Stop Lying to Yourself and Others 

Getting hurt by the help is the worst betrayal of all.

If anyone is on the fence about spending the $ to go see Dr. Peterson when he announces the next leg of his tour, probably this fall, DO IT. Go see him. There is an immediacy about getting to see him speak that you simply don’t get in these recorded lectures, much as I appreciate them and am truly truly thankful for them. When I went to see Dr. Peterson in Boston, I didn’t watch his projection on the screen. I didn’t take notes. I watched him. I did not take my eyes off him, the tall, thin, rosy-cheeked figure on the stage. And there’s no replacement for that immediacy. For the thrill when I first glimpsed him just off stage and realized he was wearing my favorite of the suit coats he wears and knew I was actually under the same roof with him. I did not want the lecture to end. And when I got to meet him after, it was like a reunion with an old dear friend and not meeting a celebrity for the first time. It’s so, so worth it. And now I miss him. But it’s so good to have someone to miss and to look forward to the next meeting. If you love Dr. Peterson, you will love going to see him. Love from Ruth Anne

This explains why Jordan refuses to bite his tongue in the face of controversy, even when he's got the mob looming over him. In an ideal world, we'd all operate this way, but most people will choose to protect the integrity of their livelihoods above all else, including at the expense of their own conscience.

His last line, " You don't want to practice that"...Whoa! So much truth! I can feel what he is saying

I need to stop being a degenerate. I've failed last time, i hope next time is the one, if not i'll keep trying

It's pretty hard to speak out when basic honesty is censored. I get regular hate speech warnings just for telling the truth, or supporting the truth tellers. It's no wonder that people choose to go out with a bang 😢

"I have often said, 'It isn't that you did nothing wrong; more important is, what have you done that is right?' The answer to this question should go on our gravestones. If so, I believe there would be more instances of what we did right and fewer of what we did wrong."

"Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is." Ephesians 5.15-17 Oh my God this tiny clip is profoundly striking. I've never heard of performative contradiction. So in all those decades spent working non-creative, unfulfilling positions my actions became habitual in remaining unengaged and miserable. Then resentment grew under the surface of that. It was like practicing the art of being miserable so I could keep making money. Omg! A whole lot of things happened these past few years including the opportunity to pursue my creative endeavors but also the tyrants of propaganda and 'unvaccinated concentration camp' a-holes which began slow boiling me. Along with other factors, it only took a year and I had zero work ethic or enthusiasm for anything. I had no practice in sustaining anything I desired to accomplish or felt fulfilled in doing…I mean, is that even possible? To contradict oneself like this? Unbelievable, and there's a name for it! So now I have to sort out my biological structures I've built predicated on performative contradiction. Since this means healing a violated conscience, I guess building that desirable schedule based on fun and rewarding tasks will rebuild a fulfilling work ethic structure; this would be a new psycological structure in tandem with practical action (I relegated my own desires and creative pursuits in favor of un-engaging tasks that made me miserable, that’s the only structure for work I had). I think prayer, praise and gratitude will make this possible, even though it may not come easily at first. But this should help to redeem the time, uproot the resentment and build the new work ethic structure I need. God, what a mess. Like how damn hard is it to enjoy yourself in your work?? In life? How do we get so comfortable with being so miserable? Thanks for sharing....whoever is back there behind the curtain pulling the levers....

I really enjoy the depth of your mindset!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Blessings, Crews

People who are not honest to themselves can not do any right thing.

Dr. Peterson live in Chile this Sunday 22th. can´t wait to see him.

6:38 - Well that is perfectly relatable. I did waste my life for years and became a failure of a human being. Someone who failed at life. Someone who missed the train. Someone who will never accomplish anything. A loser. I did lose myself, all my desires and impulses, everything I could have been. I did reject and kill all that part of me. There's nothing more to do because shame and fear and guilt prevent any attempt to change. I am a creature like Gollum, pathetic and disgusting to look at. Ashamed to even exist anymore. A mask with no person behind it. There is no force of will within me pulling me forward. I am already dead. I wish my body doesn't take too long to catch up.

A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent.

So you're a Priest of the Most High? And the Truth Shall set us Free! Amen!

It's good to see you back again. It's been awhile, but you found the road again. Proud of you

My dad used to say that the truth that is not conveyed in love* is not the truth... direct translation would be: "A truth not clothed in love is not the truth."🙄😎 *Agape God's love

Thank You 👍🏻.

This was needed

When you start asking, seeking and knocking for The Truth let alone speak it, you really start to see how much fear had its grip on you to begin with and man have I found these two scriptures couldn’t ring more true: 1. “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”John‬ ‭8‬:‭32‬ ‭ 2. “Those who The Son sets free, are free indeed.” John 8:36 God bless everyone who commits themselves to this adventure 🕊️🙏🏼

We are similar in many ways. This is the truth. The people I appreciate definitely have the characteristic that they don't change some things for the sake of anyone. I appreciate me for the same reason, though. I would like to continue to appreciate all of us. Let's leave things to luck and the moment...

Thanks JP

At about the 6 minute mark Jordan Peterson has this meditation that captures why I went on strike against the dollar in December 2023, despite and likely because I had a very successful career in tech sales. “Maybe you are called upon to do things at work or in your family life that really do disturb you and yet you do them anyway. Everything that you practice, that becomes you. If you repeat something over and over, if you practice violating your own conscience with a performative contradiction, this willingness to act out things that run contrary to your own sense of morality, then you become the embodiment of a lie…The danger of being an actor is that you become the actor and then you lose you…in the service of a falsehood. And then once you’re bitter then your vengeful and then your fratricidal and then your homicidal and then your genocidal.” Judge me if you will but I knew that if I kept lying to myself about the nature of money, I would have been making a conscious choice to embody a lie, betray myself, and that would have led me down a path to betraying everything I loved. For what? Momentary comfort? Being liked? Being admired? Despite appearances and countrary to popular sentiment, it was an easy choice.

Yes. We are all held accountable. This was challenging for me to hear because I've done things that run contrary to my sense of morality. I've been a hypocrite in my life. And my shame sometimes does way on me heavily. However, I know that I would be a much worse person without my faith in Yeshua.. In every concievable and inconvievable way.. but that doesn't change the fact that I am responsible for my actions. I've been a fool at times in my life. That's for sure. I've let myself and my God down. I am and will be reliant on His grace and mercy for salvation. Lord, come soon. Matthew 24:22 KJV - "And except those days should be shortened, there should no flesh be saved: but for the elect's sake those days shall be shortened."

Sorry for swearing. Time and a place! Love you people 👍👍

Mt late husband practiced lying about his addictions and deceptions for 19 years of our life together. He decided that counselors and doctors will help him with his anxiety and depression while he continued to blame me for all the problems in our marriage. If he was honest about his deceptions he wouldn't have needed anxiety medicines and wouldn't have ended his life! All he had to do was be honest and he would have been healed. He chose deception and death instead!

He's a good father & the Devine Father speaks through him as an excellent therapist. He is well connected to his higher self.♾️ People know truth when they hear it! We are here to learn and to grow. Cut that shame loose, heal& do better in the future. Time doesn't change people.. emotional growth does. 👏🙏

Thank you for not giving up 🤗🙏🍺cheers

Everybody lies. -Jordan Peterson

Could I have an hour,speaking to you Dr Peterson,i can pay,Thanks.

That's a struggle it's not a good time struggling with the knowing the truth of what may progress from the depths of what is you but I don't know if you can tell me that I won't be able to control it,it is what I am, I will do my best to help not hurt and I will never give into the false impression of what is , I am only attempting to process the generalized world, what is the harm in that

...there are...not there is. A little thing, but I expect the best from the best...

You become the actor in the service of a falsehood. Just realized that .

@Jordan B Peterson Clips…If a child consistently engages in lying, fabricating stories, and deliberately contradicting themselves, could this behavior potentially have negative effects on their brain and lead to the development of delusional tendencies?

a great man.

Telling the truth is way more fun I understand lying but really it’s fucking boring ❤

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What is it about getting hurt while growing up that makes you stay at that age psychologically?

Sometimes to trace the route of a lie, you need to demonstrate the tracing of the root/route from leaf to stem, to end. ❤ If you don't lose your why, you'll never be lost. No matter how dark the cave gets. Jesus' light shines through. If Jesus can pull you from the depths of eternal damnation, condemnation, and torment, then he can surely save you from yourself. That's what faith is for, brother ❤😊 Be a warrior of christ, for Christ. The lord knows the hearts of all men.

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The only sin that will not be forgiven, is blasphemy against the holy spirit. Why? Because the Holy spirit is Truth. & if it is through the Truth that we are made free. Then, there is no freedom for anyone who has no willingness to repent of the evil & lies they've partaken in.

If they don't listen whats the point.

Sounds like a Roman Catholic article of belief...omission and commission.

choosing fear over a good opportunity is no different then the "mistake" you fear making except for one difference. the result of picking that oprotunity to escape is far worse then your opportunity gone wrong heres evidence the number one regret people have at there deathbed is missed opportunity and or they are dwelling on there self inflicted oppression every time you choose not to follow through with something you want for any reason is oppression some easier to handle than others the erdgence to do things in life is the erdgency to stop oppressing yourself at the minimum

I hope I misunderstand what is said here. Because I have great admiration and respect to JP, Ill listen again although its very demanding, when it comes tk trauma. I wonder why the insistance to talk about THIS volotile shbject when there are so many other subjects just as sensitive.

So if we all go down the “Cain” road due to bitterness- why does the Bible say to leave the offspring of Cain alone 🤔 Even as far as a threat of protection for the descendants of Cain- I wonder what that metaphor stands for.

I'm don't understand wanting to change anything in my past, and I don't think that is healthy, learned and keep going don't understand

I honestly don’t want to forgive (maybe that’s for God to do)…you know, some would be damned… I mean, good luck taking the law or karma into your own hands. (I’m glad you’re here..I don’t have to be you.) They say, “Fight fire with fire!”…but, I don’t have time to join in the failures of the has-beens of our future. (Artificial intelligence and robots…) “Stepping Stone” - Jimi Hendrix “I’m not using your words!” - 🤷‍♂️

The psychiatric and medical and religious communities have known this all along. They avail themselves of the opportunities to lecture on it from time to time with each wave of new generation who suffer through this very experience while living in the forced mammon society that all three of these institutions richly benefit from. And people pay money to go listen to them. My whole life is a lie. I worked my ass off to overcome this nightmare because I saw it coming but lo, the world still worships mammon, so justice and mercy is a nearly dry well in this fallen world. If you watch closely, you will see the next wave of heroes positioning themselves to be to water bearers to quench the great thirst that far exceeds the little provision they will really make available. Power corrupts people. I pray that God is merciful to those who have been reduced to merely a character in a role they never wanted and never had a real choice in opting out of. I pray for true justice to come for them to witness first hand because these two things alone hold the key to their release from their self contained isolation that has become their own prison, or sanctuary or asylum. No just and merciful God would judge harshly a heart embittered by this fallen world.

Day 3 of asking for a LOTR analysis. It is a Christian work that would appeal to everyone, including Atheists

And stop telling others what they “have” (your following video). Lol Guess what, it’s not your decision to make. It’s not up to you what they get involved with in life. It’s not up to you. NEWSFLASH: YOU don’t DEFINE THEM. Nobody looks up YOU in a dictionary and says ‘oh there I am!’

I wonder if Jordan Peterson is just an intelligent person for religious people… I think that’s why so many religious people like him. They love to look up to many other thinking people but they’re mostly agnostic or atheist. Peterson is too. But he pretends to be Christian.

Lying to yourself is acting out a role you think you should be rather than who you actually are.