Stepsiblings Tried a Forced Reconciliation OP with Their Dad After He Abandoned Him for 10 Years...

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AITA for telling my stepsiblings to shut the f*** up and they can't seriously expect me to be glad my dad could be there for them when he wasn't for me? (u/Lazy-Ad8895 in r/AmItheAsshole)
03:52 2nd story:
My dad stole my college scholarship money and threatened to kill himself because I was angry. I said go ahead. (u/Guilty_Dance_4440 in r/offmychest)
13:52 3rd story:
Make up rumors that I have CP and I’m a prostitute because I won’t date you? Goodbye to your new $150k car and hello prison and a ruined life. (tristanprentiss in r/NuclearRevenge)
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@MegaHarvickFan29 3 месяца назад

Story 1: Stepfamily wants OP to give his dad a chance. They only know him from the rose colored glasses they've seen him through. Now they are crying and arguing because dad's mask slipped, he showed everyone who he really is. Turns out, OP was 100% right about who his dad was and everyone now knows it.

@stardustkevin7322 3 месяца назад

I think the judge who said Op should reconcile is an ass too even if he was still a minor, at last around 17 the courts could've heard op for his opinion. Ut he got stuck with a person he didn't want to be around till he turned 18

@notmyrealname8445 3 месяца назад

Exactly, he forced someone who is only related to him genetically to live with him because he wanted to feel validated as a father. He wanted Op’s forgiveness so he could sleep at night not so Op could be happy. He’s expressed since day 1 what he wants is to not be anywhere near his bio father

@justinebidulopoutchini9774 3 месяца назад

Hé was a good dad to them because he abandoned his other kids lol…

@SnowyWolborg 13 дней назад

The most messed up part of this story is that the step siblings don't even seem to comprehend that OP is telling them something for their own damn good. The man that they are so in love with is not a good man, and proved it by openly admitting from his own mouth that he would abandon them for OP's forgiveness.

@jsanto210 3 месяца назад

Story 1: Dads guilt is eating him alive; he lost his first wife and daughter and now cannot make amends to them. OP, in his mind, is his last chance to make amends and seeks absolution, not forgiveness, from the last living child he has

@HeoBaby24 3 месяца назад

"he lost his first wife and kids" no he watched out on him

@jsanto210 3 месяца назад

@@HeoBaby24 I meant they died, idk why you thought that but given that they died, that's what I meant

@m.c.9419 3 месяца назад

💯

@TheLowsee 3 месяца назад

Ops dad is trying to overcompensate from the guilt eating him inside. He lost one daughter and now he knows he’ll never get to reconcile so now he’s trying with his son. What he doesn’t realize is he lost his son a long time ago and there’s no reconciliation. He abandoned them and then went to play house with another woman who has three kids. So you gave up your biological children to play house to three other children who apparently have very high views of you. Even if he didn’t wanna be with their mother he could’ve still been there for the children. It has to hurt to know not only did he leave but he played father to three other children. Op is gonna leave and never look back. And now the dad has likely ruined his relationship with the new family as well.

@m.c.9419 3 месяца назад

Because the stepfather just had to be present and the equivalent of the fun uncle. Step parents have lower expectations especially from spouses that had come out of a failed relationship or a bad marriage. The bar of expectations is so low.

@smsff7 3 месяца назад

Story 1: OPs sperm donor needs to understand he screwed up too much to ever be forgiven, he needs to stop trying and OP is going to GTFO as soon as he can and never look back. It is sad he lost his real family.

@aleksandarvil5718 3 месяца назад

Story 1: OP = NTA *OP’s stepfamily Played Stupid Games; and Won GOLDEN Stupid Prizes 🏆🥇 !!!* 😂😂😂

@heffa3821 3 месяца назад

absolutely :D

@leazimridaniels8552 3 месяца назад

The golden globes of stupid prizes indeed 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Schweighsr 3 месяца назад

Story 2: Dad committed fraud - go to the police, the college administration and legal aid. Make a friend and stay with them so you don't have to go back to "Dad" during breaks.

@austinfowler2707 3 месяца назад

Op might be too worried about their siblings as it would fuck them over. Wait until they are all adults. Then ruin them.

@hurricanev6 3 месяца назад

1st story is actually hilarious, OPs dad is a real bastard.

@behzshorts2270 3 месяца назад

Story 1 is insane. Dad has to hold his horses and make rational decisions. Why give up people who love you, for someone who doesn’t. Take the L and let the kid(bio son) move on!

@Maninawig 3 месяца назад

Assume for a moment that he is thinking rationally. Then the question would lead to why did he fight for his son and not his daughter? Why so long before fighting? What does a blood son have that adoptive kids and a blood daughter doesn't? The only thing I can think of is inheritance and legacy. His son will carry out the family name and the father's sizable inheritance might be dependant on reconciliation of the next heir to the family name.

@theexpertbc1175 3 месяца назад

It's the guilt of leaving them. He lost his former wife and daughter and sees his son as a last change to make amends for what he did.

@theexpertbc1175 3 месяца назад

@@Maninawig His daughter died in the car accident. He can't make amends with her. So OP is his last chance to "make things right" but the time for that was years ago

@HeoBaby24 3 месяца назад

@@theexpertbc1175bullshit. you feel guilty? should have walked out on hin

@tomjoad1363 3 месяца назад

@@theexpertbc1175 Those guys never make amends.

@Permenantlyexhaustedghost115 3 месяца назад

Story 1: The dad needs to get a grip. He can’t force his son to absolve him of his guilt. He did this to himself. He had his chance. The son doesn’t owe his father anything.

@Levithos 3 месяца назад

Story 2: this whole story makes no sense. The mom is worried about being deported, but she wants to "divorce" the dad? But they're not married? Maybe a case can be made for common-law?

@juanhaines7295 3 месяца назад

Story 2 what a scumbag. To steal from his own child. Poor op.

@banespeace9079 3 месяца назад

I'd pursue legal action no matter what. Disown me then. They stole from you if you let it slide it'll happen again and again and they'll continue to emotionally blackmail you.

@momoangel9243 3 месяца назад

First story, definitely Nta and to those who think op's a "horrible teenager" bruh go sit down somewhere and be quiet, op rightfully snapped at their fake as heII dna sharer who was only thinking about relieve his guilt, and not even caring about op at all while doing so and having dna sharer's family especially the stepkids downplay op's feelings and experiences for years and even insulted/call op out op's name, one of the stepkids was 16 old way old enough to know better then to barge, into op's room and call op names, And don't get me started on the red flag of op's dna sharer and his wife not allowing op to see his old friends and especially op's relatives, you know the people who was taking care of op after the accident, even if they couldn't visit op's hometown there is no mention of them letting the friends or relatives vist op not even once, Like bruh naw that don't sound right, so I'm glad op is about to get out of there.

@Sairey13 3 месяца назад

1st story: OP NTA. Wish to hear more on backstory of life before mom and sister died (Very sorry for your loss. Clearly, you miss and love them. Know, despite them being gone, they're still with you in spirits and will continue to watch over you.), living with other family members before dad, out of the blue, decided to make you come live with him and his "family" and for updates. Hope you're doing okay, how life is going (Job. Dreams. Love. Healing. Etc...), and were able to go back to your family that cared and loved you. And, for your dad (Feel like Sperm Donor would be more efficient than calling him "Dad", since he hadn't been a dad and is a deserter. And, really, the true AH.) and his "family" (Probably not a family, anymore, after saying he'll abandon them, if it meant "Making it right" with you.) to stop forcing reconciliation, make you become "part of their family" and leave you alone.

@m.c.9419 3 месяца назад

Story 1 - I love that op indirectly showed the stepkids and their mom that his sperm donor is still that same piece of crap that abandoned his previous family for over ten years. If a judge hadn't ordered it this man would still be living out his delusions of being a good husband and a great father. Those stepkids need to understand that part of the reason op's sperm donor seemed like such a great dad was because it was easy for him to act the role in order to get into their mom's pants. I want to feel sorry for the stepkids but I don't? But I do at the same time? Must have been devastating to know just how little they mattered if op's sperm donor thought he had a chance to reconcile with his biological child. Story 2 - That's robbery. Family or not. Op's dad straight up stole his child's scholarship money and the boasted like he supported the family. That's definitely grounds for going scorched earth. I don't understand how being disowned is a threat if mom is an illegal immigrant. Op's parents made really poor decisions for their lives. They sound like jerks that absolutely deserve each other. Story 3 - Pi is a psycho. He deserved everything that happened to him.

@gregoryk.9815 3 месяца назад

Story 2 scholarship funds are directly to the student and taking them for alternative or anybody else cashing it is considered a felony and gets him a nice room in the state penitentiary.

@Burritofan 3 месяца назад

Story 1 ... I hope they can work through this this is a mess.

@kalcibone 3 месяца назад

2nd- sue for the money. He stole it.

@MinkxiTes 3 месяца назад

Why should the son forgive a cheater that abandoned him? Do the Stepsiblings now that he is a potential cheater? Do they think that is OK? Does the Stepmom really think anyone would see her in a good light when they know?

@xXSetsuaiXx 2 месяца назад

S1: Do these kids not realize that by telling him how good he is to them, that their only reinforcing OP's decisions to gtfo? I mean, seriously, wow, must have been nice to have a present father while OP struggled through life, and his mother and sister's deaths. Bravo, good for him, go give him a gold star that says 'World's Okay-est Dad' and leave the kid alone.

@jemase7931 3 месяца назад

"if my dad gives me my legal documents" You can get duplicates of your documents. Get a po box and a safety deposit box. Also, lock down your credit.

@jsanto210 3 месяца назад

Story 3: I'm not surprised that a conservative parent would be ok with their young child dating an adult. Like wtf, why be defensive about that.

@marcsando 3 месяца назад

Story 2: The audacity of the "father" to say that he provided for the family with that scholarship check. OP earned that money with THEIR hard work and dedication PRIOR to university. No doubt they will feel entitled to OP's money once OP graduates and begins to earn more through honest effort, something foreign to them. Kudos to OP!

@PaulHebron-mg4ib 8 дней назад

St. 3: he has a nice mugshot😊

@jogovender Месяц назад

Odd. Something is missing from Story1. May just be me. I find it strange that suddenly the dad is all about reconciliation with someone he abandoned years ago while raising his stepkids during that time. Like what is he getting out of reconciliation now? Selfish people do nothing out of the goodness of their heart. There is always a hidden agenda somewhere.

@brighterphantom4530 3 месяца назад

$9.000 for housing??? Better be a mansion....

@banespeace9079 3 месяца назад

12:53 thought they weren't married?

@TacoCat_Fabio 3 месяца назад

25 anos sem trabalhar só pode ser o seu madruga

@aidenparker7106 Месяц назад

Sorry 3 came out as increasingly fake as it went on.

@tgoodfella 3 месяца назад

Weres the update on story 1?

@SecretVoices25 3 месяца назад

I think we are upto date

@tgoodfella 3 месяца назад

@@SecretVoices25 dam

@yeyosilver7067 3 месяца назад

I understand the OP's situation from the first story, but by God, she sounds like the worst kind of teenager

@lucariomew365 3 месяца назад

Can you blame them? Years of Parental abandonment, being raised by a single mom w/ two kids, only to have the one parent they've known all their life die with their sibling. And while trying to deal with all of this with family, the dad shows up out of nowhere and the courts give him his custody back against OP's desires. So while dealing with all of that, OP has to leave behind friends, relatives family, and school, to move to a whole new state with complete strangers. So now all those feelings of abandonment are back, plus he now misses his friends and family, while being badgered by overly pushing people who couldn't care about his for all their life up until that point. Honestly, the dad is lucky all OP is doing is emotionally lashing out, because that's enough for a lot of kids to get on drugs or commit s~ because that's a lot to handle at that age. And the court system failed OP big time. And the dad is probably overcompensating because of guilt because of his first kid/daughter, who unfortunately passed after being absent from the vast majority of her life.

@yeyosilver7067 3 месяца назад

@@lucariomew365 I won't read all this and yes I can blame him

@momoangel9243 3 месяца назад

@yeyosilver7067 nope hard disagree, honestly op was way more calm then some in that situation, op had they feelings and experiences downplay for years, Had to listen to other kids having fun with dna sharer, and hearing dna sharer "is a good guy" when op knows otherwise, And then not have wishes being heard, like op wanting see their old friends and especially relatives, you know the relatives who took care of op after the accident, yeah op wasn't able to see them, because of his dna sharer willingly ignore thar wish, so op was cut off from people they knew and cared about because this ahole adult ignoring him, But "op's a horrible teenager" nope he is just someone tried of being ignored and downplay by everyone who never respected him nor truly cared about him while missing people who did, like anyone else would.

@yeyosilver7067 3 месяца назад

@@momoangel9243 idc

@yeyosilver7067 3 месяца назад

@@momoangel9243 idc

@mr.dickbutttheog2064 3 месяца назад

I do not blame OP for not forgiving his deadbeat father and refusing any chance of reconciliation. His father literally left his own family just to play house with another, that’s extremely unforgivable and good on OP for not kissing up his dad’s ass like his new wife and kids are doing. The sheer audacity of OP’s stepsiblings to call OP’s sister “their sister” and then babbling on about how their dad was there for them when he wasn’t even there for OP. It’s quite funny how they’re upset that now OP’s dad is more than willing to abandon them just to rekindle with OP, I bet they’re realizing that they aren’t any different than OP as they believed they were.