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Stop Worrying - Why Worrying is Pointless 

Shadé Zahrai
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We have a tendency to worry a lot about things we have no control over. Focussing on things outside of your control can easily make you feel overwhelmed, especially if you have a tendency to become consumed in thoughts about all the things that COULD GO WRONG, all the things that AREN’T RIGHT in your life and how powerless you feel…
It’s not helpful, and only leads to feeling worse. In short, worrying is pointless.
In fact, a 2005 study found that 85% of what we worry about, never happens!
So instead, make a conscious decision to stick with what’s within your control. Make choices. Be grateful for what you have. Seek support if you need it. And take considered action.
In the comments, let me know what you thought of this video! If you liked it, please hit the thumbs up button and subscribe to support my channel - it means a lot to me!
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The Worry Cure: Seven Steps to Stop Worry from Stopping You by Robert L. Leahy PhD
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@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
In the comments, let me know what you thought of this video! If you liked it, please hit the thumbs up button and subscribe to support my channel - it means a lot to me! (Thank you all for your amazing support 🙏🏽 It really encourages my husband and me to keep creating these videos! )
@juliorosario9868
@juliorosario9868 4 года назад
You welcome
@surajagasti2309
@surajagasti2309 4 года назад
its like simple to say, but how can you describe me losing my job now...? how can someone not worry?
@surajagasti2309
@surajagasti2309 4 года назад
btw i Luv u and ur videos...i have been leaving comments here if ever you have noticed.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
@@surajagasti2309 This is an important question especially during this difficult and disruptive. Perhaps a more useful question to ask is: How does worrying help? Worry can result in anxiety and even fear. These emotions are natural but if we don't silence our thoughts the worry will take over us, weaken us and rob us from our ability to think creatively and to problem solve. There is enormous power in letting go and just accepting our current circumstances. This allows us to quieten the mind which can be like a monkey chattering away, and calm our nerves. Then you can start feeling stronger and thinking with clarity. For me the power of prayer and meditation really helps, followed by taking constructive action. Sending you my very best wishes during this difficult time. 🙏🏽
@surajagasti2309
@surajagasti2309 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai yes...
@veeraldogra5684
@veeraldogra5684 4 года назад
I misread the thumbnail as "why working is pointless" and i was like, finally someone made a video on it.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
😂😂😂 that made my day!
@veeraldogra5684
@veeraldogra5684 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai :), regardless, i still saw and loved the video. Thank you for posting it.
@MrBrelindm
@MrBrelindm 4 года назад
From a public health perspective that headline is indeed apropos for certain economic sectors at the present time! I do gig work in IT so occasionally I have the "opportunity" to go be "essential" and that's nerve wracking because IT customers cover a wide range of economic sectors and their associated risks. And I am immunocompromised. I'm relatively as healthy as can be living with HIV and COPD. To be sure it's not the virus that scares me. It's the behaviors of others that has and always will be out of my control! I survived ARDS with several serious complications back in the early part of 2004 already. Been there, done that before. Don't have any wish to do it again please and thank you.
@patriciamalemikia2743
@patriciamalemikia2743 2 года назад
😂
@jan26597
@jan26597 Год назад
😂😂😂
@Belief_Before_Glory
@Belief_Before_Glory Год назад
"I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened." -Mark Twain
@selfhelpchampion9664
@selfhelpchampion9664 4 года назад
"When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.” - Winston Churchill. Thanks Shade🙏❤️selfhelpchampion
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
That about sums it up! Thank you for sharing that quote. There's so much we can learn from the experience of our elders.
@charleemac94
@charleemac94 Год назад
Really what I needed today , thankyou 85% of what we worry about never happens !! This is gold
@kanizfatima3447
@kanizfatima3447 9 месяцев назад
And the 15 percent that does only makes us stronger and better ❤
@imjayanthkumar
@imjayanthkumar 16 дней назад
Lately, I started worrying because when I stopped worrying bad stuff happens. Now, my mind is convinced worrying prevents the problems.
@charcoalelement6276
@charcoalelement6276 Год назад
Yep. Action is the Solution. Taking Action is the #1. real solution to stop worry. No time to worry if your busy taking action steps to fix the issue you were worrying about. Some things are completely not in our control and we can only accept that fact and move forward.
@apple_fish
@apple_fish Год назад
I'm recording my piano playing exam today and it made me so tense and worried for a full month that I wasn't even able to play as well as I always used to. My hands literally felt rock solid and robotic every time I played and even THOUGHT about it Even in practice recordings I would get so stressed I could barely press any notes. So, to get myself to stop worrying I came to this video. I would really really appreciate if you guys wished me luck or prayed for me, it would rlly help 🙏🙏 God bless ❤❤❤
@MotivationToMovegoal
@MotivationToMovegoal 4 года назад
Today is our most precious possession. It is our only sure possession.
@Earthtime3978
@Earthtime3978 Месяц назад
It’s easy to say don’t worry when you’re financially good. If money is a problem there’s always worry, and it’s real and it’s justified as much as it sucks.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai Месяц назад
Worrying is a normal human response. The question is do we allow worry to consistently take over or do we train our minds to redirect our thoughts to problem solving, accepting the things we cannot change and to find gratitude even in the smallest thing.
@pratikskamble
@pratikskamble 4 года назад
Thanks ma'am actually i am living my life as a failure... I have totally destroyed my teen age life And i always feel bad about it! I am 20yr old and i have failed in an extrance exam again. My life has literally ended. And i am totally responsible fr it. I always wish if i could get , like a time machine or something so i could improve myself from the past. But its not possible... I dont want to give up... Its my dream to start a business. I dont want to regret when i am old, that i couldn't do anything in my life !!! i am going through some suicidal thought, once even planned to end up! But dont even have guts forit. All my old friends are successful in what they where doing... I've been giving an entrance exams, for some higher education. But after failing in it i came up with an idea of a startup. And i think it will be okay .... i will study hard again for that entrance exam , will clear it and i will start my own startup. Its ok i still have my 20s left with me, cant waste it.... I dont have any friends to talk with. So i decided to share what i feel overhere. I know you are busy and wont read this but still..... My parents and sisters are my strength... I will make them proud one day. ❤️
@Mariana-kk5xf
@Mariana-kk5xf 4 года назад
Don't give up, you're young! Everyone has a different timing. God has a plan. Good luck!!!
@pratikskamble
@pratikskamble 4 года назад
@@Mariana-kk5xf thanks ma'am. It means alot to me ❤️
@bratwurstmitbiryani
@bratwurstmitbiryani 4 года назад
Go start your company. Passing the entrance exam isn't gonna help you anyways. Do what you wanna do.
@demodemo5146
@demodemo5146 4 года назад
I've felt like that a lot of times and every time I've overcome it I'm better for it. Hang in there, when you look back at this time, you'll thank God for the lessons you've learned from it.
@pratikskamble
@pratikskamble 3 года назад
@@demodemo5146 yes sir. I feel confident but then i easily get demotivated. I know its just a bad phase of my life. But i must say i have learnt alot from this failure at the age of just 20... And thankyou somuch for reading my text! It means alot to me 💚
@golamkibria3966
@golamkibria3966 4 года назад
Tomorrow I have exam and I found out I haven't studied yet . You are right worrying is pointless
@srijandwivedi2541
@srijandwivedi2541 Год назад
lol did you passed the test?
@mariaaviles7773
@mariaaviles7773 Год назад
I just heard your video. What you are saying depends on the context of the situation. It is better to be realistic and depending on the situation, not to have too much or too low expectations, just to work honestly to manage the challenge.
@EzekJohnson
@EzekJohnson 4 года назад
God bless you, Shadé. Well timed message. I’m blessed. You’re a real blessing.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Thank you Ezekiel. I'm glad the right message reached you at the right time 😊 God bless.
@sunilphangcho2595
@sunilphangcho2595 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai hey.. sister. this is very excellent topic. I really love it. I used to have that kind of thought. but today I got a lesson from you. Thank you so much sister. May God bless you and have a blessed day and enjoy your day. Take care. Greeting from br John phangcho MC. God bless you.
@ktr9761
@ktr9761 3 года назад
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@ktr9761
@ktr9761 3 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai Dear dear greetings, I wish you lasting success and happiness in this world and the hereafter and that all wishes come true for you.🌹🌹🌺🌺🌷🌷💐💐
@angham3829
@angham3829 2 года назад
Philippians 4:8 “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”
@MotivationToMovegoal
@MotivationToMovegoal 4 года назад
Let's not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. Remember "Life is too short to be little".
@nayan_megatron8215
@nayan_megatron8215 4 года назад
Once I used to be driven by negativity Now I am focusing on the positive side of life and it feels good. Helpful video👌
@niranjan782
@niranjan782 4 года назад
A wise men once told me the same. But some time I started worrying too much, which I will feel it later ' waste of time'...
@harnoorsingh1287
@harnoorsingh1287 4 года назад
This is really a unique study regarding human tendencies on worrying.. and very well said that actually these things don't even exist. And I read somewhere - the Catastrophe that you fear will happen has already happened. So. Our past experiences and fears make us worry about something that has not even occurred
@farazkhan2279
@farazkhan2279 3 года назад
It's easy to say so.. May be your life is wonderful.Not everybody's is.... . You are blessed with good looks and luck.. May be you dint face any hardships... Life is like a movie.. It's a part and parcel of life.the word . Worry... We have to overcome it...
@spirallion6829
@spirallion6829 10 месяцев назад
Stay positive problems always dissolve
@whatfurqanknows
@whatfurqanknows Год назад
it's like someone's saying stop being unhappy. unhappiness is pointless. start being happy. but we don't have any damn clue how to do that.
@lancelot5125
@lancelot5125 4 года назад
Thanks for the advice.👍👍
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
You're welcome 😊
@Sentient-potato
@Sentient-potato 10 месяцев назад
Just reminds me of that horrible birthday party I didn’t want to go to when I was 11. It was just as bad, if not worse then how I imagined
@Travelogues_Arunava
@Travelogues_Arunava 4 года назад
The best part of your messages are that it seems coming out of our own deep thoughts but voiced by you. Thanks.
@DaveRucci
@DaveRucci 4 года назад
I got a little crazy buying silver miners recently and I was worried when I saw the spot price tanking and I didn’t sleep all night. I guess my experience fell within that 15% time when our fears are legitimate. I will say it wasn’t as bad as I thought but it wasn’t good either. Lol. Thanks Shade. Still great advice! 🙏🏻🙌🏻
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Yes, this is so true! Investing in shares can cause so much worry if one isn't comfortable with the risk. I'm not sure if putting ourselves in a constant state of worry is worth the risk/reward
@DaveRucci
@DaveRucci 4 года назад
Shadé Zahrai Haha. You’re right. I had that same thought wondering if it was worth the stress. Thanks for replying! 😄
@Kappy25
@Kappy25 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for using statistics. All these videos of worrying are about feelings, but you used facts, which made me feel confident that my worries are not needed. I can’t thank you enough, bless you 🙏🏽
@aditya87913
@aditya87913 4 года назад
Thank You I needed this at this moment !!
@ashrafhassan6610
@ashrafhassan6610 4 года назад
Shade , , , , , I love your words. You are a real blessing. People need someone like you to remind them that life could be bearable.
@surabhisiddhanth2445
@surabhisiddhanth2445 4 года назад
Wow,your advice came up 1 week before my exam! Thank you it helps.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Sending best wishes for your upcoming exams. 🙏🏽
@divine2412f3f
@divine2412f3f Год назад
Just hearing that fact litteraly deleted every single emotion of worrying in my soul thanks for that :D
@MrBrelindm
@MrBrelindm 4 года назад
On the illusion of control (of our circumstance) we find the only real control is in how we choose to react to whatever circumstance brings our way.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
If there were ever one core message to living a better life then this would be it. Thank you David! 🙏🏽
@andyshinskate
@andyshinskate 4 года назад
Take action is everything! Don't over think what could you do, just do it. I learn this with girls, but it works in all scenarios! Thank you for reminding me this high value information!
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
The only person standing in your way is you. 👍🏽
@Sam12rth
@Sam12rth 4 года назад
Hey shadé, I know your channel is directed towards women, but I’m a 24 year old Male doctor &you’ve made such a positive impact on me. Thank you
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Hi Sam, Thank you for your kind words! 🙏🏽 I'm glad that the content is of value to you. 😊 Yes, my husband and I have noticed and we're making sure the content addresses a wider audience while still addressing women's specific challenges when necessary. Sending you our best wishes.
@shreehari2589
@shreehari2589 3 года назад
Hey shade thank you for this, your videos are like elixirs keep them coming
@richkirschenbaum6957
@richkirschenbaum6957 Год назад
Such Great Advice. Thank You Soooooooo Very Much ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
@henrydownes6301
@henrydownes6301 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much I needed that talk ❤
@ranu6982
@ranu6982 4 года назад
You are a true scholar in real terms as you bring so much studies for us. 👌👌👌
@Wanderers-Bulgaria
@Wanderers-Bulgaria 3 года назад
I've read the same explanation in Allan and Barbara Pease book.
@N0Xa880iUL
@N0Xa880iUL 2 года назад
Don't worry! Proceeds to tell a study about it.
@andamankhan5959
@andamankhan5959 3 года назад
Make more of such videos based on real human tendencies... These short videos r the best as thr msg is rcvd well and quickly.. Ur video abt procrastination had a live chngng moment on me... And lastly u r very beautiful(dnt wnt 2 sound creepy bt this is so true)
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 4 года назад
Awesome points, Shade! Take control of what you can control in your life!
@sweetest_tae
@sweetest_tae 2 года назад
lol this helped. i was worrying abt the fact i was starting swimming lessons at 13 and worried id be the only older kid there (since reviews were mostly talking about their 5- yr old kids and stuff) ur advice helped me realize that i cant change the fact im 13, but i can change the fact that i cant swim. so thank you 😅
@omixstrus
@omixstrus 4 года назад
I worried about an interview today but it was pointless as everything went amazingly...so I can confirm you are 100% right.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Congratulations on an amazing interview 🙌🏽 And yes, letting go of worry and taking action is a better way to live. 👍🏽
@deepeshchetwani6250
@deepeshchetwani6250 4 года назад
Rightly said...
@umeshkumarganesan8673
@umeshkumarganesan8673 4 года назад
Go as day go, have ur own Control, which carries n leave rest as u go
@ImranBashirIB69
@ImranBashirIB69 3 года назад
Very valuable. Thank you.
@tolulopeisrael7745
@tolulopeisrael7745 4 года назад
I'll remember to always take actions and never be worried again ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love you so much Shade
@jcruz3114
@jcruz3114 Год назад
Easy for you to say! It's different when you come from dier circumstances!
@Charon__IV
@Charon__IV 4 года назад
actually I don't why but I think I do feel myself always at the edge of failing but in reality somewhere I just overcome by it......but still that failing fear always give me a thunder blow at least 50-60 times a day which disturbs my daily life routine and my goals to achieve in mean time......I mean in short my whole day is ruined by just thinking not taking actions.
@ABhiSHEKTiwariz6qd
@ABhiSHEKTiwariz6qd 3 года назад
Lots of love for you (shade) from india.❤️ keep motivating and inspiring us.
@ashodd1642
@ashodd1642 4 года назад
Hhmm maybe you are right as now I recall some recent events the things I was worrying about didn't happened!
@Rose80388
@Rose80388 3 месяца назад
Oh good now I can worry about that 15%
@jayasudhans887
@jayasudhans887 Год назад
It means a lot thank you
@kmankman8519
@kmankman8519 11 месяцев назад
Thanx true words
@rashidmirza9121
@rashidmirza9121 4 года назад
Short and sweet.
@rashidmirza9121
@rashidmirza9121 4 года назад
I am floored to have received love for my comments. It's an honor. Thanks.🌷
@shamsarif8010
@shamsarif8010 4 года назад
So so so very true
@nova3530onyt
@nova3530onyt 4 года назад
So true, I worry, then I've been worrying about other people's worries. I get it from my mom. Bless her, she's amazing, but I've never seen any good come of it. I fear I'm heading down the same path. I'd like to say that I'd keep positive. But in my opinion, I exist in a far too stressful life. My granny has dementia and it takes its toll amongst various challenges 🙄 I keep getting defeated by an assortment of trials. It's a high, then a superlow feel. I'd stay positive and accomplish something amazing, then experience hardship on a very trying level. I'm soo lost as a result. I feel battered. Great video and well timed but✌️😊
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother and your trials. The habit of worry can become a vicious cycle that amplifies our problems and it robs us of our resilience and wellbeing. I remember dialogue from a Tom Hanks movies (Bridge of Spies) where Tom's character says something like "I have to arrest you but everybody else here wants to see you sentenced to death." The spy replies calmly "All right..." Tom's character is surprised and says "You don't seem worried." The spy replies "Would it help?". The point here now that you've been aware that worry is harming you and likely exasperating your challenges you can make it a priority to give yourself a breather, then commit finding a way to change and becoming more stoic.
@nova3530onyt
@nova3530onyt 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai I feel it has impacted my life a lot. I've lost my creativity, feel drained and demotivated daily for years. I feel my youth fading. I've become aware of the damage done. I really appreciate the Tom Hanks reference. Will give it a re-watch as soon as my schedule allows for😂 its a good way to look at things. I will commit to finding a good resolve and will exercise more patience and I guess, remove emotion from the situation. I try to better myself daily, but I lose focus sometimes. Much appreciate the videos, they're short and concise. Bless you, your husband and team for this inspiring content. RU-vid has amazing knowledge and people 👍
@Coolboy_6000
@Coolboy_6000 9 месяцев назад
I AM worrying to much because i sent a letter to My crush but she was dating someone else, but i told My friend to send the letter to her, and the guy who is dating My crush and he though My friend likes her then the guy she is dating pulled My friends shirt because he though My friend liked her, and My friend said i'm going to tell him the truth and i'm worrying because i'm scared My Friend is going to tell him and the guy she is dating is going to beat me up idk what is happening next because it was a friday and we had 1 week of a break in school and My grandma left to another country and i was sad SO we went to Virginia to SEE My cousins in 6 years and it's the last day tomorow with them and everytime i was having fun with them i remembered that and i pray every day that My friend won't tell him and it's thursday right now and i'm going back to school on monday and i'm worrying too much but this video helped me a little bit Like if You wish me luck😢😢
@asitpurohit_108
@asitpurohit_108 4 года назад
Short and simple
@bloomelo
@bloomelo Год назад
I'm worrying if I can ever stop worrying
@AsifIqbal-xh2pd
@AsifIqbal-xh2pd 4 года назад
Great to know about the study you mentioned. Just want to take a moment to say I can never skip past your videos. They are all so concise & to the point. Kudos!
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Thank you Asif! I appreciate you taking the moment to share your this. Receiving feedback like yours is what encourages my husband and I to keep creating these videos.
@paulariesillescas4569
@paulariesillescas4569 2 дня назад
I agree to this❤
@rudrakshvats5398
@rudrakshvats5398 4 года назад
Your words are so valuable Shadé.
@musaddiqali1
@musaddiqali1 4 года назад
Concise and effective videos like this are rare on RU-vid. Thanks. 👍
@deviousdevil5556
@deviousdevil5556 4 года назад
Thank you Zahari, there's a lot of negativity outside. This video is much needed.🙂
@jakop8029
@jakop8029 Год назад
Shade I like what you said but unfortunately most of what I think about it happens.😢
@nermeannasrsaber3754
@nermeannasrsaber3754 4 года назад
actually the video doesn't include alot of words but influent me positive you have berfict manner
@ashrafhassan6610
@ashrafhassan6610 3 года назад
كلام ممتاز . شكرا
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 3 года назад
You're welcome! My husband lived in the UAE for a few years so he translated this for me.
@riteshpuri5112
@riteshpuri5112 4 года назад
This is very true! Thank you for sharing! :)
@user-lb9my7hx5w
@user-lb9my7hx5w Месяц назад
Thank you
@bol8lod
@bol8lod 4 года назад
Your voice is hypnotizing. Gives the content much more value.
@TheFracturedfuture
@TheFracturedfuture 2 года назад
Unfortunately for me most of my worries have happened and even worse than I imagined.
@passport-photo
@passport-photo 4 года назад
Not bad video. But now I feel worried that the 21% of the 15% of my total worries will come true... And now I am worried which parts of my 100% of worries are the 3.2% of worries that will come true... Thanks shade feel alot better :)
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
😂 Glad this reduced your worry by 82.5% 😊🙏🏽
@passport-photo
@passport-photo 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai keep up the good work and don't worry ☺️
@rajpushp2655
@rajpushp2655 4 года назад
Your advice came just in time!
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Glad it wasn't late! Best wishes 🙏🏽😊
@rajpushp2655
@rajpushp2655 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai 🙏🏼
@mustgame2233
@mustgame2233 4 года назад
just love it
@marygrace5054
@marygrace5054 4 года назад
This is really fantastic tips shadé , I love the contents of your motivation , I'm on this , too .. always worried , procastinating , so much doubt . No confidence. The reason I'm still on my dream and never happened . Thank you so much for everything shadé . I learned a lot through you 🤗
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Glad this is helping you along your journey Mary Grace 🤗🙏🏽 Consider letting go of your attachment to your dream. This doesn't mean don't work towards making it happen. But it means to be open to the possibility that you may need to make some other stops along the journey first. Never let the desire for arriving to a destination rob you from the joy of the journey. 😊
@marygrace5054
@marygrace5054 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai 😘😘💖💖🤗🤗
@odwamthethwa5026
@odwamthethwa5026 3 года назад
This channel is my best discovery of 2020. Great work Shadé.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 3 года назад
Thank you Odwa! 🙏🏽 Glad you enjoy it.
@salmaba3229
@salmaba3229 4 года назад
I feel sometimes you live with me i was just so worried last week and your videos are motivating me every time🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you so much.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Perhaps we humans are more similar than we think 😊🙏🏽 Glad these videos are useful.
@tetebokula3693
@tetebokula3693 2 года назад
THANK YoU
@iamsitiismailsn7528
@iamsitiismailsn7528 4 года назад
Love this so much!! Thank you! xx
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
You're so welcome! 😊🧡
@vipinvalsan191
@vipinvalsan191 4 года назад
Thanks for the tips...🙂
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
My pleasure 😊
@sunnydhillon856
@sunnydhillon856 4 года назад
I found your channel through a random recommended story and the topics you cover are really helpful and has made me try to become a better person or atleast got me on the right track. Thank you miss ❤️
@asadurrehman3591
@asadurrehman3591 7 месяцев назад
i love your words mam, you are awesome
@phani5137
@phani5137 4 года назад
Thank you very much for these Power full words from you about handling negative things. The impact you created will reach the people in a meaningful way and each and every word you said is absolutely necessary to the people those who are thinking lika a pessimist. Hare at this point i would like emphasize one thing that "Words have the power to make and break the change in a person". Thank you very much mam keep going never give up . Have a great future.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
So true Phani. It's what we consistently say to ourselves that ultimately directs our lives and how we experience them. Thank you for the kind words of encouragement. Sending my best wishes 🙏🏽
@phani5137
@phani5137 4 года назад
@@ShadeZahrai Tq very much for your reply Is there any chance for us to view you in RU-vid Live.
@imrankhan-ri7iv
@imrankhan-ri7iv 4 года назад
Nice video... always support you... 👍👍👍
@user-fn6bq3no8s
@user-fn6bq3no8s Год назад
Amazing.
@Kiana424.
@Kiana424. Год назад
Thank you I feel better after watching this
@JuCarlos-ex8ip
@JuCarlos-ex8ip 2 года назад
I agree, thank you for sharing the video
@jasmin_bheda
@jasmin_bheda 2 года назад
Thank you so much ❤😊
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 2 года назад
You're welcome 😊
@anantjoshi28
@anantjoshi28 4 года назад
Its so amazing & helpful.
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
So glad!
@booksourexistence2153
@booksourexistence2153 4 года назад
Thanks a lot ma'amji
@nabadayhalder
@nabadayhalder 4 года назад
Always informative and lots of Value❤️
@RoarT19
@RoarT19 4 года назад
You are absolutely right. Doubting and worrying is Mans worst enemy.. Good video..😘🙌
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
🙌🏽🙏🏽
@angham3829
@angham3829 2 года назад
Philippians 4:8 “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”
@peachroblox4218
@peachroblox4218 Год назад
Ty!
@Radhayshaam
@Radhayshaam 4 года назад
love it !!
@legendkartik2285
@legendkartik2285 2 года назад
Thanks mam really helpful 👌👌 and to the point..
@jezreelfranklabro
@jezreelfranklabro 4 года назад
Yes that''z true,,
@kevinharris9371
@kevinharris9371 4 года назад
Wow! Great thoughts there Shadé!! You're doing a wonderful job through your videos! Keep going! 👏👏👌👌
@ShadeZahrai
@ShadeZahrai 4 года назад
Thank you so much Kevin 😊🙏🏽
@adrian34138
@adrian34138 Год назад
I love this
@noit1049
@noit1049 3 года назад
My control!
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