“Cause the $hit be working” 😂😂😂😂 facts! I realize these guys are good at that game! When you actually work on yourself, no sex read your bible your vision become so clear! I realize the game stop when you stop playing. I hold on to that saying. It’s as simple as that.
Unready and ready men are going to approach women. Women have to see the signs and actions not words. He looking for fun, just kicking it, net flix and chill, want to sleep with you without knowing much about you or you knowing about him-NOT READY. He defines plans, he supports you, he is intentional in making plans for the future with you that are mutually beneficial-READY! If he's inconsistent in general-NOT READY
(31:27) Ladies, PLEASE listen to Ace! He is telling the truth! I tried to love someone who was "hurt", and it was the most difficult relationship I had ever been in. The more you try, the more they will hurt you. They need to seek a professional therapist to resolve his unhealed issues. You cannot "fix" them. Period. (I later found out he was molested by his uncle as a child. He told his mother, she didn't believe him, called him a "liar" and protected her brother instead. He began to HATE women. Going from one woman to another using/hurting them. Today, he has numerous s3xual harassment charges at work. One more, & he's out the door!)
What about someone tells you up front ,he's not ready ..then later on he said he's ready ...that's good right but I cant help to think he trying something cause he know I feel for him
Some men have done it for more than 3 months. My ex did it for three years. After a three year long distance and my traveling 90% of the relationship. I am grateful I am done and I met a wonderful that was ready for me. Truly not expected.
Keep enlightening us women! Women set your standards and boundaries and don't settle. Ace, you looking like a snack respectfully! Love the sensitive side❤.
Some of ghese wmen dont want to block them cause they enjoy seeing the calls and text. They enjoy the entertainmeent, the fake validation about themself. Great info Ace!!!❤
Omg I got a best friend who’s credit score is under 500 but she’s trying to help a man who won’t even make her his girlfriend get his business together 😭and I told her she’s broken trying to fix another broken person 🙄
Around the 35 minute mark there is this rant about what a “good woman” is. There is this correlation made to how a woman who has allowed poor treatment to herself cannot in fact be a “good woman.” I say “screw that notion!” As a person speaking from experience. I “selected” my now “ex” at NINETEEN! There was sooooo much for me to learn and much that was negatively imposed into my thinking from past trauma in childhood. My decision to give MORE than deserved grace. My gullibility to the man who did not deserve me. My unskilled ability to implement boundaries….DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD WOMAN or anything contrary to a “Good Woman!” I don’t agree with choosing to remain in a situation where you’re repeatedly disrespected once you in fact are clear on the reality of inadequacies stemming from pure reluctance and foolishness! But I wouldn’t go so far as to say “that’s not a good woman.” A person is going through ENOUGH just to have to come to grips with the fact that they are sleeping with the enemy. Not a burden I would place additionally onto anyone. Definitely not a burden I will allow myself to pick up. IM NOT PICKING UP WHAT YOU’RE PUTTING DOWN 👎
ACE YOU ARE THE MAN!!! I BEEN SAYING CAN WE CLONE YOUR MIND! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAY CUZ YOUR RIGHT AND YOUR SO REAL! YOU BEEN HELPING ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MY BULLSHIT!! THANK YOUUU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DO!!! ❤ YOU ALWAYS BE LOOKIN GOOD JS!
Because they can, what's stopping men from being unready? They don't care. Knowing this fact will help you with making decisions based on his actions not words.
I hear you man. I do. It makes it even more difficult to navigate this dating shit when ive only experienced toxicity and broken men.. fuck lol. But everything you say is 100% correct.. ladies listen to him and take his warnings. Watch actions not words and do not rush into SHIT!!!!!
I’m learning to hold myself more accountable for the decisions to stay in toxic and unhealthy relationships. These conversations and platforms you have help me to reflect on making better decisions for the future. So, thank you for pouring into us as a community. Some of us need a lot of healing and it’s not always easy to admit that. Have a blessed one and I found this video today right on time for a reason….I just got that double back message😒. So thank you!💪🏾🎯
Ace you’re doing a phenomenal job!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You keep dropping gems 💎. Looking forward to seeing you in person this June in Charlotte!!! 🙌🏽♥️ You’re helping many Women out here. Keep doing what you’re doing. God bless 🙏🏼
Fine dude Wednesday, I'm here for it!🎉😎 Adorable dog Wednesday too, what type of dog is that? The first 5 minutes was a heavy dose of truth and reality. That is the realization I had to come to. I ultimately kicked the dude out of my life for good last month, praise God.
This is a man’s problem. He’s got a problem. If he pretends, he has a lot of shortcomings and issues of self-worth. Men I’ve dated, actually dated. They weren’t liar so let’s not normalize bad behavior because HE wasn’t raised right.
Ace... I'm behind and just watching this video. So you're AMAZING ACE. I speak for many. I just started watching your channel a few months ago. I wish I knew about you many years ago. I was with my husband 19 years and married 9. You are a Man that speak the truth to women and men alike. We're going to continue to ride this train with you. Thank you for what you do 👑👏👏👏
Ace you gotta understand these woman… really gotta understand who they are and heal so they can attract higher because the way energy works is you are what you attract And most broken homes had bad examples of love just repeating the cycles Ask me how I know 😏
The truth hurts but there’s no lies detected here. Unready men babyyyy. This touched home. When u know better u do better. I knew it but I was ignoring all the red flags just like he said.
I’m not a good woman. I never let go of my father’s abuse, my brother’s abuse on me….Ace you are hitting every damn point possible in this one….my mind is like….God sent this video to me right now in this moment. Let me give you an affirmation: YOU ARE THE ONLY PODCASTER THAT GOT ME OUT OF MY FANTASY LAND AND LEFT HIM!!!!!! It’s painful goes without saying, I wanted to FIX him. You have nailed him on the point I’ve never heard before. My Lord I STILL want to contact his a$$ and fix him. You’re doing the right work THANK YOU 🙏🏼
😮"Damn" God bless you for being who you are. The truth hurts huh? Well, All I can honestly say is your right. Thank you for telling me what I needed to hear. Wish I would of seen you 5 years ago. But know, I finally broke off a 6 year toxic relationship and your words of wisdom are greatly appreciated.
My name isnt Fiona, and I don't want no dern Shrek. A man should automatically come with character, not be one. Q: What makes them think it works, trying to make a female gullible and override our security system? This is my 2nd Mr. Unready Man: one too many. I've asked said question "What are we," "What are we doing" and I was accused of being insecure. However, I just said this to God a few minutes ago because I'm tired of hurting myself, being seen as a sexual object by unready men. My dad was / is an unready man, that was very lustful. I came to this conclusion recently that I'm not quite ready yet. Guess there was reason why I didn't want to come out the birth canal when I was born: I was by my mom's ribcage. I didnt want to fix a damn thing! Im not going to fix a damn thing from a man; I will tell you so succinctly to get outta my face. Thank you, Ace!
I won’t ever allow a man to disrespect me. My credit score is over 740 and if he can’t match what I want ,I want him to bounce I’m not his mother period!!!!
Thank you!!! Your videos help, they truly do, encouraging words and harsh truths is exactly what some of us women need. 👌 remember your power to all the ladies in difficult situations. Sending healing and peace
Thank you for speaking truth & helping us out! ❤ I am currently working on my codependency issues that I adopted from childhood & I go to counseling to heal this aspect of myself. I never realized that I had this issue, I was just always trying to be there for someone & help fix them, didn't realize how big of an issue it was. Where were you when I was younger? 😅 You are appreciated 🙏
Ace, I needed to hear this! I stopped messing with an F*boy who made me an option. I always allowed him to walk over me until I could no longer allow my self-esteem to be shattered! I blocked him for good, and I act like I don't know him when I see him out! Thank you, big brother❤
