STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE Traditional Christian Housewife + Homemaking 

My husband chooses to help me and so naturally cleaning is 50 50. We are a unit and work together and as a stay at home mom with a 2,4,6 year old…. It helps so much! I feel blessed to have my husband!

I allowed my ex narcissistic fiance to tske all these values awau from me. He broke me. Listening to your video today remindwd me of the Love that GOD has for me, and that the values my ex had me think I had lost are still in me. Thank you for this video, because it camw to me at the right time. I am going to listen to it every single day as a reminder of who i am. I am a child of GOD and i am going to live my life for GOD🙏🙏🙏🙏. Once again thank you and may GOD continue blessing you and your family🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

After 30 years my husband doesn't talk to me, he comes home eats and goes on phone. If I talk he just grunts. I have given my marriage to God because it is broken.

Wow, I really needed to hear this and I've been married 22 years. Sometimes I get so angry expecting so much. Thanks for your wise words.

“When you have no expectations, you will find your satisfaction in the Lord” love this 💗 👏🏼 👏🏼

I love being a homemaker and being home with my children❤ My days flow better when I take a few mins for a devotional and prayer. Praise the Lord!!

You have Blessed my life in more than words can explain. Thank you so much my Sister. I’m 50 years old ; married for 15 yrs ; Mother of 6 ; grandma of 8 ; homeschool Mom & Homemaker as well - However ; everything you have taught her today touched the very core of my being . I will begin to look towards God more - I have been a nagging wife … Please pray for me … PS Old wives and learn new ways - Thank you Jesus 🙌🏻

This made me really think hard about my role and my actions in my marriage, how i need to have a heart change toward my husband. I need to lay my marriage at the feet of Jesus. Thanks for sharing this bible study, I've been so blessed by listening.

I loved this. Today is my husband and my 40th anniversary. So perfectly well timed. Gentle strong reminders.

Wow, that is such deep learning at such a young age! What you say is spot on and there are no two ways about it. If only women would embrace this truth and start living it out with His help, would they stop looking to change their spouses or balk at the idea of why should we women change always!! Your teachings are priceless and I encourage you to continue without ever stopping as the Lord will keep revealing His nuggets to you in the coming months and years. Thank you for sharing!

Thank you Tabitha for pouring out your heart each week. Keep those convictions coming. They are always just what I need. I struggle with these, but today I gave my husband a formal apology and vowed to do better. God bless you Tabitha, God bless your marriage.

Tabitha God is using you!! This is an on time word for me!! Thank you so much for leaning into God and sharing this word!!❤ you words healing me to be a better wife/homemaker!

"Trad" (traditional) wives unite! Thanks for your wise videos.

Was about to listen to this as self improvement all mopey because I’ve been feeling like I’m giving too much without anything or any appreciation or love in return. But then this changed my attitude so thank you.

This channel is my safe space that literally shares topics of what I’m going through and topics I want to learn from thanks so much for hearing Gods voice! I study and take notes with you ❤ and clean lol🦋

There aren’t enough ❤s for this video! If people really want to live counter to the culture, they should focus on fulfilling their biblical rolls of masculinity and femininity!

Wow, this has blessed me and touched my heart. You know what sister in Christ Tabitha, I'm from non-christian family, I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Saviour. Recently I asked Him to show me/educate me because I don't have had any good example of being a godly wife. And I'm super shocked that channel like yours exist. Thank you for obeying the Holy spirit led to make this videos and sharing them for free here on RU-vid. Daddy God abundantly bless you and your family in the glorious name of our Lord and Saviour Christ Jesus. Amen. ❤️🌼

These last two videos have seriously spoken to me on a spiritual level. Thank you for making this channel ❤

Every week I am excited to hear what God has given you to share. More often tha than not, it is something that I am needing to hear. Thank you for being obedient.❤

This really spoke to my soul. Some hard truths but nonetheless I needed to hear them. Thank you Tabitha💓

Thank you for your video. Exactly what I needed to hear. I will definitely be looking at my husband in a different light, expecting everything from God. Be Grateful and trust God with my husband and my marriage. Looking forward to all I will learn through your videos. Marriage is Beautiful when it's done God's way. God Bless you . Please keep videos coming.

I am so blessed to hear this God bless you!

Such an important topic!! I have goose bumps listening to it!! It is so hard to do this perfectly, but we do need to strive to do this well! So thankful that we can repent when we sin and ask God for help. I pray that young wives listen to your podcast.

Wow this was so timely. Thank you 🤍

Amen sister! I needed to hear this. I am so glad God led me to find your channel.

Thank you for this video. It opened my eyes about a lot in my marriage that I never thought about before.

Literally was just complaining about aspects of my marriage and came across this video….God knew I needed to hear it! Thank you❤

This was such a timely and necessary message for me to hear today. thank you for sharing and God bless you!

This study is one I can listen to over and over for encouragement. Thank you so much! ❤

Another lovely video. Thank you for all the valuable reminders

This is precious. Praise God.

God working in and through you again, so timely for so many (myself included) thank you Tabitha and thank you father for guiding us, again and again

Yes. Very good video. Definitely blessed me. I have always believed this concept. And try to act upon it as much as I can. ❤❤

Thank you so much this blessed me as wife I am so glad I found your channel god bless you ❤

Amen. What a good reminder! And yes, this video was the perfect length to get myself ready for the day and make my bed. Now off to homeschooling.

Excellent reminders! Thank you so much!

Such good encouragement!!! 💖

I think this might be best yet! Ty Tabitha.

I love what you’re doing with your channel. God’s work is the best work.

Thank you. I needed to hear this and I am sure I will be listening to it again.

This was beautiful. So many things to work on for me! Thank you ❤

Thank you. Every week i look forward to hearing from you and what you have to teach me this week.

I look forward to your videos every Sunday! Words for my week, food for my soul, thank you!!

Beautiful commentary, thank you!

With this new channel, God is really using you. I tune in every sunday an have even started keeping a journal on my thoughts. Thank you❤

I always love your peaceful videos ❤

I absolutely LOVE the attributes you listed regarding a trustworthy woman! It’s a list that I will be chewing on, mediating on and praying through over this week! Love it!! Thank you so much. VERY convicting….

I'm new to your channel and I'm grateful for the teaching married for 18yrs. And I'm still learning my role as a wife I fall short in a lot of the areas you we're talkin about and I see why I have a lot of my problems thank you I pray that the Good Lord see me through to a better wife. God's blessings to you 🙏❤️

You have a beautiful spirit and a beautiful clean home. Your video’s encourage & inspire me so much. Thank you. ❤

This video is right on time ❤

Thank you, that was beautiful.

I really enjoy your videos Tabitha. Thank you for your Godly messages. I'm sharing some on my social media sites. Thank you and God bless you and your family.

I’m just now subscribing to this Chanel. Thank you for your encouragement of what as women of God how we should be to our husbands. I wish I could say I have not been guilty of many of those things you mentioned. But I have. Thank you for speaking that truth aloud. God did bless me with a godly man. He encourages me and seeks God. We have been married 23 yrs Nov. 11. You are right how we should expect our husbands to always make us happy. He can’t. I’ve done that so many times and get disappointed and my expectations need to be with with Him, God. I do have to work. My husband does not want me to stop now. This is hard. We never had children because I was sick in my younger life. Married late in life and life stuff just kept us from adopting or fostering. I’m 59 now.

Thank you for this video. I have enjoying this channel.

Tabitha, God has used you to shift my perspective on who I am actually married to so Thank you! I am slowly beginning to see that my marriage is not just to my husband, but is to Father God, and is also my practice of being a righteous woman, and marriage is my ministry. Father God is ever so slowly changing my husband and drawing him near and creating in him a good man too. I am realizing that I almost ruined this for myself but no more and will stand for Christ in this space too. Thank you again so much! Looking forward to Proverbs 31 video #4. BTW I have been married for nearly 18 years, and more than 10 of those years were not walking with Father God in Jesus Christ.

Спасибо за Ваши видео ❤️ Вы правы. Я много раз видела, мужчины выбирали себе в жёны не красивую и деловую женщину, а обычную, но ту которая уважает его и ценит, ставит его на первое место в жизни. Такие семьи обычно счастливы. У мужчин появляется желание оберегать жену и делать для неё всё возможное. Они стараются для своих семей, потому что чувствуют поддержку жены. С уважением ❤️🇷🇺

Thank you Tabitha, God bless you. Respect and listen to our husband, being consistent and trustworthy. Love this. Also thank you for suggesting some time ago the reading of "the proper care and feeding of husbands" , which i finally had the time to read. I found it very helpful. Blessings from Italy ❤

Amen🙏 great video ❣

Im reading and excellent book right now called "Wife School" and this message is right on. Something we must remember ia our husbands are people, like we are, they have their good points and bad points, when we focus on affirm and encourage what is right and good it grows, when we are critical and complain we cause the bad to grow and crush our husbands spirit in the process. We need to love the way we want to be loved, as we are, faults and all. ❤ encourage your man, thank him for something he did well and watch his face light up.

O seu canal é uma benção de Deus. Quanta sabedoria. Thank you for your apostolate. From Portugal. 💒💒💒

Thankyou, this is giving me hope. Im desiring to honor God by loving and serving him with my whole life, serving my husband and children, but I (22 years old, single woman) am feeling pushed into becoming a career woman whose life is all about herself. Because that is what the world is telling you to be and live like. And even Christians (and thats how I was brought up) often doesnt know better...

I love your videos ❤ can you please consider making a video talking about your cleaning routine and how to manage not being overwhelmed while homemaking. God bless

Loving your content lately! Where do you purchase all your dresses from? ❤

I just love this channel

Amen thank u I need prayer in this I need a lot of work

Thank you!💜💖

Just wish my husband would stop being emotionally and mentally abusive. He breaks dishes to scare me, saying it's okay because even Jesus got mad and overthrew tables in the temple. He blocks me from leaving rooms, once when I was pregnant and had to use the bathroom. I later miscarried. The more I try to be respectful, submissive, loving, etc the worse he gets. I'm constantly watched and if a neighbor says hi to me when they're getting the mail, I'm accused of cheating. I don't even know what's real and what isn't anymore. I do think a red flag is a man who looks for a woman who believes in traditional values. Some men really are good and Godly and seek that, but others are just doing it to find someone easier to control. I'm not allowed to work, I have no money. He isolated me from family and friends from the beginning. I don't go to dentists or doctors because I'm yelled at for any medical bills the insurance doesn't cover. My physical, mental and spiritual health have never been worse. I have nowhere to go and he has threatened to destroy me and my family if I leave. My marriage is literally killing me. So please ladies, be careful. Don't ignore the red flags like I did.

This is amazing. I love watching you while I do these around my house. Have you tried a cordless vacuum? It's lighter and easier to maneuver up and down stairs

I lead our home, he leads our marriage. My conduct is always such that he will be proud of me whether he's by my side or not. But I run the home and have final say because my actions have proven that I'm trustworthy to do so. Just as his have proven that I am protected at all costs, it doesn't have to make sense to anyone else but it works for us.

Por favor activa los subtítulos en español, gracias por tu ejemplo de obediencia a Dios y ayudar a las familias con estos videos

Im so confused how i wasn’t subscribed. Ive watched every video so far so it wasnt making sense. Just did tho. Cnt wait till im im this era of my life. Thnk u for your guidance

I love this video. You’ve become my favorite RU-vidr in my journey to following Jesus as a wife and mother. When I watch your videos I get up and do my housework! And the biblical messages you give along with your videos are great to listen to while cleaning up. Thank you for your content!

Off the wall question but where do u get ur dresses from? Theya re so cute!

Thank you for this! Could you please make a video on how you and your husband manage finances? Do you depend on him financially? Any biblical references that teach about this? Thank you!

Amén.

I've been struggling with this for the past few months 😩

I don't believe its 50 50... Because I didn't ask for a wife...but for a husband. He provides and protects and i struggle to become the submitted wife God asks of me ❤ I need to respect his role if I want him to lead.

Bible says wife should be the keeper of the home. I believe you should both put 100% but if he insists on her working outside the home then he should help her at home. It’s not biblical for her to work outside the home. If you are made to then he should help.

Hey Tabitha, I'm reading the book "The proper care and feeding of husbands" its so good. Can you pleasee recommend more books to me that are like it. I really would love to know. Thank you so much in advance. 😊💙

Eu não vou parar de profetizar em nome de Jesus

I agree 💯 and I enjoy these biblical sound videos. I just wanted to mention though that it is another challenge and a hard one when your husband abusive. Verbal abuse is very challenging, but after 36 years I just take it to God in prayer. I still love being a good and submissive wife. 😊

People idolize weddings and relationships but how many talk about the fact that your husband will not satisfy you? What if so much of the frustration married people feel is due to being lied to?

Be God is Absent! Unless my head is feeling extra optimistic.

I am new to a Bible guided faith and I was wondering if you could tell me where to find in Scripture the principles that a man is to follow to be an appropriate partner for a Proverbs 31 Woman. I see the value in reading about the Proverbs 31 Woman and what principles We should strive towards. But I would like to see what God has written for man's principles to strive towards. Any help in this area would be appreciated. thank you.

WOW nice cleaning vlog 😊

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What if your husband refuses to lead? What if he makes you lead?

Can you pray f or my marriage please? ❤

Random, but the table is at her thigh/knees and my table is at my hips 😫😂.

What if your husband doesnt respect you?

God does not tell us anything we make our own choice in life some good sometimes bad but we learn as we go in life

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Such wise advice ! I love this video from beginning to end! Definitely a blessing to me! ❤

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