Good for you. Good relationships are an illusion anyhow. The only way a relationship is good is when the partners barely see each other...maybe once every two to four weeks.
I must be boring. I never dated more than one girl at a time. I got married at 26. Im now happily raising my 2 daughters with my amazing wife. Topher needs a male role model.
My husband was 26 when I married him, very responsible and had his life together. 11 years later he is still the most responsible man I know after my father. Even Steve is enabling him for saying yes you are still young🙄 I’m like yes 26 is young but old enough to be responsible.
@@OneWomanMan888 Read to understand. I have no regrets. I had many dates prior to meeting my wife. In fact, I was casually dating someone when I met my wife. I ended that relationship to persue the lady that is now my wife. The only thing I couldn't do is seeing 2 ladies at the same time. I neither had the time nor the energy to manage 2 relationships at once, especially at 26. At 26, you are a grown man, can't be dating like a high school teen
You're projecting Obviously you are the same 😂 You really justify cheating and playing games as relevant to 90% of men That's your EGO Justifying behaviour which will in the end leave you alone Bank on it
sounds to me like Topher doesn't have any respect or consideration for women and uses them like objects but he disguises it all under "I'm being honest" like boy please, people can be honest and not come across as dickheads. The question is who hurt you? or perhaps he's really doing the most of his youth but as Steve said, that's gonna come back and bite him in the ass
These women are acting as if they’ve have never done anything bad to a man before in their lives… We can all bet that all 3 Of them have ghosted, had multiple sexual partners & lied to men they have dealt with in their past… so honestly they can’t say much but I do agree that you should let people know what your intentions are so that nothing gets misunderstood.
The sarcasm just flew over your head, didn't it? You so badly want him to be punished that you can't see that Steve is clearly joking. Go get help. This man clearly tells these women what he's about yet they still pick him. Thats what women are like. They clearly like men like Mr. Topher.
No woman needs to be sent out on a date with him. What was Steve thinking? I guarantee you that he wouldn’t have sent any his daughters’ out with him following a “pep talk”
There may be Men & Women like Topher out there, but never let them stop u from finding the one that deserves u. The moment u let someone stop you from finding the Love u deserve, ur giving them more power. The Topher’s of this world teach Us the strength & selfLove we need. It may be thru painful lessons, but these lessons show Us what we don’t want, what to change & how to grow from the pain we’ve endured.
"There is a thin line between love and hate" - listen to the song!!! - he is going to end up an old broke man. He will meet his match and it would take him ages to get out of it. She would turn him into a broken dude. He would never have anything.
When a man is with a woman and has asked her to marry him, it is not okay to continue talking to other women as if you want to have a relationship with them...
When steve goes over to his side..👍🙂 This guys kindaa funny but also smart ..I mean how did he manage to get away with dating more than 3 women at same time!😲.. I think he'll do fine soon ⭐
If he is just dating, there’s nothing wrong with that, IF the ladies know he is just dating. If he were in a serious relationship AND dating other women then that is wrong.
Imagine still feeling like you need to know about something outside of spending your life with someone who’d do anything for you. Y’all never happy fr . Another thing, I for sure wouldn’t fully trust myself with a guy who’s been with too many women
@@sorrywhoareyou887 that's why its important for a guy to explore before he gets married. But men by nature likes variety, it doesn't mean that he likes the other girl more than his wife. So the wife's position is secure and stable, the other girl is just temporary.
@@dklindo7554 you can’t explore before marriage and still want variety in marriage. Otherwise have polygamous relationships. And you can’t excuse cheating by saying “it’s nature” because there’s men who can discipline themselves to not go outside their marriage. Rather not get married if you’re desiring promiscuity because it shows a sense of dissatisfaction with only one thing (and also greediness)
Men and women are different. I'm not saying men should cheat, but if a woman have a good man, a man that is better than average but he may cheat from time to time then she should be mentally prepared to accept this possibility. I don't hear any men saying that women should not want a tall strong man that can provide for their family in abundance. That is what is in a woman's nature to want that...@@sorrywhoareyou887
Topher need a role model…speak Steve “protect my 4 daughters from you”…I have so much baggage from men. I had 2 therapist tell me you don’t need me. That’s called self love and healing ❤❤❤
As an English learner, because Chinese Mandarin is my first language, there're always some problems that confuse me, how to speak English naturally when i want to express things in english, i guess this is the biggest problem i have now😢
Why do I see that he doesn't even care. He's waiting for the interview to end, then go back to his nonchalant ways. This looks like a good use of time, on the wrong person.
He said he was "dating". Did he say he was in a relationship? ... If he is dating and upfront with the ppl that he selects - I don't see the problem. He's only 26 ... I say go for it! And when he's ready to settle down... Do That!
Seems to me that he need a lot of self work to do and honestly I don’t feel like giving him a make over and sending his back out on more dates is gonna be the answer or “cure” to his ways. He has to find a balance between selfless & selfish and I believe it’s gonna take time not hearing women’s opinions and a makeover. Just my opinion🤷🏾♀️
Why those women attacking him so badly like it’s personal. You gonna make him ignore your advice. Another thing teach them girls to hold their cookies 🍪
