They vowed to love and cherish each other till death do they part. But nobody could have imagined Cody Johnson and his bride Jordan Graham would part so soon. From 2016: bit.ly/2IPP7xs
But they are a bad person if they use religion/god to enrich themselves while there is immense poverty and suffering all around them (ahem, looking at your "prosperity gospel" preacher Joel Osteen
@@davidmmm8 I don’t believe this had to do with religion or church more of the person’s personality and their disorders. She’s clearly a narcissist and most likely with BPD. If this had to do with the fact that some people who go to church do this, then you’d probably see a higher occurrence of this even if it is just some people.
How can you be too scared to call of a wedding, but brave enough to MURDER the man? That’s absolutely insane. I can’t believe people really think like that. Wow. Rest in peace, Cody.
@@Andrew824100 Sadly Cody is not with us. Peace is not involved. Not for him, his family or his best mate. Don't sugarcoat a vile act by saying she did not handle the situation well??? There was no situation!! Until she decided to kill. 😒😒
@@Andrew824100 Mate that's friekin BS. There was no situation. They were together years. No Sex !! THEN She conned him into marriage. SO FAR "no situation"?? 9 days later he is murdered, cos she did not want to have her vile pussy petted. There is no mitigating factor?? OK !! You tell it WRONGLY like you think it WAS? Just stop while you are behind.
totally psycho such people. Disgusting how they expect us to believe such invalid excuses. Similar to those who k!ll their new borns and say they we scared of aborting them... WTF?
Good question she could’ve said no to his marriage proposal spare his feelings and let him down gently but no she decided to end his life she shouldn’t have gone ahead with the wedding if she was having doubts she should’ve called off just told him she couldn’t go through with it yes he would’ve been upset but least he’d still b alive she doesn’t seem to understand or care about the consequences of her evil actions hope she rots in hell Xx
In federal prison, and now most states due to "truth in Sentencing" that's absolutely not true. Federal sentences you MUST serve 85% or more of your sentence. It can be reduced to that by good behavior, and completing all of the programs that she is ordered to complete. The half-time bullshit hasn't been a thing in a long time. Stop spreading this bullshit misinformation.@@Martin-tn5lm
Why even accept the proposal? That man could’ve had someone who adored him and could’ve been so happy. But instead she chose to take his life. It was almost like she was disgusted by him.
I think she considered him as her property, which means she can throw away if she wants. She probably doesn't want him to move on if they end up getting divorced.
No, the death penalty was created because judges and other people in power think they have the right to decide whether someone lives or dies. That decision is only up to Elohim. He gave us life. Therefore, he's the one that decides when our time is up. Not sinful humans.
For the ultra religious "until death do us part", they think it's wrong to get annulled/divorced. She clearly has some mental problems as well so who knows what if anything was going through her mind
You don't even need to consummate the marriage to be eligible to have it annulled. The problem is getting someone religious to agree to annulment or divorce as marriage is considered sacred . The out in some sects in Christianity is only if your spouse is unfaithful. Even at some of those, divorce is still shunned.
She told him she had a surprise for him. She then put him in a blindfold and lured him down that trail. This was premeditated if I’ve ever seen it. It is is chilling how evil and cold hearted this woman is She’s extremely dangerous.
And extremely dumb. What makes these people think they'll get away with it? Sends an email from a family members home and doesn't think that the police will look into it, along with other dumb things they all do!!!!
@@paulanthony5274 They don't think with rational brain like the boyfriend that killed Gabbie Petito after leading her into wilderness. Victim does not realize how dangerous other one is either although sometimes it should be obvious.
Something is significantly wrong with this young woman. No grief, no remorse, no self-awareness or ability to recognize how her behavior pointed to his guilt. His poor mother and family. 😢😢😭😭
Lol religious people are so hypocritical. I went to a Christian high school and the son of the religion teacher knocked a girl up. What was his solution? Abortion.
@@EmilyGraceTarot83 yeah, you have to stop reading those 'sign of psychopath' or whatever that is atleast for sometime. Also, It's not uncommon for people ( mostly men ) to not cry about when their loved ones dies. That doesn't mean that they are psychopath or something. It's just they express their emotion differently.
This case breaks my heart so much … He doesn’t even know why he died . He loved her and felt like he can be vulnerable with her and the whole time she was disgusted with him & secretly hated him . She is a disgrace to human kind 🤦🏾♀️
I feel lucky. After driving 10 hours from KY to SC for a honeymoon. My new bride tossed a heavy brush at my head. We had just gotten to our room at the hotel. She was fine the whole drive there. I quickly divorced her, 17 years later.
It's his fault. There are signs and red flags. You'll never convince me that someone can hide so much hatred and animosity. He saw what she was, but he ignored it out of desperation. Even the people being interviewed in this video could see that she didnt even love him. Straight up incel shit smh
This is just so so so heartbreaking. Man I’m in tears even. RIP brother. You’re now walking through the garden of paradise with our Lord, forever in love. Amen ✝️✝️✝️
I've seen this case many times and she is definitely a different kind of psycho. I'm all for saving sex for marriage but somewhere along the way her mind broke and convinced her sex itself is evil. I feel so sorry for Cody and his family. I can't imagine the fear in his heart being blindfolded and pushed by the woman you love. She was just sick. She was in love with the idea of being admired as a bride but nothing else. You can have a baby without sex. Adoption, in-vitro... it's common knowledge. She wanted to kill him to punish him for even wanting to have sex with her. I have big respect for Jordan's friends because they didn't hesitate to tell the police about all of her suspicious behavior or let their friendship blind them to her guilt. She not only murdered this innocent man, she desecrated his body which just adds to his family's pain. He was an only child and she took him from his family and friends. What a monster.
what really annoyed the hell out of me, you know, other than the murder, was her gloating to her friend for making up excuses not to have sex with her newlywed husband. What a fucking bitch.
Yes. Crazy. It was obvious she didn't like the act of sex but being in the church she prob relented to must having a husband etc. But she shld have been honest wth herself..adopt bt don't marry. Poor guy he just thought it was her Christian beliefs she wldnt even kiss him. Her lies to herself n how she saw religion ruined many lives-incl. her own.
This woman who killed her husband eight days after they were married, is pure evil. She actually should have been given the death penalty prison is too good for her.
So sad…he and his mom look so nice… there were just *so many ways* she could’ve ended things peacefully without killing anyone, even after the wedding, that it’s baffling she came to the conclusion *this* was her best option… Hard to believe.
@@JosephKulik2016 , mind boggling for sure. I’m wondering if there are past girlfriends to vouch for Cody’s prowess - not that he should have to have his honor defended. Saving “yourself” for marriage is not super common nowadays, but it happens and Cody hung in there for a year until he proposed and then married this whackjob. Jordan is the definition of a sociopath. All these friends coming out of the woodwork to be interviewed and no one saw any red flags nor had insight about the real sick mind of Jordan? Unreal. Poor guy
Note to self: If I ever get married and my bride to be is crying down the aisle and staring at the ground during the ceremonial vows...........................................RUN AWAY!!!
My heart breaks for Cody's mom. I know the love between a mother and her sons; they are always our precious, sweet little boys. We pray that we will hand them off in marriage to a good person, who loves them as we do. I'm so sorry Cody fell into such dangerous hands. My own boy has the most amazing partner, who loves him and cares for him. They are best friends as well as fiancees. She's the best daughter in law a mom could ask for, and I so wish Cody would have married a person like my dear Kayla. Jordan's behavior causes me to wonder if there's a personality disorder in play. God bless all who love Cody. 🤗💖🙏
I can't imagine how he felt the moment before he hit the ground and died, he even trusted her enough to put a blind flood, he really loved her a lot. Like imagine the pain when he realized the person he loves so much hates him enough to kill him, the heartbreak he felt I can't imagine....
Wow I really visualized that. And he really had no time to be scared or or realize what was happening and had only like 2 seconds before he realized A) His wife just pushed him and B) He’s about to die 😢
The girl had the mental capabilities of a child. Who fakes a letter saying "Dear Cops. Cody is gone. You can stop looking now. Signed - Definitely not the person that killed Cody."
Many women go thru with much more than just the wedding, while all the time planning to leave. Setting up their departure for years and years, while intentionally making the marriage a living hell. Why? Lots and lots of women are nuts, but It happens. trust me.
God bless! Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior and died on a cross for our sins so we can live again in Heaven where there is no pain or suffering! God is our Father and Creator and raised His Son Jesus from the dead! Repent and confess your sins and God will freely forgive you! Live for Jesus as He died for you and trust in God! 💕
What's the difference between a normal person and a psychopath? A normal person would have gotten a wedding annulment, easy and pain-free. A psychopath thinks murder is the first line of defense, instead of the sensible way out.
It’s sad how many people are excited about having a wedding or being engaged, but not about actually being married. And if you made a mistake GET A DIVORCE! You don’t push them off a cliff instead of calling off a wedding or getting a divorce 🤦♀️ Poor guy & his family & friends.
What hurts me the most is that he died feeling betrayed by someone who he truly loved enough to marry. I was close to dying from someone I thought loved me. Crazy people out there. 🤦🏽♀️
@@nickhersheys2706 I'm telling you, that's what bothers me. The fact that he didn't get a hint that she didn't like him or love him. I believe he had a chance to leave and she had a choice to stop the wedding.
There are ways to get out of a marriage without murdering your spouse. This marriage hadn't been consummated so they wouldn't even have to get a divorce. A annulment would have been easier. I believe she's a psychopath. Not just because she murdered her husband but how unaffected she was by what she did. Zero emotions during the interrogation, checking her phone during the funeral etc... That's a lot scarier than other killers. She's barely human.
His mom is right... why did she marry him? Why did she say yes to the proposal..? She should’ve said no & moved on. At least both of them would’ve been happy now.
I remember going to an engagement party where everyone except the engaged man knew that the narcisstic engaged woman had no intention of marrying him but was just loving herself and the attention she was getting. The difference in her case was that she didn't have a persona of religiosity and virginity as part of her narcissism to lose and was able quite easily to move on to another with narcissistic satisfaction gained from doing that.
Profile her as someone that wasn’t punished for any wrongs she did growing up. There was no consequences for any disobedience or disrespect she displayed to her parents. She could get away with anything while disrespecting her parents and incur no consequences. She killed him without believing she’d have to take responsibility. She truly believed she could do this and nothing would come of it
She liked attention. She's a narcissist. Being engaged, planning the wedding and the ceremony itself was all about her. She didn't really care about Cody. He was basically a useful tool to get attention. Once it was all over, she wanted to get rid of him like he was an unwanted piece of trash.
I think you hit the head on that. Even dating her at the beginning was all about her. But after marriage when life steps in and it's time to be equal partners? She couldn't deal with it normally
Truest comment! Evil disguised behind religion. 😈 True narcissist evil beyond words. I hope she suffers greatly until her death 💀 when she’ll suffer forever in hell. 🔥💀
Okay, then why did she told him about his death scene in the wedding dance? Why did she planned exactly how she's gonna kill him even before her wedding. I do believe she's creepy beyond our understanding!
What bewilders me is she didn’t have the balls to speak up and say she didn’t want to get married, yet she had that audacity to push her newlywed husband off a cliff…
@@allysonchen4286 Judging by all her behaviors and her personality , she's a psychopath. No amount of talking would have changed her. He might have been better warned though.
@@guntertorfs6486 I could be wrong but I think she wanted to know how it felt to kill. I bet she would have killed her friend if she found out too much.
This is not in any way an excuse for her, but I bet she married him because the idea of being the princess for the day was what appealed to her, not the actual man or marriage. I frankly have seen a LOT of women get super caught up in "their day" of being the Disney princess, and they have tunnel vision, not seeing anything at all outside of that fun event where they are the star of their own family and friend circle. The same thing happens with many regarding having a baby. They love the attention but really couldn't care less about having a child to deal with.
@@mazzy2121 I fully agree with your reasoning, sir! I would just like to add.... I'm willing to bet that this sorry excuse of a human being didn't want the dark cloud of divorce hanging over her head in that community. Sounds like EVERYONE knew how good of a man Cody was and also was in love with Jordan so much that nobody would believe that Cody was the reason for the divorce. Everyone would be again Jordan and she didn't want that. Now that I think aboot it......is DIVORCE against her "religion" as well?
@@alfa-psi no, you twit. It wouldn't. Are you that thick that you don't understand what the OP had in mind? Or you're just pretending? If someone's ONLY child dies, then the parent's 'whole world' is gone, so to speak. They have nothing left. Whereas if the victim wasn't the only child, then at least the mother still have some other human beings to live for, be responsible for, and to LOVE. Even though no child can replace the other, and any child's murder is an unimaginable tragedy for a parent. I can't believe I'm explaining it to an adult.
I had a friend who was a only child. He died about 10 years ago. His mom took her own life 3 weeks after his death. She could not handle losing him. I think if you have more kids, you have a reason to stay around.
@@andreasleonhard1512 that's what I ALWAYS thought! And before I had my 2nd son, when I only had my 1st one, I used to think that if something happened to him, if he died , then I wouldn't want to be in this world without him! So I totally understand what you're saying. And the OP is just playing stupid.
@Kwame brown and Jim cornette burner account OMG I KNOW it was sarcasm! My response clearly indicates it. Still, his reply was ridiculous, as the Original Poster did not imply such thing. So...please read the whole discussion, before attempting to "enlighten" me and stating the obvious ;-)
That guy deserved so much better. I bet he didn't see his murder coming even minutes before his death. He was so blind sighted by love. I dont understand why she chose to waste his time, his life, and even her own...
This case has always felt so odd to me. I never understood why they got married, their relationship foundation prior to marriage felt very minimal. Marriage is a serious thing, you only commit if you really know the person because even then it's challenging at the best of times, but these two never had a chance. But also her mentality seems very simple, toddler-like almost, always wondered if she was on the spectrum and didnt fully comprehend the gravity of things or had ang kind of self-awareness. Because if she did surely divorce is much more convenient than murder! Honestly I wish people would stop murdering spouses and loved ones. Karma will get you no matter what.
Only 30 years in prison for this.... All of you judges and jurors who have failed your communities like these jurors have... SHAME ON YOU. Those off you in judicial positions of power who do not carry out appropriate and sufficient justice ARE MURDERERS.
@@brianna094 Im speaking towards her being in full control of her actions, and how nobody forced her into ANYTHING lol, her self control is another question clearly.
@@lilneil6010 What’s sad is that she’ll be in her 50’s when she gets out. This psychotic person will be free and able to start a life. And possibly even get to marry again. But Cody never even got a chance to live and have a family. We don’t need her free amongst people ever. I hope they take care of her in prison.
Salmyn, You are absolutely right. His friends cared greatly for him, which is more than can be said about his "wife". Jordan is an evil psychopath. Period. End of story. Poor Cody and his loved ones. 🙏❤🙏
She was at her husband's funeral, and she was on her phone. She could've said no to his proposal, but she decided to kill him instead. You can tell how cold-blooded she is
This broke my heart. God bless him R.I.P. I know they say god forgives but in this case she deserves absolutely no forgiveness for taking away such a peaceful soul away from his loved ones 🙏
It wouldn't even be a divorce@@matthill2957 if you don't consummate the marriage within a certain time, you would just annul the marriage. Its legally binding that a marriage must be consummated or else it gets cancelled.
sadly he was probably just lonely, and wanted affection and a family. He jumped at the first opportunity it sounds like. Because there is absolutely nothing in this woman that's attractive (inside or out).
I've officiated over 40 weddings and almost Everytime the couple is eye-locked and completely tuned in and focused on each other in a whole different world. If someone is looking down it's usually the groom trying to hold his tears of joy back from his razzing buddies. This woman is bat nuts evil!
I almost fainted walking down the aisle. Had a panic attack at the altar. Yet I have been blissfully married 31 years. The journey down the aisle is not an indicator of a happy marriage.
@@karatemamanr congratulations, that’s wonderful! I believe that you’re right, though in her case it was another red flag, indicating her disgust in him.
I realized before marrying my Wusband that I was making a mistake, also, but I was WAY TOO AFRAID to back out. That may have happened to her, too, but murder isn’t the answer. I *truly convinced* myself it was wedding jitters. A year later when he got violent, I KNEW I married the wrong man. But I STILL tried to make it work. We ended up divorcing almost 8 years later. Then we stayed together for 3 more years STILL TRYING to make it work. But it just didn’t. I did try. But if it’s not working, ladies, just let him go. I’m STILL SAD my marriage didn’t work. But he still deserves a LIFE. He still deserves a good life. 🥺🙏❤️
One the best quotes I've read that fits so well is "I'm not afraid of the boogeyman, monsters, dragon's or the unknown I'm afraid of what humans are willing to do to other humans" 💔 rest in love young man
She really thought the police were gonna be like "Ok everybody, pack up the search. Tony The Car Man says Cody's dead, so obviously that's all we need to know." Her immaturity is phenomenal. She's a 3 year old in a grown up's body who thought that if she pushed her problem off a cliff, it literally didn't exist anymore.
A Monster A Freak. I wish people would have loooong engagements in these type of freaky cases...so they figure it out before they make the worst mistake of their lives! God bless his mother and bring her peace.
@@noongourfain Unfortunately no long engagement would have helped in this case. She could have married for love instead, had a child and then decided that the child is too troublesome, wakes her up at night, makes to much noise, poos, pees, etc. and then the baby would have had an accident. The girl is a psycho.
@@anovemberstar I've see too many good people end up with bad people, after they found themselves single later in life. For goodness sake, look before you leap...no pun in tended.
@@bernie2231 oh I'm safe, trust me, I'm single, and plan to be for the rest of my life (I'm in my mid 40s now so doing great n that commitment to myself). I decided a long time ago, relationships are not for me - they re not good for everyone, and some people truly ARE happier and better off, being single (i wont say 'alone' cos i dont feel 'alone'). Some people might look at my life and think its sad im 'alone' but I certainly dont feel that way!
She's a psychopath. She teased him and lured him to go there, got him excited, raised his expectations, then blindfolded him and pushed him off the edge of the cliff. COLD.
Rule #1, don't interject yourself into someone else's relationship. It's between those two people only. Whether or not she was interested or not during the wedding is no one's business.
@@ellekane302 it's a bit hard not to interject yourself into someone else's life when it's all over RU-vid just like you interjected yourself opinion in the comment section
@@surfingalien8846 thats not what i was saying, smart ass. Yes we're going to comment on a story on RU-vid/social media. My response was to your comment in a "real life" situation. You wouldn't OBJECT into someone wedding simply because you thought the bride wasn't "interested at the wedding". My point was, life is easier when you mind your own business especially when it comes to other people's relationships. You must be pretty young minded not to know that....
This is so tragic, she wasn’t force to get married to him for God sakes, and she also could have told him she wanted out, rather than killing him. I feel so sorry for his family and friends. May she rot in jail.
I was just gobsmacked. So 'Tony' knew that they were looking for the bloke, and didn't call to say he's with them. And also saw him 'fall' off a cliff but thought to email his wife with a vague location, rather than call emergency services. How did she think that was believable?
@@shademillith Her cover-up is so unbelievably awful. If she said 'my husband went out with a few of his out of state friends' and acted like she cared she probably had a better chance. Instead she lead them to the body, which probably wouldn't have been found otherwise. That said, her and Cody's phone data would probably have lead to them discovering the lie. Hell, she probably could have lied about what happened on the mountain and said he was being reckless and actually gotten away with it. The standard is beyond a reasonable doubt, and without cameras what are they meant to do?
DOUBLE CHECK WITH THE PERSON YOU ABOUT TO MARRY, THE DAY BEFORE YOU DO, WE CAN GET OUT OF THIS RIGHT NOW IF YOU WANT TO AND WAIT A LITTLE LONGER ...OR JUST CALL IF ALL OFF NO BAD FEELINGS. BECAUSE THIS IS A LIFETIME COMMITMENT. THIS IS FOR REAL!!!
