I tried that from the beginning I told my man what ever you do don't lie. I can take anything but a lie I'll always have your back but, he lied in my face several times. I left a note on his car busted come in get your clothes. He called me I told him you don't have a home.
Part of what of what says is true, but I must say that it's one sided, because men have been hurt over the years and have been lied to also, we just can't say anything, because if we do, we're complaining and being or sounding like a bitch.
my name is David and i'm a surgery doctor you really looking good and amazing absolutely your pic on your profile is very cute with a great smile on your face, can we be friends....?🌹💗🌹
@@teresamagnusson that's such a blanket statement without statistics. doesn't help the dialogue. women tend to pick bad boys. not our fault. "nice guys finish last" is a well-known saying for a reason.
Bottom line in the relationship is be honest whether you're a man or a woman bcoz that relationship can build trust ,respect nd communication mking efforts on both sides bcoz you both committed to each other
The Lies We' Tell Ourselves ... Lie Once Then To A Women' ... Everything You' Say Becomes A Lie. Now A woman Can Overcome Lies By Forgiveness , and Never Forget. Amen❤
@@marissacarter1626 Hold on. Keep strong. U will win. Ur love for yourself surrounded with caring friends & good people will help u heal. Then u will feel blessed to start a new & to feel happy again All the best💯☀️❤️🤗
If you can bring yourself to lying to her and your heart doesn't stop you then you need to tell her that you are able to do that because that's where the hurt begins.
We can't build a relationship with out trusting each other and be loyal to each other and then there is no love into that relationship we just pretending each other ❤️💔💔💔
I don't mind if a man is using a little lie here and there. As long as he doesn't lie about something really important... My ex lied to me one time, one time that I knew that he was lying... My grandpa died, and it was the first time I had to encounter something like this. I've never been to a funeral. So I asked my ex (at this moment, still boyfriend), if he would take off one time from work to come with me. He said that he asked his boss about it and that she said no. He couldn't go because they were too short on staff that day. The day of the funeral was the worst day of my life. I had no one that I could hang on. My mom and dad took my grandma because she wasn't able to walk. My sister (she was 20 and I was 24) was crying like a little baby, so I had two choices. Cry with her or be strong so that she had someone to hold on. I stayed strong but something died in me that day. A few weeks later, I was waiting for my ex to leave work. Sometimes, I was picking him up so that he could be faster at home. I saw his boss and I just wanted to tell her how I felt that my partner couldn't come with me to the funeral. His boss said "I'm sorry but he never asked." I was thinking about it. He never brought back an official paper that denied his day off... It was a part of my mind four years and we were drifting apart. One day he asked me what was wrong, that I was moody and he was sick of my attitude. So I told him the things that were bothering me. That I wasn't allowed to sleep in the bedroom, that we were engaged for 7 years and he still hasn't called the facility that we could get married, everything. He was sitting like "yeah yeah go on, after you finish its my turn to tell you something." But the last thing I said was that I knew about all of this one time he lied to me. You could tell he didn't know. That he thought I wouldn't know. After that he tried to apologize, he cried and asked if I could forgive him. I left him the same year I talked to him about that. I was sick of the fact that he made himself comfortable and didn't give a shit about anyone else. After that he had to move to another city. Without any real money, without a car, without a girlfriend. I stayed at my home, because I was able to afford it without his support.
Hey beautiful soul, I know I don't know you but I just have to tell you,... you are very strong & I'm so proud of you! I hope you are proud of yourself, you should be! what you did inspires me more than you will ever know... Thank you so much! You are blessed and highly favored🕉️
@Tonya Swearengin I am proud of myself. I really am. First, I feared that I couldn't make it alone. I was never alone for a single day in my life. I would always do things to make others happy so that they would stay by my side if I ever needed help. But I was so sick of being lied to. To get hurt whenever people feel like it. Now I'm breaking up with my family... they are the same kind like my ex-boyfriend. They put on a fake smile and tell you how much they love you just for you to realize that every word was a lie. I found a new partner. Someone who is trying his best to be a good boyfriend. I am 30 now and he is 36 and I'm his first ever girlfriend. But these relationships left some scars and very often we have to figure something out. Most of the time because people that I loved and were supposed to support me hurt me in so many different ways... But he is willing to help me and we are planning a future together. 💕
My partner has repeatedly cheated on me, married, had kids, and now he wants to marry me. It is so painful to love a cheater. I'm keeping the rock. Ty Steve ❤❤❤❤
my name is David and i'm a surgery doctor you really looking good and amazing absolutely your pic on your profile is very cute with a great smile on your face, can we be friends....?🌹💗🌹
yeah absolutely I’ve been married for 32years I was 24 and she was 20. She got cancer in 2020 I was totally lost without her. She took a major hit the treatment was horrible for her. I could do nothing to change any thing so I felt helpless.. I miss her everyday. Mothers are the glue that holds everyone together. seeing this makes me miss her even more
Yea well im here to tell ya men keep an eye open and an ear listening because a woman will burn you down with out you knowing it till its too late. Mine did after 22 yrs married.
Why do men trust women so easily? I never noticed that b4 but he's right. I don't see men struggling with trust, in fact they are quite clueless and in denial.
I'v being married twice, I was a great husband, thy couldn't help themselves. around other men. I'm now very single, and very happy. I'v giving one hundred percent focus to my beautiful Daughter now.
I never lied to my woman but being honest has also cost me my marriage life. So one thing should also be added in this is understanding beyond normalisation.
A NARCISSIST DOESNT TRUST NO ONE ESPECIALLY WHEN HE DOESNT TRUST HIMSELF 😢HIS PAST RELASHIONSHIPS GOT ENVOLED WITH THE ONE WE HAD AND IT WAS A NIGHTMARE ✌️
This goes either way, but let me tell you, when somebody lies to you about insignificant things and sometimes important things, it is very difficult to trust them, you don't feel like you can depend on them or that they will ever keep their word. If you are a man or woman that falls in that category oh, you have no right to be mad when your loved ones never believe you. They really get hurt and lose faith and confidence in you.
It's so sad but I didn't hurt her and I'm sick off being treated and punished like I did, it took me a long time to see it because I loved her so much but she never loved me she just loved mentally abusing me and treating me like shit because that's how she was/is treated. Not all women have trust issues and I didn't believe this would just be an online relationship when she ropped me in with the magic that was her
@Ricky S: As u r probably aware--trust, honesty, etc n any kind of relationship is fundamental to it's solid survival. These qualities helps to build a firm foundation for friends, businesses, & n situations where there r persons trying to build a close, caring endearing relationship together, right? Therefore, when things doesn't measure up & needs treatments r not being met, then time for talks, negotiations r definitely n order. Certain understandings should hv been discussed at the outset. Frequent talks together from time to time should help keep ur goals & anticipations n mind to see where U r & to keep tract of where u r going. It takes courage to leave when u feel treated unfairly or that love is n being served at the table. Loving yourself will help u decide what to do to keep u n tact. "Do I deserve this?", "Am I being treated fairly?", "Am I good enough?" Questions such as these should help is lovingly examining ourselves n meeting our boundaries. We want what is best for people & also what is best for ourselves too. We hv to want to b happy. Life is so complicated & hard enough. We can get sidetracked sometimes; adjust the direction on our journeys; move onward n another direction, perhaps. Anyway, I wish u all the best, ok? 💯🌹🌹🌹
My girl started hiding things from me and being more distant and then I caught her hiding that she was hanging out with another guy. After that I didn't trust her but I still loved her and wanted her. I just pushed her away with the way I acted though. I questioned everything after she lied one time.
I can tell from your comment that you’re blaming yourself for the downfall of your relationship. Many selfless people do this. The truth is, she ruined it by breaking your trust. It wasnt your fault. Move on, king. There are better women out there who will respect you.
Thats because you didnt believe you really worthy of love and subconsiously you had a belief that women would eventually hurt you.Try not to worry bro a real woman will love you and stay faithful,loyal to you forever just trust it dont live in fear bro you got this
