Depends on which extroverted people, cus I believe it's on a spectrum, but I have definitely extroverted friends who just suck the life outta me when I'm with them ngl😂
I actually couldn't stand these people. They were all trying so hard to have a "big" personality mostly by being loud and taking enthusiasm. Like you can love talking to people and being around people without making it so about you
My old employer had us take a test to determine if we were introverts or extroverts, and had us stand on opposite sides of the room and give our opinions about the other. The introverts were a bigger group and man, they were scathing. They called us too energetic, annoying, said that we didn’t get work done because we were always socializing, that we were oblivious to their needs to be left alone. We just took our roasting and then said we felt bad and sat down 😂
It would have been great if they had brought in 7 introverts for this, who all think that they are the only one. So it’s just a bunch of introverts pretending to be extroverts.
Her offering to buy them lunch afterwards because she feels bad is such an introvert move lmao Edit: I don’t care if you can’t relate. I wrote how I personally related to the introvert in this video in a lighthearted comment lol. It resonated with a lot of us, and didn’t with others because nobody genuinely believes that every single introvert is the same. Quit yappin
Also an ENTJ so now I’m worried I come off like Zed Edit: jumped the gun off his first interaction. Last thing he said about sharing stories with people hit close to home.
I worked customer service for 6 years as a hardcore introvert, but there's a difference between social anxiety, and being introverted. the people on the show seemed to pool them together
Yeah I'm a server, and an introvert. I'm very good at my job BECAUSE I'm an introvert. Ive always liked to observe people and I'm good at reading them now. However, at the end of my shift I need to be alone and recharge.
Yes exactly! I mean, so many jobs require engaging with people. If us introverts couldn’t handle it, we would be in trouble 😅 it just means we’ll be slightly more tired at the end of a day than an extrovert, essentially.
weirdly comforting that cody is an introvert because he’s so confident and funny and all the things people generally assume only extroverts can be. makes me feel better as a lifelong introvert who was always made to feel bad about it
@@Kit-ux4vp yeah the youtuber thing is so interesting because they can SEEM extroverted in videos...until you remember that they're alone all the time in front of a camera.
You can be asertive and have social skills when being introverted, you just have to work a bit harder since you don´t frequent social situations as much, so you get less "practice". When I was in highschool I couldn´t even meet anyone new, I was always so anxious and self concious. A few years later I forced myself into a lot of social situations I wanted to avoid, turned out I was empathetic, funny, confident and a very insightful friend, when I found myself in situations where I was alone and had to make new friends I had no problem joining a group or even creating one around me, literally everyone I´ve ever wanted to get along with, I did. Most people are nice and you´d be surprised with the results if you put yourself out there. I still need entire days for me, I still leave places early if I´m tired of interacting, I still have all my solo hobbies etc. But that doesn´t mean anything outside of that, I don´t have to feel bad or be socially crippled. Wish you a great life.
@@manuelalvarez7146touche my friend, you described me perfectly. I am very bad at interactions with strangers, but if I feel comfortable with a person I cant shut up 😂 and people think I am an extrovert, but I am not, I just become one around specific people
Introverts recharge by themselves, extroverts recharge with other people. When I learned that I knew I was introverted even if I'm happy in social situations.
Yeah people are confused by being shy, socially awkward, etc, with introversion and by being loud, annoying, hyperactive, etc, with extraversion My lil sis seems not really open at first sight, a bit reserved, but she's a really outgoing person who enjoys having people around her and doesn't get that many energy doing things alone While I talk very openly and frankly to anyone about anything at anytime (im annoying and hyperactive) but in big social situations I'm quickly tired and need time to rest alone and enjoy even more my time alone even if I like my group of friends tho 😂 Great example on how we act and are perceived and how extroverts and introverts are perceived bc they usually think I'm the extroverts and she's the introverts... hehe no!😂😂
@@coolbutnotverycool1440Brother that doesn't contradict anything, a person can be social and still be considered an introvert. Being introverted means you prefer spending time alone/with less people.
Zed seems like the type of guy to rob a bank and when he's questioned by the cops to go "okay so you think I bought a fake badge and uniform from Amazon and learned Terry the security guards schedule and phone number and told him not to come in the day I was robbing it and then filled up my duffel bags and took the money home and buried under the biggest tree in my backyard?" and cops would be like "yeah we just asked where you were last Thursday"
i’m socially awkward and don’t really hangout with people much so i’ve always thought i was an introvert but i’ve noticed after hanging out with someone i have much more energy and feel a lot better so i don’t think you have to be outgoing or good with people to be technically an extrovert
I always say I’m a socially awkward extrovert! I love people, I need to have interaction outside my home to feel productive at all, and I love to talk to people, but you get me in a group of people I don’t know? I’m a disaaaaster😂
As an extremely outgoing and talkative introvert, I find it so frustrating that people assume introverts are weird and shy and hate people. I love people and being social, I just need my alone time after to decompress and get my energy back. UGH
Thank you! This entire video was so frustrating to me because they were talking like introverts can’t work jobs that interact with people or be outgoing! I’ve successfully worked jobs where the only thing I did was talk to people and I enjoyed it. Still an introvert though.
This video shows how so many people don't know what it actually means to be extroverted or introverted lol like people associate being a leader or gathering people with extroverts, but I'm an introvert who has hosted events for example and really do enjoy learning about people and meeting new people. There are also tons of performers, actors, etc. who are introverts. It all just boils down to where you get your energy, not your personality. Like I love hosting gatherings, but I do prefer smaller groups and one on one interactions and need time to recharge after. Also there are extroverts with anxiety who may not have a "big personality", but if they get most of their energy from interacting with people, they're still an extrovert. It just seemed in the video everyone was trying to act so animated when that isn't what being an extrovert is actually about.
its also not a black and white issue, as with most things I'd say its on a spectrum. It's also not as if an introvert can't get energy from others or than extroverts can't get energy from being alone, it's just where one predominantly does.
Funny enough as someone that trained to be an actor a lot of actors I know are actually introverted. It’s a stereotype that performers are inherently extroverted. Actors, particularly good ones that are natural chameleons excel at putting on different masks and personas to keep from being personally vulnerable. The entire question is a bit faulty because there are so many stereotypes that go into most people’s understanding of what extroverted or introverted really means?
i genuinely want to hang out with Zed lol. he seems like such a fun but also caring dude, love that part he said about not wanting to talk just about himself, but wanting to hear other people's stories. very cool guy
I recently heard the term "performitive introvert" and I felt like it was the prefect description of an introvert that enjoys people and connecting with others but has a limited capacity for it. Like an introvert that talks for a living.
Introvert just means being around people drains energy from you, extroverts gain energy. The misunderstanding that introvert means being asocial/ you don’t like being around people is unfortunately very common.
you mean like a normal person? normal people enjoy connecting with others in some capacity no matter whether you're more tired or energised afterwards. introversion isn't a disability or marginalised group.
Introverts can be outgoing, and extroverts can be shy. It's about our capacity to be in social settings! Introverts are more likely to feel drained after spending time with people and need a day to recharge, and extroverts are more likely to feel drained by being alone and get their energy by being with other people. It's a spectrum 😊
I’m totally an introvert but no one I meet initially believes it because I only go out when I have full energy. It’s only after they know me well enough to realize they only get two of those days every two weeks that they believe I’m super introverted.
I did! XD They also didn't interview me for the in-between parts until last, and I was like, "You REALLY should have had me go first." I felt like I was gonna pass out, haha.
Career has nothing to do with being an introvert/extrovert. I'm a nurse and talk to so many people when I'm at the hospital, have to wake strangers up, tell others what to do, etc. When I am home I'm a hermit. No correlation.
Right? This would be literal hell… I got drained just watching it. They’re all so noisy and all over the place especially since they’re trying so hard to prove they’re extroverts. I would need to go chill alone in my car for like an hour after this 🫠 🪫
Fun fact but introvert and extrovert aren’t just about how much you interact socially. But also how you think. People who think out side (taking to themselves, talking to others about there thoughts) are usually extroverts and people who voice their opinions and feelings out loud are usually extroverts, but people who think inside their head and have a hard time voicing their opinions are introvert introvert can talk to a lot of people for hours, and extrovert can talk to very little people work at anxious
Zeds energy was off the charts man, I have a friend similar to him. As an anxious introvert having someone so genuine is amazing to have around. Love this guy
An introvert gets their energy from being alone, an extrovert gets their energy from being around others. Doesn’t mean one is more like able or friendly or outgoing than the other!
Dude this shit isn’t even accurate. Im an introvert through and through but I’m super talkative and bubbly when I’m in social situations because I feel pressured to be. My friend Shan is a crazy extrovert, always needs to be around people, doing shit etc and she’s super laid back and reserved demeanor. Def doesn’t have to be categorized by having an obnoxious personality. I also can’t imagine being this proud of being an extrovert. There are cool chill extroverts like my friend Shan but these kinds of extroverts are just annoying
“If I were an extrovert…” Oh buddy. Buddy, you really screwed up. RIP *edit* never mind I screwed up. This man is a genius for throwing us off. I salute to you
Idk how to describe it and I mean this in the most neutral way possible, but Elysia literally visually looks like an introvert. Source: I'm an introvert who also looks like an introvert and so far my experience aka prejudice has always proven me right when looking at people and gauging their level of intro- or extraversion.
@@vny9728 literally and it's not even a matter of style bc my very introverted friends and I all have vastly different styles and some very loud and bold makeup but you can still very much see the introversion, it's just an innate v i b e .
i didn't finish the video yet but it seems so obvious it's her. it's her posture, hands, her eyes, looking like she's trying to pick up her energy while talking
Nah, it's cool. I was pretty fat and super pale back then. I also had an awful, second-degree sunburn because I'm Irish and allergic to the sun, so I was not feeling great. I really didn't think I'd actually win.
I spotted an introvert once.. turned out to be the biggest mistake of my entire life. The introvert in question was not a fan of me bringing attention to their existence, and in turn they managed to get the entire world to turn against me. I’ve been lambasted by friends and family, exiled from public areas and government buildings, and forced into a life of making apology videos. You’d think after 70+ apologies I would be forgiven but it seems these things take time. I pray one day the world forgives me. I’m sorry.
I just wanted to see these videos make me happy. Like it is so satisfying to have something light and fun to watch while eating. Like I truly and gladly appreciate you being constant.
God I LOVE IT when i refresh and cody posted a video at exactly the right time I'm an introvert who talks for a living. Call center, I work from home lol.
my experience with some introverts is that they tend to constantly whine and complain that no one understands them and that if they odnt have alone time theyll explode into sa million pieces. that being said as a fellow introvert, it's not about hating people its just about genuinely loving being alone. that doesn't mean you are lonely.
Hi Cody! I love your videos so much! The only thing that could make your videos better is if you could had captions for those in the Deaf community because the subtitles/closed captions that are auto-generated are not always accurate and often miss words or mistranslate what you said! I love you Cody!!💜
It seems most people don't know what extrovert and introvert actually means. You can be shy and extroverted. Introverts spend their social battery around people and extroverts recharge theirs. You can love people, be really outgoing but at the end of the day you need to go home and recharge your energies
no but they all just made me cringe from how talkative and energetic they were trying to be so ppl didn’t suspect them. zed was the only one that didn’t rly make me cringe bc he just seems like a nice dude😭😭
I connected deeply with the part about the Apple Store. I was just there last weekend to get a new phone, and I even had an appointment, but they were exactly the way Cody described. 🤣🤣🤣 Love you Cody!
The first guy voted out is the definition of an introvert lmaooo😂 said “ i was feeling out the energy “ which is literally what an introvert does.. he also basically implied he had to get comfortable with the group
Whenever a Zedd song would come on at the Apple Store, I’d always turn to my customer and say “you know I wrote this song.” Far too many people believed me.
Also, I’ve met people who are introverts that are extremely confident and talkative and there are extroverts who can be more reserved and extroverted in other areas in life. I think people sometimes confuse social anxiety with introversion. Also, isolation as well. As someone who used to be an introvert, socializing is a skill. Things change. I’m an ENFP, we are more the extroverted introvert lol
