut down with one single word, one single lie, one single signature, a mail, the arrival of someone better in what you do. If you are too wise, this can´t be far from enough as well: you have to learn to be average on the RIGHT way. Because we never talked about virtue here, my friend! Later this lasts one semester contract in that city far away from your friends, or lasts forever somewhere else, but in the wrong place, just nominally doing what they studied years for. His bachelor colleague at MacDonald's is also not doing much better. Everyone discovers himself reflecting and irradiating the same situation: we are a symptom of lies. Wonder why things are like this? The machine is engineered to celebrate slavery and kill the kings, it is a vengeance coming from a resentful class - I am truly with Nietzsche in this regard (Genealogy of Moral, a book I had the pleasure to study in detail in a pause between school and university in 2005/2006). This machine does not see what is outside: a living organism that is at the same time free and integrated, an organism of permanent new evolving things that never existed before, a biosphere of different and new existential alternatives, a celebration of our primary and original values, exactly those no science or politics can claim ownership. To fear and actively ignore your past , the mankind´s past, is the first and best step into fatal cowardice. Greetings from Salzburg

Ceilidh Maria Future teachers unite! lol Also I feel the same way, I love my job so much and I feel so lucky to have it.

Ceilidh Maria future teacher here! I'm also thrilled to be able to teach soon, but I have to ask to see if any teachers/future teachers know, any terror that your students *won't care about your subject*??

Aria Literata Real talk here: you aren't going to be able to reach every student, all of the time, every day--regardless of how they feel about your subject. In teaching especially, I have found it really helpful to focus on the little successes and the relationships that I can make with the kids. Those times when they light up about reading, or writing, or something historical are AWESOME and I cherish them, but that certainly isn't every moment of teaching. As long as you can care for the kids and show them you're invested in their lives, you'll do fine.

Ceilidh Maria You really are lucky! i hope one day i can say the same about my job, whatever that job might be. I'm sure you'll do great, anything you put passion and love into, eventually works out well. ;)

i'm in the class of 2017 with an education degree so i'm joining this future teacher thread hi hello

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They never taught us as kids to have a realistic idea about what we're actually capable of. They told us that ANYONE can do ANYTHING. Many lives have been destroyed because of this massive lie.

thank you for this comment. I'm 25 and going through a ver rough time right now and needed to hear something like this ❤

Wow this is so profound. As a confused 24 year old who just failed outta college & doesn’t know what to do next, thank you !! What career did you end up choosing?? Or have you had multiple?

Sonder: "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own-populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness-an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk."

we are all exceptional and none of su are

@@manalbouanane2463 what do you have against the "su"?

​@@DeJayHankI dont believe he has anything against them, they are simply not exceptional. It's just a fact

Truthful and loyal are not always compatible virtues through with each other I mean.

@@Sara3346what would be an example where they aren't compatible?

@@MihailDadun you are loyal to an authority and they did something terrible. You cant tell the truth about it

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Great addition! Thanks for sharing your view!

I feel like the world was a worse place of vile crappiness every decade before this one, we were all just much less informed about it and not connected to much beyond our local communities until the internet came along. So, perspective...

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So, 2 years later, did you figure it out? Asking as a friend

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Would love an update

Join the Air Force, they much less intense than the Army or Navy.

Well said. This is what it means by making yourself. Not going after the money or just doing what is attractive or sellable but doing what we love and being content with it.

Getting to the point where someone would pay you is not something that we dont want to bother with. It is not cheap. At some stage of life, we just cant afford it. Or may be I am just too depressed to get what I want. I have like 4 hour a day worth of free time and that is 8 to 12 at night with exausted mind and body and I need to get up at 5. I usually used it for entertainment.

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Graduating in a month and i feel the same. Some days i start regretting the path i took, i just hope it all works out fine

​@@davidekpenyong5764 same

Keep on keeping on

Oh I can relate!

Think of a person who study his 5th year and feel like knows nothing🙂 that's me i hate myslef and am stil trying to graduate

merhaba

I can relate I feel like this many times.

hey I might really need to ask for your advice... kinda in the same situation now.

please do! feel free to email me at amy101492@gmail.com

Amy S That was amazing

I'm trying to decide what to do. I originally got a degree in a field I'm not sure I have the physical capacity to do. There is another area that I like somewhat. If I studied it more I might grow to love it, or maybe not. I'm not sure if I could ever be good at it and it would take years to get another degree, especially with a master's. I've never been really passionate about a career field, no matter what I explore and I'm not really good at anything. Do I take the plunge?

@@melissamybubbles6139 its been 2 years, what's the update what did you do?

Underneath the Hank we see, he's a human being like everyone else.

in the same boat.

i feel you.. good luck with whatever you do!

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Rebekah Goltz Same here. Best of luck.

If you're in America Google 'name of state JobCorp' and see what programs available.

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Me currently

Think about it like this, you're not scared of the future itself, you're just scared that you don't know how to adapt to it, but did you have this fear when you were a five year old? No, you enjoyed life and loved the changes it brought

wish you well, hope you achieve this. I am so much broken into pieces right now only child living with my parents all my siblings are successful in thier careers, friends are getting married.

keep making it beautiful ✨🌱🌷🌿

@@muhammadisrarulhaq9052 hope the pieces are coming together in a good way

Please don't give up life and do something with your life

@@taqi5675 They can do whatever they feel is right to them. If having a job is something they might never get to do and they find life fulfilling in other ways, then that's pretty meaningful and open-minded in itself.

I feel you Laura

you're still a teen. If you're 18 now, you got plenty of timeee. I would rather grind but don't overwork yourself or do too much at once.

After 6 months rather

what's ur major?

I'm curious too 👀 how are you these days?

Are you alive at least?

Hey, Im having mine at 1am after graduating of marketing in July and not having a job yet + being scared of it, hope everything is going awesome right now

Woah ... I am in the same situation right now. Hope you are doing well.

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marisdc your a burden on your society

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Good wishes for the future.

My father has a passion for arts, he's done it all his life. And when I asked him ''do you like your job?'' ''if you didn't have your job would you still be painting?'' he said yes. But my father also had other passions (planting trees/making garden, watching hockey, genealogy, etc) He does these things when he's not working I envy his easy life. I had a depression at 12 and I hated school, he says he liked school. I believe you just need to have good relashionships to be happy

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