What you' ve said about Limerance in other parts of Life, Not Just longing for the LO, but for a different Job, different Feelings, different Body, different way to aproach live, different self😮 ...
I only found out about the term "limerence" this week. It's been an eye opener! I thought there was something wrong with me, so at least I know there's a term for it and others suffer the same! I'm dealing with limerence and autism / ADD, and it's currently the most intense it's been ever been in my life (mid-40s). Thank you for your videos!
Exactly one year of limerence, seeing her with someone else gave me near death experience , and made me snap out of limerence ... Watching this for old days sake ... You helped me a lot through my hell , and I'm thankful ma'am 😚
I’m learning to say no in my head to the fantasies and to see truth and love myself and allow real relationships, mostly friendship right now. I go to SLAA. It’s helpful
Limerence is safe and controllable. Real mutual love is dangerous. I can’t handle real love because I fear engulfment. It’s just unfair to the LO. Thanks for the epiphany. How do I learn to tolerate real love and closeness?
6:31 i am not spending more time with them in my head than i do in real time 9:22 boundaries with self look like: i do not accept to waste more time of my life “waiting” & i am ready to look into myself for the reasons that this waiting has been consuming so much of my life 14:03 someone who 17:03
My reaction to the 13:57 - 14:13 segment… haha ouch. I’ve watched many videos on limerence but fwck this one was the… tough love video 😅 which says it all considering the effect it’s having on me 😭😞 thank you so much for this video and honestly helping me wake up a lot. This video has stung me 😖 for the better for sure 😭🥹🥺
I am not capable of changing... i will also not set up myself anymore to fall into limerence... life has always eluded me... i am just different than other people...
Was stuck in the waiting.. they chose someone else but I was stuck waiting… finally accepted I wasn’t chosen and im moving on💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉 thank you Evita. It’s okay to accept rejection. The best is yet to come
I was with my limerent person for 2 years. We had been in love for years, but didn't know why on either end. Love at first sight. We broke up after 2 years of dating...now I'm stuck with this obsession and she is long gone. We carried feeling for each other almost 8 years prior any of this and were not any where near each other. She loved in a different state. What happened here?
My anxiety created an unhealthy dynamic with someone I dated for 2 months who ended up breaking it off saying he ‘didn’t develop any feelings’ and that ‘it isn’t healthy for me and him to continue’ I was distraught and pretty much in denial, I think I developed limerence after the breakup as it’s been almost 5 months and I am still wracked with the same kind of feelings of despair I had in the past with LOs that I never even dated or sometimes talked to Is it usual for someone who is prone to limerence to develop one for someone who broke up with them?
Thank you so much for your videos. Very well explained. I have however one question " is limerence the same as eurothomania " ? will much appreciate your answer
I've been in this state for 17 months and there's no getting out for me. What do I do. Please help me guys? She's given me zero chance and I want to get over but I can't. It's taken a huge toll on my life. I can't focus on anything now. Anyone there please help
You have to go no contact which includes looking at their socials or any pictures or anything that remotely reminds you of them for a start. This combined with time, sadly there is no quick fix but it slowly gets better.
Because they are not aware that it is a sickness, like limerence isn’t well known. They just think the other person isn’t bad so they keep them around.
