My parents my husband (divorce) my home my support system. No job, no money, friends, family acquaintances almost my mind, my hair and my physical health going down hill because of it! All because of narcissistic and toxic individuals. But here’s the positive once you have lost almost everything you thought you were it forces you to question everything. The saying you have to lose yourself to find yourself springs to mind. I am starting to build myself up slowly, not easy but necessary as it’s not built on others. An awesome upgrade 🤩 your great my friend. Love listening to you you help a lot 😘
I’ve lost my home, my credit score is done for. I lost my car it got repossessed because I lost my job and I can’t seem to get a new one. I’ve applied and applied and no one is giving me a job. I have so many goals and aspirations but no money to even accomplish them. I had to move in with people who lowkey don’t even like me. Im surrounded by fake love. I lost all my friends because I had to move away. My life feels pretty much over… I hope my next life is better than this one.
I hope you see this message but your situation is soooo similar to mine! Thank you for sharing, I feel more understood and not alone❤ my thoughts and prayers are with you and your situation.
ABDUL RAHMAN, I went through bankruptcy as well - I know what you're going through and it's tough. You can pull out of it, though. Try to stay positive. I'd love to help you; there are many videos on the channel about positivity. Have you seen this one? "How To Stay Positive No Matter What - Happiness Is A Choice" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-nu680PRnZys.html. I am also giving away my book for free (I do ask that you pay for the shipping), which goes into much more detail than the video. drpauljenkins.info/freebook Additionally, we have a free 25 minute coaching call with one of our Live On Purpose coaches available. If that sound like it would be useful to you, you can schedule the call here: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall
This uplifted my spirit so much, God Bless you. I'm going to watch this video daily to remind myself, it'll be ok, life will get better, and to be grateful that at least I'm not in the hell hole where I was 5 years ago in life. I know there will be great things for us all to come, including a beautiful light at the end of the dark tunnel we walk through in life. I pray for you all my friends
I lost my twin brother to a tragic car accident a few years ago, then dad got terminal cancer a month later and died, then my older brother died of cancer the next year. My girlfriend on 3 years cheated on me and left me last New Years and dumped me on the phone. A month later the career I had and loved for 15 years dried up and lost my income, and then my mom died in the spring. My rent went up nearly 50% when I returned home from my mom's funeral. I have no family left now, and my last friend said he was too busy to talk to me anymore. So I'm completely alone, completely lost and don't know where to go from here.
77dris, that is a lot to deal with, and I am very sorry for all your losses. I hope this video helped you. You said you are completely alone... right now we have a promotion where you can talk to one of our Live On Purpose coaches free, for 25 minutes. We'd love to assist you further. If that sounds interesting to you, this is the link to schedule it: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall. Best wishes.
“Life is a gift. If you don’t open it up you won’t find out what is inside”. Carol Decker. You can’t see what you do have. I can start you off. You are thoughtful intelligent and articulate. 3 gifts.
How are you doing friend? My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am struggling also and feel suicidal. I hope you find peace I am so sorry for all the loss. SENDING LOVE friend
well this year I lost nearly everything I risgn for my previous company to join an new company offer but the Corona virus issues disrupted everything in my life financial, mentally an morally I lost everything until couldn't eat again but now this new has given me hope an faith
I thought I have or at the edge of losing everything in a few short coming months. This is a good psychology of starting with what you have not with what you don't have. Thank you so much Coach! My life brightens. One life is just saved.
How did it work out ? I have so much anxiety because I'm very close to losing my house which is everything. I have no other wealth and I'm 55. To old to start again with nothing. I don't even have a job. Everything I worked for will be gone. Its killing me inside.
@@michaelb9940 well, I bet it all. I maxed my credit card and took a crane course to compliment my commercial Driver license. I now work for a glass company delivering glass to job sites. I simply crane glass racks to the ground. Starting pay for crane operator was 33/hr plus benefits and an 8 hr/day guaranteed. The anxiety is all gone. I’m not the happy person I was years ago but I’m also not the anxiety ridden wreck I was I have been the last couple years. The key for me seemed to be concentrating on working. The more I focus on work, the better I feel.
I have been downsized, outsourced, laid off, and recently left a start up that promised so much but wasn't able to deliver at all. So quitting made MORE sense than staying in a go NO where situation, leaving me jobless, then the landlords came next day serving paperwork to nonrenew my lease so they could sell out at the ridiculously HIGH amounts being paid for real estate from NOT locals but CA folks relocating. So in a shelter type situation. It has been AWFUL and so many want to tell me how DUMB I was at this stage of my life...well, the crystal ball wasn't working and now I have to start OVER ...at retirement age as I can't retire...Those I thought might HELP or be supportive have just kicked me to the curb, ok, GOOD riddance. I owe everyone, and have NO $$$, unemployment wouldn't approve my claim as it was a remote/commission job. I gotta believe that I can rise above the icky...
In a nutshell, you’re right. But I have spun my wheels sitting in the ashes of my old life for ten years now, because my inability to heal/manage/support my mental/physical health has limited my ability to stay positive. Sadly, this building burned to the ground, but its been condemned for a long time and unless I change inside nothing will ever grow from these ashes and if nothing grows from these ashes I will never heal. We have a lot of “safety” in this modern age, but Im not sure if that is a good thing. Without hospitals and bankruptcies I might very well have gotten to leave this world early.
I lost my job because of abuse at said job and that job forced me to buy a vehicle that ran me 35 thousand for it including the big repairs I needed on it because they refused to give me days off. My ex and my job took 3/4ths of everything and I finished myself off by being shut down because 3 years of burn out and the fear of living and learning because I don't wanna take the time to waste on things that I don't want to. I hate myself and because of my dad, he taught me a lot about what to do. He nor my family will help me recover besides moral support which taught me how to get off my ass and be better. They care about me but just like Shaquille O'neal and his kids, his riches are his not his kids and he taught them the value of hard work and dedication. My dad is the same way... I love him to death and he taught me most of everything I know. It's hard because i didn't gradually learn these life lessons i had to learn the hard way and what's worse is how I applied to so many jobs and neither any one of them even bothered calling me...
So liberating I have missed my credit card payments for over 90 days, I have to sell the only item of value I have left which is my camera that I use to do youtube. My family is unable to help me. I am unable to work standing because of a car accident. This video really shifted my perspective. I feel like I will actually be okay!😭💞
This is my story sir I have failed in an exam that I've been preparing to pass it for 2 years my family started to call me useless and I'm a failure and I've been betrayed by a couple of friends who I've always done my all for them plus the woman that was my dream that I have faught for her and surpassed my all to spend my whole life with let me go saying that I'm just a simple friend she let me go the right moment where I was down so right now I'm trying to get up again but it's damn hard I'm going through a lot of hard ship that I don't really know how to keep moving forward because it's hard it's been 8 month but I still can't get up I'm really scared of losing everything again
youyou 57, it does sound like you have had quite a few obstacles put in your path recently, so sorry for that. Know that you are of worth and have something to offer to others. Find that something that lights you up and then don't worry about what has happened in the past, move forward. You can do it.
My family disowned me and I am only 17 i get to spend my 18th birthday homeless and this is keeping me from graduating high school I think I lost everything I literally have nothing and no one
How are you? Cause we're on the same situation. My wife died and we're gays no papers to prove that we both paid for a few of our investments in our life together cause there's no same sex marriage in our country, some of them are condos, apartments, cars, lands and the most important asset that's gone now... my wife. Basically I LOST EVERYTHING so I don't know how are you doin now? but if you need someone to talk to cause I could use one too, don't hesitate. Hope you're still fighting cause I guess we don't have a choice but to keep going. I hope the pain will end soon for the both of us.
I guess if you lose your life you still have your soul. And that soul is eternal and you'll always have a chance to do this again. God this is so hard. This is where God and spirituality is important. 😢
Thanks a lot dr I really needed that video as I'm in that exact situation of feeling I've lost everything,I had abortion,I'm not in a job I like by the way I'm doctor,I lost many people I thought they would never let me done but they did,I feel the world is spinning right now but I wish I can start over again
Yeah this is SO uplifting, positive and encouraging! I believe many of us are going through really difficult times right now and Doc, this is a life saver. Thank u!
🙏🏾 U OPEN MY EYES MORE I'VE BEEN IN A HOUSE 24 YEARS, MAYBE GONNA LOSE IT BUT I DO HAVE MY HEALTH AND STRENGTH & LITTLE MONEY , IT COULD BE WORST 💪🏾 THE WAY YOU EXPLAINED IT WAS PERFECT 💯 ALL MY KIDS ARE YOUNG ADULTS NOW 🙏🏾 MAYBE CHANGE IS BETTER,THANK U MUCH LOVE & RESPECT 2U BRO 🙏🏾 GOD BLESSING FOR YOUR ENCOURAGING MESSAGE 🙏🏾 YO BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER 💪🏾
Hi, I hope you are ok? I’m sensing that you don’t feel as well as you could feel. Based on how you look in the video your energy doesn’t seem like it’s usual self. Hope you are great because you really are an inspiration for a lot of us
Thank you so much I was about to just end my life after I went to jail for what i didn't do my husband lied and he took another woman and gave her all my stuff i was homeless no job no food no nothing but i saw this and it made me chage my mind of taking my life
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I'm a ashamed to say I need help mentally cause of what my husband and this system did to me but I'm afraid to open up to my family as ppl tend to throw things in your face
Yes. Becoming wise after a bitter experience then start over. It takes practice, an enormous amount. But thanks. That was very motivating. It's important to forget the paralyzing past and care little about what people look at you and more about what you want your environment to be.
I lost one of my best friends 2 years ago because of cancer .l just lost my job at that time.Then I was depressed for a while.But I am grateful that I can breathe now.So I am studying English to make my dream come true.My dream is to teach children English.l want children to learn wonderful words from all over the world. Thank you very much Dr. Paul !!!You are great !!!
I love everything this guy has to say, it has really opened my eyes, I only wish he would stop talking to us like a small child or like we are completely incompetent and just it explain it to us like we are adults who just havent learned this stuff yet. "Things could be worse, right?! things could always be worse am I right?!" (Spoken condescendingly) has got to be the most dismissive of all responses. Yes it could always be worse, no shit, but knowing and being told that some kids in Africa have belly buttons touching their spines does not in anyway aid making me feel any better about my struggle in figuring out how I'm gonna feed my kid tomorrow after my ex stole my entire life savings and then robbed my house for everything we had left.
lindsayanmia, I am deeply and sincerely sorry that your ex did that to you. I am also genuinely sorry that you feel like I am speaking condescendingly to you. There are a few reasons I speak the way I do. First, I frequently speak to children and therefore am usually in that mindset of explaining things in simple terms. Second, we have an amazing world-wide audience coming here with a wide variety of situations and experiences; I am trying to bring everyone on the same page. Along those lines, because so many people watch whose native language is not English, I speak more slowly for them to understand. I hope that you see that I am not intentionally being patronizing. I appreciate you watching and am glad that the video was at least somewhat helpful. I invite you to download and read my mini e-book "Portable Positivity" where I talk more in-depth about things being between better and worse: drpauljenkins.info/portablepositivity Best wishes to you.
Thanks sir , I have also realised what the value of life is. I ran away from home, bcoz I lied, stole money, under debt and much more. I was planning to do suicide, seen many persons even big ceos to do that. Somehow I failed in that too, slept on roads , keep on traveling saw life from a different prospect. Many things which I saw, hear and feel changed my thoughts. Especially a man with no hands working. I'm back to my family now, and this corona came , it again told me about a different thing. With your video I'm starting my journey again. Notes down many of your words, this video is like that penny to me. Thanks
daja aal, I am so honored by your comment. A sincere thank you for watching Live On Purpose TV. I am glad you're better now, & I hope you keep trying. We have lots of free resources for you here, if you want to take advantage of any of these: My book "Pathological Positivity" (just ask that you pay for the shipping): drpauljenkins.info/freebook My mini book, "Portable Positivity" for download: drpauljenkins.info/portablepositivity Free 25 minute breakthrough call with one of our Live On Purpose coaches: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall We are offering free coaching group events for this month, as a community service during the current challenges our world faces. If you wish to sign up, go here: drpauljenkins.info/april2020groups
