Spiritual Whistle Blower talks Identifying Narcissistic Partners, Parents, Family Members + More 

A quote I heard from Iyanla Van Zandt that changed my thinking, “ I forgive myself for believing I should have done better when I didn’t know how”. For you Damona.

I really felt this episode! Black parents be wrong af but lack accountability and will make you suppress your feeling when they hurt you smh. They make you feel like your feelings and opinions don’t matter. They lack empathy too, they can’t do no wrong

Broke up with my child's father, found out I was pregnant, and STILL stayed away. My pregnancy was so peaceful and had no issues. It's true to stay AWAY from narcissistic men idc what your situation is. Best decision God is good.

This information is SO important. We are not taught to identify these behaviors. I was with a narcissist for 10yrs from 16-26 & only now at 31 did I just begin to unravel what actually happened to me! If young girls can see this & learn this earlier in life it will literally save people from so much abuse & trauma!

This woman is the sole reason why I recognized I was raised in a narcissistic household and was able to break free from the toxic loyalty.

PLEASE BRING HER BACK!!! This was what everyone needed there is so much going on in this world and I believe this goddess is in alignment

What she said about discernment was so true once you learn to identify these behaviors you cannot unlearn it. You start seeing it in different people and you know just how to move around them.

My fiancé actively protects me from his mother and female family Members. He’s traumatized by them, keeps his distance and advised me early on to do the same

I started my spiritual journey after getting out a relationship with a narcissist. I did my shadow work and realized I was an empath. It has been a hell of a journey. And I still have a lot healing to do.

I have a BS in Psychology and this was absolutely validating of the horror show experience I had with my ex and his mother. I literally was being bullied by a frown as woman until I refused to talk to be in the same space as her. She was toxic and had a unhealthy relationship with her sons. I’m so thankful more women are talking about this because that Jezebel spirit runs deep in a lot of families.

This is the realest video on the internet. IDC. I don't comment on videos, but I needed to hear this from Black women (because too often our abuse is swept under the rug FROM PEOPLE WHO LOOK JUST LIKE US or we are told to move on/get over it with no reflection, no empathy...and hurt people do end up hurting people--everybody needs to be heard/seen and these narcissistic/sociopathic people need to be exposed--thank you). When she says LEAVE, LEAVE YALL. Don't ever let him come back. Don't ask him to come back before he asks to come back (because they always do)... LEAVE. RUN. You will end up MESSED UP if you don't. I wasn't even in a real relationship with mine and the toxicity has opened my eyes (for better and worse) to so many ugly truths in the world. I am now desperately trying to find beauty in humanity and life--I don't even talk to people anymore. Also, share videos like these if someone reaches out to you for help. A woman who was dealing with the same "man" actually put me on to the whistle blower and I am thankful as ever!! Everything she said has been true in my situation--from him being on the down low, to his mommy issues/hate/weird relationship, etc. He could give a d**n about any of his children and it is SICKENING. 0 stars, would not recommend, RUN... and whatever made you enmesh with the foolishness, GET TO KNOW IT...make peace with it ...and then kill it.

As a black women this is the best damn interview in the history of interview for us women thank you to both of yall for waking us women up.

My son was born without a leg, the disability is called PFFD, it happens from trauma or infection between 4-6 weeks gestation, I was abused really bad during my my first trimester and a part of my second, but the date I will always remember (April 12th 2019) was when I was about 5 weeks pregnant, my babyfather punched me in my stomach and caused me head trauma by repeatedly punching me in my face, I took a picture of the puddle of blood and sent it to his mother and she told me basically it didn’t happen, I didn’t allow him to see the baby so he took me to court, I proved that it wasn’t from my genetics (micro aray test) or my health, now my son is 2 and is displaying autistic symptoms. The judge didn’t believe me at first because I’m a black woman and this man is white and his mother works for the government. Luckily I kept everything that was in writing and pictures of bruises. To be honest, my social media is stalked by him so I shouldn’t even be typing this. I always wanted to start a platform to speak out and relate with other women but I don’t want the drama or disrespect that comes from him.

Whew! She sugar coated NOTHING! RAW!!! I respect anyone speaking the truth and can also acknowledge she’s bitter. Truth can still come from a bitter mouth!

My mother is a huge narcissist and has alienated me from her side of the family. This is a great episode cause we do get so much shit for cutting parents off but they deserve it

Mona given Charlie Baltimore vibes 😍

This woman is so passionate about her message to women to stick up for ourselves

The way Mona explained her misunderstanding about exactly what a narcissist is and how we use words we don’t really understand only because we hear them a lot……that gave me chills because she articulated my own thoughts better than I ever could. She’s lowkey a modern day philosopher as much as she’s a comedian.

I’ve dealt w/ a narcissist. Love bombed me & got me into him heavy just to go back & forth between me & his BM. I knew he was a narcissist when I was crying my eyes out & his eyes looked happy. No empathy for me hurting & crying. Get the fuck outta there once you realize it’s a narcissist. They will have you up & down just b/c they wanna see you cry. And your heart will be broken but it’s just a game to them. I pray for his daughter still from time to time & it’s been 4 yrs since I stopped dealing w/ him.

This woman is a legend.

she hit hard with a lot of her statements. literally as i’m watching i’m just like 😳. and so many people i know coming across my mind as she speaks ….just crazy

This episode here has showed me how much I have grown and how I am not wrong for the changes I have made in my life! I previously dated a Narcissist and It was a crazy experience but I'm so proud of myself that I got out fast!!! I worked on me and I am very happy with where I am today!!!

Wow neeeeeeded this podcast !!! Especially those mothers /sisters who be their cheerleaders instead of telling him when he’s wrong ! Sickening , hold your male relatives accountable.

I didnt have a clue who she was but she spoke facts in this interview . Great interview

Watching Mona get so invested in the conversation is gold!!!

I have a narcissistic mother grandmother and baby dad. I have cut my mother and baby dad off completely! My grandmother I keep at a distance cuz she’s older. But I realized the ppl they were very early on cuz I realized the treatment I received from these ppl wasn’t right. I do believe in generational karma as well. And w me having a daughter now. I refuse to let my daughter receive their karma like I did. Ion let my daughter around them anymore cuz she’s only three months and I have to nip it in the bud now before I get older. My mom played my siblings against me I was the oldest. I be damned if she tries w my own child. Thank you for this!

Therapy just gives a lot of men new terminology to gaslight you it’s wild 😩

I have my BS in psychology and masters in social work, considering pursuing my doctorate in psychology and just want to say that this was the BEST episode yet. Please have her come back and allow guests to ask her questions.

I just ordered I can’t stand my mama! I just had a breakdown about how my narcissistic mom can catch these hands 🤦🏾‍♀️

I dated a narcissist and had to learn all about narcissism, I quickly realized my parents are narcissist. Once I realized my parents are narcissist it was a relief, I no longer had to ask myself wtf is wrong with them? I kicked my Mother out of my home after 49 torture filled years of dealing with her insanity. 11 years of her staying in my home. Every day was an argument and a religious rant from her it was utter foolishness. She triangulated my children against each other and she is the sole cause of my anxiety. I kicked her ass out and I don’t care if she lives or die because I’m at peace. Do not feel compelled to deal with your parents 💩 go no contact and live your best life.

I'm glad the whistle blower is healing and her therapy is helping people understand what's happening. I think she has a good heart and very genuine. An Empathic Gangster that's treading on these demonic entities. One Love♥️

Damona’s energy is everything

toxicity loyalty/Trauma bond is for sure REAL !!!!!!!! Especially in our community ... it's so sad respectfully! I'm glad ya having this convo because people be acting oblivious to the sht that they be doing to people like yk what you are doing and acting !!! And when ya talk about toxicity in black parents especially the moms!!

Watching this episode really made realize that my ex was a narcissistic man ,and it's mind blowing because I watched this to look out for the signs only to realize I already been through it. So crazy and mind blowing

It’s like she watched my last relationship on tv or some 🤯

Wow this was so insightful ! Specially the part where you mentioned “ toxic loyalty “ . I struggle with this deeply with my mother for many many years . Although she loves me , it’s very evident she seeks pleasure in my pain ( words right out of her mouth ) . Thank you Mona for this 🙏🏽❤️.

This episode is SO good so far! Not even 10 mins in and I’m learning so much.

I strongly feel as though spirit brought me to the episode.. i use to skip over it cause im like wtf is a whistleblower But my higher self was always intrigued by the spiritual portion. I just cut off my narc ass ex boyfriend. Any time i expressed my feelings on how he made me feel he would always flip it on me, Always accusing me of cheating but you know how that goes, he was feeling GUILTY Bc thats most likely what he was doing. I had mentally left about a year ago But it feels SO DAMN GOOD to finally allow mysef to be free & physically leave!!!! Everything She said in this video is exactly what he does. Im in my healing process & i know that since i finally closed this karmic cycle that bigger & better blessings are Otw. BRING HER BACK!!!!!! Love you Mona💖💖💖💖

Not Mona saying "I feel like you in my business" 🤣🤣😂😂😂 "How you feel about the one with the cone head...🤔" LMAO bless it. Side note: I'm so happy seeing another Black woman pursue her doctorate. Bless it!

Protect this woman at all costs!!

I didn’t know I needed this until I got it!! Being raised by a narcissistic mother and coming from a narcissistic family it made me realize I didn’t stand a chance when it comes to the toxic loyalty I have for my mom and battle that I was dealing with! Even recognizing my own narcissistic traits that I have this episode was definitely self reflection for me. Thank you for this💖💖💖💖

A lot of toxicity to digest here but Mona’s vibe offered the perfect balance to get through this episode! 🙌🏾

I’m so proud of Chanel !!!! She literally help me at my lowest with my narcissist ex. Forever grateful ❤️

Omg. I've been in tears watching this. I've dealt with 2 narcissists... both my baby daddies in different ways. They absolutely abandon the children when you don't want them anymore. I thought i was wrong; thought I was crazy 💪🏽 I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I think I can speak for myself and other women (and some men) when I say this episode was VERY VERY MUCH NEEDED!!!!!! It came at the PERFECT TIME!!!! So thank you Mona for bringing this beautiful black woman on here to put us all on to game 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Spiritual WhistleBlower Is The Truth🔥🔥🔥

You're not lying about that mama clip!! Narc free after 12 years of marriage. The mama was a tale tell and I ignored it.

I cried and chanted for 35mins prior to watching this episode bc I'm watching my son be an absolutely abusive narcissist. 😔 breaks my heart to watch and as an empath I feel completely responsible for his behavior.

My girl on da Moana showww!!! 💜💜💜 she did not come to play she came to slayy the looks and the narcissists 😂

Baby when she started talking bout the family!!! Whewwww

I've been following her...glad to see she's blowing up

Truest shit ever!!!! If I only knew what I know now back then I could have saved a lifetime

A lot of relationships we are used to seeing are not normal y'all, especially those young serious relationships. I grew up in the hood and got the hell out early.. so I know.. Some people just won't get it and some will. Iykyk.. those ratchet relationships are deadly.. I do not recommend young romantic relationships, especially if you come from a broken family.. Live your life and make experiences!!

Yes! My baby has sensory processing disorder and possible autism and has 4x/week therapy and my babydaddy is a narcissist who psychologically abused me my whole pregnancy and left me in fight or flight, panicking. Smh. Shit is criminal and repulsive!

My Gosh, 25 Min Into This I am In Tears Just Thinking About Things iEndured From Child Into The Present .. This Is Just Mind Blowing… 🥺😔

My BD was asked to leave a session. They crazy!

MAY GOD PROTECT HER

This one of the best conversations I’ve heard in a long ass time.

she knows what shes speaking

I lived through that grandma, mama, and sister.

She’s talking facts at 14:47 - 15:30. I’ll share my personal story w/ y’all. My ex boyfriend is a narcissist and she’s correct. Once you see that first red flag, you get the fuck outta there! I experienced this same thing. W/ him saying he’d go to therapy, lying to me. Gaslighting me and manipulating me and everything. I tried to talk to him and change him and none of that worked seeing how he never took accountability for his own actions. On my birthday last year on June 21st, him and I got into a physical altercation and we went to jail because of his actions provoking me and that’s when I had enough. Wasting money on lawyers since it was TWO open cases behind the dumb shit he did from being obsessed w/ me. I had to take accountability since he couldn’t do what he did on his own. I had a part to play in that by continuing to give him “second chances.” When you see that red flag, LEAVE and do NOT look back. Do not get gaslighted or manipulated. I wish they made this pod cast before that day. Maybe I wouldn’t have made that mistake but hey. Life is about growth and learning lessons.

This is giving she needs to make a weekly appearance on the show !! I love their energy together !!! 🥰🥰🥰

My 2 babies 💕💕 saving the planet!!!!

Thank you so much for this episode, my partner’s parents are Narcissists and abuse him on a daily, today I sent him this video and this prevented him from committing suicide. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

SPIRITUAL WHISTLE BLOWER IN THE BUILDING 🥳

She is preaching a word..

she is definitely a Prophet!

I absolutely love this convo! I'm going through this with my mom, sometimes you have to love from afar. Respect she's your mom but you have a right to be happy and not to be held hostage by their insecurities.

When me and my man started dating, his mom and sisters would show him so much love… but I thought it was weird love because I’ve seen close siblings but this was different. We would be together and they would constantly call with nothing to talk about. They always wanted to sit by him & they would bring up his ex’s. I already knew I didn’t want to fw them. I even asked him did they use to touch him as a kid because they were so weird and acted like they wanted him (he said no btw) He told me he thought it was weird too because before we met him and his sisters never talked & his mom left him in the house (at 16 yo) for a man yearssss ago so their relationship wasn’t the same. Eventually their old selves came back after they seen I wasn’t leaving & he cut his sisters off because they started to attack his mental and emotional health… ask anybody around me I always say I hate Moms & Sisters. Especially moms with #boymom in their bios…

"if you don't cooperate" they'll abandon you & the child 💯 wish more people understood

@SWB OMG!!!! I am screaming on the inside!!! FYI - I finally picked up the book I was afraid to buy! I have made it to the first page! 🤣 Bless you! I am so proud of you for staying on this! It was a blessing seeing you in Atlanta and I feel like, I can endure!

WHOOOOOOOOOOO YALL SPEAKING!!!Never I’m my life like I’ll I call another man’s mother “ma or mom”. I got my own thanks 😊

That's why I be loving the aquarius mind she does all types of interviews

This should go viral. It’s so much information in this video that millions of people could learn from.

I hate the Red Table Talk too. She did say her grandmother told her at 9 years old to masturbate. I think that's crazy especially since both of her grandparents were very educated and middle class.

This is so sad to hear the truth we need healing in our community. Break the cycle of these toxic love and thinkin this acceptable

This interview was SO INFORMATIVE!! Ladies, pay attention for real! I’m a survivor of a narcissist & it took YEARS to heal from that. And as the SWB said, your discernment go way up & gets stuck and you DO look at folks with spiritual lenses. It’s crazy at first, but I’m so grateful for that gift! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Mona, I love you & thank you for another great episode! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Baby being tricked !!! I just got out of a situation where he showed me his other face and not his real face

I love Chanel. She deserves to be on all platforms

Watching this after a break up with a narcissist is very refreshing but man I needed to see this some months ago

I love her!! Her content helped save me and my children.

Although I'm a gay black man I literally just learned so much about relationships and boundaries in the first 20 mins alone! I'm gagging rn 😂❤️

Leave them alone at the first red flag!

Hearing these woman talk I appreciate my mother so much really she always tried her best to treat us equal and she worked her as off… like I really seen my mom breaking generational curses in my family like she really raised us different and I really see that shit everyday the more I’m around my family.

I love the way she speaks. She is talking to who she is talking to when she is talking about narcissistic folk. Her aggression is dope

Can’t believe how bad I needed every part of this episode. Especially the toxic mother portion bc that never is discussed in our community, making ppl going through it feel like outcasts and wrong in some way. Thank you for this!!

THANK YOU!!!! NO ONEEE and I mean no one, talks about this about parents. Thank you for being transparent.

Whew! This episode shook me down to the health issues connected to narcissistic trams.

This shit made me cry … real shit

A lot of this was so needed. Having multiple child's mothers or fathers doesn't, by itself, make you a narcissist but I get the point about not caring about having them in order to trap the woman/man and then moving on and doing it again. (and don't come at me, I don't have no baby daddies. I just know it's circumstantial) I pray everyone is loving and healing though.

This episode spoke to me! My husband's mother (he has no contact with is father) and my father ( my mother died when I was a teen) are both narcissist and have in different ways really tried to hurt out relationship. But we are pulling through and going strong. Keep talking the truth and trying to help women!

The energy was so messed up but when I took a family picture of my in-laws and I looked at the photo omg her eyes scared me.

This was so insightful. I learned more about narcissists through Chanel's definitive breakdown. Thanks Damona for continually bringing us fire content and laughs!

This lady done read my whole life in ten minutes and I don’t even know her ☠️ who sent you sis 😂 jk keep snapping queen, I’m here for it ♥️

Mona and the evil laugh had me 💀💀😂when she said he in the downlow cause most these 🥷TRADDDDEEEEE

Oh wow she definitely read my life chile. Definitely want more episodes like this. Mona y’all both look amazing too.

Whew ! I’m having flashbacks & it all makes sense now. Theses moms really be horrible. I’ve been traumatized of meeting moms since 2012 😂

Oh I was taught that Mama shit !! Three the hard way tho, but I learnt that shit! When the mama's too welcoming, RUN!!! She , the mother should be neutral energy to start and she should understand boundaries off the rip. And I'm never gonna raise my children to support anyone that doesn't or didnt support them.

Mannnn, I needed to hear this. I am truly going through this right now. This makes my heart hurt, but the truth hurts.

Wow Mona I can’t even tell you how much I needed this episode! I got so many answers to so many questions I didn’t even know I had! Thanks Mona 💕