stop forcing things to work out | desperate energy & why it's getting in your way

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I spent a good majority of last year trying to force things to work out in my favor - my youtube growth, my relationships, overcoming social anxiety, etc. I finally learned that the more I push for things to work out, the more I ended up operating from a desperate, fear-based energy. Operating in this frequency when trying to manifest things into your life can actually block abundance from flowing into your life and cause you to become even more unsatisfied with where you're at. In this video, I share with you guys how I shifted from a desperate to a more confident, loving energy when trying to manifest things into my life. This approach to manifestation has helped me attract abundance but also enjoy every step in my journey towards my dream life!
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@khalilahd. 2 года назад

Felt mildly attacked by the title but it was the kick in the butt I needed 😂I’ve been SOO focused on getting my RU-vid channel off the ground that I’m losing site of what’s important. Thanks for the wake up call ❤️

@abbyklake 2 года назад

Ahh literally me too with my channel! I hope your channel grows well 💜

@khalilahd. 2 года назад

@@abbyklake thanks Abby, good luck with your channel too!

@DajiaNicole. 2 года назад

@@khalilahd. ask and you shall receive… No forced energy needed… you’ve gained a new subscriber 🥰 excited to watch your journey & videos!

@khalilahd. 2 года назад

@@DajiaNicole. this just made my day. Thank you Dajia! You just gained a new subbie too 💕, someone needs to help me with my hair 😂

@DajiaNicole. 2 года назад

@@khalilahd. 😂😂🥰 thanks love!! I greatly appreciate the support! And anytime 😂 sending positive Lead Surgeon energy your way ! ✨

@kassyg3897 2 года назад

"I am safe, I am secure, I am protected divinely, I am loveable." Such powerful affirmations. I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS, just subscribed!

@iidak3125 2 года назад

been recieving A LOT of messages from the universe about this lately... thank you!!! someone has also said that by forcing the energy constantly on a given direction in a desperate way or from a place of lack, you are actually manifesting the lack of the things you want!!

@AhmetKaan 2 года назад

*Most great accomplishments were achieved by the people, who at first had no idea what they were doing.* Keep going my friend. I am cheering for you. 🙂

@albertnyorkor9248 2 года назад

Great point. God time is the best time. You are now a natural woman.

@Fourwindsofsuccess 2 года назад

I got so much going on right now. Like I got the my externship, my college graduation, and also a new job lined up for me after. I’m literally like all over the place or at times feel unmotivated or overwhelmed that all that I wanted is now here looking me in the face. I liked this video. The desperation is definitely true because I found myself operating out of that type of energy at times. I’m going to let go and let everything fall in place also to practice detaching from certain things.

@nourakhoury4971 2 года назад

amazing video, thank you Lynette!

@alexandriaooh 2 года назад

your posts are always so timely omg

@amjolly6369 2 года назад

Extremely great full for this video. Just become a financial advisor.

@valentina-vq1hv 2 года назад

Ooooof - didn’t know I needed to hear this 🥵

@Shaantibihh 2 года назад

Thank you so much! I love these kine videos you make🤍🥰

@carminaporojan7261 2 года назад

I really appreciate your videos. Thank you

@StarboyWalk 2 года назад

What a great vid to get motivated ✨🅿️

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

🙏🏽

@grace_avery 2 года назад

love this⭐️

@ivy6179 2 года назад

when I ignore something I attract it more - less worrying

@kellarenna 2 года назад

JESUS IS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE

@joymae 2 года назад

*WHAT IS MEANT FOR YOU WON'T PASS YOU*

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

!!!

@hafsa7610 2 года назад

It says in Islam if it’s between 2 mountains and it’s meant it will come and if it’s between your 2 lips and not it won’t

@ivy6179 2 года назад

@@hafsa7610 What does it mean?!

@hafsa7610 2 года назад

@@ivy6179 hey it’s trying to say what’s meant for you even between 2 mountains ( eg you might think it’s impossible for you to get/ achieve) it will come to you and if it’s between the 2 lips (eg you think it’s so easy like it’s in front of me )And it’s not mean / written that you’ll get it you won’t but in islam if you make supplication meaning asking god for something you can change it and achieve what you want Hope that helps

@MikeTooReal 2 года назад

“There is no need to force things to happen you are where you’re supposed to be start flowing and stop forcing”🖤💯

@Cassandrahobby 2 года назад

I stopped obsessing over the fear of not getting a internship or a job that I needed for my major. Yesterday I got a phone call, interview, and offered the job all in a couple hours. When I was desperate I was applying everywhere. I started to develop patience and confidence in my qualifications. I stopped the fear and I got that phone call.

@Jendelylane 2 года назад

“If you’re obsessing over the goals things are not gonna happen”

@catherineb. 2 года назад

Society tells us we always have to be on guard and always think of the worst case scenarios. It's caused many people to fall into depression, anxiety, and fear

@itsmulanali 2 года назад

This!! God recently showed me that it’s best that I rest and let things flow. I no longer am apart of the grind/no sleep culture. I give space to let blessings flow into my life and I haven’t been failed yet. Blessings have literally been making their way to me naturally. I journal, pray, speak daily affirmations, receive synchronicities, and enjoy the present moment. I feel better than ever!!

@strawberrydaurto3366 2 года назад

You have a cool name!👍👍

@itsmulanali 2 года назад

@@strawberrydaurto3366 awwwww thank you so much!!!

@kellyjacobs4218 2 года назад

As a therapist, I'm always blown about by your insight and authenticity. Thank you for sharing this!

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

This means so much, thank you!❤️

@sidneyredjo 2 года назад

" **insert desire** never flows to those who (desperately) want it." This video is sooo true. Often we just need to let go and trust the Universe.

@cindypierre7532 2 года назад

I sincerely needed to listen to this. I'm working 2 jobs, recently moved out and and I'm trying to save for a car and I constantly hit this wall where I breakdown because although I'm slaving so much time at work to only get a slither of the lifestyle I want, it's heart breaking to feel financial fear and insecurity when I wanna swipe my card anywhere. I jumped into spirituality and I truly see the signs everywhere and have seen even recieved messages of enlightenment but it's so hard to simply be in repose. When does the fear of the survivor mentality lose to the trust in my strength and the higher forces to obtain the life I deserve. Much love from NYC ❄️ dumb brick out here

@sincerelycass441 2 года назад

I needed to hear this, I decided to let go of the toxic cycle of jobs that don’t fulfill me and pursue creating my cosmetics business and being a content creator I’ve been stressing and overthinking about where to begin to take action and this came right on time, thank you

@TysonMichael77 2 года назад

thank you for mentioning that " it doesn't matter how much money you have, if youre working in your purpose and trust the universe things will work out once you shift your mindset. I teared up hearing this, iv'e been working on my yt content and my brand overall for 3 years. iv'e always had this knowing since 2020 that I am going to be full time doing what I love. After gradutating in July of 2021 Ive felt this huge pressure to stress mysef because of parents to work a 9 to 5 and I want to create my work, thats my living to me ( even though the income isn't there yet) ive monetized myself through course I did last year and I did really good. This is just a reminder that even though I may not know how this will go, I believe in my dreams and not the limits of others even though they don't understand. Thank you for teaching me I don't have to live in sarcity or lack mindset like others in my life.

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

Yesss as long as you see and know that future is for you, it's already yours! I remember feeling this exact way this time last year. Keep going. Enjoy this journey (including the stressful and scary parts of it), because I promise all of it is necessary! So glad this vid was helpful and can't wait to see you continue growing!

@Yannalj 2 года назад

Screaming this from the mountain top! I quit my job in January, launched my business and found an alternative way to bring in more income. I have been mildly applying for jobs here and there bc of the pressure from my family but nothing in me wants to be confined to that lifestyle again… never have wanted to work tbh and I’ve always received more than enough through it all! Don’t worry! You know what you’re doing! They’ll be proud of you in the end🙌🏽

@terynaliya 2 года назад

I absolutely know what you mean. I'm in the "suffering" part of chasing my goals right now lol. I feel like this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. I always love your videos. They've really inspired me to push a lot harder on my channel this year to make it work. I realized that I was pushing a little bit too hard last year. Pushing and grinding is great and everything but we're only human and we need to give ourselves a break sometimes. Keep making the videos Lynette

@AhmetKaan 2 года назад

*To all the dreamers out there. Follow your dream, believe in your dream. Because dreams come true, if you have the dedication to give your all...*

@bodnarova05 2 года назад

People manifesting a specific person are in desperate energy. I left most groups because most people are looking for happiness outside of themselves.

@flower1651 2 года назад

Currently uncomfortable, nauseous, stressed cos I'm just forcing things...I don't like it at all,so I needed this a lot❤

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

Sending love and peace as you turn things around! 💕

@orangeinterlude 2 года назад

literally me wow

@ma4308 2 года назад

@@orangeinterlude same, thought I was the only one feeling this way

@Princessnikkixoxo 2 года назад

Oh this video came right on time ❤ I just deleted my RU-vid Studio app because checking that app so frequently felt like I was doubting myself and not having it on my phone will help me maintain that vibration of anticipating something good is coming. I love your videos as always, you're like one of my RU-vid friends in my head lol

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

I've had to do the same thing with RU-vid Studio! I now just try to avoid looking at the performance page when opening it and go straight to the comments (so I currently don't know how many views this vid has right now). This has helped a lot with just being more in the flow and like you said just maintaining a positive vibration. Thanks for the love and wishing you the best on your journey!❤️

@pryncessyanni 2 года назад

This added tremendous value to my life...thank you!🥰

@luvs7343 2 года назад

Shadow work Affirm+replace negative beliefs with positive ones Heal your root chakra Balance out your divine feminine and masculine

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

I hope you guys enjoy this one!❤ Another big s/o to NOMADBASIC for keeping me comfy and cozy. Y'all can use LYN10 to get 10% off on top of the New Year sale they're having right now which is doing up to 40% off site-wide! bit.ly/LynetteAd

@poppycalliope 2 года назад

This is super important to discuss about! Rest is also important! I tend to get obsessive towards my goals and I shouldn't do that. What is meant for me I know that is meant for me and it will happen. Thank you for the reminder ❤

@teylergang 2 года назад

It’s actually scary how this popped up when I’m working on this. Wow. ❤️

@cheriewilliams8167 2 года назад

This video was soooo needed! I will continue to rewatch it every week as a reminder to re-focus my energy. Thank you!

@Kelseashell 2 года назад

As a single mom living in the US, it can be difficult to change this mindset but I'm trying😭 anything is possible if you set your mind to it 💜

@rosebardashian 2 года назад

Thanks for reminding me to breath! Also I try to remind myself not to confuse anxiety with excitement. Whenever I feel “anxiety” I do a perspective shift and say no it’s Excitement! I’m excited about this (moment, place, task, etc)

@fabimariee 2 года назад

period 👏🏽👏🏽 i would stress over me not creating my channel and tried to force videos but after filming they just didn’t align with the content that i wanted to put out. now that i graduated and moved to puerto rico everything is aligning perfectly. 🙏🏽 never force it, trust the process. divine timing. ❤️

@realpristine 2 года назад

Not putting a deadline on my goals has also helped me become more abundant ✨ Love this content 🤎

@kaylagamble 2 года назад

Thank you for this! Literally have been stressed because I haven't posted a video in over two months. I can resonate with not feeling deserving of success. This opened my eyes to stop getting in my own way. Thanks again for this 💓

@abbyklake 2 года назад

I've been worrying about growing my YT channel too but we've got this! I hope your channel grows well 💜

@kaylagamble 2 года назад

@@abbyklake thanks Abby! Hoping your journey continues to thrive💖

@abbyklake 2 года назад

@@kaylagamble thank you! 💖

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

I feel that stress from not posting on here. But sometimes a break is needed and the best thing we can do for ourselves! I think we all have that feeling of being undeserving deep within us in some way. Wishing you the best as you continue your journey of realizing that you ARE!

@abbyklake 2 года назад

@@LynetteAdkins yeah I totally agree! I started my spirituality journey in 2021 and have released so much, which explains why I was MIA on youtube. Thank you for replying Lynette! I love your videos, they always make me re-think about work and my values 💖

@justameriican 2 года назад

stumbled upon this exactly a month after it was posted, swear my guides let me to this and I wrote down some things word for word (crediting you of course) in my journal. Exactly the words I needed to hear for the things I'm going through right now, you reached into my soul with that one. This is my first time seeing you on my RU-vid too so you know I immediately had to subscribe. Nice to meet you

@amandaboyd3475 2 года назад

This is quality content! Oh hunny thank you! You betta go ahead and call us out lol thank you for this seriously it’s a blessing

@graziaciccone1888 2 года назад

i loved this! thank you lyn

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

Thank you!!❤️

@annawaiq6360 2 года назад

Wow. this came up in my suggestion. I haven never been on this channel but this is such a personsal message to my life right now. I have been freelancing fullrime for 8 months now and before I quit my job, new clients and opportunities just flowed in. But then it had to pay the bills and everything just got so forced.

@jreli 2 года назад

Seriously this is kinda freaking me out haha. This is like the third time that I feel like you and I are in some sort of mind sync. I've been reading a lot about Wu Wei lately and then you just drop this video wtf! And it's happened with other of your videos too, I'm thinking about a something and you upload that same day a vídeo about that same subject. Amazing

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

It's more than just us...i think the collective is becoming more and more tapped in to the same frequency! It's crazy how our own personal experiences are usually a shared experience for so many. I've never heard of Wu Wei, going to check it out!

@abbyklake 2 года назад

I needed this reminder! Thank you, Lynette!

@jelly6434 2 года назад

Lynette I hope that you know you are changing lives ❤️you’re someone I wish I was friends with. Not many people are likeminded in this way!!

@jemellee 2 года назад

This came up on my recommended, and I think this is what I needed to hear. I've been chugging through desperate energy for the last couple of years, even before the pandemic. Newly subscribed 💖

@HeyFayv 2 года назад

So much chasing over my next job that I get pretty stressed and anxious at the end of the day. Thanks for this!! Really reminded me that i have to make room for the Universe to make things work in my favor.

@lindseyshimer1048 2 года назад

Learned this so hard in 2021

@hebehiompt 2 года назад

Everything you're uploading at the moment is too relatable!!! Thank you xxxx

@AaronTraylorr 2 года назад

Amen Lynette! I think it’s all about finding that balanced. And I too struggled with allowing myself to slow down and give my mind, body, soul time to rest and recharge. I think all of those can be overwhelmed and exhausted to a point of self destruction. Have to remind ourselves it’s ok to be still as you said, and focus more on efficient production rather than just quantity. Must make space for what’s to come and remove fear/doubt to allow our chakras to flow. Keep up Lynette, so proud of your spiritual growth 💙

@kellystampsplsnoticeme9997 2 года назад

comparisons are what affected me the most. you can't let it get to you.

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

So true! "Comparison is the thief of joy"

@sharonodum2409 2 года назад

Hi, I would appreciate it if you could touch more on the topic of balancing your feminine and masculine energy I find it quite different to balance the both and also when to suppress one of them Thank you Also, love your videos xx

@ambitiousjamie1563 2 года назад

You described my current relationship; I’ve desperately tried to force us to work and it’s like that desperate energy is pushing him away instead 😔

@iamchisenga 2 года назад

This is exactly what I am currently going through.

@green.i.dge. 2 года назад

Definitely needed this today. Thank you 🙌🏾

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

So glad you enjoyed!

@planetp11 2 года назад

Commenting again to say, I’ve been in a more aggressive state lately and right after watching this video, I’m much calmer! Thank you!

@pwetty4r4 2 года назад

This has been my biggest obstacle/re-learning lesson I've had on my spiritual journey, and I'm still trying to get it right

@daniellemayber6509 2 года назад

Not gonna lie… I really needed to hear this right now 💜

@ebonysoblessed 2 года назад

Omg this popped up for me to watch for a reason. I’m living this now. I will now relax and work through my core values. And stop being so aggressive and give room for God to work. It’s like deep down I know it’s going to work out!

@SweetCicely 2 года назад

I appreciate you so much for creating this video!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank goddess🌹

@fromkaywithlove 2 года назад

I love your opinion and perspective of this. I can relate to this it’s 11:11 right now ✨I love when you were talking about the love based + fear based frequency. I listen to frequencies on RU-vid all the time and it has immensely changed my life and all I’m doing is listen to them and sit with those feelings. Highly recommend to life up your frequency

@starbabydee 2 года назад

I love how open and raw you are. You are not afraid to shed light on topics people do not discuss often. Keep going!!!

@jennifercooper3547 8 месяцев назад

Stop chasing people who don’t want you. Learn to how to handle your emotions while keeping both arms inside the ride at all times. Just because you’re rejected doesn’t mean to troll & lurk on someone’s Social feeds, ESPECIALLY if your married. Have self respect & dignity for yourself. Desperation looks bad on everyone. 🙏

@JackieSmooth 2 года назад

If you had a podcast I so would listen I’m always so excited to see/hear your content 🦋🤎

@eliciagoguen 2 года назад

we are on the same journey... thank you so much for sharing 🦋💗

@trudytriad4574 Год назад

Little anecdote: just hit a milestone in which I am starting to be more widely recognized in my talent. This week I was planning to finish deadlines and boom. Sickness hit me. 😭😭😭😭😭💔 feel like I am going crazy because it has been such a setback and now I must play catchup to silence those external pressures. I feel exhausted.

@DallasGordonCoachCEOCreative 2 года назад

This is really good 🙏🏽 new subscriber

@Dreamsareareality 2 года назад

Oh I love this channel, the video and comments. I am so glad to be here. This video is everything. Thank you for the reminder. ❤️🙏🏽

@chiarar5609 2 года назад

I come back to your videos whenever I am struggling and I always feel so incredibly comforted by your wisdom!!!! thank u 💕

@TheEyeMustTravel 2 года назад

I am such a fan of your channel and everything how your life has gone from working from someone to becoming a creator. I really do get what you are saying about coming from a place of desperation and and also allowing yourself receive and receive the abundance . I am going to try to do more research on opening up my chakra to I guess just truly let go. Thank you for your videos and your awesome.

@tjskeyblade 2 года назад

I appreciate your video and I’m a Gamer and I have a RU-vid channel called Tjskeyblade and I really enjoyed your singing as well

@albertnyorkor9248 2 года назад

What you call the universe is not the universe. It is God my friend. God is everywhere, he knows everything and has everything. It is God that is always speaking to us. He is the creator of all life. He is the King of eternity, the Almighty God, King of Heaven, He is the Lord Jesus Christ. He is the everlasting God.

@trudytriad4574 Год назад

Sometimes that desperation comes from external pressures. People who don't understand that you are doing your part but are still getting rejected and you can't actually control the outcome.

@BrokenWagons 2 года назад

I love ur voice!!! Hve u ever done a vid on visualizing, like visualizing ur Manifesting and living in the 4d, not entertaining the 3d?

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

Thank you! I haven't done one on that specifically but I do touch on it in this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE--zVwXMrN3fs.html

@jenncag532 2 года назад

Could you possibly upload/recycle these audios of your talks to spotify? 🥺 (if not, I completely understand) Your words just really soothe me 🤍

@ennixmariam8526 2 года назад

But Lynette I am desperate for a job!! When you're trying not to starve, taking a laid back approach is not it sis! I need to be aggressive about not wanting to be poor!

@jazmynnv5831 2 года назад

Everyone’s in grind mode? Not me 😭 I’m still trying to process last year and feeling super unfocused.

@katiemarvin6001 2 года назад

I would LOVE for you to go into more detail of masculine & Feminine Energy 😍 love your channel!

@lagvin719ify Год назад

thanks, Lynette for this video...hope you can post something on how people can actually know what's their purpose in this world. I know a lot of people don't have an idea about that.

@vincidepo Год назад

You are lovable. And smart. This video was a precious pill of wisdom.

@skyed5180 2 года назад

This is amazing, thank you! What kind of camera or lighting are you using, it's amazing!

@darrenifyouask 2 года назад

Found your RU-vid by accident worth the watch, I subscribed

@thetonishow 2 года назад

Awesome video! This has been on my ‘watch later’ for a couple weeks glad I finally watched because this is SPOT ON 🥰 sending love and light your way!

@kay6622 2 года назад

Yeah, grinding mode killing your creativity

@kimnwaneri 2 года назад

Fasho had to evaluate my goals and take a more holistic approach to what I want in life to not burn out. Would like to hear more about the feminine & masc energies you mentioned

@LynetteAdkins 2 года назад

Same - I'm trying to do this more frequently so I don't get tunnel vision just trying to chase goals that may not even line up with who I am a few months down the line. I can def make a separate vid on fem/masc energies!

@natashabeijing4235 2 года назад

Yes pls to masculine and feminine video! Appreciate you ❤️

@elifnothing 2 года назад

i'm OBSESSED with your channel

@naenuu 2 года назад

I have been feeling like im not worthy of my channel growing. and i dont know why. i know i have been obsessing over it

@blaxaeblaxae6811 2 года назад

Lol your videos always pop up when I need reassurance. Lol I love that for us! ✨🤍

@jjohnson4975 2 года назад

I love the woman you are becoming. Thank you for coming on camera 📷 and allowing us to be a apart of your journey. I wish you success, abundance and prosperity 🙏!.....your aura is beautiful! 😍 ✨ ❤ ♥

@lindsaymorley9290 2 года назад

Does anyone have any advise on how to not have a fear-based goal when it comes to money? I can totally wrap my brain around how this applies to something like weight loss/getting in shape but how can you try to attract money from a non-fear based mindset when you are not sure if you have enough to cover next months bills?

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@laradaurelio 2 года назад

I‘d love a video on how to balance the feminine with the masculine energy☺️ thank you for this video🌹

@arat5388 2 года назад

omg 😩 those pieces from Nomad I wonder if they deliver to Nigeria

@themindlessmess 2 года назад

Precisely my thoughts !!! I usually burn myself out in January going super hard and then falling to my face. But this year through my spiritual practices and my journey, I am taking things slowly and consistently. Taking breaks, rejuvenating myself (if you’re in creative professions you need to add fuel to your creative fire) and just allowing things to take place. I have pushed the rock up the hill and now it’s time to let it go and have a snowball effect! Remember, the universe made us and knows how to build us better than ever.