A successful executive goes off the grid. Her distraught husband is at a loss. The family's beautiful teen nanny in the middle. Then the most gruesome discovery of all. More: bit.ly/2Djq8QC
nah he just wants the status and the benefits that goes with working his former wife's type of job, but doesn't want the job itself. He's a loser that wants every thing but has no desire to work for it.
nope, only the working dad or mom should be enough to support the whole family. When my father was a kid, this father gained enough money to support this wife with his 4 children
@@Charles-hy6gp your grand father didn't work but did your mom work also I'm sure your grandmother didn't kill your grandfather because she felt like less than a woman
@@lesliebell5461 Well he was able bodied so he had the ability to do a days work and you could even go as far as stating that caring for two young children is definitely comes under the titled of doing a hards days work, but he convinced his hard working wife to hire a nanny so he could work her over while the wife was away earning a living to support him and their two children and for murdering the woman who's wages kept it all together, well that makes him, a lazy dumb ass, good a for nothing scumbag.
@@versatileduplicity9313 That’s a crazy unfair statement to make. Most abuse starts after the relationship has already started, and if it shows up before, the victim either backs out because they have the opportunity and realize the perpetrator is a dick (which can also lead to cases where women especially get murdered for not rejecting the guy ‘properly,’ and even if it doesn’t, you wouldn’t hear about it since the victim isn’t dead), or they get either psychologically or psychically pressured and bullied into it. People can’t choose to be abused, they either get coerced or forced into it- and people definitely can’t just know who’s going to murder them. If you need to run from a relationship, run. But people shouldn’t be bashing themselves over the head for getting fucking abused and attacked. Get mad at the person willing to cheat on and lay hands on their significant other- not the damn victim. You’re probably the type of person who asks girls what they were wearing if they tell you they got harassed and/or assaulted. Fuck you.
That's my biggest problem with it... He says if he doesn't do this he's going to jail.... He could've dumped it somewhere.... Instead he cut her to pieces 🥺🥺🥺 It's a different level of f***ng psycho.
@@SSS-ie6mh Females are the majority working these days. They don’t have to sleep around. Companies are fed up with male’s sexual harassment in the work place. They’re the ones that get sued.
wilsal I just commented that- so degrading and awful for those who love someone for their bodies to be cut up/dismembered. I don’t really have the words-
she mustve really suffered while married to him, these kind of people are difficult from day one they don't just wake up one day and turn into a killer. She probably made all sorts of excuses for him. She absolutely didn't deserve to die like that. Such a tragedy
@@goo1358 yes 100% yes, most men feel emasculated and angry and depressed when their woman makes more or they are the breadwinners. It usually doesn’t work, it can but it doesn’t for a lot of straight couples
@@goo1358 Or how about men start emulating Jesus and lose the ego, and stop having stupid, unrealistic and totally fabricated ideas of what a man is? Never once did Jesus or God even actually say or promote the idea that women "shouldn't" outdo their husbands financially. You know what that backwards ideology leads to? Degeneracy. Read the bible: women HAD to resort to prostitution precisely because they were entirely dependent on their husbands; yet it was somehow women's fault? The bible just says that men should provide for their families. It doesn't say any sort of crap religion claims it does. Of course, people don't actually like to read the bible because they don't like what it actually says.
This story irritates me like no other… the fact that he killed the woman that put a roof over his head, HIS WIFE, the MOTHER of his children, and then proceeded to play innocent is disgusting. Hell has a special place for him.
I live close to where this happened and remember the case very well. My sister actually saw Tara's sister at the grocery store not long after it was all over the news- everyone knew immediately that Steven killed her. His interviews were beyond ridiculous. So sad for Tara's kids, family and friends.
@@maribelacosta450 I’m not sure u really grasped my point.. but tbh?.. If your JOB is to make burgers, but your boss has to hire 3 other ppl to work the grill, cut the vegetables, and plate the meals... u are NOT a successful burger maker. So yes, perhaps those ladies should be referred to as professional wives, or bookkeepers, or even ‘home managers.’ Whatever role they actually fulfill, as they are simply subcontracting the duties associated with “stay at home moms.”
Au Pair’s have restrictions on hours they work as nannies. They also go to college and get several hours of credit. It’s more like having an older kid join the family.
Think4yourself ForOnce Most parents respect the rules or they lose the Au Pair. They don’t want to lose her. Anyone who believes au pairs replace parents is deceived.
Redwingsfan Even while following the rules, an au pair typically works enough hours that both parents can work outside the home. Of course, the parents will have plenty to do as do all working parents.
Think4yourself ForOnce I’m not generalizing, I’m just stating facts about au pair work rules. I don’t know how we got off on the wrong foot because I think we’re kind of saying the same things. These comments often tend to read like insults when they’re not intended to be (sometimes they are, of course). I wasn’t trying to imply that you were being deceived. It was directed more toward other comments I’ve read about this story. Peace.
In his voice message he said “your” kids, not “our” kids, but not even “my” kids. As a female who has been conditioned to always use the pronoun “we” and never “I” or “you”, that REALLY stood out.
I am a mom, So seeing that he viscously cut her up, placed her in plastics bags into a tub, right next to their kids toys. Her children's toys. Seriously shatters my heart. They will never see the woman who carried them and nurtured them again. The one who was supposed to kiss their boo boo's and make cookies together. I cannot even fathom this. I am utterly disgusted and so sadden by this heartless murder. Rip Tara, and may her children and family find peace.
Fran Cisco no doubt. I just meant that rich people spend money on housekeepers even when a spouse stays home all the time. But I was answering the is he lazy question. Nope. Just taking advantage of his wife because she’s rich.
Right🎯! It’s not her fault. We as women can just take precautions like don’t date a man that is okay with nanny on top of staying at home. When you are paying for everything and free to leave whenever and front everything and paying for in home children care, you don’t have a partner let alone someone who cares for you. Now we don’t expect him/her to be murdered physically but Atleast that would have kept you from this demon or making children with him😥
YEP A STUPID DISRESPECTFUL MAN WHO DID NOT KNOW HOW GOOD HE HAD THINGS AND THEN HE GOES AND FCUKS IT UP BUT MEN HAVE LOST THE PLOT THESE DAYS AND FOR SOME ODD REASON THEY ARE WEAK MINDED SO WHEN IT COMES TO MULTI TASKING THEY GET QUICKLY LOST AND IN THIS ANIMALS CASE IT COST A BEAUTIFUL INTELIGENT HARD WORKING WOMAN HER LIFE AND GONE ARE THE DAYS WHEN MEN SUCH AS I WERE RAISED BY FEMALES AND ALSO TAUGHT TO RESPECT THEM AND IF WHAT IS HAPPENING TO FEMALES RIGHT ACROSS OUR PLANET IS ANY THING TO GO BY, I THINK THE FAIRER SEX ARE IN REAL DANGER FROM TODAYS GENERATION OF MEN WHO SEEM TO HAVE NO UNDERSTANDING OF THE WORDS RESPECT AND LOYALITY AND WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO LOVE, COMMITMENT AND LOVING YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT CONDITIONS AND I RECENTLY LOST A PARTNER AFTER 19 YEARS OF DEVOTION ON BOTH OUR PARTS SO I HAVE NOTHING BUT HATRED FOR ASS HOLES WHO TREAT WOMEN LIKE PIECES OF MEAT AND THIS BOY IS AN ASS HOLE, PERIOD.
Video: man murders his wife and dismembers her corpse Comments: *arguing over whether or not the nanny was pretty* I feel like you're missing the point
No one knows her personally, so the way they empathize with her is by gauging the attractiveness of the nanny---- was she truly worth killing his wife and the mother of his children. Gauging attractiveness is what most people do once someone dies, they do it in the news often, and they do it with this television program. I personally think the wife was beautiful and the nanny a young but plain looking woman.
The guy at the beginning describing Steven Grant as someone who’d be labeled amongst “the stupidest criminals” didn’t lie. That dude was so dumb. Thank god for stupid criminals cuz they practically tell on themselves
Seems like a lot of these episodes have dudes with it made in it. They usually end up killing the woman who pays for their easy ass life.. why didn’t I end up with some rich woman who wanted to take care of me?? I would treat them like a queen, not cut up their body!!
Totally agree. Most stay a home mums don't get huge recognition and a pat on the back. Why do we have to make such a big deal over one and not the other.
@@daves2822 of course I am jealous but not the one you're thinking of. I am jealous of the beautiful woman who was so successful in life because that's what I wanna be. Not of an emo wallpaper looking girl who you can find every where
Yes! And when you see a red flag dont ignore it! Run! This was in my community, while I went to the highscool he went to, my best friends mom went to highschool with Steven Grant. It absolutely freaked out our whole community
When he talked about how he had to chase the sled with his wife's remains, I couldn't help but think that his friend was right in predicting that he would end up on some "dumbest criminals" list.
Aww in your picture on here you do look beautiful tho, don't worryy I know what you're saying tho. But in the end even if everyone said I was fugly it's up to me to shake it off, beauty radiates from within after all
@@katisclean jealous? Or was someone rude to you at work today? Whatever it is... There's no need to lash out and be nasty to others. What's the point? Did it make you feel better?
He had the right feeling. I mean, honestly, a murderer who _put the dismembered body parts of his wife in a bin that he put on a sled that zoomed down a hill (and he was probably chasing after) and then spilled his wife everywhere._ If it wasn't so fucking tragic and real, you'd think that's something straight from a comedy horror film. Can't make that shit up 🤦♀️
Sometimes I wonder why it’s so important to mention how attractive people are in stories like this. They mentioned the women’s attractiveness in at least four separate instances during the video, probably more
Dont reply to the guy above me. Hes commenting on all of the posts on this video saying the same thing. Copy and paste. I just read something about how there's trolls hired like him to write nasty things on the internet but they only get paid if people respond to them.
Another lesson to be learnt investigate people it seems very obvious that these 2 people intellectual levels were not the same he should be in pain suffering the unthankful wretch may the wretch tot in poop and hell people we must stop and think who we are getting involved with before we also meet a similar fate and or worse may the beauty rest in peace and perpetual light shine on her the poor kids God will provide being alone not so bad we can have fun and stay alone there is other comforts sex toys whatever do research he must be sorry now we must always appreciate when we have someon nice to us
Mr. Mom is also just called dad. But wow this story is something else. Rest in peace Tara. I'm honestly happy all the people that get dismembered after their death will never know because that's just absolutely horrific.
@@alexvensel5730 looking after kids shouldn't affect your health, what bullshit are you on. Parents are parents for a reason and it's to look after there damn kids not be so fucking lazy to hire a nanny even though your there everyday
@@alexvensel5730 why do it? Because you had the kid so take the responsibility. I'm a stay at home mom, if I'm staying home and my main job is taking care of the kids why do I need a nanny.
You can tell the guy interviewed in the beginning was a bully. What does being ugly or your appearance have to do with being a murderer? The shallow things he mentioned were irrelevant. Although this man clearly deserves whatever comes his way (and deserves THE CHAIR), the bully trying to get his 15 minutes of fame and seeing people in the comments cheering him on makes me feel sick. He's clearly not a good guy and he was the type of teen/kid who I now protect my kids from.
Sorry, why does a stay-at-home spouse need a live-in helper? He wasn't a work-from-home dad; the kids were his job and they went to school during the day. Not to mention, his wife came home on the weekends. Should have raised some red flags for her right there.
Why show the nanny's face & reveal her name, make it sound as if she were involved the entire time, then reveal in one sentence that she had nothing to do with it? That's just asinine.
They shouldn’t, but many people watch these to try to determine the murderer, and if there are only the wife killed and the husband, not much to figure out.
I've never understood why the killers feel the need to dismember their victims, as if the different body parts found seperately wont inevitably turn up the exact same dna evidence and prove who they victim is. Disgusting and so inhuman, he had to of truly hated her with the most vile hatred known to man to be able to dismember her on top of killing her. I hope he gets what he deserves 🔥🔥🔥🔥 God, please comfort her kids and her family. RIP Tara!🙏💕🕊
You can't fit a fully grown adult human body in just one trash bag...There's definitely no way you'd be able to get away with dumping a full corpse into any dumpster that gets picked up by garbage trucks. Even burning a body or dumping it in the water, is way harder to pull off. Unfortunately, most dismemberment cases don't even turn up all the pieces, because of how much easier it is to lose them. :( One thing is absolutely for sure. The only way to blend in with all the other trash bags in the dumpster is to use identical trash bags. Unfortunately, lots of dead bodies have been successfully disposed of by dismemberment into trash bags and then getting the garbage truck to take it to the landfill. In just one case off the top of my head, not that long ago, the only reason the killer got caught is because one of the garbage trucks came late and they just managed to find one of the bags...with her torso. The rest of her body was never found, it had already been taken to the landfill, lost in an ocean of identical trash bags. If they hadn't managed to be there searching and find the one garbage bin that had yet to be taken which just so happened had one of the bags, then no part of her body would have ever been found. It's truly horrific. It's an unfortunate fact, but dismembering the body into small enough pieces to fit in normal trash bags and then dropping them in normal garbage bins or dumpsters, is the best way to get a corpse moved far away by someone else, legally and without suspicion, and then disposed of in a landfill, at which point it's incredibly difficult to find (and impossible for many even if they do know where to look, if the landfill serves a big enough city). While uncovering full corpses is how killers who don't dismember get caught, the #1 way killers who do dismember actually get caught is due to the difficulty of cleaning up the crime scene where they did the dismembering. Or they just admit it. Even tell police what they did with the body, has still left it impossible to uncover. Unlike with bodies that weren't dismembered, which have been retrieved in full once the killer admits what they did. 😔 This is simply the fact. I am not happy about it, I don't take pleasure in writing this comment, but unfortunately it's the case that dismemberment is absolutely necessary when it comes to disposing bodies for any killer who doesn't have access to the resources required for a burial. Every case of self burial I can think of required the killer to have access to large areas of empty, wooded land. And the time, vehicle and tools (and physical strength) to dig a grave and bury a body.
You are right about the dismemberment and also I highly doubt she hit him first. He made that up to justify his actions. Unfortunately we will never know what really happened but I don’t think she would’ve slapped him
Yes . The shallowness always comes through in these reports. The good looking all American family. The "attractive beautiful" wife, and " I never thought you would get someone like THAT because you ain't " type comments. Aren't people shallow ? "Yummy Mummy's" "Revenge Bodies" Just totally objectifying, simpleton attitudes always being "reported" as to their physical attributes being directly correlated with "successful" also. It's called STEREOTYPING. It insults my intelligence love, and I can't stand it.
And what it does do, is , creates a BENCH MARK or, expectations, obligations and or CONFINED condition, moulding, copying, and defining, in a robotic, or, this is how we live in order to receive the "successful" credentials. And that whole thing, which falls under the dome of human, worldly, social INFLUENCE, which is , only successful, depending on how it's perceived, as "lifestyle norm" or, representation of REALITY. Or example. When, it's "benchmark" or "appearance of success" or appeal , desire or "sales" stereotyping, or stereotype, is illusory, from the beginning, because, for two main reasons. 1. It's in the eye of the person perceiving the presentation, or the beholder. Meaning, it's going to depend on who you ask, as to what is referred to or reported as " the usual buzz word adjectives according to our own conditioning, and social cultural or nation defining IDENTITY to what success, living the dream, or power couple's , or achievement, win, win, win, ENTERTAINMENT and HOSTING , genres , or preference copying of "successful and achieving" IS. Because it appears illusory, to me. I could possibly understand, from past KARAOKE lesson and education, and vocational training, what "stereotyping" and it's attachments, or, weight baggage expectations or "emotionally connecting to the song" or, whatever, I'm not invested in with it, due to : it takes one away, from the honesty. And, it blocks from virtues like, truth, trust, and charity, and fortitude, and even just, let's take it away from the "soul" word use, and look at it from a more, practical or grounded approach. Stereotypes, and stereotyping, impedes on, persons being able to be themselves. For its stereotyping. Which is, can be, so pidgeon holing , or confining, to be desiring of thinking it's something to PURSUE, or, aspire , aim, when, it's simply too, ACCOLADING, fanfare, not measured, considered, fair, an of : that's only ONE way of looking at it. And that's why I don't like star's signs, for exactly the same reason. It's STEREOTYPING. And 2). As I'm not running the world, controlling it, nor can, nor WANT to, lovely, I always place things, in the correct context of how it's intended . Obviously being a writer, myself, wouldn't like to have my own "freedom of speech" oppressed, due to an, OVER SENSITIVITY to a particular adjective, or, description words, like colours. For example. Because artisans are colourful people. By nature they're inclined or tactile to it's correct, application and context. So, I guess what I'm trying to convey, younger, is, it comes down to how the message, or, information, is conveyed, and the INTENT behind it, and the CONTEXT it is in. Look after yourself.😎🙂
So sad, no person should ever do such a despicable thing to another person. The children will not ever be able to recover from something like this entirely. My heart and prayers go out to them. So sad!
I live within 1 mile of where this happened and we were all shocked something like this happened, plus I mountain bike ride and hike at Stoney Creek all the time. I remember when this happened:( my heart goes out to her, the awful death she suffered and all of the loved ones affected by this, especially her children💔
lol, exactly. Remember that Simpsons episode where everyone incorrectly thought Homer was a pervert and the media just constantly flamed him in every way possible? With the precise same circumstances, make the woman the killer, and they would be making this guy out to be the kind hearted stay at home dad and the female the evil mother with mental issues (in regards to her, "perfectionism"). Everyone always eats up narratives and inflections.
These working/career/goal orientated women (or just plain out lucky-in-life women) seriously need to be careful who they are friends with, hook up with, or who they marry. The green eyed monster can be a dangerous thing. Dress it all up as "women shouldn't be working or successful, they must stay away from careers and pantsuits, they are only made for babies, and homes, and lookin' good, and I don't care how smart/competent she is, that's for the menz. Therefor I must stop, back hand compliment, undermine, sabotage, and/or dismiss her because jesus.god.allah.jehovah.nature < *I* said so". You can pull that all you want to, but underneath all the flair and excuses....envy is envy. Their dislike of women outside of their "place" is just gasoline on the green fire. It has caused catastrophic damages, but of course when the fire settles, they will blame...you guessed it...the women. In an envious household, a woman doesn't even have to be a career woman, she could have just committed the grave sin of being more popular. Maybe she's fitter, is better looking, or aged more gracefully. Perhaps she plans and hosts great parties and has more friends. Maybe she's more liked by her kids, more liked in her community, is a beacon of inspiration for others in her community, church or housewife life. Maybe her womanly gardening, hobbies or crafts centered around domestic life got a little too popular, or her works are hanging around the house reminding her partner that she is talented in something he is not. It doesn't really matter whether or not the woman is a career or domestic. That was never really the point. The point is, is she daring to eclipse the greatness of the one and only, grand appointed leader? **Hint-hint, it's hubby. Is she taking from the dear leader's thunder, or proving independence, or signs she can indeed make it without him in any way? Is she making him question if life's purpose and holy ordained role by nature or what he worships? A dangerous mix indeed. People who are saddled with envy, or those who are prone to envious personalities are not of sound mind, don't think straight, and do not make good life, friend or even business partners....especially not marriage partners. The ONLY way a relationship can work with such a person is if their target just does things their way every time. Gives up and becomes a transparent, silent, hollow shell of themselves. There will be nothing that makes them stand out, or remind the envious person that they themselves are indeed lacking in life. Their targets will live only to praise, and build up the envious one while the envious one breaks their punching bag down, and convinces them that they are all they have in life, and they should be grateful. There is nothing more dangerous than an envious personality who is seeing someone they view as beneath them succeed, especially without them. This can be for any reason too: race, age, nationality, color, class, sexuality, gender, doesn't matter. in this case, however, for an unfortunate number of guys in this world, women in their minds are their inferiors in every way. With that mindset, can you imagine how witnessing the contrary before their eyes would screw with their entire worldview and their sanity? If their "inferiors" are killing it in life, some of these green eyed men have no issues killing their "inferior's" lives in revenge, and take away the "faux girl power" they never should have had in the first place. Men built the whole wide world 100%, but why aren't they, as the man building anything? That's gotta sting. In contrast, most of these guys have no issue setting their sights on trying to inherit their dead wive's/girlfriend's money, but that must keep them up at night too. I mean...it's a lowly, unworthy, weak woman's money. How "low" must they be stooping? Oh, poor them. Oh, just lookit what that uppity b made them do again. =.= If you find yourself face to face with a green eyed monster, get tf out. I can promise it won't end well for you as envious people rarely change, and therapy, addressing their issue, and talking it out just makes them angrier, or makes them deflect like crazy. This issue is a personality problem, and personality disorders and nigh IMPOSSIBLE to treat. Don't stick around, don't suffer. The best way to keep envious people off your back is to basically downplay yourself, and not make yourself as interesting, but that's dang near impossible in a marriage, or with someone you live with. Just get out. Who knows? You may very well find yourself carved up in your very own garbage bag someplace, most likely over the stupidest, trivial reason. Educate yourself on these envious personalities so that you can avoid getting into long term relationships in the first place. The signs are always there, no matter how the envious one tries to hide it, because it's who they are...and in my experience, they are either horrible actors, or can't keep up the charade forever. Most of them are at least self aware enough to know that who they are is unacceptable/vile by most people, and some are aware enough to know their personality causes them issues in life. Yet, because they lack insight, they blame everyone else, not themselves, and don't aim on fixing themselves. Don't rush into relationships, because that's a main pitfall of people. And for goodness sake, I'm not one for strict gender roles, but if you're going to hook up with someone, they don't have to be on your "level", but please ensure that they are humble and not lazy. Make sure your guy/girl knows that things take effort to execute. Make sure they know how finances work, because a lot of marriage issues are stemmed in money. Envious people are often lazy af, because they feel the world should drop everything in their laps. They don't care if you worked your butt off for years, it doesn't matter if they don't know squat about what you do, or how you got there, what you have, they deserve it more, and that's all there is to it. If you are well off, and you came along and made their life easy street, you just reinforced that worldview that good things "always" drop in laps with no work for them...and that's DANGEROUS when dealing with such a person. Ever notice that most of these green eyed monsters NEVER help out with the children/house/support, and when they do, they want the biggest, sloppiest b . j ever? They will never forgive you for making their easy life a reality for them, especially if they view you as a lesser than. You are in danger. Get out, especially if they have already let the mask slip, and are testing the waters on what they can get away with. Silently recognize the green eyed monster, get some safe distance, and slowly start making gentle plans to get away. If you have money, this is just easier. if you have kids, it's trickier, but it's possible. You'll be glad you did.
It’s usually that way: the one that's cheating is usually the spouse that's always thinking the other one is! The one thing they're so paranoid of is something they're doing themselves. Crazy how that mindset is. I guess they think that it's ok if they do it but the other one can't. All ties in with dominance, abuse & control. They all go hand in hand.
