MISSMOLLDOLL I was trying to keep it classy like Marjorie and not comment,, but Steve had a similar situation in the past, a real messy one that was all over the news. I'll leave it to you to do the exploring. Plenty interviews about it and Steve even discussed it on his morning show years back. That's all I'll say on it.
I have a stepmother whom I love dearly as though she were MY biological mom. If I EVER disrespected her in any way, shape, form or fashion, my biological mother AND my father would remove me from the family and this life. Any parent who teaches their child to disrespect another parent needs to have a heart and emotion check.
Jean what road was that when she moved in the New York apartment if a married man. And what road she took for her children to to be double kin. Cousins and siblings. And what road she took to live with drugs dealers. Yeah a real class act. A pig in an evening gown.
Thank you, Steve Harvey for having a show about stepmoms. Being a stepmom is hard. I have kids but, my kids are 18 and are in college. They are also living with their dad. I got remarried, and have step children. It's a good thing my step children are not disrespectful. But, it's hard because the two mom's are bitter. I just stay qiuet and let my husband talk to them.
Marjorie, I LOVE me some YOU... Such a class act to follow... That response right there nipped it in the bud and they can read between the line to NOT cross you... Yes but that husband needs to stand up and put a stop to that right off the top... I can't stand women like that... As long as the other person is not harming your children, doing wrong by them, you teach them to respect them and to do what's right NOT be trifling like me (the mother)... The wife is probably doing more for the children than she is, that's why she's hating...
Yesssss!!! 🙌🏼 My stepchild’s mother wanted to get her daughter against me, that way she would have trash to talk about me and make me seem like a monster. I would plan out the weekend with the little girl and she would end up getting jealous and upset! That’s when I realized, she enjoyed making me look like the evil step mom. So I decided to piss her off some more and really elaborate on the weekend activities when her daughter was with us 🙃 Needless to say, she had no choice but to shut her mouth and she’s no longer an issue in my household 🥳
Being a step mum is the most thankless task I have ever known, It's a Labour of love expect nothing from it but learn to give. As for Majorie, how she talking about raising kids in the right way when she raised Lori!
Yep I was mean to my step mom at first when I met her at 8 by the time I was 14 she was my mom and if any wrong was done to her I was furious.. I had my bio mom but you couldn’t tell me my step mom wasn’t my mom too ..because she kept on loving me no matter how I treated her in the beginning ❤️ I’m 31 and they still together and that’s mama 🤏🏾
Hi Arie, Your step mum sounds like a wonderful woman and a dream for most step kids.I apologise in advance if my questions are offensive. Do you love your bio mum more than your step mum or vice versa?Did you ever get the lines blurred? If a situation of conflict arises in the family would you always have your bio mums back? Did you call your step mum "mom" and Was your mum okay with you and your step mum relationship? Though I'm in my twenties and don't have kids yet, I couldn't imagine having a child of my own and sharing the mother title with anyone.A mother child bond is so sacred to me so I'm curious about bio parents in blended family dynamics,especially mums. I would be fine with my child having loving relationships with others including step parents but not the "mother" role.For my sanity there would have to be some boundaries.I really love kids and I'm extremely territorial so I can't imagine how I'd be when I have my own. Again ,I apologise if this comes off as offensive.I'm just genuinely curious about blended family dynamics and how they work.Even though my preference is to stay married to one person you never know what can happen in life.
@@mareek2007 no problem you have not come off offensive at all, and to answer your questions although I loved my step mom no one could replace my bio mom because she raised me and I’ve seen her struggle to take care of us as I’ll never forget the love I have for my bio mom . I never blurred the lines when it came to my mom and my bio mom I just looked at it like I had the best of both worlds two mommies especially because I never saw my mom jealous or upset about how close me and step mom have grown.. she was over my dad and had moved on from the divorce, it actually made her happy in a sense that she knew that when I and my brother were spending time at my dads that absolutely NOTHING was to happen to us. I think that’s the best feeling above all else as a parent unless your just bitter you know? But no even when I started calling my step mom “ma” Id still differentiate the two step mom was ma and my bio mom was mom🤷🏽♀️ they were always cordial towards eachother so everyone focused o the kids and it worked out great! I’d never get jealous of somthing like that my stepdaughter calls me mom but her mother hasn’t gotten over the breakup so I tell her to be respectful and to call me by name whenever she’s with her bio mom. For me it would make me happy to know that my kids could feel so safe with someone so much to call them mom. Who doesn’t want their kids to have all the love and abunythey could have right? Lol I wouldn’t go against my bio mom for anyone and I also wouldn’t go against my step mom.. I got married last august and they both were there holding my dress ☺️ and so we’re both my step dad and my bio dad💪🏾 now we were talking TEAM! lol all kids should be able to experience that if need be
@@aries2299 You're indeed lucky.Your Mum sounds like a strong very mature woman and your step mum sounds like a dream for most.You're right about children feeling safe and loved because the opposite experience is terrible .There are unfortunately step parents who get resentful and jealous and try to alienate their stepkids. Divorce seems so hard but you're blessed to have the best of both worlds. Thank you for answering and congratulations on your wedding!
I think she meant to say "it's hard to keep hating someone and they keep loving you" even though the kid hated her, she kept loving them to the point where they couldn't even hate her anymore.
No. She said it correctly. It’s hard to keep loving an 8 year old groomed to call you Heffer and keep feeding them, bathing them, doing homework, bed time, buying them clothes etc or to keep loving a fat-shaming 5 year old and not feel angry and self-conscious because of their displays of hate. It’s hard to send a child you love as your own back to a woman weaponising them against you.
I love Marjorie, she is the kind of woman I wanna be close to (if i could), evertime hearing her talks just makes me learn a lot and inspire me to be a better person.
If I could act like any one woman in the world it would be Marjorie. She is so full of wisdom and truth that it just beams from her. I would ask her advise on my marriage which is pretty bad right now because my husband left me and our son over family and in law issues. I know she would have insight for me. Marjorie you are blessed and the true definition of a WOMAN. God bless you.
Well I have tried what Marjorie said but my 15 year old son still talks down to me and has threatened me before that if I don’t want any problems I better not talk to him ... I have tried for 7 years but I’m to the. Point where it’s seriously tearing me down I feel like leaving sometimes but I love my husband and he does try to talk to my step so but NOTHING HAS CHANGES
I sure hope you aren’t one of those step kids... 🙄 Perhaps try putting the advice Marjorie gave into practice. Love that stepmom of yours until she has no choice but to love you back... 🙃
Grisel Blanco-Garcia I wasn’t sweetie. She didn’t care for me or my siblings. Try being nice to a grown ass woman that sliced your arm for mistakenly dropping a cup.
There is no promise that the child will change as long as one of the parents is poison ☠️ But one thing is for sure, there is a blessing for loving like you never been hurt.
Yep. Keeping to integrity and lill with kindness and not letting up is key. Sometimes, unexpected things can trip you up. Yet, this intention is essential. 1 to not drop to low level and 2. To guide the way to goodness that if lucky.. will come..
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Thank you for this “teach your children what’s right “👌🏿😘thank you Marjorie ❤️❤️❤️❤️they always will come around that’s right that’s why I don’t give up when I’m telling someone the thruth 👌🏿😘I always says let them hate you now they will thank you later lol! 😂😂😂😂😂
Marjorie was speaking from her ❤️ and from what she has experienced in her own life! She keeps it 💯 her and Steve are no doubt a perfect couple! Both of them have said words and shared story's that have made me actually open up my eyes in some subjects! 🤗💖
Yup! She is 100% right!!! I'm glad I don't have any step children! Same baby daddy to all my children he was my first everything and will be my last everything! My sister on the other hand has to deal with all this bull 🌽 and is also one of those mom's that teaches her Brady bunch to be ugly to everyone! Such a she all I can do is mind my own business take care of my family and keep her in prayer !
Thank goodness my mom (RIP) never disrespected my stepmom growing up. Nine times out of 10 my step mom was disrespectful towards me and her, because of my grandmother, my dad's mom who has a mental illness which I inherited from her, and growing up my grand mom never got along with my mom, nor her daughter in laws because she didn't like anyone taking her sons' away from her because she has abandonment issues, she adored my step mom which they were very close, and that's the main reason why my stepmom disliked my mom, cause of her.
It goes both ways, can't always blame the children nor the exes in my situation it was my grandma being nosey and butting into her son's business. borderline personality disorder.
I wish I had a nice step mum tbh, mine constantly nags me, thinks she can try and fix us and help us (me and my older sister,) my older sister has speech and language difficulties and she thinks she can help her when she can’t, she slags my sister off to me and my dad, constantly asks questions about me and my Mums side of the family, forces me to get her perfect gifts for her on Christmas and birthday when she doesn’t get me anything.
